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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Almost two year old wont listen what do I do

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My almost two year old is driving me crazy she wont listen at all. Ive tried spanking time out everything even when i spank her and tell her no i say this is why u got in trouble i dont want u doing this anymore she still does it. Help idk what to do... (54 words)

He's 24 years younger than me, can this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age - I am seriously involved, we are moving in together next week, with a guy 24 years younger than myself. We are madly in love, can this really work out long term? We have a lot in common, our values, hope and dreams are very similar. Any help?... (47 words)

Can this mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So today i talked to my friend about why he's been avoiding me and he said that his phone is always dead. But on the other hand we are both friends with this girl and they talk about random stuff but whenever she mentions me, he stops replying. Is he lying to me or what? And i ... (104 words)

She said she loves me but doesn't want to be in a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a great female friend, she is my best friend. we've been out twice but a couple of years ago. we have amasing chemestry, I asked her out about 2 months ago, but she said that dispte loveing me she wasn't really interested in a relationship, then she said that she was ... (111 words)

Is this simply a case of him wanting the best of both worlds?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so if I was to explain the story in full, you'd be reading for a loooong time, so i'l try to keep it brief! basically, me and my ex were together for 3 and a half years and, to my knowledge, everything was great, we had talked about spending the rest of our lives together- ... (360 words)

Would you consider his magic number high for his age?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is 22 sexual partners for a 27 year old male a lot?... (12 words)

I don't know what I'm doing when it comes to pleasing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I do to "pleasure" him more? His been the only one I have EVEN had a sexual relationship with, so he is understanding at the fact that I have not a clue what I am doing. But I want to prove that I can be mind blowing. What do I do to make that happen? How am I able to ... (84 words)

I'm 15 and attracted to much older men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am attracted to much older men (20 - 40)...is it because i have been looking for a father figure (i do get along with my dad but dont see him that often) I dont like any boys at school...i prefer the male teahers to be honest...This guy the other day (would said he was in ... (112 words)

I'm becoming even more distant in this LDR.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I need a little advice! Me and my boyfriend are in a LDR and we're happy of course. But like a week ago we got into an argument because i thought he was lying about something. He took it very very personal. Which i understand. But lately he's been acting so weird and ... (208 words)

Any tips on getting my dyed blonde hair to stay brighter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question to do with my hair really, any advice if you can please :) I am naturally brown, but for the past year (I think!) I've always gone to the hairdressers and had the top half of my hair dyed blonde. I don't want to go back to being brown because I suit b... (185 words)

Is there a way out of the friend zone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) age 41-50 - hi been getting on really well with a women and enjoy spending time with her i really like her and told her i like her she said am like a brother to her i walked her home and walked away, she rang me down the road saying she could not open front door so i went back, and o... (105 words)

I want him to be my first and my last.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heeey, im quite young and have been in a relationship for nearly 5 months, we're both virgins, and i really do want too loose it too him and he wants too with me. Is it bad that i can actually picture a future with him? Getting married? Having kids? Being old together? :/... (53 words)

It's a little dusty down there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

- lately i feel like a born again virgin. I am only 24 and havn't had sex in 6 months and usually this wouldn't annoy me but not i think about it i just don't know what the problem with me is. Am i being to picky or do guys just not find me attractive anymore?? i never used to ... (170 words)

She's aware that I have a thing for her but yet she ignores me when I say "Hi"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - A year ago I fell in love with this girl at my school. Long story short she knows I like her. Well, a week ago she talked to me for the first time and had a short conversation, and then later I friended her on facebook and she accepted the friend request. Then on Monday I say ... (105 words)

Problems when it comes to sex. Also, I can't help but check out my boyfriend's friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupid. Q1. Okay so i have been going out with my boyfriend for about one and a half, maybe two months now. we have tried sex, including oral and using your hands but anytime he does anything (this happens especially with the hand using part) there is a build up, i mean... (393 words)

Should I see what he has to say?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

2 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - A male friend or ex "fwb" you might call it, ended up sleeping together a few weeks ago. BIG mistake because he has a girlfriend. I spoke to him about it a few days later, and told him i felt like an idiot about what happened. He asked why, and i told him because i knew i... (202 words)

My girlfriend has got MAJOR issues, but I can't dump her. How do I get her to dump me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I dont understand my girlfriend , she is bipolar and christian she lives 2 streets away from me in a cold dark flat , she doesnt wash up and wont sleep with me in my nice detached house. I have just come back from a trip with her to her country she says she doesnt love her ... (207 words)

I want to get under the covers and play again like when we were 6!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a family friend that i have been attracted to for a long time now. she is beautiful. we have been close since birth. when we were 5 or 6 we used to kiss. we would get under the covers in my bed and just play around for hours, nothing down south though. now that we ... (85 words)

I hope he works on his lying so we can get back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I recently just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. The reason we broke up was because he constantly lied. He even lied about little stupid things. We really love each other so much but all that lying really tore us apart. I hope he betters himself and comes back ... (64 words)

Wide set vagina?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well here the thing me and my boyfriend was together a year and half he never really pleasured me and i relised i have a large vingina .. i ask him this and he said he can't feel the wall's plus he manage to stick 4 fingers up me.. but part of the is due to a baby... but ... (84 words)

Secrets to a successful LDR, anyone care to share tips?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you maintain the spark in a LDR? I mean...if you don't get to meet often...how long can you survive and overcome the physical longing and loneliness?... (28 words)

My trust issues are driving him away from us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a zulu girl dating a congolese man. He has two sons i have 1 daughter. I have trust issues sometimes i take it out on him,fight with him and accuse him of painful things. Lately he is withdrawn from me and my daughter, he spends very little time with us, does not call as ... (89 words)

The best possible way to end a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a 17 year old boy and i have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, i love her but i feel that i am no longer in love with her. Also i feel like she has taken our reletionship for granted as she has made out with my best friend and exposed herself to someone else, after each ... (106 words)

What if he expects stuff from me? I'm still a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are close and starting to develop a closer relationship. i am a virgin and i am pretty sure he has had sex before. this makes me nervous because what if he expects stuff from me and i have no idea what to do. i want to talk to him about it but i have no id... (81 words)

I guess I'm not very good at playing hard to get?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Boys, would you like it if a girl u were interested in told you she liked talking to you? Or would you lose interest in her b/c u'd think she was easy to get? I told a guy i liked talking to him, hes a shy guy and i wanted to reassure him that i was interested. Now ithi... (104 words)

We opened up and shared dark secrets, although his might have been better off left in the closet!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I am 19 years old. I have a wonderful boyfriend who is 21, and we have been dating for 2 years, and altogether I've known him for about 5 years. Recently we opened up and told "dark secrets" He told me about how he use to be friends with this guy and one night they got ... (155 words)

She told me she was still in love with me but yet she starts seeing someone new a few days after our break-up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for a little over 2 years, when she broke things off with me 2 months ago. We had broken up once before, but decided to give it another try(which lasted a year) when she finally broke it off, she came in from work, kissed me and told me she still loved me and ... (202 words)

Does my guy friend like me romantically, sexually, or is he just joking around?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy friend of mine often calls me 'ugly', 'fat', 'idiot','stupid' in a joking way but I'm really skinny and not bad-looking...He always mocks me. Every time he sees me, he just winds me up! Once when I was cooking in our friend's house, he threw stuff at me...he threw ... (984 words)

Why do I miss my ex-boyfriend as much as I miss my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months this time last year, after I moved away to university. I felt that I didn't love him any more and that I wanted to live life and experiment. I met a girl on a night out and we hit it off and became really close. She's a lesbian and I'm ... (490 words)

Should I tell my former teacher that I can't stop thinking about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had feelings for one of my teachers from my senior year in high school. I'm in college now and I still think about him. He is all I think about and I don't know what to do. I thought that not seeing him for a while might help. Also, I thought going to college would change ... (145 words)

He doesn't want to sleep together in case we meet other people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been really good friends with a guy for the past 15 years - we went to school together and he never hid the fact that he fancied me through our younger years. However, I never felt the same way, until I moved to college - we began socialising a lot more together and I ... (519 words)

I texted this "friend" and told her to stay away from my husband or she'd be sorry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Too Jealous??? Me and my husband have been together 10 years, starting in june of this year we were having problems as i went away to see my friends(female friends) without telling him. Now the problems didn't really start there, i was feeling neglected after having had our 1... (1246 words)

He drives me crazy, I just can't sleep..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't really know where to start. Firstly, sorry for such a long post. We to give you a bit of background, i'm male, 22 from England, in full-time education. Basically, there's a guy in my class who, to be honest, I have a major major crush on him. I've known him fo... (624 words)

She's the girl all the bad guys want!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Yeah I know that I shouldn't be depressed because in the end I will find the one I ultimately love. I met this girl in town through Facebook actually. We talked for a good week and she wanted to hang out. I never EVER get nervous about meeting new people, especially girls. ... (244 words)

Having a sexual relationship with my boss and my husband knows!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 13 years and have two children. In the last four years my husband and I have grown apart. We don't spend much time together. Recently I started an affair with my boss at work. We have only had sex once, but it was so nice. I don't know what to do because ... (314 words)

How can I be more confident and feel more sexy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Any tips for confidence? hi I've started dating a guy and we have great sexual chemistry between us. Thing is I've rescently put on a bit of weight and with it lost a bit of confidence. any tips for having more confidence in my sexy self?..he makes me feel great but somewh... (82 words)

After 2 rows we split, now I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex for just under four months, and in the last week we rowed twice because of other people lying and this, a couple of days later resulted in us breaking up. We were having, what was our second row of that week, and the second row of our whole relationship if im ... (178 words)

Sexual fantasies about my cousin...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - For the past few years, I have had sexual fantasies of my sexy cousin. I have wanted to do anything and everything to her. I don't care if she is blood, she is so sexy. I want to have sex with her, and i am not sure as to how i should tell her. When we were little, we did ... (108 words)

Is our relationship just one of habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'll try to make this as short as possible. I am a 19 year old female and have been in my first gay relationship with my gf for nearly a year now. in the beginning we broke up, only for a week or so, cos i felt i wasnt ready. anyway since then things have been great, i ... (356 words)

What should I do if a girl gives me eye contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When the girl I like stares at me I tend to look quickly away because I get nervous. Can someone give me tips on what to do if this happens again. Should I maintain the eye contact?... (37 words)

Why is it we "hurt the ones we love?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age - Why is it we "hurt the ones we love?" I know it's an old saying but I think there is much truth to it. We hurt the ones we love most. I wish it weren't true or even knew how to change it. It is no secret that I love my wife very much. It's no secret that we have our issues ... (649 words)

How do I deal with these horrible girls in college?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's been a lot of drama going on! I try to ignore it, but they've been going back to the teacher saying that I've been saying these awful things about them, and spreading rumors that really embarrass me! I don't say anything to them, I just ignore them and laugh at them and ... (158 words)

Take a look at my STAY or GO list: can this love be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Joe is my first boyfriend of two years. I’m Joe’s 4th girlfriend. There is a six-year age difference between us, we see each other on the weekends, and he maintains quiet contact with a long-distance ex. Although people view him as a nice guy, he is secretly disappointed that ... (609 words)

How do you know when you've done the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost three years (anniversary next week) and she moved in with me in April. However over recent months we've been drifting apart, or should I say I have. She made it clear that I was the one and wanted to get married and have a ... (242 words)

Because of my unhappy marriage I've found comfort in the arms of another...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok someone has to help me, I am married and have two kids,unhappy in my marriage and i have become friends with my husbands friend. We have been meeting up sexually and i have fell for him. The thing is he just got out of his relationship and is single but when they were ... (171 words)

It felt right and wrong at the same time! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, i was close to this lad a while ago, like brother and sister close, hes 2 years older than me btw, and then we recently fell out, and we made up again and i went to his house on monday, and we didnt do anything, but on the tuesday, i went again and he got very ... (139 words)

Why was he able to move on so fast?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have one question for you guys... how is it that guys can move on so fast after a relationship ends? I mean, obviously after two years a relationship takes work since you are likely no longer in the honeymoon phase (esp. if you live together like we did). I was not the bad ... (247 words)

Can we get past this, or is the situation hopeless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Help me! Me and my gf were together for a year and a half before we broke up and we have a baby together. We took a break for six months and jst got back together. Things were good at first but now its turning into our first relationship all over again. She lied to me about ... (187 words)

Sex in a relationship after divorce 5 years ago

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2 December 2010 (F)

age - I have been divorced since 2005 and am now in a relationship with a man whom I really like a lot. We have had intercourse however, want to move a bit slower and find each other religions. Is there a bible verse anywhere that says this is okay?... (50 words)

Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I will try to make this short I have dated this guy for almost two years and he works a lot which doesn't allow us to spend a lot of time together which i understand but what i don't undetstand that on his days off he would tell me that he would see me in a little bit and I ... (313 words)

Am I not getting turned on by my partner because I still have sexual fantasies about another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years and I broke up with him because I felt like it wasn't right to be with him anymore since I started to become irritated with everything he does.. During the break up, I started hooking up this other guy who's amazing in bed. ... (139 words)

Pros & cons of friends with benefits relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think its wise to have a friends with benefits type of relationship with a stranger to get over your ex? Not looking for any serious committed relationship right now. But I don't want to get hurt again as this would be the first time I would try something like this out. ... (53 words)

Do guys like girls way more than girls like guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - That's what it seems like. How come if a girl joins a dating site, within a couple of days she'll be flooded with more e-mails than she could ever reply to... but if a guy joins, he could send out two dozen e-mails and still get no replies? How come something like 90% of all ... (470 words)

I don't know how much more I can take!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I got into a little argument (nothing major.. but I guess he's VERY sensitive) last week. I said some mean things to him but I have tried to apologize to him after wards so many times. He wasn't having it, so he's been ignoring me for almost a week now. He ... (328 words)

Adoption? Abortion? Or keeping the baby from an unplanned pregnancy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question really. But out of blatant curiosity I was wondering if people out there would share their opinion on whether they think adoption, abortion or keeping an unplanned baby is the best option and why they feel that way. I would really appreciat... (62 words)

We have a child together, he is interested in someone else, will he ever come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 4yrs. we have an 8mos yr old daughter together. We have had our share of arguements and fights and the past yr has not been the greatest. Most of it was because I was pregnant and emotional. He ended things with me about a month ago and is ... (345 words)

I think I might be a lesbian and in love with my best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I'm in love with my best friend! What do I do? When I was at one of my friends parties we were playing the usial spin the bottle, 5 minutes in heaven, that sort of games. But with a difference, we decided that gay was OK to make it more interesting. When it ... (240 words)

I cannot trust anything he does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya.. Im 20 years old and currently in a relatioship of 7 months. When my partner and i met it was realy nly for casual sex ( ano it sounds harsh) but one thing lead to another and we fell for each other. I found out just before we started to date that he and my best m8 at the ... (240 words)

Is it wrong to move on when its clear the relationship will not work with his baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has recently had a baby with his ex, he is now seven months old. we got together eight months ago and i new about the birth coming along. he had broken up with me a while ago and begun going out with his ex only to realise once again that it will not work. he tel... (188 words)

I'm in love with my teacher. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 this year and Im in love with my teacher. It's not just a crush as you may say, Im crying when I ask this question. What should I do? Im in a bad mood everyday and I dont feel like eating anymore. I know that it's very stupid but you see, I cant help it. I was afraid that ... (195 words)

I want to trust her seen as we have come so far already, but I am finding it so hard....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know that when in a relationship partners should learn to trust each other. Me and my wife had a serious arguement last night. I know that i should respect my wifes privacy by not looking through her phone, I didnt want to see her messages, I was only playing with her... (231 words)

My wedding is in three weeks and I want to break up with my girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi . My wedding is on 3 weeks and I'm thinking on break up with my girl now ?? Please I need advices thank you. making it short..I am good looking guy and even little shy I always had luck with many women in my life because of that I never trusted in woman because they wer... (343 words)

Questions about fooling around.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster merged into one] Question 1: hey when me and my boyfriend are messing around and he puts his hand down my pants, i dont know whether i should put him down his? and i dont know whens the right time too, and when im down there what do ... (104 words)

Hair conditioner question....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so what's the difference between leave in conditioner and regular conditioner? ... (12 words)

How do I get the courage to talk to a girl and ask her to dance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

2 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hello friends I am 15 i am not in a relationship uptil now,i just want someone to love me,noone loves me,I want someone to hug me when I am sad,wipe my tears when I cry,noone does,it....it just hurts very badly, soo my question is I study in a boys college,but luckily from the... (142 words)

How do I get noticed by Mr Right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do guys want in a dating,marriage relationship? How do I get noticed by mr. right?... (17 words)

Has oral sex caused stretching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mature woman who needs advice. My husband has erectile dysfunction, can only get full penetration if he takes viagra. He cannot orgasm with penetration and normally finishes himself off. He is okay with oral sex and takes great enjoyment with bringing me to climax. As he ... (109 words)

I feel like I'm not supposed to be with anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello again I'm sure many of you have heard that thing about nice guy vs the bad boy type and the bad always wins I am a nice guy I am very loving and caring and also very sensitive (not a quality I'm proud of but its there) and I love to help people in need with anything. But ... (270 words)

B/f has told me he'd kill my family if I left him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out i was pregnant a few weeks ago. Its not the best news but im learing to deal with it. Im only 21 and recently moved to sweden to be with my boyfriend. Before i found out i was pregnant i wanted to leave him and go home. I have nothen here and they guy is abusive. ... (197 words)

How do I prepare myself to let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this man for about 7 months now, it is not a serious relationship and we have been honest with each other from the start about what to expect from this. He has always maintained that he really likes me, loves spending time with me...etc however his job ... (878 words)

I think there might be something going on between my husband and his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

2 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have posted before and had great help from members I need advice again. My Husband treated me terribly over the last two and a half years we have been together there has been lies, being tight with money not bothering with my kids getting another house so he can see his ... (736 words)

B/f puts his job before me!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf currently puts his job before me. I can deal with this for the time being, but I am more worried about the future. If he's always going to put his job before me, Im not sure if I want to be with him. Please help. :(... (48 words)

He said he loved me but now is running

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem that i would like help with is my ex. I fell in love with my ex in a very short time too short. Things moved way to fast for both of us. He asked me what i wanted to do and i said lets go with it and see where it leads. He then got scared he left for 3 days and ... (206 words)

He adds pretty girls on Facebook and has blocked me from seeing his profile!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. In the past we had a lot of problems because he lied to me and also had an emotional relationship with his ex. Everything was going really well until I recently found out that he is lying to me again. For instance he invites ... (166 words)

Handjobs?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know to wait until im comfortable but just curious as to how long others wait to give handjobs in relationships? ... (25 words)

Caught between two men....

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have two men in my life, tonny and Thomas, i have been with Tonny for over 5 years. i have known thomas for one year. we had problems with Tonny one year ago and thats when i met thomas. Thomas has been a very sweet man and he has asked me to marry him! unfortunately fo... (170 words)

Is my boyfriend ashamed of me?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i'll try make this short as possible. ive been seeing my boyfriend since early febuary, we had a falling out around may and had a break for a week then got back togeather so have been on and off ive felt very insecure in our relationship up until 2 months ago when ... (197 words)

My husband has a 19 year old female friend! How should I react to this?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What are you really supposed to do or how do you react when your husband has an 19 year old friend that's the opposite sex? He knows you don't approve of it. But he says that's his friend no matter what nor how you feel. And he's 36 years of age. Help please.... (53 words)

Is my fear rational or should I just forget about the past?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, First i want to say that im sorry its long. I hve been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. We had a nasty breakup last year, and were apart for half a year. he had been the one that broke things off and it had broken my heart. especially after only 2 w... (228 words)

Should I move on even though I love her?

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am a freshman in college with a girlfriend who is a junior in high school but only one year younger than me. We have been dating for about 7 months and love each other. The only problem is lately I have been feeling skeptical as to whether it is healthy to be in a ... (131 words)

I think my boyfriend is still seeing his ex, how do I confront him?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I've had my suspicions for a while but always thought I was being paranoid and they were just good friends still and hang out in the same groups of friends. Last night he said he was out so i decided to sit outside his house and see who he came back with. The lights... (205 words)

For the guys: Have you ever made a move on a girl you did not like right away, but fell for after you got to know her?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need a guys opinion on this one... have you ever met a girl and straight off you the bat you were not attracted to her (she was overweight, not what you'd consider pretty, etc, etc). BUT, after getting to know her as a person things changed... her personally overt... (111 words)

How can I make a guy who does not believe in love, fall in love with me?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello cupid. my question is that :- how can i make a guy who does not believe in love, fall in love with me? I know we cannot force anyone to fall in love with someone but at least can you guys give me some tips how can i impress him and attract him towards me given that he... (134 words)

I found out the guy I was dating was a registered sex offender

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI. I just started dating this guy, when I found out that He was a registered sex offender. I found out through his ex mother in law that I happened to work with. When he was 15 he sexually molested his sister over a time frame of about 3 months.. his sister was 6 at the time. ... (417 words)

Is it bad to put everyone's feelings ahead of your own?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to always put everyone elses feelings ahead of yours? I have a problem. I think? Its not all sexual but im just going to give an example. Im pretty un happy with my life so I always try to make my boyfriends better even when I know he already has pretty much a very ... (164 words)

Do I begin giving him an ultimatum when I know that might backfire on me?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a boyfriend for almost 6 years now. He's a great guy, and I'm in love with him, and can see our future life together as being a beautiful thing. He's had a tough life though. His dad died when he was 16, and his grandfather only a few months later. He never went to ... (413 words)

She's lesbian. I'm lesbian. My husband knows I'm bi.

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone I don't know what to do so I need your advice. I got married 20 years ago to a wonderful man that I met when I was in the Army. He was also in the Army. We have 3 children. I am bisexual and my husband knew this when we married. A few years into our marriage we ... (363 words)

Should I just choke down my feelings and be happy with things are they are?

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So here's the deal - I think I know the answer, but opinions count. I met this woman at her work - she's doing a job for me. However, through our interactions, we've hit it off and have actually gone out a few times, mostly in a friendly setting. Concerts, dinner, etc. It'... (404 words)

Massage gone wrong on my girlfriend?

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2 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend are together for 1 year.....we have a very happy relationship...i have been regular at having massages at home...they are done to me by my male masseau..he is very professional at his job...so i thot of letting my gf have a massage done by him...as she ... (205 words)

Some confused person used me for sex!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was used by my ex for a month and a half..all along he had his best friend he was inlove with and kept as a "Bestfriend"..He also always made derogritory gay jokes about men and basically he wants to be with men..once he scremed out im gay. I feel used and abused and throw... (347 words)

At first I miss her alot, but as time goes on its less and less

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I are both college students and we have to be apart during the breaks. I've noticed that while at first I miss her a lot, I gradually start to miss her less and less as the break progresses. Is this because I'm starting to love her less or is it simply temporary? ... (136 words)

Am I just imagining that he's interested?

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2 December 2010 (F)

- Ok, so I know that this might sound like a stupid question, but how can you tell if a guy is interested in you? In one of my college classes there is this guy who occasionally glances over to where I am sitting. For the first couple of classes, I honestly didn't even noti... (218 words)

Sometimes no glove and I still make love!

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i've had sex a couple time without a condom. It it very quick should i be worried that something is wrong with my stuff. with a condom i last a very long time. is this something to worry or is it regular?... (43 words)

She won't accept my apology!

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well me and my girl friend were having a bad day today. We got into a fight about something and in the end i told her that i was sorry for the way i was acting so i could be nice. But when she replied she just said "umm yeah it doesn't matter". I don't know if she is mad or ... (94 words)

She used to text me nonstop, not so much anymore!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why wont she text me back dang? Ya she goes with her family but she can text everyone else. It drives me nuts ill talk to her for a little bit then out of nowhere shell just quit texting me. Ill say babe babe and shell say hold on then three hours later i say hello babe hunni ... (166 words)

Is a secret admirer letter creepy?

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had a crush on a girl I worked with for a year, but due to circumstances, I was unable to ask her on a date. I have thought about writing a letter flat out, but I think the mystery would be fun; although, I am a little worried that the letters would label me as a ... (84 words)

How much time and space should I give my boyfriend after an argument?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got into an argument on Monday, it was a petty argument and actually quite stupid now that I think about it. Later that day on Monday, I texted him asking to talk about it since I really prefer not to take arguments into bed. However, he texted me back saying ... (436 words)

We've only been broken up for 2 days and he's already playing kissy face with another girl!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my ex-boyfriend and i broke up like 2 weeks ago for legit this time, we have been together for 4 years. But heres the story...He thought i liked some one else, which i did, but kept it secret because i was just gonna get over it and go back to him because i loved him. ... (195 words)

I'm on the fence about being friends with my ex.

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm 27 and my gf broke up with me about one month ago. We had a great time for a while and she told me things like she wasn't going anywhere and I was amazing while we were together. We were in a ldr for about six months. I had my problems, but I don't think they were ... (456 words)

Our relationship is going under!

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2 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I need help badly my I really feel as if my relationship is going under I am seriously in love with my gf but she says she loves me but she's not in love with me. All we do is fight because I am sensitive and thinks I am a pussy and immature she gets me mad on purpose because ... (136 words)

He calls me a complainer when I want to talk about something!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I argue a lot. We don't have very good communication. Any time I try to talk about something, he gets upset b/c he thinks I'm looking to start a fight. And he'll tell me to leave him alone. We've been together for 4 yrs and the arguments have gotten more frequent. ... (330 words)

Do we get married in his country or mine?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i are planning on getting married, but i am not sure what we are supposed to do.he is from another country, although he has been here for few years now. is it easier for us to marry here or in his country? and what is required for us to do?... (53 words)

My girlfriend is sending her boss inappropriate emails!

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I just learned that my girlfriend had a boss and they sent personal e-mails back and forth to one another such as Hey Sexy and Hey Handsome. In fact, her boss mentioned in an e-mail that he missed her to baby and signed it by saying xoxo, hugs. She would invite him to drinks ... (77 words)

19 and still never been asked out!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I feel like everyone ask's this question. But anyway, I am going to turn 20 in a few months and I still have yet to be asked out! I have never been asked out, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend. Well, I've always been shy, didn't have many guy friends. I've been ... (174 words)

I don't like my girlfriend hanging out with a guy who has previously kissed her!

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What do I do?! My girlfriens says she's tired of me asking her to do thing she doesn't want to and she might be thinking about breaking up with me. We have been together for almost 2 years and during that time we took a month-long break, in which one of her friends kissed her ... (273 words)

When I ask him for sex he gives me a bunch of excuses!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am very confused about my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years (where both 22) and I love him more than anything. The problem is he wont have sex with me. We never had an overly crazy sex life we'd do it once a week maybe twice which is fine ... (230 words)

Does he just want to get me in bed?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy alot and we have been dateing for about a month and he tells me he loves me and that he wants to make love to me.He calls and checks up on me almost every day and he makes me feel like he reali cares about me. I am not sure what to do because he is known to be a ... (92 words)

When we have sex it's so awkward!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i cant ever seem to make the passionate love i soooo desire. Its so akward... it usally only last a minute or two and we are done. Im so not used to this! I general have to make all the moves and he never wants to try anything new. We never talk about it cause ... (117 words)

Why am I only aroused by my ex?

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up almost two months ago and we haven't spoken since. She broke all communication and now blames me for everything and isn't looking at her own actions throughout the relationship, so getting together again will probably never happen and I wish she'd just ... (203 words)

I'm hoping this class clown is gay.

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this boy at school who would thought to be the last person to be gay but i think he is and i want him so bad, i don't know why im attracted to him. He is one of the thuggish type, so people wouldn't think of gay on him but he looks at me often and i wonder does he want ... (281 words)

I want to be with my ex but I'm stuck with my husband!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So, I have been married to my husband for about a month, and so far it has been horrible.We dated our Junior and Senior year of high school and then we broke up. I ended up dating someone else for a year and I was absolutely in love with him. We broke up and I started ... (257 words)

We're lacking in the conversation department.

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't seem to be able to have a long and good conversation with my boyfriend. We have good sex but I feel like there's a weight on me when we're talking. We tend to have long silences and the only thing I can think of is to ask something. If we talk about something for a ... (70 words)

We're planning a threesome...am I wrong to demand we use protection?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age - I'm married to my soul mate and sex is great I want to make things hotter for him I asked him if he would like a 3some and he was shocked but said yes. I'm so comfortable with our relationship is why I would do this. He would only want another female, he doesn't want a male ... (116 words)

How do I recreate that spark we once shared?

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, is it possible to give my some tips on how I am to get back with my gf. We broke up recently due to some misunderstandings. We've been together for 5 years. Now she just treats me as a friend. We still call, we still can go out but not as usual. How am I to do something to ... (75 words)

I can't end things with my ex and I'm not sure if I want to.

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I entered into an entirely sexual relationship with my ex-boyfriend. He has a "fiance" if only in name. I know it was stupid, but i REALLY have become attached to him. I think i may be in love with him again. I know that this has to end soon and that it was probably just sex ... (89 words)

I want him to propose and I can't stop obsessing about it!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't stop thinking about if/when my boyfriend will propose!! We've been together almost a year and knew after only a few months of dating that we were meant for each other. I know he's waiting to become more financially stable as we both don't have jobs and go to school full ... (110 words)

I spent a few minutes in the car, now she's mad at me!

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2 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I called my gf to let her know that I am leaving work and heading to her place. We usually eat out together when I get there. The trip took about an hour due to horrible traffic. Once I got there, I found a parking space that was close to her apartment. I took out my phone to ... (540 words)

He's the right kind of wrong!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm not even sure what I'm really asking here. Basically he’s the son of a my mum’s best friend, we don’t see each other often because he doesn’t live near by, but we grew up together, saw each other 3 or four times a year since we were born, went on family holidays ... (434 words)

Do I really not have adult rights at 18?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I really not have adult rights at eighteen? I went to the ER and they told me they needed my mom's signature. Then my mother told me she made an appointment at the gynecologist because I have irregular periods and told me the doctor will need to check down there. Frankly I ... (150 words)

I've never liked sex!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound shocking but I never liked sex I been well wit my bf for three years now and he is my first and we done it plenty of times but now it just feels lik eh I never orgasm nothing I think there is some thing wrong wit me or him Idk ?hmmm Idk if that's Wierd because. ... (74 words)

We broke and made up, then he's canceled our date all in 2 weeks!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my friend "josh" have known each other since we were little. We are currently in highschool. At the beginning of November i asked him out and he said yea. But a day later he changes his mind and breaks up with me. He avoids me for a week then texts me saying sorry ... (149 words)

I don't want to leave my boyfriend hanging but I'm not ready to leave the nest yet!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im having a dilemma on whether or not i should move out with my boyfriend or not. we have been together for almost four years and we have our ups and downs but we love each other very much. for the past few months he has begged and begged me to move out with him because i still ... (789 words)

Will a rebound help me get over a broken heart or will it just postpone the heartbreak?

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up a few days ago. It has been in the works for some time and I have been getting closer to a friend of mine. He wants to have a relationship with me and I think I want to also. He knows I have just been out of a relationship. I ... (146 words)

My ex-boyfriend keeps bugging me for sex when I have a girlfriend!

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2 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm bisexual and recently got into a relationship with my first ever girlfriend. The problem is that my ex-boyfriend texts me all the time asking for sex and even when I say no, he suggests other things like oral sex or sexual contact. I keep telling him that I won't che... (94 words)