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writes:Ok so I'm 18 and recently met a REALLY hot guy, looks about 24 or 25, who works in a phone store across from where i work in the mall. Most days that I work, I get put at the front of the store to greet and promote. We make alot of eye contact and smile at eachother. The other day after I came out of work, I decided to go up and look at some blackberries because I figured the easiest way to speak to him would be pretending to be interested in buying a phone...sad I know..and he came over and started talking to me! Immediately noticing my accent (i'm from england) he started asking where I was from, and what I'm doing here etc and obviously gave me advice on blackberry plans aswell!! I could tell he was interested in the way he was talking and looking at me..and THEN he gave me his card and made sure he pointed out his cell number was on it! I'm not sure whether he was giving me his card for advice on phones or so that i should get in touch with him for other reasons. Anyway, I am dying to meet up with him, and i know that sometimes guys like a girl who takes initiative and asks them out on a date...I just don't know how to ask him?! I don't want to text his cell because I find that really strange and creepy..and I'd rather ask him face to face anyway.
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reader, ThatsMyCookie +, writes (31 December 2010):
 I know the feeling!
Why don't you try texting him with a thankyou message, and giving him a compliment in it? It sounds to me like he's into you - he went out of his way to give you his card and you both made a lot of eye contact which is sure to have ignited some sparks in him. If texting him goes well, even though you think it feels weird to ask him in a text, you could try saying "we should meet up sometime" or something vague, which is dropping a not-so-subtle hint and the confidence of you will definitely appeal to him. If all goes well with dropping hints it may actually be him who asks you out, putting you in a much comfier position!
Good luck - though I'm sure you won't need it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Hi. Sorry, i dont like to say this, but please be careful. I am in the same situation.I like this guy who works in a shop near where i live, and we smiled at each other a lot and spoke to each other when i went in the shop,and whenever i didnt go in, he talked about me to one of my relatives, and he ended up giving his number to my relative to pass on to me. I have been in contact with him, but he only wants a friends with benefits situation with me, not a relationship. I'm quite upset really, as i would like to start dating him, so at the moment i'm not sure what will happen with him. I'm not sure what you want from this guy, but i hope you get want you want !. I'm not saying that this is how it will turn out with the guy you like, but you never know with guys sometimes. I think you should send a friendly message to him just saying hello and ask how he is, and see where it goes from there. That is, if you want to text him, or if you are brave enough, give him a call !.I dont think it's creepy that you have his cell if he gave it to you and pointed it out to you. Or, if you like, you could go into the shop and ask him if he'd like to have coffee with you sometime. Good luck, and please let us know how it goes !.Just out of curiosity, where do you live, if you dont mind me asking ?. It sounds like America, with you saying " mall " and " cell ".
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