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writes:I have been friends with this girl for a few months, and we have started seeing each other, but haven't had sex yet, although we have fooled around a bit. She is getting over a relationship with a guy who she has known for about 4 years, and was mostly sexual the last 2. They weren't really dating, but she talks about him pretty often, and when we were first friends, we would talk pretty openly about our partners. I learned during this time that he was very well endowed. About 8 or 9 inches she says, but she never measured, and insists he was too big for her. She said doggy style hurt and she would have to slow him down because it felt like a watermelon up there. But toward her other female friends, she hints otherwise. In fact, one of her other friends said in my presence something like "so is he still filling you good". Hurt my feelings, even tho her GF is a twat, and my GF was very insulted she'd say that...especially in front of me. But I know those words must have come from my GF at some point or why would her friend say it?My GF is very sexual, and I'm afraid I might be too small for her. I'm about 6" on a good day, and about 5.5" girth...maybe more depending on how aroused I am. I've never been insecure about my size, and I'd like to believe what she says about him being true. But I know they say women lie to protect their partner. I know I'm not small...or am I? Do you think going from a big'un to me will be a dissapointment, even tho our friendship is terrific and I think we will be great as lovers?I know I'm being an insecure wimp, but I can't help it. I guess I just need some reassurance i am a good size. Sorry...I can see this has been asked before here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): The best lover I ever had was about 5 inches. What made him the best lover? It wasn't about size. It was about technique. He did his homework and studied female anatomy so he could hit that G spot. In the words of Eric Clapton, "It's in the way that you use it."
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 December 2010):
 You are average sized to slightly above average. Most women you'll find around here say that's what they prefer. Too large and it really does hurt. Bottoming out is not a good thing. It is painful for women when you hit their cervix.
You will be great for her. No need to be insecure.
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reader, Itsjustflirting +, writes (30 December 2010):
 Size doesn't matter unless you are super small or she is super loose. Averge size is plenty good enough for most women AS LONG AS YOU KNOW HOW TO USE IT. My partner has told me that she was with a bigger guy. My answer was yes, but could he make you scream like I can. To which she answered no. I'm not huge, but I have read books, practiced, learned tricks, and know exacty what to do to make her happy. She said the "bigger" guy couldn't keep it in and didn't know how to use it anyways.
Make her scream and it wont matter anymore.
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