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writes:Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, half naked in his upstairs landing. She didnt really say much, just left quickly. but hasnt said a word to either of us since. It was unbeliveabley embarrassing! I went home and my boyfriend said she wasnt negative with him. But it was deffinately awkward and i saw her today but that also was extremely awkward! I dont know what i should do! Should i avoid her, is she more embarrassed than us? Do i bring it up, pretend it didnt happen? How can i ease the awkwardness?! Anything will be a help!! Thanks guys! Oh by the way. Im 18 and hes 23 so were legal and everything!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhiya guys! thankyou for answering, made me realise she was maybe just more embarrassed :) me and matt just acted like nothing happened and shes been fine with us, matt mensioned something today, infront of her and i sort of shushed him, she just laughed and walked away, was fine again after. I think it would be different if it was my mum! Lol xx
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reader, Fabulosa  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 She doesn't sound like she wants to talk about so unless you do I wouldn't push it. But im sure she knows her 23 year son is no vergin. But wow how embarrassing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): My boyfriend's mam heard us having sex and she made a big deal about telling him. I however after discovering this...well I couldn't care less because we were both legal and being safe so just let it pass...it will soon be forgotten :) xx
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reader, Girl_In_Love_x +, writes (2 January 2011):
 I have had almost the same experience. My boyfriend's mum walked in on us having sex too! She quickly left the room and never spoke of it afterwards. That was about 3 years ago and I am still with my boyfriend. She was clearly more embarrassed than us and I continued to treat her nicely and soon the embarrassment wears off for the both of you, I promise! It just takes a little time, it was clearly a shock and unexpected by you and her, so don't worry! Just be more careful in future ;)
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reader, partyprincess2011  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 just treat her like normal, there's nothing bad about what you've done, its legal and everything. She's probably just realised her 'little' boy isnt so little anymore and is infact all grown up.
What i would suggest is a new venue in future!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): You don't need to say anything. You are 18 and you think sex is unusual and naughty. His mom has been having sex for at least 23 years and knows it is normal for people your age. Now she gets to brag to all her friends about the cute girl that can't keep her hands off her son.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): I'd just ignore it, but you may want to do the following.
Tell her, when you are at the kitchen table eating preferably,
"I'm sorry we had sex on your landing upstairs, but it seemed like the logical next place after we had sex on the couch, the floor, his bed, the bathroom, your bedroom, and of course on the table here."
Do this with a bright smile on your face!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Just go on as if nothing happened. If that is how she wants to handle it, which is how it seems, fine. What is there to say anyway? Best to let it go. Embarrassing ok but it will pass.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (30 December 2010):
 I have a feeling that she is more embarrassed than you were. Find a new place to hook up with the BF and treat mum as if nothing happen. I am sure she will be releived with this solution.
Good luck!
Jeff
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reader, sara'93 +, writes (30 December 2010):
she is going to bring it up at some point so you should bring it up first, you and your bf should (of course in a quiet place) you might think it's awkward but think whats your bf is going through lol. After seteling things it will pass and it should be fine! Hope i helped. X
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 You just forget about it and move on, I am quite certain she knew something like this would happen anyway, with or without her walking in on it. Sex is natural and this whole incidence will pass in time. Don't worry, just carry on as you would normally.
I hope that helps.
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reader, ChillyWilly69  +, writes (30 December 2010):
Just ignore the embarrasment and keep the relationship. More important, avoid unwanted pregnancy.
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reader, punkgirl14 +, writes (30 December 2010):
 thats funny but you shouldnt avoid the situation.. get her alone and talk to her about it.. tell her ur upset and you wish she wasnt angry with you!:) hope this helps
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