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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He treats me differently. Does he like me more then a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all. Simple question. I have known this man for 3 years and for about 2 and a half of those years we rarely saw each other but chatted amicably when we did. Nowadays we are closer than before, we are not dating each other, but we have found out we have mutual connectio... (373 words)

Blushing dilemma!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I get embarassed whenever my girlfriend compliments me when we are just together or rehearsing in our band. I'm not sure why, i just do. She can just say something like "Very good performance there" and i blush like a fool. Its not an overly big problem, but i just get ... (74 words)

Advice on internet dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

- Hi 32 yr old guy here. Not having much luck on Internet dating so it would be really great if any of you girls could give me an honest feedback on my profile as I’m not getting many replies Here’s how it reads Just a normal guy! Easy going, honest, hard working. I h... (203 words)

I seriously feel as though we're drifting apart and becoming more parents and room mates rather than a family and in love. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello... I'm 21 years old, mother of a 5 month old son, and in a (soon-to-be) two year relationship with a wonderful man. He's a great person and father and I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world. But lately we've been having some problems with the whole "spark" ... (185 words)

Is 21 too young to have a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just wondering... is 21 too young to want a baby? I've been with my bf for 4 years.. we live together and lately ive been wanting to have a baby, thats all i think about all the time... parents wouldnt like it too much i know that... i dont have much of a relation... (103 words)

How can I get him to take control and man up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm small for my age. I'm 17 and about 5ft 1. I've got a boyfriend at the minute but I have also had a few other boyfriends. When I was with past boyfriends because I'm small, they'd pick me up and to be honest I quite liked it. They'd be able to hold me up against a wall whi... (214 words)

What the heck is up with this guy? Does he love me? Does he hate me and like to screw with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What's wrong with me? Ok, been on a roller coaster with this guy for almost 9 years now. Generally, I am an intelligent, independent woman, however, this guy is my kryptonite, he is my biggest weakness. Here's the situation in a nut shell. He was diagnosed bipolar, but I ha... (967 words)

I thought there was hope for us... but now I'm not so sure... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - three years ago I was going out with someone who cared so much about me that he wanted to marry me. I was hanging around with a bad crowd and drinking. I was given a choice stop or lose him. At the time I was in total denial of my problem and he left me. I am now doing well and ... (164 words)

Are hook ups bad for real???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are hook ups bad for real, I need an honest answer???? And if they're not then what do hook ups mean when your 16 sex, kissing, touching???? I like this guy but he lives too far away for us 2 be anything, i dont like long distance. I have never done a "fling" or hook up before ... (74 words)

Can't put closure on my ex until I have some questions answered...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for almost 4 years now and i have been in another relationship since then, a really serious relationship. it was my choice to leave my ex because we were young and there was a lot of problems going on. so some guy came, swept me off my feet and ... (137 words)

If you were in such a good strong relationship would you only have eyes for your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm currently in a really good strong relationship and was just wondering what peoples' opinions were on having crushes outside of your relationship. If you were in such a good strong relationship would you only have eyes for your partner? or is it only natural to have a couple ... (117 words)

I can't seem to make a REAL friend...

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Gooday friends.. I have a qestion that i don't know how to solve... the question is.. since I've grown up to know the meaning of friendship I haven't had one. Sometimes I start pushing myself too close to people telling them who am I am but I got nothing out of it. I am... (166 words)

Should I be worried or is this just how guys talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have seen chats that my boyfriend of 1.5 years has had with his friends. He is a doctor and has to leave for 3 months as part of his schooling. He and his friends are going together. When they were talking they said 'we need to go to the undergrad campus', 'We need to be ... (143 words)

Is this saying true???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i was just wondering if anyone believed in the old saying never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love? I've found myself in a situation that goes right along with this. i love my boyfriend very m... (353 words)

I don't feel anything for him whenever I see him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship with my b/f. We've been together for the past one and a half years now. I told him I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex now so he should please exercise patience which he did understand. Whenever he is not around me i feel like being ... (156 words)

I feel so trapped in this relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im too scared to leave my partner of 2 years. He is very abusive, he keeps threating me that he will make sure i will loose my job and that he will do something to my family. He is english and im from czech republic. My family is very importatnt to me. I live with my brother ... (310 words)

Can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without benefits)???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf broke up with me a month back. Now he is sugessting friends with benefits with me. I said 'NO' since i still have feelings for him and i dont want to get hurt. But i am wondering can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without benefits). I really do lov... (80 words)

8 year relationship over. Cant stop thinking about her!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 8 years told me on Thanksgiving that she is unhappy and wants to take a break. She has been my girlfriend for 8 years and fiancé for almost 3. We own a home together. This is so hard on me seeing her everyday and not knowing what she is doing. She says there ... (202 words)

A rose for my rose...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a Long distance relationsip (1 year and 5 days, 123 miles away) I've seen her 3 times, I gave her a rose when we met the 3rd time, We're going to meet up every 2 weeks from next year, is it over the top to give her a rose EVERY time I see her?... (56 words)

Has anybody else been burned and decided to stay away forever from the opposite sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Lesson learned!!! After being told tonight, i will not get back with you, so just leave me alone. If a woman can throw away 7 years and 2 sons, a nice home, her 3 step daughters just because of some email and text flirting then im at a loose end with life. I will never g... (144 words)

13 and never been kissed...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I need help! I am a 13 year old boy and i've never kissed a girl, i have crushes sure but i don't want to ask them out because if they decide to kiss me or something i dunno what to do or how to kiss.. i know it's sad right plz don't laugh at me. helpp... (58 words)

Me and my friend have fallen in love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am in need of some serious help/advice. I am a 23 year old male and my friend is a 19 year old female and we have fallen truly, deeply in love with each other. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend of 4 years and thay are engaged. Me and my friend have so so ... (87 words)

Does it really matter that he's shorter than me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy i really like and he asked me out today i said that i would think about it and call him tonight, i really want to go out with him but he's shorter than me and i know everyone says that the boy has to be taller than the girl but does it really matter? he's only ... (78 words)

How can I overcome my anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have really bad anxiety, especially with my boyfriend and mum. For example if my boyfriend doesnt text me back all day I am worried he has been involved in some sort of car crash or has been taken ill. I get very worried and call his phone numerous times as well as looking up ... (141 words)

She wants a chill date... how can I take things slowly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl have been friends for the past 5 years we play a couple sports together and have always been close. In our freshman year of high school she came out as a bisexual. Last year I came out as a lesbian. We are currently juniors in high school now and h... (208 words)

Broken-hearted girl!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - heey i am a 14 year old girl who has been split up from her ex boyfriend for about 8 months now i was with him for about 8 months and i just cant get over him he treats me like crap all the time says he loves me then says he dont then has a go at me for having boys as mates ... (145 words)

Is he cheating or do I fail to turn him on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have a four month old.When we first met our sex life was ok.After my baby was born,we have only had sex on two occasions,he doesnt spend time with us,he is always working.On two other occasions,we tried to have sex but he ... (70 words)

Nothing seems to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i have a question. its a bit similar to the others i have posted, but i didnt get a decent response so i'll post a more recent 'update' of sorts. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for about a month now. as it turns out, i didnt have a hymen (whether i acciden... (295 words)

I think my GF and best friend are secretly dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i think my GF and my best friend are scretly dating behind my back, ive been with her a year and my GF and my best friend were going out with each other before, they allways make jokes about them having sex blah blah blah and say im paranoid, yet they carry on with the ... (112 words)

She won't shave or trim!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have had multiple conversations with my wife regarding the shaving of her vag, but she will not so much as keep it trim. I've actually shaved her a few times, but I feel like it's just part of a woman's grooming process to keep it trim if that's what husband wants. I am not ... (130 words)

What can I do to take things to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive known this guy for like 5 years or so. The only thing is that i never meet him in person until like 5 months ago. We meet we talked about ourselves and so on. We recetly had sex and i was okay with it but im starting to develope feelings for him. I told him i like him he ... (145 words)

I'm falling for my ex's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up Sept 2009, and hes been with someone else for over a year. I still love him and want him back, and we talk a lot, but obviously hes with someone else. Over the past several months I've started talking and becoming close to the guy my ex considers his best... (231 words)

I still have strong feelings for him and will be working with him again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do to put my feelings to rest? This is a story of one of those long drawn out confusing crushes where nobody makes a move... Around 2 years ago I met this fairly average nice friendly guy, that through a set of coincidences I ended up working with closely fo... (392 words)

She left me after years of my asking her if she'd ever cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i need help. ive been with my woman for ten yrs and have 2 kids. ive cheated on her numerous times because i thought she cheated in the first few years of our realationship, mainly because we had sex the first nite. she used to leave me and go out to clubs and did things, she ... (159 words)

Men, would you date a girl with a tattoo?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Not a relationship question and i'm quite sure its probably been asked before but was just wondering what guys think of girls with tattoos, not the big sleeves and manish tattoos just dainty ones and ones that have meaning to the individual? Would you date them?... (46 words)

Should I tell her I love her? Even if it's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'll start at the beginning. I have been in love with a women that's ten years older than me for three years. I want to state very cleary right now that I am not a naive obsessed teen either. I first met this women through my church, which I think it torturous because you ... (548 words)

Everything was going so perfect, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey agony aunts. ok so ill get straight to the point. i broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, i was with him for 9 months, he was my first serious boyfriend. he wasnt right for me, i knew it and so did everyone else, he constantly questioned me and suffocated me and i ... (1108 words)

How do I tell ask my girlfriend about my fantasy of her with another guy? Will she hate it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and we are very much in love. We are both 21 and attend different colleges. To make a long story short my fantasy involves her messing around with a guy she might find attractive. She was a virgin when we met so I was the ... (254 words)

My mom is driving me up the wall! I need good advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive met this wonderful guy on the internet not to mention for privacy purposes ...Anyway to make a long story short we:ve been dating for 3 months well... He;s takin me out and its been wonderful... as time went by he came to my home to meet the family I have 2 girls 18 and 10 ... (605 words)

I want a baby so bad, but... is he the right one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old and I want a baby really bad i'm prepared to be a mum but I dont think my current boyfriend is the right one even though he is very cute he makes me feel spacial, he loves me and he wants a baby too but i dontknow if i want him to be the dad of my baby, i think ... (93 words)

Problems with my boyfriend and how I feel about his family, help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, My boyfriend is a very high achiever from a very high achieving family. I am a fairly high acheiver from a very dysfunctional family. There are also cultural and religious barriers that we are trying to overcome in order for our realtionship to progress. I get rea... (488 words)

I never 'finish' during sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all. So i have been having sex with this girl for almost a year now. We dont do it very often and in fact for a while I used to get the im too tired or not in the mood routine all the time. She never seemed to get horny, the few time she said she did, just so happened... (507 words)

What can I do about my PE?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right here's my story. I've suffered with premature ejaculation for a good 2 years now. I literally last seconds in bed. I had a girlfriend for over 2 years and we had sex atleast 3 times a week but I never seemed to get better. When we broke up I wanted to make myself... (315 words)

Why does the break up still hurt so much, after all this time?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is simple, Why Does it hurt so much when my ex says she is sorry for what she has done to me? I thought I would feel better but it just hurts and brings back all these emotions. Like to keep things quick and short, we broke up over a year and a half ago, it was a ... (284 words)

Is he a player or does he mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past I have always gone for guys I knew it would not work with, or guys I knew who were really just in it for sex. It worked for me at the time cause I was not ready for a realtionship. Now I am wanting to get into a Relationship, and have started hanging out with this ... (163 words)

Should I tell my cousin I love her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32 years old, and i belive i am in love with my cousin, she is 28 years old (she is my frist cousin) for the last year all i do is think about her. what should i do tell her or not.... (44 words)

Views on student crushes on their teachers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like a teacher...So I have liked many teachers before but once again i am in love with this teacher but the thing is i dont atcually have him as a teacher...he is an computing teacher and the first time i saw him i really liked him...one time when i had to go up to the ... (212 words)

How do I tell my teen son about my new girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm recently divorced from a long, unhappy marriage, and with a new partner whom I admittedly was involved with while my marriage was failing. I have a young teen son who has been pretty OK with the divorce, but he knows nothing about my partner. When I have my weekends with ... (281 words)

I know he loves me, but he is not that attractive and it is becoming a problem....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years of age and my boyfriend is 23. I got to know him through a male friend of his who is also my friend. We've been together for the past one and half year. My problem is that, he is not all that handsome to me but a very caring,kind,From a very religious home. I know ... (141 words)

Is it possible to love each other after such a bad breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl online while playing an online game. We kind of hit it off, and were surprised that we used to come from the same place, but due to our character (being highly unagreeable, we like standing by our own views and being a little uncompromising), we kind of broke ... (184 words)

Ex sent me a holiday card with kisses and then let me know he was happily dating someone. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age - I dated a guy for two and a half years, lived with him for a while. The end was mutual, even though I still loved and missed him, he had met someone behind my back and wanted to be with her. That was 9 months ago and we have had no contact. I admit that the break up hit me ... (302 words)

We cuddled and kissed after sex. Now he's calling me clingy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I desperattley need help !!!! Basicly Iv really liked this boy and we only just decided to get together properly a few days ago.... He stayed over the night and I had amazing sex ... I wasnt nurvous I was happy I acully smiled when I woke up that morning whick is very ra... (382 words)

Gave an ultimatum and he counter offered?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my husband that I do not like that he text other girls and flirts with them thru texting. He claims that he understands and that the flirting is wrong and will no longer do that. However he is not going to stop texting them and he deletes everything from them so I only ... (105 words)

Confused about my love for him and his love for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well here's my story. I went out with this one guy who i really liked but wasn't really that into, he told me he loved me and everything. And about two months or so he broke up with me. As soon as he was gone my whole life crumbled before my eyes. I had no idea how much... (393 words)

His ex girlfriend still texts him, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I`ve just been in a relationship 3 months ago and now I`m with someone else that had the same ending..3months ago.My relationship ended very cruel I`ve been suffered from him but now the problem had been a bit solved.The real problem that its making me not comftable is that his ... (168 words)

Was he happy to see me there?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here goes. I saw this guy at the fire house. I was playing cards with someone. He saw me and walked back around the corner. He called his friends over to him and i heard him say OMG, she is here!But he had a big smile on his face. was he happy to see me there or what? Is he ... (65 words)

Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age - Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) exchange and six months since I ... (117 words)

I sent him pictures of me in my underwear and now he is not talking to me! Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, So i am in 8th grade. About 3 months ago i was talking to a freshman (9th grade) that i really liked. He had dated some of the hottest girls in school so i felt like i was dreaming, no i couldnt really be talking to him. He was sweet and always asked for pictures. He ... (173 words)

Should I ask for a second chance or leave things as they are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i was in a long distance relationship for near two months and i decided to finish it with him. it is 5 weeks on and i feel i made the wrong decision. I have been unhappy and constantly thinking about this guy.I regret my decision to break up.. should i ask for a second... (66 words)

How do I let him down gently? I don't want to be his mistress!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Since I have been single from and on and off again replationship, I met a guy an older man that happens to be married. I should have known from the start that I shouldnt get involved with him from when I met him and my girlfrends gave me a little background on him, but since he ... (181 words)

Can't get over her bigger ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't seem to get past the fact that my girlfriend had the best sex with the guy before me, and it was largely because he was more well endowed than me. She used to say all kinds of things, like "there is such a thing as too big" and how uncomfortable it usually was and that ... (179 words)

I have left her twice, and only been back together for a short time but now I find myself emotionally cheating! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - First things first, I'm 24. Now, about 5 years ago I was with this girl for about 6 months, she turned crazy and left me and all of her friends no longer talk to her and they are STILL TO THIS DAY friends with me. The day that girl and I broke up, I had a pretty big party... (1617 words)

How can I change my taste in men so I stop getting hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in one bad relationship after another, i can't seem to break the cycle! i don't know if there is something wrong with me that i'm attracted to these same type of men but they are all alike. how can i turn my tastes to a different sort so i can stop getting hurt?... (56 words)

Thoughts on having sex on the first date?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

- is it ok to have sex on the first date/night you meet someone?? recently i haven't had a lot of sex, its been almost 6 months, and although i thoroughly enjoy it, i feel the need to get out there and have a few one night stands.. ive been chatting to guys i know from facebo... (117 words)

How can I find a decent man that will treat me right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

- i seem to be attracted to the wrong type of guy and i don't know what to do.. I love the guy who is always up for a laugh, who can handle himself and who basically knows how to have a good time. ALthough everytime i get into a relationship with these men, they all go wrong.. ... (165 words)

How safe is sex with a condom but no birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How safe is protected sex with a condom and no birth control. I dont want to catch anything and I do not want to get pregnant. Is a condom safe? I'm not into the pill thing. ... (36 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seventeen years of age, was molested by my cousin at the age of three. scientifically, am i still a virgin? no penetration was made, just fondling of my vagina. ... (31 words)

Should I date him even though he's a few years younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

- i've recently begun going out with my younger cousin he is 19 and i'm 23.. anyways we always go out and have such a good time, me with my friends and him with him altogether. and i started chatting to his mate, i used to know him from years ago when i was in primary school b... (308 words)

My girlfriend blames me for her insecurity issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Dearcupid. My girlfriend gets really self conscious sometimes and it seems to be an all-consuming thing. She loses touch of reality and becomes obsessed with how she looks. Despite her being only 5'1, and 43kg's she thinks she is fat and "heavy and sluggish". Wh... (228 words)

I don't want to be with him but he wont accept the breakup! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to break up with my boyfriend. I told him on phone because he is too much agreessive. After hearing on phone first he shown his agression till 40 mins after that i disconnected the call. Then after some time he started begging to give him one more chance. But i denied ... (183 words)

Hair on my thighs - how much is too much?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've noticed that I have thickish, black hairs on the backside of my thigh, and I was wondering if a women would mind during sex? What's a women's perspective on body hair in general? My butt has hair, but it doesn't seem like the jungles of South America, so I'm not too ... (57 words)

She is not over her ex but I have fallen for her, should I tell her how I feel?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am love with my friend whom I know like from a year. She recently broke up recently with her boyfriend and it was difficult for her to get over it coz she never wanted to break up. But this guy just told her that he doesn't have feelings for her anymore. But she started ... (217 words)

How can I be less possessive?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 5 months is awesome: loving, caring, smart, open minded, and we match sexually like 2 pieces of lego blocks. We are in love with each other pretty madly. We both value honesty and openness, and since we live in separate cities, it makes sense to give each other a bit... (303 words)

Why did he lie about a kiss?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid,my story is there was this guy i had a crush on for a long while,and my friend was seeing his brother ,so we all went to the movies as friends but finally the guy i liked kissed me and i kissed him back and that was it,then the next day i found out he told a few ... (108 words)

Once trust has gone, will it ever come back?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - once a womans trust is gone is that it? game over? how can trust be regained. how can you show a woman you mean what you say even though she doesnt believe a word you say. how can you show a woman youve changed if she wont even see you.... (50 words)

Does my cousin like me? I need to know for sure!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello to all. i have posted a question here. it was to know whether my cousin is interested in me. i have got 2 answers which tell me 50 % he likes you and 50 % he likes you but like a cousin. so i have still some doubt which i want your advice in order to come to a conclu... (568 words)

Why does she say such hurtful things when drunk?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - why does my girlfriend get drunk and starts telling me i don't do anything for her and adds my sex sucks, why does hurt me this way? ... (29 words)

He promised to be a better man but I still have doubts about him.

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do i stay with him or not? He cheated on me a month ago,i was angry and could not believe that he would cheat on me.When he was not working i use to take care of him, he used my car to go see the other lady.when i ask him why did he cheat, his answer was, i was not suppose ... (183 words)

Is there a double meaning to this conversation? Should I be worried?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, is my new girlfriend a masochist, or is it just sexy talk? The other day we wer talking on social networking and she said that she likes to "play", so i said that could mean a lot of things, so she said”i like to play with fire” so i said, when you play with fire do you ... (125 words)

She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ago, we were best friends and ... (606 words)

I'm the one that has to fit around all of his plans! How do I approach this with him?

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14 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 21, im 20. I'm currently at university but travel back every weekend, not purely to see him, but thats one of the main factors. we used to text pretty much all day everyday for the past year that we've been going out, this made up for the lack of time i saw him ... (341 words)

I want to leave but I really love our little girl, what should I do?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age - I am a American living in Thailand. I don't speak Thai and my lady partner does not speak english. Been together 7 yrs. We took in a 4 yr. old little girl that 10 yr. old now. her parents threw her away. I can't stand her continuously yelling and beating the little girl. Sh... (186 words)

Does he love that I'm sexy, or does he actually love me?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has told me he loves me a couple of times. but last time he told me he said i love sexy you so so much your my everything does that mean he loves that im sexy or that he loves me?... (43 words)

Whats wrong with me and the guys I attract?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So this kinda goes with my last ?. But here goes. The relationship that i am in is a bad 1. We fight all the tme and its always about something dumb. He yelled at me over lettuce we had to buy in the middle of the street.how humiliating for me. And in front of our 3 year old. ... (283 words)

Miles apart, could we really meet someday?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 years old and I'm currently in an online relationship with a guy.He's from Canada,while I'm from Malaysia.I know,it really is far right?He's 17.Next year,he'll be going to college. We've been together for about 6 months now.We actually met in an online game,games are w... (328 words)

Can a guy really love you if he upsets you all the time?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a guy really love you if he upsets you all the time? I am trying to work out what to do. I have been seeing this guy for nearly 3 years now. We basically have a long distance relatonship as he works abroad and only spends about 25% of his time at home in the UK. We a... (298 words)

Should I divorce him? I just can't get back what I once felt for my husband!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age - I am a 54 year old female. I have been married for the 2nd time for 13 years now. My husband through the course of our marriage has always smoked pot and drank. It's work, home from work, sit outside and read and drink every night. I hoped he would slow down or stop. It ... (305 words)

"Trust Trauma" Overcome or Suppress?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Trust issues. Overcoming or suppressing? I ask myself this everyday when dealing with friends, co-workers, family, and unfortunately...my girlfriend. I find myself feeling madly in love one moment and undoubtedly upset at the thought of mistrust, her procreating with other men, ... (903 words)

He said he was in love with me, but ignored me for 2 months and now I find out he has a girlfriend!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) uhm well i really like this guy and he really likes me too (well thats what he said) and after he told me he really likes me, he ignored me for about 2 months and i tried texting and calling him everyday... after all that i found out from his mate that he has a girlfri... (117 words)

How can I be sure he is not a bad guy and he really is into me?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - here is a guy with whom im friends with since 3 years...less than friends but more than an acquaintance...he had proposed to me once but i didn't feel the right chemistry with him to you know think about saying yes...but now that im single and he is single too...we talk quite ... (182 words)

He likes me but doesn't want a relationship

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I came out of a long time relationship of 3 years I broke up with him because it was getting to verbal abuse and its not worth it this was about 5 months ago, so I meet this new guy we both have a common friend so he requested me over facebook n there we started talking ... (144 words)

He broke up with me because he wanted to go out with other women

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Just when I think love can't any worse it does! I'm so livid right now I feel like all of my blood vessels are about to pop! Maybe I am in the wrong but I don't think so. My boyfriend turned up at my job and of all places three weeks ago to tell me he had decided to break up ... (287 words)

I've had a crush on him for over a year and he is leaving for college soon! What should I do?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Ive been crushing for this boy for over a year now and sit next to each other in all the classes were in togther we are really friendly with each other . Hes leaving for college soon and i need to at least hang with him just to see him outside school i dont want lose ... (98 words)

If she's attractive, will you lose your control when drunk?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys,if you always find a female friend of yours attractive and you're sexually attracted to her,will you lose your control when you get drunk or tipsy? Will you act on your sexual feelings for her?Do you try to avoid drinking in front of her? Please share your experience.... (448 words)

Is this guy interested?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at this party and guy only dances with me for most of the night. Granted I was drinking a little, he probably was too but not wasted. He was always nice and smiling, always found me protected me. We also kissed quite a few times, just while dancing. This situation seems ... (231 words)

Mixed up signals with a close guy friend.....

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently become good friends with a guy i've met at uni. because we have the same friends we often hang out as a group. he's told me before that he thinks dating friends is a bad idea. but recently, he asked me out. i'm not sure if it was meant to be a date or just a catch ... (173 words)

He came on so strong and then kept breaking things off?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy who came on really, really strong at first. Talking about falling in love with me, etc. I was a bit hesitant at first. Then, I sort of started to believe him, and started to go along with what he said. He mentioned waking up with me, living with me, etc., etc., ... (537 words)

Although I'm attracted to men I can't stand the thought of them touching me!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello readers, I am a 17 year old girl, finishing up her grade 12 year. My question is a bit peculiar but..oh well. Although i am sexually attracted to men, i cannot stand the thought of them touching me. I have been kissed before, it felt weird and i just didn't want the ... (83 words)

He makes me feel like its a privilege for me to marry him, should I marry him?

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14 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy, who is four years younger than me for two years. We had agreed on marriage, and eventually set on to start the traditional part of negotiating bride price. This was after really trying to “convince” him. We are set to marry after one and half years ... (209 words)

Third time a charm or a bust?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a dilemma regarding an ex. We were together first 9 years ago, but broke up as he was still in the closet. I'm 10 years older as well. 3 years later he called to tell me that he wanted to try again. I went back and he broke up with me this time; for what, I'm still not ... (205 words)

I'm scared of the action he will take if he finds out I cheated on him

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14 December 2010 (F)

age - The man I am with now helped me through my divorce and through a friends suicide. We have been together for about 10 years. I am not sure why but I cheated on him. I want to leave the first gentleman for the second one. but I am afraid of what type of actions the first one will ... (103 words)

Will a good man be willing to have a serious relationship with a single mom of 5?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - At the age of 15 I had a very abusive boyfriend. When he got me pregnant I broke up with him because I feared he would hurt my baby. I got back together with an ex-boyfriend and we wound up getting married and he has raised my daughter as his own. We had 3 additional children. ... (820 words)

My abusive boyfriend is controlling my life

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an abusive boyfriend who doesnt want to break up. i dont love him anymore because i have fallen inlove with someone else. He has bit me, swore at me n even posted me half naked on facebook, the truth is i cant stand him anymore but the problem is i dont know how but i ... (178 words)

He wants me to go to a music festival where the tickets are over $100!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Simple question: My boyfriend wants to go to a music festival this summer and I really don't want to go. Do I cave in and say yes to going or keep saying no? Some of his friends are going and he thinks it'll be good. We've been to many festivals before but it's becaus... (157 words)

I want to hold his hand, do I have to make the first move?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend. we have been dating since last friday and we are going on a date saturday. we are going to the movies. do i have to make the first move? i wanna hold his hand so how do i do that? another question is a month ago he said on a scale of 1-10 it was a 7. no it... (92 words)

He wants me to squirt but I've never even had an orgasm

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 20 yrs old and my boyfriend and i like to try diffrent stuff and he wonts me squrit for him and i will really like to know how to but here is the problem i never had an oregasm before is ti me or him and i never told that ihavent had one nether so what can i do to better ... (66 words)

Do I ask both of her parents for permission to marry her/

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, I will soon be asking my long-time girlfriend to marry me. Since the two of us come from rather traditional families, I want to ask for permission before I do so. Traditionally, one generally asks the father of the bride to be. However, I have noticed that there ... (73 words)

Torn between best friend and her brother

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friends brother. There are some problems -She hates him -She told me for ages, If i ever dated him she wouldn't be able to be my friend -I saw him for a few months behind her back (horrible I know) and she pretty much said If i even talk to him a... (253 words)

She talks about all her male friends but I'm not allowed to talk about any women!

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a fiance that everytime I bring something up all she talks about is her male "friends" and how great they are and then if I once talk about a co-worker she gets all upset and says I am not allowed to talk to any women. I am beginning to think that she is cheating on me ... (97 words)

Was I being a good friend, or just immature?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - This question relates to one I asked previously (using the same fake names representing real people to make things easier). My question involved whether I should let this guy Frankie disrespect me to be the bigger man, and not fight him. However, my best friend JP has had ... (240 words)

Am I a loser if I live at home?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to live with your parents, I am just graduating from grad school, in two weeks but unfortunately I still live with my parents, and they bitch about coming home late and all that bullshit. I do not have a car yet and have a part time job, but am looking now that i ... (196 words)

He likes me and I want to impress him

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so im interested in some guy and he likes me so i want to impress him.so hes good at drawing,hes black(im mixed so dont call me racist im giving info)ive known him since kindergarten,im popular like every one knows me and hes just with the crowd,im not sure if he gets in ... (73 words)

Why is my ex harrassing me?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i have this ex, "Alexa". we broke up 2 years ago. now 4 girlfriends later, as freshmans in highschool she is suddenly harrassing me and my current girlfriend, "Dana". nothing good came out of my relationship with Alexa. by the end of our relationship, she had put me thru so ... (372 words)

Should I try to kiss him?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two months now, we hug and tell each other we love each other but he wont kiss me. Also, I'll talk to him and he says "i got to go", so i ask if i'll talk to him later that day, and he always says yes... but if i try to get a hold ... (85 words)

She told me to read a book

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend are in a LDR, Anyways im going to see her for the first time since May in a week (yes we live very far apart)........Things have been a bit rocky this past month but as of lately we've really been back on the same page and been clicking..were doing ... (138 words)

I like him, we make plans, but ...

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked a guy friend for a while, and I'm positive he likes me back. There are times when it's really obvious, especially when we're talking just by ourselves. We've texted before (that's when it's the most obvious) and he's hinted at going to see a movie together. Just this ... (179 words)

How long should I wait before I make a move?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how long should i wait to have sex with my new girlfriend?... i am still a virgin and she has been with at least 2 other guys.. i know one of them she has been with for a long while, and the other i have no clue.. ... (47 words)

6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that period as well and I heard ... (526 words)

How do I stop thinking of him?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I know this guys, he's like four years older than me. He's been in my life forever. He's can be immature and then he's so determined on some things. He gets so focused on school and work, and I just can't stop thinking about him. I know it's not healthy to do this but he's ... (151 words)

I love him and hate that I have to string him along so I won't lose him because of my garbage

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody.I've got myself in a crazy love situation that's making me feel guilty and miserable all at the same time. So here's what happening. I met this man last december when I went to visit my parents for a few weeks. I was trying to pump gas into my car but couldn't ... (280 words)

I have never made out and I'm 13. How!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 years old, and i have never made out with anyone before.! And i dont really know how. I have kissed and touched before but never made out.. I rreally want to, But when i get the chance i get scared, and i dont know how which is a turn off to guys , :( Help me peop... (62 words)

My b/f has tried to get me to orgasm, but I can't!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK don't make fun i feel really embarrassed by asking this question. Recently my bf of 4yrs has tried to get me to orgasm, and i can't. I went to some websites to see what i should do about it. They say to relax and let your body enjoy the feel and not let your mind think ... (110 words)

Torn between my depressed b/f and a LD guy

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and recently began going out with a boy I liked (who is of the same age). At first he was amazing and sweet and good in bed. He adored me and before the first month was ended I had met his parents and he said he loved me. But then I introduced him to my friends and they ... (338 words)

What to do????

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy for about a year and im to scared to talk to him last year we were friends.This year he wont talk to me because he found out i like him but in the hall he always lookin at me and walkin close to me but never say anything to me i still really like him ... (59 words)

My jealousy is driving me insane

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for a guy friend that i'm housemates with, we used to be really close, he would text me all the time, buy me presents, take me out and buy me drinks. But over the summer he got a girlfriend and told everyone but me. I found out through someone else and was ... (176 words)

Guys, what are your tactics to find out of a girl likes you?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - guys, what are your tactics to find out of a girl likes you; do you try and make her jealous? how (ignore her, flirt with other girls obviously, ...) ?? do you play hot and cold? do you just outright ask her? I'm in a situation where one day a guy was obviously flirting a... (83 words)

Is it OK for me to tell him 'no contact' with the girl he cheated on me with?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf cheated on me with the same girl, several times. He claims that he no longer has sexual relations with her, but they do talk in a friend basis. He thinks I should be ok with him hanging out with her, but I'm not okay with it at all! Should it be ok if I give him an ... (131 words)

Why can't I just believe my husband when he says that he's not concerned with my looks?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age - Please note: Anything that you read that my husband said was in answer to questions that I asked and I told him to be honest. After a long, and sometimes loud, discussion with my husband last weekend, I am still having trouble believing something he said. He told me that whi... (753 words)

Friends or not? That's the question.

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think she doesn't know what she wants. She admits we didn't have a bad relationship, but I smothered her, and didn't give her her space to breathe she needed. She also admits I'm a great person and was amazing. I've since met her and she says things that don't indicate she ... (354 words)

Will a woman always love her special man?

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14 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - slight follow up to my current main serious question posted on the 13th dec. will a woman always love that 1 special person no matter what? they might have afew bfs or loads, but is there always that special 1 that she will always have feelings for? ... (52 words)

I know I can make a change!

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Ive been crushing for this boy for over a year now and sit next to each other in all the classes were in togther we are really friendly with each other . Hes leaving for collage soon and i need to at least hang with him just to see him outside school i dont want lose him... (101 words)

Is she a real friend? Or is she using me to get closer to him?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So at the beginning of this year my best friend Kayla got a boyfriend. Due to her boyfriends busy schedule with sports and all, usually when they're hanging out she'd invite me too (because we never really have time to hang). Her boyfriend doesn't like being the only guy so he ... (360 words)

Are YOU happy?

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14 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just wondering. And if you are happy, what is making you happy? If you aren't happy, why aren't you happy? Stories/details are welcomed.... (31 words)