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writes:Zarah and Samantha are twins but not identical. I know Zarah through work. Zarah then introduced me to her twin sis Sam. Zarah keep trying to set me up with Sam. But I want Zarah as she's better looking, friendlier etc. Zarah's been with her bf Mark since July. Mark is a miner who works away fours weeks on and one off. On facebook she loves him to bits, in person she barely mentions him when he's not there. Mark has more money to shower her with gifts (when he's home) but I'm nearly qualified as a lawyer. I think that either matches or trumpts a miner as I'm a law graduate. Mark claims he's working so hard to save up for a family but Zarah tells me she way too young for such a committment. Should I make a move when Mark's away or remain friends and see how she and Mark go? There is also the option of dating Sam. But dating one sister while wanting the other?Thanks for any feedback.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 You shouldn't date someone you're uninterested in just to get closer to the person you are interested in. Especially when they are twin sisters, identical or otherwise.
All your talk of career comparison is irrelivant to her. The practical stuff like that comes in later, emotions are what matter initially.
How long do you want to wait? You can wait to see if they break it off, but what if they last for years? It may be best to put it out there and see. Don't expect too much though. Just because you don't see her as infatuated with him doesn't mean she isn't. The absence of evidence isn't the evidence of absence. Isn't that something they teach in law school? ;-)
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