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writes:I really want to find the love of my life. I'm 14, yeah you might say i'm too young but none of us know how long we will be in this godforsaken dump we call a world. I adore anime and long for a girl who is much like a girl from one of the animes, I don't just want a pretty girl from school I want a girl I will truly fall in love with. Not some girl who is obsessed with a guys sexual part, I mostly want romance and a true bond. Someone, somewhere has got to be my darling princess, and I can be her guardian, her dark angel, her lover. I don't know what good it'll do posting this but can someone give me advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, gingah  +, writes (19 March 2011):
God, I feel the same.
I know it probably won't happen at this age, but all I can think about recently is finding a true /love/, not a whole fake relationship that's shallow and shaky.
Woo 14 years olds. :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): I was you once. My head was filled with all sort of romantic notions at the age of 14. I can tell you how it ends: badly.
Women, particularly at your age, don't want to be romanced. They want to be abused. Later on in life, they grow up and realize that being with assholes is not a good long-term strategy. But right now, in high school, it's what they crave.
My advice to you is to sack up and stop putting this mythical girl on a pedestal. If you intend to be her "dark angel" and her lover, you have to demonstrate power over her. It is the only thing that will turn her on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Your ideal girl lives in a fantasy cartoon world and as such is a very glamorised version of life. I don't think any real girl would want to or try to compare. Real girls offer different qualities - being able to share experiences, laughter, sharing lifes ups and downs. You sound a bit disillusioned with life - actually sharing your feelings with a real girl may help you face the things we all have to deal with - but in an optimistic way. Don't set your standards so high you rule out perfectly lovely real girls.
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