A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't want me to find and hid very quickly. On Boxing Day we were at his parents and I found messages via facebook and he said he wanted to be with her and said 'I promise' - it was a nightmare trying not to crack up in front of his parents. I'm his second wife (he walked out on his first wife, so I should have known). Will he really walk out on a second wife and have people see him for what he really is? If he stays how are we ever to get back to a decent relationship?
View related questions:
affair, facebook, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2010):
He will walk out if you tell him to. As it is, he'll just laugh at you and continue to see her because he'll have you at home in Berkshire doing the wifely duties, and her in Norwich for everything else.
So, now you know that he's a lying scumbag who doesn't care, the question is how much do you value yourself as a woman and as a human. Are you a woman who wants to be loved and cherished? Or are you a woman who is accustomed to taking second best treatment because of a lack of self esteem? Do you think you deserve better than a cheat?
You need to sit down and think about YOU. Your husband proved with one marriage that he was capable of treating someone shabbily, and surprise he's done it again. So why bother waiting around when you know he'll never commit? Why?
I think you can do better. I hope you think that too, and I hope that you'll seem your husband for what he is.
|
