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writes:good morning from a sunny south africa. happy festive season to everyone. ok firstly i dont know if i have a real question or if its rather a fear. wait let me begin and see where this ends. ok im 17 years old and wrote my matric exam this year currently still waiting for the results - which is aggony altough i know i will pass and the marks will be good.its been a tough year for me and my little sister, our parents passed away earlier this year in a car accident and since then weve been staying with granny and grandpa. its all good and we getting use to it and the support from family and friends are awsum. weve couldnt ask for better people in our lives.so now school is over for me and ive applied and been accepted to study Psychology which i always wanted to do and i cant wait! its just that im scared its a whole new world out there and the 2 people that always talked to me and with me about it is no longer here, i can talk to my friends and family about varsity and so on but its just not the same.i must start a new life a new beginning and altough i know what i want i also know i dont know what to expect and how to begin this whole new adventure. its a real scary feeling and i dont always know what to do with it.i know im talking to strangers, people that dont even know me but i also know that sometimes (most of the times) strangers are far better listeners than those close to us.so finally the question i have is how do i go out into the whole wide world beginning the new adventure of life, my life, without being to scared and messing things up? and how do i convince my little sis that im not going anywhere that i wont leave her alone even tough i will be at varsity? Reply to this Question
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 What you're feeling is completely natural. It's a huge step to go out in the world and stand on your own two feet. There's no way of knowing which things you'll mess up and what you'll get right but you'll be the same as every other human on this planet, just trying to do our best! If you never make mistakes then you never learn right? It will become easier. The more you do for yourself the more confidence you'll gain and you'll soon have the self belief that you can go out there and make your life the way you want it. I wish you lots of luck :)
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