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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I just cant stop thinking about ... (97 words)

Will the hurt ever go away, or should I cut my losses and apply for a divorce and let 10 years of marriage go down the drain?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had a one night stand with a "friend" of mine. I am not sure that I can forgive or forget it. I have tried and we have done the counsleing deal, but I have so much anger inside of me, because I feel as if he has brought this into our bedroom. We have 2 children ... (167 words)

I don't love him anymore but I still haven't got closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is SO long and I apologise :/ My boyfriend had been making me miserable for quite a few weeks by like just doing things like calling 31 times a week, but then when i did talk to him not pay attention to what im talking about, talking constantly about his ex girlfrien... (1168 words)

Alone again on the New Year...how do I get through this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sngle for the last 3 years around new years and all that and the last couple of years i completly had melt downs cause i was so sick of being alone. all my friends are going out of town and i will be alone yet again. i was wondering how i can get thru this without ... (66 words)

My soon-to-be boyfriend has no friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute guy. He only has one problem. He ... (207 words)

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

Married man or emotionaly unavailable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age - I had been seeing a man for over a year, then he broke it off stating he was not ready for a long-term commitment. After 8 months with no contact, we recently reconciled. I suspect he may be married and have tried to ask questions to determine his situation, which has resulted ... (187 words)

I need some dating advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright i need some advice on how to ask out a girl because every time i ask out a girl i manage always screw it up ... (28 words)

Compliments, more compliments. But then he told friend that 'I'm not his type' What's his agenda?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So im 19 and he's 30. My friend set us up to go out and everything. And it was nice. i ended up liking him, but i guess he didn't feel the same, because i am here and he is goodness knows where. So here's the thing, we went out and he told me, ''wow you have a nice body'' or, ... (169 words)

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half a year. But because he asked ... (74 words)

Why look at me, when you could look at someone prettier?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. He and I are honest about everything and are open about many things. I have asked him over and over if he looks and other women. But he says he doesn't look at other girls. I don't think I can believe this.He is skinny, ... (175 words)

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ... (39 words)

While she has all these boundaries, I have needs too. What do I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a real problem and hope the folks here can give me some advice. I was previously married for 18 years. The relationship was loveless, sexless, and just bad. I felt unwanted, unneeded, etc. No sexual contact, no hugs, kisses, etc. Fast Forward to today, i have ... (368 words)

Does anyone know why I get so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately I have been really emotional. I will get really mad or start crying over the most pathetic things. I realize what I'm crying over is silly, but I can't help it. Does anyone know what could be wrong with me? ... (41 words)

Does he really love me, even though in person he's different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while and I really do think I love him and when we text and talk and stuff he tells me he loves me very much. He tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl before in his life. He makes me feel good about myself and he ... (217 words)

If a girl regularly wears tight clothes or shows skin, does that mean she may not be faithful in a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, I may get flack for this, but the Agony Aunts have given me wise advice thus far so I will give my question a chance: In brief: If a girl you know dresses very immodestly, is that a red flag for a possible future relationship? Let me define by what I mean by "immode... (204 words)

How can you tell when the guy is in it just for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell when a guy is only in it for the sex? How can you tell? I just want some advise on things that guys might do if they are only in it for the sex. ... (38 words)

Boyfriend going to move out because my mom asked for $100.00 a month

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that he is going to move out if ... (118 words)

How do I ask this guy I've only met once out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm 18 and recently met a REALLY hot guy, looks about 24 or 25, who works in a phone store across from where i work in the mall. Most days that I work, I get put at the front of the store to greet and promote. We make alot of eye contact and smile at eachother. The o... (267 words)

Should I go for this boy, or could he be a womanizer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy in high school. We only have one class together, but we hang out with the same group of people in every break, or almost. He is very nice, funny, handsome, sentimental, smart. And I'm not idealizing him; he really is, all girls agree, although some find him a ... (502 words)

She likes me / She likes me not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that i like who is in my university. We live on the same floor of our halls of residence and i have a massive crush on her. I told her about it as i just had to get it out and she said that we were just friends. We were in a club and both pretty drunk so i ... (348 words)

Is this the end? He left my daughter and I stranded on the road.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just let my boy friend move in with me because he didn't have a place to move to, so we agreed we would split everything 50/50. It has been 2 days and he works a lot so we don't see a lot of each other. We went to go transfer internet and cable services to my house and he a... (420 words)

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't want me to find and hid very ... (161 words)

How long should you date before marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How long does anybody think they shoould be in a relationship before they ask to marry them? x... (18 words)

Is she attracted to me? What does prolonged, intense deep eye contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn't expect friends to do on a college night). her friends would also keep ... (481 words)

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If yes,why? P.S. she has never kn... (59 words)

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about his sexual preferences..he h... (186 words)

Is it possible to wear a condom and then not know it has come off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a strange post but I can't stop thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We get on well and have a good relationship. The other night he came around to mine and we ended up making love. Somehow the condom came off and ended up on the ... (241 words)

This boy is so shy, so did his Uncle lie to get this boy and I talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this boy, he is around my age. His Uncle is good friends with my mother and he told me that this boy likes me which sparked an interest in me. After some time I too became to like him, but the problem is this boy (After getting to know him better) Told me that his Uncle ... (164 words)

18 year old ex broke my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old male and I reciantly got my heart broken by my 18 year old ex. I can't get over her, I cant date another girl without thinking about her. I could really use some ways to get over her so I can get on with my life.... (51 words)

Do men who cheat love the women they are cheating on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age - A Gf of mine and i were having a debate about this question: Do men who cheat(whether they are married or not)do they love the women that they are either married to or live with? I told her that how in the world could any man say that they love either their wife or their ... (138 words)

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still she wont let their child come ... (121 words)

Should I forgive him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Wednesday the 15th I had a date set up with a guy. We were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts, which I understood and he said another time. Anyway, I carried on and went ... (1086 words)

I had a bad experience in the past and now I can't trust him!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year.. i do have trust issues he hasn't cheated on me or anything just stuff that has happened with me make me have this. how do i get rid of this? should i go talk to someone? im just so scared he will do something that will hurt me. i ... (166 words)

Should I lose my virginity to my sisters boyfriend with her blessing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a complicated situation where my sister and her boyfriend are completely open to open relationships where they'll see other people/have sex with them, but will be dating each other as each other's main partners. I'm a virgin and hadn't had my first kiss until a ... (131 words)

How do I tell my ex that its better for us to be friends than to keep having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like i am a joke to him. My ex partner and i recently parted we have 2 kids and were together on and off for about 6 yrs. The thing is he doesnt seem to want me to move on, one minute he isnt speaking to me and the next he is asking if he can come round for sex. He ... (184 words)

He has a girlfriend but he prefers me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm single and the past year of my life I've spent "having fun." I figured I'm young no use in tying myself down. But now my views ave changed. You see there is this guy and we have known each other for a couple of years. He is best friends with my guy cousin that is my room ... (158 words)

A world away from my love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - At the beginning of this year I happened upon the woman of my dreams. Actually it was her parents that I met initially, we were both killing time during a particularly long airport layover and became good friends. We talked about our homes and families and I was shown a pict... (366 words)

Should I let my BF go lower?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to go lower(fingering and eating me out). But idk if i should ? I feel as he is rushing into things. ... (26 words)

Is he just keeping me around for his own personal gain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and we decided to be friends. We broke up on good terms, he had said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And he wanted to break up so he doesn't hurt me. So we became friends. Well about a week after we broke up we went ... (159 words)

I don't want the relationship with married co-worker to go any further but he's started talking to me about sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been working in this company for some time. I got shifted to a new branch of the company, in another part of the city recently. I'm writing about one of my male colleagues in my new office. He's married, with 3 children. I'm single and in my 20s. Initially we did... (267 words)

Married for 6 years and sex isn't what it used to be

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30 December 2010 (F) age 41-50 - ive been married 6yrs and i love my husband to death but our sex life isnt what it use to be how do i get that back?... (27 words)

Disturbed by my pedophillic urges, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm on the upper end of 16-17. I'm a pretty screwed up person in general... but I'm going to ask about one problem on this occasion. Should I be disturbed by pedophiliac urges? Yes, okay I probably should be... stupid question. I would never act on it of course, but I ... (305 words)

He wants to go further...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay Im 13, I really like this guy he likes me and all and usually we are at each others houses a lot(all alone). Usually hes just touching me and Im touching him. All the sudden he texts me one day saying he wants to go farther. I reply with a maybe. I dont have any clue wha... (113 words)

Boyfriend so stingy I don't get him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Good day ya'll Please advise a sister here. I have a boyfriend who is so stingy l dont even get him.I mean l have always paid my own bills with no problem and l dont intend on asking him to pay mine. Now my problem is that, he doesnot mind calling me to ask for airtime or a... (134 words)

Getting to know her without a phone number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there people I am a bit of a shy guy and wasn't sure about how to approach a girl whom I really liked. I saw her at the library and managed to speak to her once and got her name. She used to glance at me often with direct eye contact although she never said anything. T... (304 words)

Boyfriend doesn't try to impress me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. Yesterday was our six month anniversary. Kind of a big deal. My sister ended up taking us out to eat. My problem is he doesn't try to impress me anymore. We do the same thing day in and day out and he says he'd lik... (267 words)

Jealousy and trust issues without any reason for them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

The longer we are apart the harder it will be to get back together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I split up after almost 2 years. We've split up before, but this time seems different. Basically, I left her alone for almost 3 weeks the first time before I tried again, and left for a week this time. But she has abandonment issues, and I was the one person ... (364 words)

Is it ok to take a secret lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 39 yrs married with two kids-sometimes i feel very lonely in my marriage -my huby very boring -iv tried to emphasise on how i want to be loved-very stubborn not romantic at all-am really bored-is it rite if i can a secrete lover? To overcome this loneliness... (48 words)

My parents are against this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for well over a year. We are both freshman in highschool and everyone looks at us as a serious couple and knows that we wil last. He comes from a rough background, his dad left him and his step dad beats his mom and threatens to kill him and ... (225 words)

Am I getting close to the psycho girlfriend stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, this is gonna be quite long so I hereby thank you in advance for putting up with me. I'm now in a long distance relationship with a British guy living in the UK while I myself live in Thailand. We met when I went there to do the research. Because of bad relationship I ... (520 words)

When boyfriend gets angry he is verbally abusive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a man for almost a year and a half. I love him VERY much and he feels the same for me. The problem is, when he gets angry, he is verbally abusive. He says things that he knows will hurt me, things that are so mean and hateful. I always ... (204 words)

I don't know why I can't get a man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age - Although many people say I am attractive (not young) I dont know why I cant get a man. I meet meen who would like a "fling" as "they already have a partner I meet men who say "You must have slippedd through the net someone should have snapped me up. I realise it must be me ... (257 words)

Why would he kiss me when he is in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have liked a guy who works at my local pub for over a year. Recently a friend of mine told him that I like him and subsequently he told me that he feels the same. The problem is he has a girlfriend - they have been together for two years. I explained to him that whilst he is ... (119 words)

Ladies is this a tear or something normal?

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30 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but a personal one. Ladies can you explain to be if this is normal. I have what I can only describe as 'ridges' on my vagina. The location is rather hard to explain, but they are on the mons pubis a little too the left of the clit and a bit ... (184 words)

I'm a lesbian left with a broken heart... and I just came out to my parents I NEED HELP PLEASE!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - two years ago i met this amazing girl, online, she liked me, and she showed me that she's interrested in having a relationship with me. i was interrested too... she was so cute and an amazing person.. or at least that's what she showed me so i asked her to be my GF after t... (1280 words)

He's double my age! Will people judge because of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I'm 19, my boyfriend is 38. We've been together since August and I love him a lot. He says he feels the same way and we can really see ourselves being with each other for a long time. I never really cared about what people thought but recently I've started to wonder. ... (68 words)

Am I big enough for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this girl for a few months, and we have started seeing each other, but haven't had sex yet, although we have fooled around a bit. She is getting over a relationship with a guy who she has known for about 4 years, and was mostly sexual the last 2. They ... (355 words)

We don't know what to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just started dating a new girl we really like each other and love spending time together but if were just having a conversation it gets kind of awkward because we don't know what to talk about and don't know too much about each other yet. Is this normal? What is the quickest ... (58 words)

How do you masturbate anally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am interested in having anal sex but my boyfriend hates it,so i heard you can masterbate analy,how do i do it and what can i use since i dont have a vibrator.... (33 words)

In the last 3 months my boyfriend has become controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if im wrong,but i dont think so. My boyfriend doesnt want me to talk to male friends,he doesnt want me to sleep at my relatives' houses,he wants to know where i am,with who and if i delay picking up his phone call,he starts shouting.we have been dating for 3years ... (101 words)

I don't want any confusion as to what we are expecting out of each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Few days ago, I asked a question about an involvement with someone and whether or not that he likes me or he may be using me as no one knows about whats been going on between us. After being used in the past and the effect this has had on me, I have decided to possibly tell... (182 words)

Are you still a virgin if you have oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is oral sex mean that your not a virgin anymore? i know the meaning is if you have intercourse but alot of people saying if do oral then your not virgin anymore.... (32 words)

Shall I continue to deceive myself that she is gone or I should fight for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I thought I have moved on from the girl that I used to love since she has chosen another guy instead of me. So, I thought I have moved on ... Today, I heard that the girl that I love got dump, I felt so sorry for her but I also felt very relieved because my brain automatica... (150 words)

X-boy friend crazy about me but I move on how do I get him to do the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everybody, my x boyfriend will not leave me alone! we dated for not long weeks i broke up with him and then the next day i was dating someone else so he started texting me telling me how bad of a person i was for breaking up with him for someone else, but the thing is i d... (185 words)

Missionary position is uncomfortable because boyfriend is so thin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some sex advice. My boyfriend is really tall and skinny, and I'm a bit chubby, and he has really pointy hips. This becomes a problem in the missionary position, beacuse his hips hurt my inner thighs, sometimes I even get small bruises. I know the solution is to not ... (86 words)

I can't tell if the art instructor is gay, how do I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I am 20 and gay. And I am in what might be my last year in community college. I am an art major, and I know the staff in art department at my school pretty well. I am friends with the head of the department, and we're pretty close. Anyway there's this new art instructor ... (175 words)

How to tell my boyfriend to workout ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want my boyfriend to workout. He seriously has everything I look for in a guy. But lately he has been gaining weight. I love him so much and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. But I really do not want him to just let himself go and me end up not attracted to him a... (163 words)

My boyfriend is too clingy and I want some space!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend had just moved in to live with my family.My boyfriend and i sleep together,he snores and shakes like he is having an attack,hugs me,and if i move he will notice.He hugs me at night and never let me go.I cant sleep,since he came to live with me.When he was living ... (160 words)

When he drinks, my best friend tells me he loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I'm a 16 year old girl, so there's guy that I've been best friends with since I was 11, never saw him as more than a brother, told him everything... He's helped me through all my relationship problems.... But recently, I've seens him as more, we were at my house one day, ... (140 words)

We went to 2nd base, now he wants to go to 3rd and I'm not comfortable with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so confused. i'm in my first proper relationship ever. the guy i have been dating is amazing. i love him so much. we have been dating for a little over a year. before him i thought i would be able to just make out. i was wrong. i went to 2nd but i didn't regret it. i'm a ... (101 words)

Threesome gone really bad

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Threesome gone really bad. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She had a threesome with her boyfriend and her best friend that was a girl, about 5 years ago and they were dating for 2 Years. She told me early on in our relationship about it and I asked her... (260 words)

Should I date one sister when I want another?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Zarah and Samantha are twins but not identical. I know Zarah through work. Zarah then introduced me to her twin sis Sam. Zarah keep trying to set me up with Sam. But I want Zarah as she's better looking, friendlier etc. Zarah's been with her bf Mark since July. Mark is a miner ... (185 words)

I know we need to break up but I'm having trouble coming to terms

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a gay relationship for over 6yrs like any relationship it was going through the best phases of its life but I decided to move away from him cos of my job but touchwood most seems to have worked out well even when we decided to see each other once a fortnight ... (242 words)

I really don't know how I'm supposed to react!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am pretty close to this guy at school. We have always lead a love hate relationship until lately when we have become very close and its been more Love than Hate. He started doing this thing where, if I am sat next to him if he gets tired he rests his head against mine or ... (146 words)

I broke his trust and don't know how to make things better.....?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I've been seeing this guy for just over 3 months now, but we got together when he still had a girlfriend so had to keep it all a secret from our friends. They broke up a couple weeks later and since then we have still kept everything quiet. Things have progressed and we ... (185 words)

She cheated, I dumped her, but am having second thoughts

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years. and have never been happier, until i find out for a couple months my girlfriend was sleeping with her ex. the last time she slept with him was at least 6 months ago. but during the cheating period i suspected and was lied to countless ... (198 words)

I'm straight and like gay porn. Why?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright im straight never been with a man never thought about being with a man never turn on by men ive only ive had sex women i enjoy sex with women i enjoy lesbo porn but then why when i watch gay porn do i get turned on and only gay porn not men naked on poster not not men ... (70 words)

He doesn't show me off to his ex?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been in a relationship for almost two years, we're very much in love we're about to have a baby and get married, but there is something ive never been able to get off my mind. When we first started dating he would mention his a little said she wasnt really a girlfrie... (526 words)

He met someone else and broke my heart

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I fall out of love with someone when I have been in love with him for years and was willing to move overseas just to be with him. Now he has met someone else and I am left broken hearted and lost. What should I do? ... (53 words)

How should I start off telling him that I'm gay?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've got a friend that I'd like to "come out" to. He's a really nice person and probably the best friend I've ever had. I trust him fully, but there's just one problem. I don't know what his opinion is on gay people, and I'm a bit parinoid about him reacting like.. ... (141 words)

Pregnant by an older abusive man

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend has been putting hands on me for while and gets outta control when we get into arguements sometimes. I am 20 and he is 20 years older than me. He always says the things I do causes him to do what he does. I really started thinking that I really was the cause of ... (189 words)

Does my baby's father really love this Probation Officer or is he using her?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend of a year. I broke up with him at 9 weeks. He was layed off from his job and I was working 2 jobs at the time. I would come home and he was never there, claiming to be looking for jobs (at 9pm at night). I knew something was not right ... (373 words)

How long should I wait for the ex drama to calm down?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I started hanging out and getting to know a co worker. Everything is going great between us, but they are having issues with their ex (3 kids together). My question is how long would be a fair time to give them to take care of the ex issues before giving up? ... (137 words)

After you break up, should you get rid of any gifts?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have two questions. When you break up with a boyfriend, especially when it was a serious relationship, do you trash/give back gifts, or anything that reminds you of him? And by getting rid of those things, does it make you get over him faster, make you feel more in control, ... (58 words)

Do we have a future? He won't get a divorce.

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 21, he's 28. we're coworkers at a restaurant. ever since he first kissed me out of nowhere a year and a half ago, we've been making out, texting, even hanging out when we can outside of work. we never hooked up. hes not pressuring me at all, im a virigin. we tell each other ... (405 words)

He always accuses me of cheating, but I didn't!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi... I would really appreciate your help, because i am really desperate now... My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now.. i never done anything that could make him think that i like someone else, except going out a few times, and drinking a bit.. He thinks that ... (464 words)

Haven't heard from him in over two weeks!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at a club the first weekend of this December -- well, we started dancing and it just went from there. He was really cute and sweet and funny and I felt comfortable with him. Anyways, he said he had to leave and asked if I wanted to come home with him. Long story ... (442 words)

How do I get emotionally close to my boyfriend?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 16 year old whose mother left when i was 13. the only person i'm close to is my sister. i'm afraid of emotion and i'm so used to being by myself that it's weird to have attention. i want a boyfriend and i want to be kissed and held but i'm afraid because i don't have an ... (81 words)

I had sex and now I'm nauseous. Is this normal?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity on christmas 5 days ago and 3 days ago i have started getting stomach aches and feeling like vomiting but nothing happens is this a normal symptom or should i be worried? :/ ... (40 words)

Why did she have sex with me when she has a boyfriend?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently met up with a girl i knew from 5th grade and been hanging around with her the past couple weeks and i am really starting to like her a lot the other night we had sex but heres my problem she already has a boyfriend i want her to be with me why do you think she had ... (86 words)

Why does he want me to marry someone else?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is long but am in a very miserable condition. Please aunts help me.I am around 30 and my boyfrnd is around 40. When i was in his city, he was around 34 and was crazy after me. But i only had oral sex with him during our relation. This is for sure we can't marry due to ... (389 words)

Like, lust or love? What really demonstrates and defines it as love between two people?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was thinking and want to know, what exactly is love?... (11 words)

Share relationships that have gone right?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I enjoy answering questions here on dearcupid when I have spare time. The thing is they are mostly about relationships gone wrong/problems/etc. I was wondering if people would post about relationships they are in or have been in where things have been right, and tell how ... (158 words)

I want my husband and lover back!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband said he is in love with our children's best friends single mother. We both have two boys, and have been friends for years. Doing activities together all the time, with and with out our boys. Camping, vacations, bike riding, movies, etc.. Neither of them are willing ... (145 words)

I love my girlfriend and we're in an amazing relationship even though we're so far away....then why did I cheat?????

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my situation I'm with the love of my life and she's the bestest person ever and we share and talk about everything Everything is great and i truly care for her and miss her and always think about her and she has the same feelings for me But I've been moving... (298 words)

How can I meet his friends and not get all self conscious?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, dating a man that is 34. I am in love, and don't see age as a problem here. Our relationship has almost been two years now. He wants me to meet his friends, yet all of them seem to look at age, rather than at me. I am a shy person as it is, and stereotypical people I ... (79 words)

Betrayed by two people I love

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30 December 2010 (F)

age - Im 48 and have been with my husband for 23 years..we'v always had a loving relastionship and our sex life is excellent..iv never had any reason not to trust him and love him deeply..after a night out with my best friend of 30 years we went back to my family home where she was ... (318 words)

Does he really want to be my friend or is he messing with me?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex texted me that he missed me. He then called and said that he wanted to see me and that he wishes that we could be friends like before. How should I take this? Back story: We were together for about six months and then had a mutual break up about half a year ago f... (219 words)

Really confusing mixed signals - driving me mad!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We're best friends, we spend a lot of time alone together, we text almost all day and I can trust him with anything! He always says he's my knight and he always takes care of me, and does cute things to make me happy. And when we're together we're always touching like pushing ... (115 words)

What it takes to be a wonderful man?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all girls there. I often hear girls saying I have a wonderful man/ boyfriend etc. i wonder what it take to be a wonderful man from the ladies point of view. well what it takes to be a wonderful man? is it wealth, look, traits,education or personality that one posses? i ... (60 words)

Why won't she let me finish her?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - whenever I go down on my girlfriend, she pushes me away when she's about to cum. when I ask her why she wants me to stop she just gasps "no" like she's afraid of something. I don't understand why. She says that she enjoys it. why won't she let me finish her?... (52 words)

My ex is in an online rebound relationship...

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. I really need someones help. I'm 19 years old. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up. We been together for almost 2 yrs. Before we ever started dating, I had gotten out of a relationship a few months before we stared dating. I was in high school then but after my breakup ... (1490 words)

I really feel neglected and don't know what to do!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are together for about one year now. Many a times I felt neglected by him because he is someone who prefers to have his personal time. I am not a very sticky person I think... I hope to meet up more times in a week rather than once a week. I told him man... (100 words)

How do I go out into the whole wide world beginning the new adventure of life, my life, without being to scared and messing things up?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - good morning from a sunny south africa. happy festive season to everyone. ok firstly i dont know if i have a real question or if its rather a fear. wait let me begin and see where this ends. ok im 17 years old and wrote my matric exam this year currently still waiting fo... (374 words)

Does sex always get in the way of just being friends?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So can a man and woman be friends or does sex always get in the way. I have this guy I chat with a couple times a week when we see each other. Small talk has turned intimate and he asks a lot of questions wanting to know me. He also recently told me all about his flaws--just ... (200 words)

I only want to be friends with my ex!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an ex boyfriend and i'm over him, but he's not over me. I still want to be friends with him, but he always seems to bring up our past relationship, and how he wants me back. How do i tell him that i want to be friends but not together anymore?... (53 words)

Men: How do you feel about HPV?

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30 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I tested positive for HPV over a year ago. It was type that increases the risk for cervical cancer, (not the strain that gives warts) I went ahead and got the vaccine for the other strains and I am now "inactive" and test negative though I know I technically carry trace amou... (233 words)

Why do I pee during sex???

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a great sex life. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. During sex, I usually come a lot, and again and again but lately I've been having trouble coming during sex. It's very frustrating for me ... (171 words)

Girlfriend finds me physically repulsive now

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to get a read on what is considered "normal" loss of attraction in a relationship, so I can at least put upper and lower bounds on what would be reasonable as it applies to my circumstances. Backstory: I am 31 years old, and have been in a relationship wit... (266 words)

Why he acts like we're dating if he doesn't want it??

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have a friend who i've only known for a week and a half. well the first time we hung out he was blowing up my facebook to hang out, so he came and picked me up and took me to the club he works at (also a favorite club of mine) well that night he was all over me. we ended ... (666 words)

Am I being realistic? She wants to wait for her cheater. I want to wait for her

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I came out of a relationship about 3 months ago. And since then I've been chatting to friends and such, and my one friend was going through a break up/being messed around by her ex who is basically a womaniser. Anyway, through my friend and through me helping her with advice ... (794 words)

Finally I've realised how much he liked me. What can I do to re-establish our connection?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally into someone else at that time, that i never noticed that he liked me. Everyone including his best friend ... (152 words)

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half... (1191 words)

I'm 14, and want to find the love of my life

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I really want to find the love of my life. I'm 14, yeah you might say i'm too young but none of us know how long we will be in this godforsaken dump we call a world. I adore anime and long for a girl who is much like a girl from one of the animes, I don't just want a pretty ... (130 words)

Is there any way that I can last longer for her?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Friends, Me and my girlfriend have recently started having sex. But there is a problem and its a pretty big one. I cant last very long and i feel awful and like im not capable of satisfying her =/ she says it's ok and i can tell that she means it but i just still... (83 words)

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex. That bond between us just gets... (271 words)

Did he just want to hook up?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i’m going to get right into it. I meet this amazing guy. We meet three weeks ago so of course i’m not in love but i can’t stop thinking about him. He’s two years older and he lives a state over about a 3hr car ride. The first day we meet he was really flirty. My friends ... (677 words)

Why does my best girl friend need to get jealous of my girl friend?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I have a girl friend who's amazing. But I also have a girl bestfriend who I love. And now that I have a girlfriend my girl best friend gets all jealous and says I'm still hers. But she said she doesn't like me. But why would she get jealous? ... (53 words)

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my stomach when I found that out... (128 words)

Why do I keep dreaming about her?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i was best friends with a girl sometime back, it was like we both were very close and the chemistry made me fall for her, i couldnt help it. Even she was close to me and used to hug me when going on bike rides, i even used to let her sleep in my arms while traveling, and she ... (564 words)

I said I missed him and he blocked me!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely. I really liked talking to him, but he has a gir... (227 words)

Is my ex-teacher crossing a line with our friendship?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So.., this is a little longer than I intended, haha, sorry. I left Junior High just this summer and am now in grade ten (Grade ten...eep!). Anyway, there's this teacher at my old school who is, in every way possible, perfect. Now, I know that sounds extremely weird because he... (379 words)

He's not Christian but I am. Does it matter?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I don't have feelings for this boy who is anti-christan we only get to we to see each other for a great while and he gets lonley when i am not around plus he lives far away like 2 hours. So i was wondering if anyone can fall for with an anti-christan even if he or sh... (67 words)

Is there a chance that we could be together in future?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She tells me she has feelings for me, but it's on and off for about 1 year. She is in a relationship with her bf for about 4.5 years. They broke up but patched back many times. He is very possessive and she went through so much of emotional hurt with him. She shares all her ... (181 words)

Help! I only like older women!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I an 17 and i consider my self mature enough for a real relationship i am a up and coming body builder i look ok and girls like me but i dont like girls i like women i like mature women i always have i have been through the high school drama and always knew that its not ... (97 words)

How do I get over this crazy in love feeling?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy when i was 16. From the first time i met him, i was really excited. I thought he was beautiful and i really admired him. So we kept in touch through the years, granted its only been 5 years. Fast forward to the present, and i think ive fallin in love. I've always ... (218 words)

How do I help my ex move on?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my ex several years ago because I just fell out of love with her. She didn't do anything wrong, but we just didnt connect and in the end, my feelings for her changed. She doesn't have any close friends and still considers me her closest (and maybe only) friend. ... (229 words)

She broke my heart! How do I get over her?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "I need time to think." Those words from my gf have resonated in my mind for over 5 months since she suddenly dumped me. I'm new to dating so I have 0 experience in this sort of thing. I spent my high school years as a combination of a nerd and a jock, excelling in ... (202 words)

What are some good country love songs?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone know any good country love songs? Not Willie Nelson old country but Brad Paisley, Keith Urban kind. I already know the love songs by those two. Thanks all!... (36 words)

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i did and i found out as soon as he br... (173 words)

Is he drinking behind my back?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a pretty big problem. My boyfriend is a former alcoholic. I have trust issues with him. The past few times we have seen each other he has smelt very strange. I thought maybe it was bad body odor. Then he came to my house and the next day my mom asked me if we had been ... (102 words)

His mom walked in on us having sex!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, half naked in his upstairs ... (152 words)

We kissed and now things are weird. What should I do?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me the other day and wanted to go further but i didnt and we talked about tht but he was glad we didnt go further cuz we barley know each other. but ever since then things have seemed kind of off. I talked to him and he said ... (91 words)

We had sex and he told everyone! What should I do?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and about a month ago i had sex (i was a virgen) with my 17yr old bf bc i thought i loved him. He promised me tht no 1 would know no matter what but less than a week later he broke up with me bc he didnt want attachments bc hes goin to the army but he told everyone that ... (81 words)

He has trouble orgasming in me! Is that normal?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has not cummed in me ever we have been together for 2 years. Is there something wrong with me or him? I feel like im trying really hard to please him but still nothing. He said he has only been able to do it about 5 times in his previous relationships? does this ... (59 words)

Help! My girlfriend is too insecure!

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. my girlfriend is so insecure because of what i have done in the past or so she tells me. i Am going to be compeltely honest and i need you people to tell me if its me or if its her issues. We have been dating for 11 months and we both do love eachother dearly and we bo... (455 words)

I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it. What should I do?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 43 and my boyfriend of 2yrs is 27 i just found out im pregnant and i already have 3 kids he has none we are very serious and i thought he might be happy about this but he is very unhappy says hes not ready and does not want it.. what should i do?... (56 words)

Can you really alter a polygraph?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my question is I want to give my husband a polygraph test and I want to know that he cant alter the test. The reason I want him to take one is because well lets just say his work takes him to different places over seas for a year to a year and a half. Since he has b... (225 words)

My boobs are small and I don't know what to do!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i am 15 and i have small boobs. i am going on holiday in July with my boyfriend and his family and i am inbarased about them. I was shopping not that long ago with him and we were talking about bras and he asked what bra size i was and i ignored him. I was scared to say ... (141 words)

My ex is confusing! Should I just forget about her?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well my ex's has bin confusing me because sometimes she acts like she likes me still and then other times she seams like she just hates me or is annoyed of me and i have no idea what to do i was going to just stop everything but i don't know if that would do anything i need ... (91 words)

There's no sex in our relationship. Is she cheating?

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30 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, besides the occasional kiss ... (151 words)

How do I avoid temptation for him?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in college at the moment and my boyfriend goes to uni a few hundred miles away so he's never home. when he is here its great because we are a perfect couple, theres no flaw to us, but when he's not here....its not the same. he's a popular boy, all the girls fancy him, he's ... (113 words)

Why did he reject me for New Year's?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, I have a boyfriend who I have had for the last six months I have been trying like crazy to get together with him for winter break. He finally said let's do something new years eve and I was so excited that I could have screamed :) half an hour later he texts me... (108 words)

I'm scared the sunbeds will kill him!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf always used to use sun beds before we went out. I then kindly asked him not to whilst he was with me cos I know loads of people who have died from cancer or have at least suffered from it. I cried the first time I saw him after a sunbed and he was bright red. I know it ... (141 words)

Can fake glasses make you need real glasses?

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30 December 2010 (M) age 36-40 - hii ^_^ thought i would ask a silly question, heh.. lots of people wear fake glasses, dont ask why, apparently its fashion... weird.. i know that if you wear real glasses when you dont need them, u end up needing them because u are altering ur sight. thing is, do... (109 words)

I'm a virgin and I need sex tips! Help!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. im a virgin and im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im just scared that im going to be rubbish because ive never done it before. he's had sex a few times, what if im awful at giving a BJ? please give me any advice as to what to do PLEASE!!!1... (56 words)

Am I dumb for staying with my fiancee' if he has cheated more than once?

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiancee' has been together for 3 1/2 years but for a year straight he cheated on me and the 2nd year was shaky then the 3rd year we got right and he changed. Now we are going on our 4th year and I still can't get over what he has done in the past and he ... (139 words)

Help! I'm only attracted to Latinos!

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30 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My profile flag is the Mexican flag, but I´m from another country originally. I`m teaching EFL here. I love it, but I am really in a bind and need advice! I don`t think I`m EVER going to be happy! I would like to have a boyfriend, and share my life, but there are some p... (542 words)