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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so i have a friend who i've only known for a week and a half. well the first time we hung out he was blowing up my facebook to hang out, so he came and picked me up and took me to the club he works at (also a favorite club of mine) well that night he was all over me. we ended up at his house at the end of the night but didn't do anything, a few days later i showed up at the christmas party and he was all over me again and still wanted me to go home with him, he always wanted me to go home with him even though we never did anything yet. (and i did)well i asked him if he wanted a relationship and he told me not at the moment. i had a picture on my phone that we had taken the first night of us hanging out and he went around the club showing it to everyone going "aren't we cute, we're cute right?" so this confused me.he also has a habit of telling me he likes me (most of the time when he's drunk also calling me his little precious angel.) well we went to talk to some of his friends and he told me to find somewhere to sit, instead i was asking the waiter that works there if he had made it home ok because he was drunk at the christmas party toowell when we left the room where the waiter was he got tempered and goes "well i wanted to hang out but you were all over flirting with waiter guy back there" then when i asked him if he was mad at me for it he said he was just giving me a hard time.then another night we hung out at the club while he was working and he even called me when he got off work, by the way he's always liking and commenting on my status. he asked why i looked so sad and that he noticed i was only smiling when he came up to me and smiled. but that night a guy that owns a sushi bar gave me his card, well we went out to smoke and he was asking me if i really gave the guy my number, so then i had to pull out my phone and look up the place he owned just to prove myselfi didn't think much of it at first but then it happened again, i told him on the way to my house the next night that my friend (guy) was coming over for christmas, he got really mad and was like "wait your having a guy over, to you house for christmas??" he said it really aggressively at first but then i told him how he had no friends or family here. then he was okay with it.by the way he is a scorpio.so that christmas (2010) me and my friend ended up going to the club where he showed up with another girl and i thought he was dodging me. the next day he told me he didn't want to do anything for new years, just spend it alone..we hung out that night and i confronted him about the girl, he said it was a friend and that he didn't see me.that night and morning we ended up making "love" for the first time and it was awesome, again in the morning. but he told me he still doesn't want a relationship.why is he so jelous when i talk to other dudes if its like this? i just don't understand why he acts like we're dating (especially when we're around his house) if he doesn't want it??
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 hi
sounds like maybe he just wants something casual with you without giving it the title of 'relationship' for some reason. he is not committing himself but he doesn't want you going off with anyone else because that way he you may not be available to him when he wants you. don't let this be all on his terms. your feelings matter too you know! you can analyse and guess about his behaviour as much as you like but the question is: do you find it acceptable or not?
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