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writes:Im 39 yrs married with two kids-sometimes i feel very lonely in my marriage -my huby very boring -iv tried to emphasise on how i want to be loved-very stubborn not romantic at all-am really bored-is it rite if i can a secrete lover? To overcome this loneliness Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Don't do it! You will end up getting very hurt and it will so not be worth it. You are wanting to be loved not just have sex. So either you'll meet someone that just wants sex because after all your married so what else can they expect and that will break your heart because you
WILL fall in love with them whether they are a good person or not. Trust me, I thought I could just have fun too but it's not fun to fall in love with someone that you'll never end up with because you won't end your marriage. If you were willing to end your marriage you would do it and not have an affair. Either make your marriage work or get out and find someone that is worth building a life with. The people that you meet that are willing to have an affair are not the people that you want to spend the rest of your life with anyway. Go to a counselor. Figure out what you want for YOUR life. Find happiness not a broken heart.
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reader, Tbosse +, writes (31 December 2010):
 No.thats cheating
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 Nope. That's called cheating or more properly adultery. It's definitely not right. Work on your marriage or file a divorce. Do things in the proper order. Do you want your kids to think of you as the selfish woman who cheated on their dad?
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