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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made me sad again he did this when... (148 words)

I lost my virginity to him, but he chats with girls online in inappropriate ways

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - what am i supposed to do when the person i love and lost my virgnity to, chats to girls online, including asking some of them if they want to see him cum. like. seriously. do i break up with him? i know it sounds pathetic to ask if i should but i dunno what i feel... (56 words)

Having trouble trusting my husband with his ex and with a female friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age - Found several emails between my husband and his ex, shortly after him telling me he felt the need to apologize to her for the past mistakes he made. I thought I made it clear this idea was NOT the solution, and do NOT go there. The emails started friendly, then turned to "fond ... (466 words)

You persuaded me to chose you, now you miss your ex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's my dilemma. I just got out of a 4yr long relationship. Right after the breakup, I started talking to another guy who recently got out of a 6 year relationship. I really liked him but I kept talking to my ex boyfriend. The new guy, would advice me to not go back to my bad ... (433 words)

I have a problem with my OWN sexual history!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, this is probably going to said really silly but hey! When I was abit younger I was quite promiscuous, and now I can say I'm ashamed of it, but now I am settled down and in a relationship and would never go back to my wild days... But for some reason I have this hang up ... (88 words)

He failed to mention he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, here goes. I met someone at a local bar. We got chatting, got on really well. He asked me what i was doing later, and if i'd like to come into town with him as he was meeting friends. I agreed. (we have friends in common) We bumped inot his friends, danced, drank...... (256 words)

Should I even bother trying to work this out?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm going to try and explain this as best i can. For a while now, roughly a year, i've been in a pretty confusing situation. A male friend and i had a casual "relationship", i hate the term "friends with benefits" but i guess you could say that's what it was. That lasted on a... (506 words)

Every song reminds me of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I had been with my boyfriend for 15 months but we split up around 3 months ago. I thought i would be able to get over him as he cheated on me, but i cant. I have tried to forget about him, but it just isnt working, everything i do reminds me of him, every song i hear. I hate ... (100 words)

Am I going to be considered a bad guy in her eyes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl that lives in my neighborhood but last week i was smoking a cigarette and she saw me, we haven't ever spoke but i will approach her one day and talk to her. But now she probably thinks im a bad guy since we both are in high school and i think i made a ... (104 words)

My self righteous, rude sister makes my girlfriend feel uncomfortable in my house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have three sisters by which one of them is a loudmouth and can be a bitch a times. My girlfriend and my sister are total opposites. My gf wont tell someone off if she is offened while my sister would. She makes my gf feel uncomfortable in my own home just by the things she ... (172 words)

What happens when you fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okk, so i've been with this guy for twoish months now, and my feelings have grown insanely, what happens to you when you fall in love? and is it too soon to be falling in love? Thankss. ... (37 words)

Unhealthy obsession with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i LOVE my guy and cant wait to see him or talk to him or anything like that everyday. and i get lonely and i mean really lonely without him... am i obsessed? and how can i change that?... (40 words)

I feel like food is the competition with my obese boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 45 year old female with a wonderful 58 year old boyfriend who is considered obese. He is not lazy, but he does not make attempts to use our exercise equipment, take walks, or join me in any activities. I am much smaller then him, exercise regularly, and try to ... (305 words)

After dating 2 years my boyfriend forgot how to spell my name?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. Well the other day he forgot how to spell my name. Its not even a long complicated name. It actually a common name. Does this mean that he's lost interest in me or that I'm not of importance to him? I need some help ... (73 words)

It bothers me that my guy keeps adding women to his facebook. Am I just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anybody help me on how to deal with what I think I am having is insecurities? I was married for 14 years to a guy who preferred drink to me and it was a domestic abuse case,the second guy who I got engaged to put me down a lot too so that ended. Now am with another guy who ... (106 words)

While drunk I acted disrespectful to my boyfriends parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - lastnite i was told i had acted very disrepectfull to my bfs family cople that i did not know about it because i was to drunk to know what i had done...the couple are very nice sweet loving ppl i would never would do anything to disrespct that but i was drunk and now that i was ... (76 words)

Why did she end our FWB relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why did she end our FWB relationship? We only started it 3 months ago, and recently just began to have sex in our last month, we had sex 3 times, and then she just said that we should just remain friends.. She had been going through a rough patch with her ex, whom she's been on ... (333 words)

Obsessed by my girlfriend's sexual past........and I like it! Am I weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. Our sex life started well, but then dwindled to once a month at most. I have always liked the thought of her being with someone while I watched, and we used that to turn ourselves on for a while. She eventually said she was ... (165 words)

Sister, sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, the thing is I've met this guy (a year younger than me) who happened to know my sister as well. We talked a lot at the beginning of the year and really got to know each other. (Nothing ever happened in between but, you could tell there was this chemistry in between). ... (367 words)

Is she interested or playing hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl in one of my classes a couple weeks ago and just before the semester ended i asked her out and got her number. so we planned a date for lunch then a movie but unfortunately things came up on my end and we werent able to go. so then she suggested rescheduling for ... (180 words)

Is it love or convenience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend(D) 2 years and we have had sum pretty bad situations happen throughout. he is 28 and I am 42. I look really young for my age but my body has its basic wears and tears from having kids n life in general. In the beginning he and I got along o.k we ... (511 words)

The cheating goes on, should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okay i been dating this boy now for amost a year we had our ups and our downs but we got through them a couple weeks ago i found out that he cheated on me with my brother girlfreind but we got over that i forgave him than just the other day his baby mommy text my phone and said ... (139 words)

What should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, So the other Week I went round my friends house, and I met this girl. At the time, I really liked her, and apparently she liked me. When I got home, I went on my PC and went on FaceBook, and there was a Friend Request on there. So I added her and talked to her, and I know ... (143 words)

In love with two... how can I possibly choose between them!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's the deal. I've had a boyfriend for the past 6 months now. He's amazing and sweet and I know he really cares about me. His last girlfriend died in a car accident two years ago and I'm the first person he's completely opened up to. I was perfectly happy with him... ... (459 words)

Tired of being single but not having any luck attracting someone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I realise a lot of this will probably sound completely ridiculous, but it's taken a lot for me to post my numerous issues somewhere to get an outside opinion, so please bear with me :') Basically, I'm sixteen, and I've been single for around a year and a half. I know t... (518 words)

We brokeup but had sex and she wants to keep having just sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my gal broke up, my decision due to differences in life styles and goals. We still remained friends tho. So we went to a party last night and i got drunk and she got drunk and we ended up back at my room and had sex. Now this morning when we woke up we were both ... (179 words)

How hard do you find it to say no?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question. How hard do you find it to say NO. This is just a general question. I have always been a yes man. And find it very very hard to say No. But just lately i have tried it and now people seem to think i am just being awkward. I just cannot win can i??... (68 words)

Making More Friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just seeking some general advice. I am a 21 year-old female and I am looking for a good way to make some new friends, preferably girls. All my life I've been a person who was very shy and socially awkward. I moved around constantly, and was thus taken away from whatever friends ... (424 words)

Fiancee messed up bad, should I give her the chance to fix herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Currently I am in a very rough patch in our relationship. We were engaged for like 2 years and in July she got an abortion. we both it was for the best. I was in college and she could barley find work and it wouldnt be a good time. She was the wild girl in highschool. Her ... (502 words)

Is it true men get more out of casual sex than women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is casual sex empty and meaningless or is that just something prudes say? Is it true that men get more out of casual sex than women do? Like, are men more able to enjoy something purely physical than a woman can? I've had plenty of sex in my life, but it has only been in the ... (79 words)

B/f says he can't do LDR anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about three months, and it's a LDR. We did great up until last night. He said he can't do this anymore. The distance is killing him. Which it's killing me too, but i get by cause i know eventually i'll get to see him. I ... (89 words)

Approaching a girl with only three class days left in the semester. Possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have 3 class days left in my college semester. There is a girl who sits in front of me in one of my classes. I didn't actually notice how attractive she was until half way through the course, when she changed her hair. Anywhosles, I haven't approached her yet because she ... (261 words)

Is this a problem for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I can retract my foreskin only when my penis is flaccid (not erect). When it's erect i can only retract it like at the half of my glans. Will this be a problem?... (33 words)

What is on his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear. Cupid Hi you all. I am here to ask you this. I dated this guy for about a month before getting together with him. We were getting along very well. Met up couple of times a week and always had a good fun. But after we got together, he kinda didn't contact me aft... (196 words)

My mom died over a year ago, but I'm still moody and shut off, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I need to learn to chill out. I cant understant why im moody and morngy sometimes. Im scared of ruinin things with my current boyfriend. He's the best thing thats happened to me in a long time. Ive been through a lot.. i lost my mum in 2009 n my nan this year. ive had ... (234 words)

He makes up crappy excuses when I ask to meet up, is it time to dump him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - He annoys me so much now, it's like he's playing hard to get with me and I'm sick of such childish games when we're into 3 months now. I'm the one who sends the texts and messages, who organizes the dates. He takes more than a day to reply and he has never sent me a message ... (247 words)

We've been seeing each other for 7 months, but she doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i started seeing a girl from work 7 mths ago. 1st 3 mths was great then the her mother fell ill with breast cancer. She has a daughter than has been unwell as well so shes had loads on her plate. Ive been there for her to lisen and help her. The last 5 mths we have only seen ... (267 words)

How effective is the pull out method?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How effective is the pull out method? We have sex without contreception and we have been using this method for over a year now. And I still have not got pregnant. But how much of a chance could there be that I could get pregnant?... (45 words)

Dating for five months, but he still won't call me his girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for five months, and the relationship is progressing slowly but nicely. He's four yrs older. 20-24. Him and I see each other around twice a week, sleep together, et cetera. He's very honest, sweet and respectfull. We have been exclusive for about two ... (283 words)

I may be infertile! What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I may be infertile. My periods have never had a pattern. Sometimes they are on time, Others they don't come atall. 4 months I went without a period at one stage. And I definately was not pregnant. Others it comes 2 often like once a fortnight. Either way they are never ... (136 words)

My boyfriend was Prince Charming, but now he is cold and heartless.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was like prince charming. Showed love and care towards me. Now he is cold and won't tell me any of his feeings. He has changed into a stubborn heartless person. But I know he still loves me. How do I get him to be loving towards me again? how do I get him to share ... (109 words)

Married professor wants to have sex with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a problem that i am unsure about. I am 21 and have a fiance and a 11month old. I am in college and 1 of my proffesors wants to have sex with me. He has made it clear and hes 32 married with children as well. He wants to meet me after school but doensnt say why but its ... (89 words)

I can't orgasm. Never have. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never had an orgasm. Is this normal? I have tried everything. Tried pleasing my self in many different ways, Ive tried different positions with my boyfriend. He even suggested role play and nothing works. Foreplay never works either. It's really embarassing. I feel like ... (127 words)

I am unsure about his 2 children, but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I love him to death and don't know what I would do without him. He has 2 kids aged 6 and 10 from a previous relationship who live with him full time. I bought my own house last year and would describe myself as quite ... (128 words)

We got back together. Why is he still not speaking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have gotten back together. We were together for a year and half and broke up for a week. We agreed to make things another go. We set a date to see eachother and talk things through properly. He hasn't text me or spoken to me and im worried that he wont want to see ... (263 words)

Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old male and I have been dating a 24 year old girl for about a month and a half. I am trying to figure out if I am the right kind of guy that this girl needs in her life or if I am setting myself up for heartbreak. I have very strong feelings for her but some... (350 words)

I want to watch my wife have sex with another man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age - I am another husband that would love to watch my wife having sex with another man. We have talked about this for the past year and I want to take it to the next step. She loves to talk about doing this while we are having sex and says she wants to do it, and we do make ... (89 words)

I'm attracted to my sister-in-law!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi I am 26 year old female and I am attracted to my sister in-law she is my sis in-law by my stepbrother we have a very close friendship and I never told her, but one day I had a dream about us messing around and I told her casually about it. Anyway ever since then she has ... (86 words)

I love a man who is 37 years older than me. How do I tell my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well i been dating this guy for 1 yr, i love him to death. he makes me feel great he put a smile every time i see him. there one problem he older than me 37yrs. i met him when i was turning 20. he loves me and i love him. my parents don't know i am dating him, and we have ... (137 words)

I want to ask a girl out, but we're about to part ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I want to ask a girl out but I do not really know how to do it. She was in one of my classes but the most contact we had was when we had group discussions. She knows my name and I know her's, but that's about it. I didn't really think of asking her out during that time. But ... (128 words)

I've been divorced 3 times and now am gunshy about getting married again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend that wants to get married. I thought I did too. But now that he is ready to buy a ring and wanted some input, I am getting thoughts that I am just not ready. I have been married before with it ending in divorce. What should I do. If I try to stall how can I ... (102 words)

I want to date a girl out of my culture and race but don't know how to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having a strange problem with girls. I have been brought up in asian background but i was always fascinated by white girls. To the extent that i don't like any asian girls and try to avoid them. I always dream of having sex with a white girl that is ultimately what i think ... (88 words)

Dating and having sex with my best friend...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been friends with this guy for about 4 months now. We're really close and tell each other everything. But now I realized I like him a lot more than just a friend. So I was about to tell him my feelings until out of nowhere he tells me he likes our other friend. and she ... (235 words)

How to cope with the space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4.5 years. He lived with me for a while and recently I just couldn't take the lies and shadyness so I told him to take his stuff and leave. I told him I couldn't take it anymore. The next day we spoke, I told him how I felt and he ... (329 words)

How badly did I screw up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - you know how everyone says "do something quick! you don't want to be the 'what if person'"... well, i'm that person and it sucks worse than anything in the world. well about 3 years ago i moved to a suburban town from nyc, so you can guess if was a big change. well about 1 ... (575 words)

I just want him to love me as much as I love him, but right now it seems impossible...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I hope there is someone out there who can help me out. Basically my friendship with my best guy friend is detraining. About 3 years ago he started university. We would talk every day, via email, skype etc. When he started university he hated it, he would call me all the ... (553 words)

He cheated and denied it... I'm stuck and want to get a divorce!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im 36 with three kids under 10. ive been married for 11 years. my husband about a year and a half ago signed up on ashley madison .com. i found his profile three days after he signed up. at that time i also found out that he was talking to his exgirlfriend. yes this is a ... (436 words)

Why would he want me to smoke when I clearly don't want to???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. so he smokes pot and something else called buddha bud a lot. he says he doesnt do it that much but ive noticed that its a lot. he knows i dont like it. so last night we were texting and here is our conversation: him: do you wanna smoke to... (333 words)

Do I go on this date and see how it goes... or should I end it now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i really need some help and fast! I'm going on my first one to one date with this guy tomorrow but i've been on and off whether i should see him since he asked me. We went out as part of a group a few days ago and we really hit it off and were together most of the ... (262 words)

How can I get over my shyness/insecurities concerning women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a male, in my 40s, but I have relatively little sexual experience for my age. I've never been married, and I've only had sex with 4 different women. The longest I've been sexually active with a woman is about 2 years. Although I am a successful professional and many women ... (247 words)

Long term relationship problem (communication and sex)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I really need some help on this one. I've been in a relationship with this girl close to 3 years now. We've had less than 5 fights/conflicts during this time. The problem is that I start feeling like I'm living with a flat mate if we don't have sex at least once a month.... (254 words)

If he loves me then why doesn't he show me more affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so ive been with my bf for ten months and he purposed too me few weeks ago i love him dearly so i said yes thing is he is not fully secure with me when he should be he told me he has fear to go to pubs with me cos men look at me and thinks i look back i can assure you i ... (174 words)

Ex girlfriend has been so cruel to me, should I give her another chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriends has... 1. Broke up with me more than 40 times in one year 2. Talk to her ex-boyfriend almost daily while in a relationship with me 3. Been physical agressive 4. shouted at me, at home and in the street 5. Put men in the house to talk to them at night wh... (243 words)

I still want to be friends with him, but I don't want him walking all over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my crush used to really treat me nicely and such. Once, we had lunch together and he used to tease and flirt with me all the time. He's still friendly to me sometimes, but now he can't even say 'hi, how're you?' normally whatsoever. Sometimes, he can be a little mean ... (108 words)

Stronger smell??? What's causing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had intercourse on a Sunday about a week after her period. About four days after having intercourse she said she was ovulating different and it felt weird to her. It wasnt really, she was wet but it was more gooey. And her smell was stronger. What does this ... (53 words)

Husband doesn't give me the sexual attention that I need

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband doesn't give me the type of sexual attention that I would like. I have a pretty high sex drive. In past relationships, I would have sex quite often (at least once a day). When I started dating my husband, I felt that I held myself back sexually. I woul... (762 words)

I am in love sincerely with a married woman and I can't live my life without her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love sincerely with a married woman and I can't live my life without her. Even after 7 years married and when she found me and found the true love for her from me.. she even cant live without me.. please do help me and advise me what to do.. she even doesnt have the ... (103 words)

How do I stop these feelings for my best friend? I already have a boyfriend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, you gotta help me PLEASE. i have a boyfiend whom i absoultely adore and im madly in love with him, about a year ago my best friend whom i was in love with moved away, hes moved baack and ive started having feelings for him again, i havent done anything with him or ... (90 words)

Could taking anti-depressants cause me to have erection problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm a 22 year old guy and the past week I have started having problems with my erections, basically I want sex and my penis grows in size asif it's hard but it's totally flacid, I can bend it and stuff. I also managed to ejaculate with my penis like this. I don't know if ... (142 words)

Why won't my ex allow me to move on? Why is he still so possesive?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All, Please can you throw some light on my situation. Thanks in advance. I borke up with my rather controlling BF a few months back, then it turned into a FWB situation which I was not happy with, so I stopped that a couple of months back. However, he still continues ... (282 words)

I'm losing interest even though I love him

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am a 23 year old female and i have been with my current partner for 3 years we have broken up two or three times over silly things general couple arguments etc but also i have lost intrest in sex the last time we got back together the sex was better not as good as it has ... (200 words)

Should I still maintain being friends? How do I get over this feeling?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at school. He was really nice to me and talked to me for hours every day. We got closer and closer. We would spent hours together. I always had this feeling he was a bit girly, but he was my first guy friend. People would always ask if I am his gf since we are so ... (196 words)

How do you keep a relationship burning?

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating girls,bt i can't seem to last a relationship for long.I just want you to help me by telling me what can i do to keep the relationship burning.I need help,i want a girlfriend so badly bt i want tips of what to do to make a girl happy and feel me.... (54 words)

Is it bad that a guy has many female friends?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy I met who was in the marine, we only got to hang out for a while before he had to leave to Afghanistan. The thing is I like him and he told me he like me as well and he wanted to keep in touch with writing letters and facebook until he gets back. Once I became ... (133 words)

I have to choose either the private school or the top state school. I have no idea which one to choose. Help!

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a student in the UK and I have been studying at my school for 4 years already and I will finish my GCSE in this year. My problem is I don't know where to go for sixth form. I can't go back to current school because it is not suitable for me for sixth form but I got ... (356 words)

I left my husband, miss my kids and I'm really messed up!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My marriage has been slowly disolving over a period of years. (work / no time for me) I told my husband in Jan that I no longer loved him. He refused to move out of the bedroom, so I did...he pretended that things were ok and would still say I love you during the day and ... (259 words)

We had a falling out, now she's pregnant with her ex's child, do I talk to her?

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im a 20 year old dude who is in a bit of a situation with a good friend of mine.ive been best friend status with this girl since the 2nd grade and i really do love her. but we stopped talkin recently because of an arguement that occurred about our relationship. she wanted ... (208 words)

I know I don't appreciate my wife enough and now she wants freedom

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married to my wife for 16 years and we have 3 beautiful children 16, 9 and 1. I came home from work the other day and she told me we need to talk and she has met someone else that she feels close to and would like to take it further. She says she isn't having an ... (233 words)

I don't have the courage to talk to her

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a class mate and i love her very much..........i just can't face her and do not have the courage to talk to her..............but as usual she is just a friend..........so plz help me how should i get ger number and propose her................ (44 words)

My 57 yo boyfriend in involved with a 26 yo who is now pregnant!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been involved with a older man for the pass, 9.5 years. I Thought the world of this man. I have never met anyone so devious and down nasty as him. I caught him cheating several times with different woman, they were always his friends. Now he is involved with a 26 year old ... (174 words)

Is he using his injury as an excuse to leave me?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been going out with this guy for more than a year he has a bad circulation in his leg as was injured by a motorbike accident years ago everything was fine although we had some problems as he seemed to be very distant and i always had to ask him if he really loves me .all ... (144 words)

We've tried to have sex and we kiss a lot but my step brother pretends it doesn't happen!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok.... here it goes... my mom divorce my dad and is now engaged. my moms future husband has 2 kids plus the 3 they have together. 1 is a boy who is 14 and the girl is 13 my age. well i have known my stepbrother for about 9-10 years and we r pretty close. we tell each other ... (143 words)

I want to impress people with my looks

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone nowadays am very tensed about myself. i thoroughly think i lack confidence. also many people uderestimates me even my mom sometime. she often says that oh god your mind is just like a little kid and i hate that!!! sometimes she says it in front of people. am so ... (189 words)

I can't stop thinking about a man who is not my boyfriend!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm living with my boyfriend of one year and two other guys in a flat share. We just moved into the area about half a year ago due to his job. I didn't fount a job myself until two months ago and was really depressed about that before.. Now I really love my job. This isn't ... (306 words)

She says she has to live with her ex and sleep with him or he will take their child away

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well am deeply love with a girl and its mutual ,who has a two year old child.she'll living with the father of the child as she says he is black milling her which her sister confirmed to me!she says he will take the child if ever she leaves him and she doesn't want to take the ... (178 words)

What does it feel like when a guy cums inside a woman?

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5 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend wants to know if it feels if I would come in her. I know the risk and everything but she is just curious. So how does it feel for her? ... (34 words)

He wants to be with me but still keep his distance

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for about 3 months. I see him almost every day and spend the night almost every night....he cooks meals for me, takes care of me when I'm sick, tells me I'm beautiful...basically acts like the perfect boyfriend. But, he refuses to acknowledge that we're ... (128 words)

I've fallen in love with a female co worker but I have a boyfriend

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and am struggling with something, and I have nobody to talk to about this.. I will try to keep this short and concise... I am in a commited relationship with a wonderful guy. He is so sweet. There are no issues with us at all. Ive been spending time wi... (344 words)

My friends say "he was always going to leave"

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so short story long... My ex of 5 years left me for his mistress, but when I ask for counseling from my friends all the guys say the same thing....they all say (along the lines of) he was always going to leave. But up until the day I caught him he was telling me he loved me ... (112 words)

Am I too young for this guy? Am I missing out on something?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Three years ago, my father brought a man over to the house who he introduced to us as his colleague from work. He is 20 years younger than my dad making him now 35 and 15 years older than me. In present time, I'm actually about to turn 21 the end of this month/year, so the guy ... (574 words)

Should I try to go after this 20 years older than me guy?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am sooo confused. I am a divorced female,25. i have never had a boyfriend, and the guy i had an arranged marriage with so far been the only guy in my life. i am totally over my past. now the problem is i like this older guy whose 45. good thing is he is single. i dnt know ... (162 words)

What Are Some Of The Reasons Why A Guy Would Stop Talking To A Woman Without Explanation?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking to this guy for about a week and some days. We hung out twice but we would text each other everyday and he would always say nice things to me. One day he wanted to hang with me. For the 1st time I was going to go to his house. I called to tell him to go ahead and ... (278 words)

My boyfriend said he would never date her because she smokes...

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have asked questions about my bf's female friends before, but I'm still confused. Most people believe my bf has had these female friends longer than dating me. Not so in this instance, my bf does have some that are longer and we never talk about those. This friend came into ... (279 words)

Is he just doing this to be nice?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I need some advice. I've been friends with this guy for about six months or so. We've spent a great deal of time together and became very close. Most recently, we started to develop feelings for each other, and finally came out with it. However, I had to tell him ... (184 words)

We have a son together, so it's hard to get over her.

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i love my ex and i want to spend the rest of my life with her. I lied to her in the past and she has lied to me so we had trust issues we broke up for a while and jst got bck together and i was so happy when i got her bck. But she left me again and told me she can never be with ... (162 words)

Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job? My bf and i have decided to try out oral sex...and i'm new at this so i am a bit nervous....... (33 words)

I want to forget about him and move on, but I can't!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's only a few months before everyone goes away to college, and I feel like if I don't do something now that this guy will be out of my life forever. We were friends, but my stupid social anxiety and awkwardness is getting in the way of me talking to him, or anyone else for ... (93 words)

Question regarding cum...

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - How can i tell when i cum?... (7 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to be a high school dropout!

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5 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - my x boyfriend is thinking of dropping out of highschool because he says that there is no point of graduating when he doesnt have a greeen card and he wont be able to get a good job or go to college and then be able to get the job... i care about him and i dont want him to ... (67 words)

Why does my boyfriend spy on me?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for just over three years. During this time, he has broken the relationship off about 4 times. Every time this happens there is no warning. Things are going along fine. We are spending all of our nights together almost like we are ... (294 words)

The infamous no contact rule

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im trying to figurethis out about the No Contact rule..does it only apply to those who love eachother and have bee in a long committed relationship I.e 3 years strong or off and on.. or can it still apply for a short relationship for a month and half..and with little to n... (106 words)

We've been dating almost 4 weeks and he's thinking of proposing???

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5 December 2010 (F) age 26-29 - My boyfriend i have been dating for almost four weeks, he is saying im the love of his life and he is thinking about proposing to me in a couple days. I dont know what to say or do because i know he is "friends" with one of my friends who is a female. He has been talking to her ... (74 words)

Does pre cum have sperm in it?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so no criticism please. I have a couple of questions here. First, I'm on my period so I had a tampon in, but me and my boyfriend sort of had anal, but it was mostly just him rubbing his penis on my butt, but I could feel that there was precum. I'm afraid maybe it somehow ... (139 words)

Does anyone know how to shake this feeling?

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf cheated on me with a bloke a while back we had been together for 3 years and had taken up a lease together in a house, she then broke up with me and continued to see this guy for about 2 months Anyway she has supposivly left this other bloke now but I dont know if she... (338 words)

I'm beyond lonely.

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hit the half way mark of my 20s and am still single. Not bad right? Everyone falls into this category periodically. Except for the fact that I've been in this same boat all my life. I've never had a girlfriend or even been kissed for that matter. I don't know what to do ... (332 words)

Could it be true love or something we need to let go?

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5 December 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I met this guy when I was 14 he was 16 we dated for a year and broke up, but remained really good friends. 10 years later I still love him and he feel the same. The only problem is he is seperated from his wife, and I have a boyfriend. I have never stopped loving him since ... (77 words)

Should he have discussed his plans with me first?

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5 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been together for 3 years.(He's a year older, so I skipped my senior year of HS, graduated a year early, just so we could go away to college together.) As far as our future goes, we've always had a reasonably set, yet flexible, plan. H... (264 words)

I can't do anything without my mother questioning me!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - First, I apologize for even asking this question because it's really weird. But here goes.... I'm in grad school where everyone is either already in a serious relationship or married. So the chances of meeting someone is slim to none. As a last resort, I decided to give ... (391 words)

Got a boyfriend but like someone else...

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, as of right now i have a boyfriend and we tried dating before but i always had started making the converstaions so we broke up but then after about a month and a half we began talking and i started liking him again. Last night we had went to the movies and he still didn't ... (107 words)

I have been having sexual dreams about my cousin

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5 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm sure there's a few of these on here, but I really need help with this delima. I am 22 years old, and am very attracted to my 20 year old cousin. She and I have soo much in common and whenever we're together, I feel this urge to tell her that I have feelings for her... (103 words)

Should I continue with his game of evasiveness?

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so here's the deal: i've been dating this guy for two weeks, he's great and we've made each other very clear that we like each other a lot and that we would like to be a serious relationship but to take things slow and see what happens. we already had intimacy this weekend ... (209 words)

Tips on how to flirt without looking like a skank.

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - can i can some tips on how to flirt with a guy wen ur in highschool without looking like a skank?? i go to a school with a total of 50 students in my class so they are very judgmental. ... (40 words)

My 62 year old husband's sex drive is increasing while mine is decreasing and I'm only 43!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 43 my husband is 62 and still sexy. for 6 months nowmy sex drive went down and his went up. what do i look for? i am getting older? all he has to do is look at me. please help me. i feel like i am a virgin in away.... (52 words)

I want my parents to approve of my 29 year old boyfriend!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I am 20 and he is 29. My parents hate the age difference. I am too scared to let them meet him cuz of this now. I really like him but I want my parents to be happy and approve of the guys I date. I know I am of ... (204 words)

I don't even want to have sex half the time!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I constantly offer myself to my boyfriend and have sex with him whenever he wants. He loves me and really appreciates that about me, however I don't even want to do it half of the time. Theres something wrong with me, I don't know why I always try to get him to have sex with ... (136 words)

Can't buy me love!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - If you were a popular girl in highschool but you thought you liked a really dorky and unattractive guy who you've known all your life and he really likes you, would you go out with him? this is for a friend and i couldnt decide what to tell her.... (52 words)

We live together but I haven't seen him for 2 months due to his work schedule!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know that I'm being selfish but I'm not happy and I can't pretend to be. My boyfriend and I got back together in July and moved in together in August. I had just moved to Germany to start work and decided to move from Ireland to Germany to be with me. Well it's months ... (518 words)

I can't stand looking at my step daughter, she reminds me of my husband's ex!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I am married with two children ( one is now in heaven). My husband is a good man. He works two sometimes three jobs so I can go to school and not have to work. He's a good man. He knows his responsibilitys and lives up to the. But when we first got to ... (439 words)

My knees get weak every time I see my teacher with his shirt off!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! Im really falling for a teacher in my school, im not in his class any more but i still see him at my atheltics club and most of the time hes topless, i get butterflies in my stomach everytime i see him and i get nervous around him, he smiles at me sometimes and my legs ... (106 words)

He makes hurtful comments to me when he's drunk!

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5 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Recently we have been fighting more and more. It isn't physical but i'm feeling that he isn't attracted to me anymore and we he was drunk he was saying some hurtful things to me. I always felt that if he says those things to ... (166 words)