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Is he just keeping me around for his own personal gain?

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Question - (30 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and we decided to be friends. We broke up on good terms, he had said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And he wanted to break up so he doesn't hurt me. So we became friends. Well about a week after we broke up we went to a party and got drunk. We ended up at his house and we slept togeather. Well we pretty much had been hanging out everyday up until Christmas eve. We spent everyday all day with each other. For christmas he gave me a necklace in the shape of a heart that said "A true friend reaches for your hand and touches your heart." I've been making excuses lately so I won't have to see him. Does all this mean he still has feelings for me or is he just trying to keep me around for his own personal gain.

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A female reader, Fail.. United States +, writes (9 January 2011):

No problem,hope things work out for you guys :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I took ur advice and found out that he does care about me and he wants to be with me but he just didnt want to be in a relationship. We are friends and I have a new bf. Thankss for the advise!

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A female reader, Fail.. United States +, writes (30 December 2010):

It could be that he misses you,but his reason for you guys breaking up could still be true. Maybe you guys need to stop talking for a little to see if he really wants to be with or just missed having you by his side all the time like when you guys were together

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