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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there peopleI am a bit of a shy guy and wasn't sure about how to approach a girl whom I really liked. I saw her at the library and managed to speak to her once and got her name. She used to glance at me often with direct eye contact although she never said anything. The one time I spoke to her, she gushed shyly and gave me the biggest smile I will never forget.However, I couldn't really see her after that and had to look on a social network to find her. It took me a long time to find her but I did find her and I told her that I had searched for a long time.I also told her that I had tried to get her information from the library without success. I didn't really tell her that I like her but I did imply it indirectly.She responds to me once in a while but has never really taken it to the next step. I mean, I don't even have the phone number of this girl.Would a girl add a guy who has told her that he spent hours and hours looking for her. I was pretty excited that she accepted me as I though most girls would just reject psycho like behavior when people search for so long....I stopped writing to her thinking that some girls have the habit of getting in touch if you ignore them. But, that hasn't worked either. I suppose I have no chance but maybe there is something I can do to rekindle that something that might have made her add me. What do you think?
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reader, kayleigh-louise  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Well, try getting in contact with her again, just remember to relax and there is nothing to lose. Have a quick general converstation with her, n then say something like 'i have to go now, can i text you later?'. the trick is to relax, and jus take your time, she might be waiting for you to make the first move, or she might just be as shy as your are. Good luck xx
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