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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's wrong? Should I just wait for my married lover to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure why my male friend acted this way. I was out with him tonight and one of my family members. He used to fancy me, even though he is married, and I'm not sure if he still does, as i hadn't seen him since September. He got back in touch with me last weekend. At first, ... (276 words)

No response, no replies, What's up with our LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't heard from my LDR in almost three days. Yesterday, I assumed he was still asleep but when I texted him, he said he had been dealing with some stuff since the day before. I said ok and later on texted him saying I love you, but got no response back. So today I asked if ... (374 words)

Housebound and developed a crush on my brother-in-law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 14years ago whilst my sister was pregnant with her second child I went for a year to Australia it was great and I had lots of fun but whilst I was there I had a panic attack and from there on it got worst. Almost 15 years on and i live with my parents, don't have a job and have ... (138 words)

Ideas for a gift that will help Mom remember her late father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i know this is nothing to do with a relationship but i need a helping hand! My mum lost her dad 25 years ago. It will be his 25 year aniversary on new years eve and she doesnt really have anything to remind her of him. Me and my siblings are gonna get her a little ... (114 words)

Dates or just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Case 1:I met a guy in my university (in a rehearsal in music society) one week ago. He was quite nice and friendly.I introduced myself and we talked a bit. After we have finished our first rehearsal, all of us (members) had a social in a bar. This guy approached me and he ... (225 words)

Anonymous texts from my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i hav a question n im really confused here i hav a boyfriend im 30 yrs old hes 42 yrs old, we' ve been seeing each other for 7 yrs but six months ago he told me he was leaving out of state for work....so ok he left everything is good till i start getting unknown txt msgs ... (160 words)

He goes at sex really hard and doesn't stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - rite im 14 year 10 and me and my boyfriend r juss the average teenagers but the problem is sex i lost my virginity to him about six months ago at a party wen we were drunk but wen we do have sex theres juss one problem for e.g we were in his house the other day and we went up ... (112 words)

Another WHAT TO DO WITH MY EX Question... I'm so very perplexed and confused..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - the Hyphens help me to use less detail with each point, but its still pretty long. Here goes the story: -Ex and I together for 1 year and 2 months, days shy of 15 months PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. Promised a lot of things to each other during the relationship, said we'd stick ... (1582 words)

Can I trust him the next time I have sex with him, especially if I'm drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and my boyfreind and i are in year ten and yesterday we were at a party and we were drinkin and basically we started kissin and we went up to his room cuz the party was at his house and we had sex and we didnt use protection but we had a big argument after cuz he lied to ... (91 words)

I want my wife to flirt online with others because it turns me on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife are a late 30s attractive christian couple with a pretty good sex life. One of my turn ons is when I see other men flirt with her. I ask her if she felt they were attractive, if she would "do them" in a pefect world, etc. When she admits they are attractive it is such a ... (189 words)

I can't get over being romantically rejected by my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hiya, I am good friends with a work colleague for the last year and a half. A group of about 8 of us hang out a lot and are all very tight. Bermuda can be an odd spot so us ex-pats stay together. A few months ago this friend and I started to spend a lot more time together. W... (210 words)

Is this a normal part of the grieving/healing process?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i may be in love/lust with my dead best friends husband. This is not the first time something like this has happened to me. When i was 18 i was engaged to "Matt" he was killed in a car wreck 3 months before we where to get married. Afterwards his step-brother "Kevin" ... (214 words)

Can any of you ladies expain to me where I'm going wrong with women??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

- Hi there Can any of you ladies expain to me where I'm going wrong with women. I'm 32 and find it hard to meet girls, and when I do, I keep failing. Most of my friends are settling down now so my only choice seems to be online dating. I'm geting quite a lot of views from wo... (234 words)

How do I stay safe from my psycho ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy, Boar is creeping me out, sickening me. We met a few months ago and at first, I overlooked the fact that he was unattractive to try and see if we connected mentally. He was nice but I found his humor disgusting, he was ignorant and made racist jokes. So I told him, its ... (204 words)

Online dating..should I go for it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i had broke up with my girlfriend because of many differences that would only keep pushing us apart. I am very shy and do not meet knew people easily so I made an account on eharmoney.Now that i think about it it may have been a premature and silly thing to do seeing as im ... (191 words)

Should I contact him? Or are we over for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. Our relationship, which sprouted from a friendship lasted almost two years. He was my best friend. When he broke up with me, it was out of the blue. Our relationship was perfectly fine. But I accepted it. My mind was rac... (496 words)

My husband just left out of the blue, and I really don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband left me 5 days ago. I came home to a note on the table stating that he was leaving. He told me he would let his next check go into the bank. He left his debit and atm card on the table with his key. Well we have a 11yr old son together that he is very close to. I ... (386 words)

I'm falling for my gay male cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - First off, please don't judge me.. I'm finding myself falling for my adopted cousin who is also a gay male, who is 20. I'm 19 years old and a straight female. He got adopted into my family when he was around 2. We didn't really know each other when we were little. He's related ... (143 words)

How do you get rid of cum taste?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you get rid of cum taste? I deepthroat my hubby last night and he went, which i was hoping for since i want to try new things, but when he did i gagged a little and swallowed it. Ever since then I cant get rid of the taste in my throat. I drank water, ate some ... (91 words)

Why am I not getting oral anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, my bf has recently stopped giving me oral sex. I am not sure why we have been together 11 months now and when we first started dating he told me it was his favorite thing to do. I asked him what his reason was he said idk I just don't ever feel like it. My suspision is ... (115 words)

Does he still like this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - the other day was my mates birthday and I was about to post on his wall when I saw a post by this girl who he swears he doesn't like but talks about her all the time and flirts with her. But she told him she liked him when all his friends were round so coz we were all round he ... (142 words)

Nice to my face but says mean things behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so there's this guy that i've been friends with for about a year. This year we have certaintly have had our ups and downs. we just started being friends again about 2-3 months ago. The thing thats really upseting me is that he'll be nice to me and then he'll say really, ... (180 words)

Porn, looking through hooker profiles, creating an on-line dating profile, wanting a threesome...I'm seriously questioning his motives!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma and I need your opinion! OK, I'll start by saying that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, and we see each other almost every single day, and he truly seems to love me. He speaks of marriage and he wants to have children with me... (439 words)

My girlfriend is married to her job and we split because of it. Can I win her back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met her in the summer through mutual friends of ours, a married couple that she's been living with for around a year since she split with a long term ex. We hit it off straight away and after some texting we met up for a drink and things moved on from there. We were together ... (1258 words)

My dad is very ill and I want to break up with my boyfriend. Finding this incredibly stressful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

22 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am a relatively high stress person. It's kind of in my nature, it's how I deal with things. If I were to asess myself, I'd say that I'm more stressed out than the average person, but still functional, able to have fun and let loose. I am a ton of fun, and have gone to a lot ... (843 words)

My boyfriend is lying to me about smoking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is lying to me about smoking. The only thing I ever asked him to do for me was to quit smoking, which was back in October. He's admitted to taking a few drags from friends' cigarettes, but I've found a few packs since then. Each time he gives me an excuse- a ... (193 words)

She cuts short her time with me (her friend) to see her boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Short and simply, I am a man and I have a friend who is a woman. She says I am her close friend, but she also has a boyfriend. Now, sometimes we are out together and she says she has to go because she has to meet her boyfriend. Or she cuts short our conversation because ... (138 words)

I need some inspiration to get through this breakup

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ah! I think I just need some support. I believe I have been unlucky about guys since the second grade. lol. But the reason I am asking for help is not that. I have recently been dumped. I think it is for the better but I have a hard time keeping my mind off him despite ... (205 words)

What do I do when my boyfriend flirts with a lot of girls??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,supposedly this guy is supposed to be my boyfriend but he is known around school as the biggest flirt. I am the type of girl who gets serious when I'm in a relashonship. I really like this guy be cause he acts different around me but all the girls are trying to warn me about ... (138 words)

My feelings haven't changed and I don't want to get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, there is this girl who I have been friends with for two years now, we have always been fairly close and we seem to connect well, but a while back I decided I should tell her I like her, but everytime I asked her to meet up with me so we could talk, she made an excuse and ... (117 words)

I feel like my husband hates me!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help i feel like my husband hates me.. He don't talk to me unless he's talking about his work, He don't have sex with me any more cause he does it to porn every morning when he thinks im asleep and when i catch him all he says is he didnt want to bother me or its faster ... (133 words)

I don't understand what his email means?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago and now he sent me an email saying: II want to speak with you, answer any questions we both have about us. I have spent a lot of time thinking about you over the past 48 hours and how this entire situation was handled. I... (170 words)

I want to go to counseling, my wife wants a separation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have a situation that I would like to get some advice on. My wife and I have hit a rough patch in our marriage. We have changed all of our focus to our four children and spend no time to rebuild our marriage. My wife admitted to having an affair with a younger man ... (118 words)

I want to pursue her even tho I have a girlfriend...

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I live together, but I am seriously falling for someone else. I wrote before about this situation early on when I was questioning about meeting "the one" when you are involved with someone else. We have this mutual friend (who by the way is married, but has ... (184 words)

I'm in love with a girl for 3 years and I cant express it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hallo all. there is this girl at my univercity that i make eyecontact with for the last 3 years! i once had seen her at a club but just said hi and some drunken bullshit (about 2 years ago) i really like her and i think she also does (otherwise what about the eyecontact) bu... (157 words)

Disappointed my boyfriend bought me t-shirts instead of a promise ring for Christmas!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Its coming up to xmas and for a month my bf of 4 months has been asking me what I want for xmas. He suggested a budget of £50 and I agreed. I hinted I wanted him to get me a promise ring, he soon seemed to forget within a week and would say ahh don't know what to get you for ... (265 words)

My boyfriend moved in with a man who can't stand me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf has recently moved in with a guy mate of his. Problem is I don't like the guy mate. He ignores me, won't look at me, rarely talks to me and says things to my bf like "pity you have a gf else we could *insert activity here*". I'm a really nice person who has never done ... (107 words)

I'm no one's soul mate and it hurts that I have no personal life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My mother passed away this year from cancer. She had been sick for 3 years and I had taken care of her. In the process, I hadn't given any consideration to my personal life or any of my own needs. Now that she's gone, I realize that I HAVE no personal life and the void of her ... (480 words)

My girlfriend is in love with our best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay.. I am in a bit of a Relationship problem of sorts with love. I know I'm only 17.. and most people would thin k it be impossible to fall in love.. or to have feelings of love.. but I have fallin in love with my girlfriend.. and she has fallin in love with me. We were best ... (286 words)

My boy friend's asking for closure

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago and now he wants to meet to "answer any questions we have about us or any clarification." why? What does this mean??... (32 words)

When your friend does something you think is wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a problem. I have a friend who does things I feel are wrong, but when I discuss it with her she lies about it or says it is none of my business. But it bothers me so much, I have begun to ignore her. I feel guilty about it, but don't know what to do. What my friend... (303 words)

Negative wife but I love her. How can I better cope with her outlook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Wow, where do I start? My wife and I have been married a long time, and its been challenging since the start. We both come from unhappy childhoods, and it's affected us in different ways. In her case, her father was a total prick and treated her badly. In my case, my moth... (480 words)

Help me understand mu boyfriend's mother please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me understand my boyfriend's mum! she tells my boyfriend he is useless etc., and moans at him when he doesn't do a job she wants doing straight away, and complains that my boyfriend and I are on the phone too much (all 7 months of our relationship has been long ... (272 words)

Should I get a new mentor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't like an Pro NFL football player! I have always been a person who is somewhat of a joker. Have won a few stand-up comedy contests. I have met many people in my life, but have always really liked football (grew up with dad and brother...better know your football) I have... (558 words)

Should I be flattered or offended by all the male attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, this question is a little strange...but I appreciate any advice. I've always been awkward with men, boys and even my own father at the age of 13 . I was puffy, had pimples and was nerdy. I'm of eastern European decent... Now that I'm 19 I've been told I'm very attra... (425 words)

Why is my taste in women is so indiscriminate and I'm married as well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do I want to be with almost every girl I meet. I have a wife and she is great. But, from time to time I would like to be with other girls. Whats up with that??... (37 words)

I'm not feeling pleasure from sexual acts and wondering why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I am 15 years old and i cant understand a thing. So i use to estimulate my clitoris and i love it but i cant put anything on my vagina because when i put i feel a little bit of pain but nothing to worry about and i dont feel anything, like i dont feel pleasure and any ... (145 words)

Need your advice on what to do after this conversation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a Jamaican girl who has been seeing a Moroccan for over a year now. I am also divorced and already have two kids, which he says is a problem for him. He has told me because of the kids we can never have anything permanent. well i'm pregnant for him and he's confused. H... (600 words)

My boyfriend's female friend is literally living at my place...with us!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend has this friend that's a female, but heres the chatch they use to go out together but split up cause of some differences. Well at first I was ok with him talking to her and her working with him at his garage, but now she's every where !! She's at my house so much ... (248 words)

In love with my friend so she said we can't speak to each other any more

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm pretty sure many people have been in this situation at some point. I've been in love with my best friend for the past 4 years. I'm an 18 year old guy and she is literally the girl equivalent to me. Our humour, our everything is identical. However, I never told her ... (1048 words)

Why do these guys hit on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off.. I'm not a whore..but I feel like many people "including friends" think I am!! All the guys with girlfriends ask me to get with them but I always say no! And I know I don't lead these guys on I mean I'm nice to them but they are all my childhood friends! It just ... (118 words)

I just can't keep going through life being heart broken. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this problem, For the last year I have been messed up by a load of different guys. It even got to a stage somebody said to me that they wanted a relationship with me and that they loved me completely and then took it back the next day. After that I was in such a bad pl... (374 words)

I have found out that my BF exchanges numbers with females and texts, sexts, calls them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have found out that my BF exchanges numbers with females and texts, sexts, calls them. I have confronted him numerouse times and he claims they mean nothing. I even beleive that he may have cheated to but dont have any solid proof but only when i contact the females some of ... (412 words)

So if he was interested, wouldn't he have asked for my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age - this man i have meet i just not sure if he intrested in me or being friendly . one time he came over an keep looking in my eyes he shake my hand sometimes . but recent he has started hugging me i do not know if this was just a mistake but we hug cheek to cheek he has wink at me ... (232 words)

Could he be talking to girls on this "worldfriends" site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My 34yo boyfriend is on a site called "Worldfriends" almost everyday, and I'm concerned. We met online and his last girlfriend is also from online, and he has dated more girls from the internet in the past. This site says "meet your neighbors in the global village" so it's... (164 words)

My minute man doesn't last long enough to satisfy me and won't do what will!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend have sex with me for only a minute ,and im not satisfied .we came up on ways he can satisfy me but he dont want to what must i do leave him or stay... (36 words)

love her, she loves me, but she likes someone else too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend of two years told me she was in love with me, and I told her I was in love with her too. Things started off fine, we were never dating, but we wanted to. (At the time she had a boyfriend that she had already loved too) Now she tells me she likes another guy too, ... (111 words)

My daughter hates my BF, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question, what do you do when your 11 year old daughter can't stand your boyfriend? I have been seeing this man for about a year and a half and had some issues in the past, but am working on them. He genuinely is a good man and good father to his own kids. Things are... (314 words)

Can you help me with advice on whether to keep trying or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - First of all sorry for this being long. Basically about just over a year ago now this boy added me on facebook, we became really good mates, and exchanged numbers. Then we used to text, go on msn and facebook to each other a lot. Then i was in his home town once and i was i... (732 words)

Coping with girlfriend going away for 8 days?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My girlfriend will be going away on a holiday tomorrow with her family for 8 days. And I am going to miss her so much! I don't know if 8 days is actually a lot but what I know is, its hard for me. Making things worse, I will not be able to send text messages to... (172 words)

I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my friend and I were walking ... (497 words)

Time to move on and forget about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So a friend of mine (lets call her "Amy") and I started talking to each other 8 months ago (April), after being only distant friends for a over 4 years. We were really flirty, and really enjoyed talking to each other and going on walks together. Around 7 months ago (May), I ... (337 words)

Trapped in a sexless marriage but he wont let me go

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been married for past 5 years,i am a very simple, shy and homely girl.in this 5years of marriage we have had sex only 10-15 times. he is putting all blame on me what is is saying is that when we got married i was not his type of girl he wanted some extrovert girl i ... (441 words)

Is it time to let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3yrs now and the 1st 2yrs were great and problem free. By lately things have been really getting out of hand. We fight almost everyday and whenever i try calling our relationship off, he refuses, and begs me not to. We love each other so ... (86 words)

What positions do guys love most in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - WHAT POSSITIONS DO GUYS LOVE MOST IN BED... (8 words)

Why is my boyfriend acting so funny about me adding a friend on my PS3 when he adds new friends all the time on his?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend n i have been together 3 yrs n generally we are a very happpy couple. he has a ps3 n created an account for me to play my games on. anyway yesterday he couldnt sign into his ps3 account so wanted to see if mine was working, which it was. he saw that i ha... (166 words)

My boyfriend's dad hates me, my boyfriend makes me feel horrible and we disagree on how to take care of our 4 month old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and we have an almost 4 month old son together. I'm 20 he's 21. I don't know what's up with me but I feel like i can't cope anymore and I don't know what to do with myself because I feel like I'm not happy with myself. I love my son ... (643 words)

Why isn't his penis erect enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I couldn't make his penis hard enough for penetration. Then he tried to erect it himself, but even thought his penis was erected he couldn't insert it into my vagina in spite of doing a lot of foreplay. What could ... (55 words)

My sister said she felt bad for my future children!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys i don't know what to do. I know this will probably sound stupid but i'm really upset and confused. My sister and i got into an argument while mixing formula for our baby god-brother, who is staying with us for a little bit. She said she felt bad for my feature children ... (168 words)

Should I continue this break? I'm having trusting him after the other girl thing and he can be very controlling.

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, iv kind of gotten myself into a tricky situation. my boyfriend and i are going through an extreme rough patch. we have been going on breaks and everything trying to fix things.oh and we have been together for about 4 years and this has been going on for a few months... (895 words)

What on earth does she want with me???!!

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright I've been going out with this girl for about a year, we're both relatively young. I'm 18 and she's 17. We've had plenty of problems even with this being both of our first serious relationship. We're both virgins and I've tried to talk to her about sex plenty of times. ... (462 words)

He doesn't know I'm gay and neither am I clear about his orientation. Help!

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Right now, I'm typing this with a miserable and lonely heart and I really need help and advice. So basically there's this guy which I like and I can't stop thinking about. I've known this guy for about a year and we're friends. He doesn't know I'm gay and neither am I cle... (206 words)

If I'm someone he would consider dating in the future, then why would he suggest us being FWB now??

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i have a quick question, iv been on and off talking to a guy while going through a difficult time trying to decide whether or not to just let my relationship go or patch things up. this new boy knows this and trys to tell me to let it go for a while and be single. he also ... (181 words)

My Cousin's seduction strategies are working, now I want it

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my cousin for the first time a year and a half ago during the summer. She moved down to my state to attend college in the city. Long story short i realized that she has been trying to make attempts to seduce me. Trying to undress in the same room, getting me drunk, ... (101 words)

Confused about my sexuality and three some

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married to my husband for 5 years and been in a relationship with him for almost 10 years.Our relatonship is great but lately I have been having dreams about a threesome and the thought of it really turns me on.surprizingly i fantasize about a threesome with another ... (221 words)

I traveled 30,000 miles to get back to a boyfriend who broke off with me!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I travelled 30,000 odd miles home 2 days ago to be told as soon as I got off the plane I no longer had a boyfriend - the boyfriend I was so desperate to get home to. The boyfriend I thought about the whole time I was away. The first 2 weeks it was all oh I miss u.. Then bang.. ... (146 words)

I have feelings for my dead best friends husband

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22 December 2010 (F)

If I am the one that got 'dumped', should I tell him that I still miss him and would like to try and start over?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago now. It wasn't a bad break up, and he was so wonderful to me while we dated. I still miss him terribly and find myself unable to move on. When we first started dating I knew I liked him a lot, but was afraid because for a long time ... (814 words)

Is it possible he only liked me for what he thought he was going to get from me?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been knowing this boy for almost 3 years now and he and I have finally made things official. I like him alot and he told me that he's had feelings for me for a while now. I've gotten to the point now that I dont care what he says to me because I'm so sexually attracted ... (113 words)

Boyfriend has a secret dating profile

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I was randomly googling people I know out of intense boredom. I googled my boyfriend and I found his dating profile on some sleazy site. His pictures consisted of inappropriate shots of him that he had sent to me when we were forced to be long distance for a few ... (234 words)

I'm still in love with her, is this because she dumped me or do I just need more time?

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my queston is if is a good idea to send her a marry christmas sms or email? or for new year wishes? or for her birthday, which she have it in the end of january. which it will be a month that we broke up and maybe is better then to show her friendship and getting back fri... (341 words)

Was it right for me to worry about this 15 year old girl my ex is dating?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ohhhhh kayyyyy. So my ex boyfriend said i cant talk to his ex girlfriend and all i told her was the truth. He cheated on me. We live in same town. This girlfriend hes now seeing again live in a different state and shes fifteen. Hes twenty. Was this right for me to worry about ... (56 words)

He makes sex seem like a chore!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 years now. Ever since we became sexually active (3 months in), he has not been able to have an orgasm during intercourse, only during oral. And it's only during oral that he seems to really enjoy himself. We recently moved in together ... (178 words)

I think my ex may be expecting more than I am when he visits AND I have a new interest and am wondering when is having first sex a good idea?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all 3 I have a few questions for you guys to consider.. any feedback is appreciated more than you know. Quick background: -I dated my best friend of 3.5 years for all of 4 months this past July-November. He's in the Marine Corps and is an amazing guy but things w... (478 words)

He has herpes...Did he cheat???

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am asking for help on here because I don't want to tell my friends about this. My fiance was just diagnosed with herpes. I have been with my him for 5 years. We got engaged a year ago. He goes to school 100 miles away and comes home on weekends. He says he has not cheated ... (150 words)

My husband is talking like he is single!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my husband is now in another country doing some bussines...I talked with a friend of him, and he told me: "Your husband sounds very happy there..he doesn't want to come back..he saids over there is a paradise..and he wants me to come there and I could see with my own eyes ... (294 words)

Why don't babyboomers want their adult children to leave home?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This seems to be a common problem. I know I have this problem and from other posts here, I'm not alone. I utterly hate it how the media often portrays us young adults as slackers and child- adults, it makes me mad. I actually want to leave home and I'm 23 and all my parents do ... (103 words)

Iv been cheated on numerous times but I cant seem to move on, Help!!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my now ex boyfriend for just over 3 years. I met him when I was 19 when we met and he was 21. I fell completely in love with him. During the 3 years I tried to be the perfect girlfriend. (I even paid his bills when we broke up) He got me pregnant twice in the 1st ... (850 words)

What did my boyfriend mean when he said he loved me "Because you need to feel like someone loves you." ?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling and he asked me why I love him. I answered "Because I think we are meant to be together." I asked him the same question and he said "Because you need to feel like someone loves you." I asked him what he meant and he wouldn't ... (61 words)

My husband doesn't understand why I can't get over his cheating!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age - my husband told me he had a one night stand with a woman years ago. i found out he had a long term relationship with this woman. my husband can't understand why this still bothers me. he told me to get over it. i try but his actions today remind me of his past behavior. he's ... (110 words)

Should I date him and not tell anyone?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i have 3 classes with one of my closest guy friends..we talk about literaly everything.. even about sex for ex. when he went and got his physical.. he says he got "raped"..it was funny but we literaly do talk about anything and he doesnt have a phone so we cant text but ... (135 words)

Fifty and Fabulous? Throwing in the towel..

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22 December 2010 (F)

age - I really do have bad luck with men. Unlike other women who posted here, I do make good choices and always take care of myself. Dating married men has never been an option. In fact, I am very careful about who I date because I have a son who's 13. And yes, I more or less ... (271 words)

How to tell this guy friend that I like him?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okayy.. so im your normal teenage girl.. i love sports like volleyball and basketball.. im not a cheerleader but im friends with all of them..i have a million friends from like 3 dif. towns.. and im friends with all the guys to.. but i have a certain guy friend that i kinda ... (70 words)

I need my wife to show me that she loves me, I can't do it all alone!

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I have been married to my wife for a little less than a year now and we can't seem to get along, we constantly argue and can't have a decent conversation with having it turn into a huge argument later. We had been a couple for 7years before we decided to get married and ... (327 words)

How should I handle the crush I have on my boss?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Short story: I have a crush on my boss. How should I handle it? Long story: I have been working with a new boss for some time now, about 2 months. We work in retail together and I always have a lot of fun working with him. We joke around and make up inside jokes and laugh,... (267 words)

How do I stop missing the relationship I once had?

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I stop missing the relationship I once had with a girl? And also how do I stop feeling so lonely all the time? I was truly happy with this girl over a year ago, I am over her, but not the relationship and I miss the feeling of love and the feelings I had for her. In the ... (144 words)

Can people tell when you're no longer a virgin?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it true that people can tell when you are not a virgin anymore? if so how? (besides a torn hemen; like a vibe)... (25 words)

How do I make it stop hurting and trust again?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a teenage girl who was used by a smooth talking guitar playing jerk for sex. He said he loved me and somehow got past my thick protective walls because I've been so hurt and broken so many times before by men I trusted. Now I'm hurting again. How do i get over it and how ... (64 words)

My boyfriend doesn't feel the same way about me as I do for him

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What shall I do!? This is going to sound really pathetic and I'm pretty sure what the answer is going to be. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, the thing is he does not like me as much as I like him. I get very jealous of his friend (a girl who i... (177 words)

How do I convince my mother to kick my brother out?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This could be a while. I lived in Sydney and my older brother came to live with me as he was being kicked out. He started going out with a girl I worked with who caused me so much trouble at work I had to quit and as she moved herself into the place I was living with my brother ... (345 words)

I'd like to date him but I'm too young

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, so i was in love with this guy, like really in love. But i was shy and nervous around him. He's quite a bit older than me (4 years to be exact). I'm 15, 16 in half a year. A couple months ago when i was just turning 15 i asked him if he 'liked' me in the sense of more than ... (368 words)

I'm scared of rejection but I want to go out with him!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this guy. We live in the same town which is, I see him almost all the time. We havent spoken to eachother in almost 10 yrs. I want to say to him that I want to have a relationship with him,but, he got out of an engagement w/ someone a yr ago. Im scared o... (99 words)

My friend copies a lot of things that I do.

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! i know there are probably more "dearcupids" about this, so I'm sorry to repeat. My friend, who's been one of my best friends for about 2 years, has recently started copying me. Like for instance on facebook, when I started using D: and :D, she started to use :D and D:. I... (314 words)

I'm getting ready to graduate. Have I lost my best chances for dating?

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm getting ready to graduate college in May which is a pretty cool thing to me. However I do have some worries. I am one semester away from graduating and yet I have never had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl (let alone more than that). And to be honest it kind of ... (154 words)

Men: If your woman is satisfying you, why do you need porn?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok first off, I’m not married, but I keep having this fear of my future husband watching porn. I understand that most men watch porn but why? If your woman is satisfying you why do you need it? Many men say they need variety, but is that fair? Women can’t have variety because ... (150 words)

I'm jealous of my partner's kids

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why am i so jealous of my partners 2 kids. We only have them every other weekend and holidays but I'm having a very hard time with this. I know its not right but I am jealous... (37 words)

Do I go for my millionaire boss or the lazy guy?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am VERY confused! my feelings are all over the place and i dont know what to do! i am 19 years old and a virgin and i have only had one boyfriend during high school but it wasnt serious at all...i dont like to say it but the thing is i am very good looking..so i al... (729 words)

Do we really have the same taste or is he doing it to impress me?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when ever i say something i like he says i like it too for example i said i like to watch funny videos he said me too i said i like to play video games he said i love games i said my favorite food is rice he said i love rice ok so there is this guy in my neighborhoo... (111 words)

She's gorgeous. I don't want to mess this up, if I have any chance at all.

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Sooo, last night at my friend's birthday party I met one of the most beautiful girls in the world. We talked about relationships, music, etc and laughed a lot and we hugged like four or five times and at some points she even held my hand and kissed me on the cheek. I think we b... (182 words)

Is it normal to have sexual feelings for people 10-15 years older than you?

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have two questions. First is that how do male teens masturbate? And second is that is it normal to have sexual feelings for people who are about 10-15 years older than you?... (34 words)

He says I love you at the weirdest times

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so far now ive been dating this guy about 5 months and we kinda had a fight about all his i love yous hes said to me. He was very shy at first and still five months later hes still shy about saying it. he was the one to even bring it up in the first place so many times. like ... (301 words)

I want to see my boyfriend every day but hes always got other plans

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I being too selfish I see my boyfriend almost everyday even if its just for a minute but when he says he is gonna try and come over and the next thing ya know he is with his friends at a fire... But days he will be over later.. What am I supost to think. ... (56 words)

She claims she's never horny, but get super wet

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont understand how my gf is never horny. We have alot of foreplay and she gets dripping wet all over but yet she says she doesn't feel horny. Also it seems that she never initiates sex or anything sexual, i always have to start doing everything till the mood dies out when... (133 words)

I'm gay but desperately need to be straight

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice about my sexuality. I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm gay, but I desperately try to be straight. I don't have a problem with gay people and I'm not homophobic, but I was always raised to believe that men end up with women and women end up with men. I'm ... (386 words)

Is he being unfaithful to me already?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a boy out in town a few weeks ago. He says he likes me and wouldn't ever mess me about. But he gives mixed signals all the time. One day he didn't stop texting me. And didn't stop telling me how much he likes me Then the the next day he didn't text all day. Suddenly he p... (117 words)

I screwed up our friendship by telling friend that I needed to get laid!

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22 December 2010 (M)

age - about 10 days ago i went over to my female friends house to wish her a happy birthday and to give her some gifts. its only been about a year since we first met so this was my first chance to share it with her.i wrote something super friendly in her card, but not sexual ... (177 words)

Madly in love, great sexual tension, but he's with some one. What can I do?

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my friend about three years ago and we've become closer and closer over the years. All my friends used to comment on the sexual tension between the two of us and he always spoils me, buying me things and treating me really nice. About a month ago we kissed and since ... (185 words)

I have feelings for four other guys, plus my ex, still.

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have no boyfriend at the moment but I am getting feelings for like 4 guys. I don't know what it means :/ I had a boyfriend a year and a half ago and I broke up with him. BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER. I didn't get over him for ages. Now he annoys me because it's awkward. But when i s... (92 words)

She said it would be OK, but now she's changed her tune. What can I do?

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22 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 30 we've been dating for 2 months,and before we hooked up I told her I had been laid off from my job.She said she understood and didn't care because we had history together so she knew I would get myself together, I do little things like cook for her ... (84 words)

My first love from 30 years ago contacted me...He's free, I'm not. I still love him. Don't know how to quit him. Help!

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22 December 2010 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for over 20 years. We have a good marriage now, not always easy (I guess that's marriage afterall), but we are making it work. We also have children. Last year, I was contacted by the first man I ever loved. There was some trauma in our re... (409 words)

Why do I always end up with cheating jerks? I want to be loved for who I am

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22 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Nowadays I'm feeling down, and i have relationship problems. I'm a nice girl, have manners, I'm honest. But why am i always the one that ends up with a jerk of a boyfriend! A boyfriend who always tends to break my heart. Like right now. I just got out of a relation... (92 words)