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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm torn! have to let down one party, but who will I let down ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn´t a relationship question but I am in a HUGE bind and desperately need help. On Friday I was offered the absolute job of my dreams... I imagine people might judge me, but I had to decide then and I accepted. I can´t let my current employer down and they need at least... (124 words)

Is delayed break-up sex such a bad thing?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's say you dated someone who was a very close friend of yours. You broke up, but feel like you have unfinished business sexually. As in, you were both very enthusiastic and had plans/ideas that never got to be acted out (though you did have sex in this time). Is it worth it t... (135 words)

I say I love him, but does he really love me?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'm 15 and I've been with this boy (he's 16) for about 4 months now. And I know that I really care for him and I love him but I know i'm not IN LOVE with him. he tells me he loves me and I say it back. but I always wonder if he really does love me or if he's just saying it. ... (125 words)

Boyfriend troubles - gay/not interested/not sexual?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my boyfriend gay/not interested/not very sexual at all? He and I have been together for about a month and a half, but we've only made out like 1 1/2 times. We made out once on Halloween, then about 3 weeks later we left school during break and we were kissing lightly but ... (194 words)

Is my husband gay, bi or just curious?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 5 years, had 3 children the youngest of which is 2 weeks old. During our early days I found my husband had cheated on me so since then have never trusted him. I know it is wrong but I check his phone a lot and recently found that he spends a lot ... (180 words)

How to confuse another guy into wondering if I like him or not?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm in college, and this year, within the first two months, my friend told this guy that i like him. The thing is, when she told him that, I actually didn't like him. However, now I'm growing more attracted to him daily. He thinks/knows i like him, and there are rumors ... (202 words)

I came home to be with him and now I am so confused!!!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so basically my ex and I have known each other for 10years..we were best mates in school and dated for a bit when we were younger. Then when we were about 20 we both admitted we were in love and soul mates. So for two years we had a great relationship we lived together and ... (375 words)

Shouldn't I be the one she runs to when she's feeling down?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm a bit new to this, but i thought i'd get some opinions. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a month or so now, and the problem lies with her two guy best friends. She's known them about a year or so. Feels like she talks to them a LOT more than me, an... (290 words)

I'm too jealous!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm too jelous. Every time my boyfriend is out and i know there will be girls there i end up sitting in the house all night thinking 'hes going to think i'm not pretty compared to them' and things like that. I trust him 100% and i KNOW he wouldn't cheat on me but im scared ... (119 words)

Should I be worried about kisses that I want?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i haven't had my first kiss yet im scared about it i haven't had a boy friend either and i might be bi-sexuali dont know i haven't really had a crush on a girl befor i've had an interest in one befor. im so scared about getting my first kiss and sometime i think i just ... (61 words)

He doesn't realize I'm being serious when I tell him I love him!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey just thought I might ask people on here for some advise because I've tried everything else and it never worked so there's this boy in my school and I`ve known him since we started back in year 7 ( just under 4 years ago) I went out with him in year 7 and then I broke up ... (191 words)

My fantasy for another man turns him off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my 30's and my husband thinks that I am the ice queen. He has told me numerous times that he thinks I need to be bolder in my sexuality. I finally told him that what really turns me on is fantasising about sleeping with another man (specifically one we know) while h... (107 words)

I've only just come to realize what my long-distance friend means to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, I have met a girl through the internet 8 years ago, and we always felt a connection but the problem is we completly live from each others. I live in Belgium and she lives all the way in the USA. we have neglected our feelings for one another and dated persons, ofcou... (143 words)

Stuck in a comfort eating cycle! Help!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, I've been putting on weight and I can't stop. I've got myself into a comfort eating cycle and it's making me feel really down. I've got exams coming up and I'm feeling really stressed, plus I have my job which is really busy at the moment. I get so tired in the day ... (256 words)

I'm really uncertain what my girlfriend is up to!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day my girlfriend and I were fooling around. I've never had problems making her orgasm with my hand before and she is usually really sensitive. She seemed to definitely be feeling good but I couldn't quite get her to orgasm. She ended up climbing on top of me and ... (274 words)

Is it ok for me to date my ex's brother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was involved with someone for about 1 1/2 years. I was very much in love with him, but it turns out that he did not feel the same. He lied to me, betrayed me, caused me great financial stress, suffered an emotional breakdown that landed me in the hospital. He then left me ... (283 words)

What kind of smile did I get?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone . well today at school it was at the end of the day i wa sgoing to my locker and there was this boy that i see almost everyday because his locker is down the hall from mine and i pass his house in my way home anyway i was at my locker and he was walking with his ... (161 words)

I'm still so in love with my ex. Help me, seriously

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a freshman and if you've read my last few questions, you know about my girlfriend, Dana. Dana and I broke up recently and I am heartbroken. I've regretted a break up, I've been hurt over a break up. But nothing I have ever endured after a break up compares to pain lik... (295 words)

I need to get it out of my mind that he's going to mess around again

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys - I have been reading a few articles on the net and thought I'd write in to get some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and love him so much. We have so many memories and are best friends. That said this year has been awful. We can't afford our own ... (542 words)

My friend copies all my clothes!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi~ So my friend just copies everything from hollister I own. I had a blue striped hollister shirt, and she said exactly in my face "Oh I like that shirt, I'm gonna buy it." I didn't want her to copy it becasue I liked it a lot so I said "No, don't copy me." and I kept tal... (180 words)

Is a hollywood wax a bad idea?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get a hollywood wax [all hair off] but I have mega sensitive skin and a low pain threshold. Bad idea girls?... (24 words)

On facebook we talk all the time, at school, he ignores me!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heey, once again.... ive got a problem with the same guy i had a ''fake crush'' for hah xD, this time its even worsexD...., so...we talk like EVERY SINGLE DAY on facebook, he always ..aalways starts the conversations n we have sooo much in common n its soo fun talking to him ... (96 words)

My girlfriend has changed since we moved in together!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok me and my girl friend been together four years and every thing was going well until the past 8 months when we got our on place she has changed and pushes me out the door this christmas when her mom and sister comes makein there self right at home when i pay all the bills ... (114 words)

Can you trust army guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - So here we go... last year an old flame comes back in to my life. We talk via email for almost a year. He is deployed in Kuwait and about to get divorce he said. "I never forget about you I have being looking for you for years". Im also married with a marriage no working ... (308 words)

Should I tell him I'm the one who created a fake facebook profile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - HI all, Now that the semester is over. I think it is okay to tell my college teacher that I like him. But first off, let me give yall a little background. My teacher is 27 years old currently a grad student at my school. I have a crush on him, and one time at an event, my ... (511 words)

A sort of friend is going after my guy!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have a four month relationship with my boyfriend... And we've had a lot of troubles... Jack, my boyfriend... Is really cute and sweet. One of my ex friends who has pretty much made me depressed and tried to cause hell to me before I've ever met Jack... Well Sarah, the ... (280 words)

She's totally ignoring the fact that I sent her three messages!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'd like some advice please regarding a potential new relationship. A new girl started at work a few months ago. We get on really well, and have been getting to know each other. I recently suggested going out and we arranged it for the day after the Christmas works party. At ... (394 words)

Young and in love and my parents won't let me see him!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and in love with someone but mum and dad say I'm too young and I won't see him till next year what can I do... (30 words)

He does not allow me to initiate sex, he tells me he is not a peforming animal.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age - Hello I have been married for 9 years, five of those years have been spent begging, crying, bargaining, conjoling my husbanc into making love to me. He does not allow me to initiate sex, he tells me he is not a peforming animal. the only way he seems to be able to express ... (86 words)

Does "love at first sight" really exist?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age - Is there really such a thing as "love at first sight" or should it be "attraction at first sight" - I think the first has happened to me. ... (28 words)

Observing my parent's marriage has made me fear marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - my mom and dad r very nice people,bt they look at everything from different angle.so i hav been watching them fighting all my life.now i hav developed a kind of fear about marriage.everytime i remember that one day i will hav to marry,i feel like a trapped animal.everytime i ... (72 words)

Will he just keep making remarks like that?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and me and my bf are in year 10 and the satme set but the other day in spanish he was sitting with his mates and i was sittin with my mate on the other side of the room and he made a comment about my weight im not fat i juss have an eatin disorder and are really skinny b... (177 words)

Defended my special needs child from attacker, who's now vilifying me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyways i am a parent who went on vacation with my husband's family. Not a good idea, it turns out that I ending up reprimanding, my husband's family member for physically attacking my child. Well that wasn't a good idea as the relative, got so offended, by me just mentioning ... (248 words)

Merry Christmas, with an off-color queston!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

21 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - This is NOT a relationship question. At least not yet :-). I'm just on a playful mood at the time, taking a break from work, and one of those weird and funny thoughts that give you the goosebumps came to my mind. I want to wish everyone a Merry Christmas with this one. ... (277 words)

StepDad terrorises me And Mum stays silent. Help please

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum got together with my stepdad when I was 6 years old (I'm now 20).All of my life he's been terrorising me and bullying me to the point when I was 14 I shot myself in the head with an airgun because I was severely depressed over him. Mum never stuck up for me. So now I'm ... (187 words)

Is it too soon to be thinking of going with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello:) Me and my bf have been going out for three months and we said that we love each other. We have been said that this is the best relationship that wev ever had. however. i am in my 2nd yr of uni and he is in his 4th ... after his fifth year he hopes to get a good job in a... (170 words)

I just wanna be normal like every other teenager...

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21 December 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello, This is quite personal but i have never been fingered before but i think my boyfriend wants my first to be with him. I do finger myself sometimes because i want to get used to it. When i do i have found this small selection of lumps right at the opening of my vagin... (192 words)

Tell me, is there something I'm doing wrong, and is there something I could do to get out of this position...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I've been single for so long I can't even remember for how long exactly. I haven't exactly had any actual relationships before either, just 2 hook ups and a relationship that lasted 5 months but was long-distance and the guy was abusive. I'm currently studying in... (585 words)

I'm clueless with girls and in over my head... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Needed to get this off my chest. Enjoy. I am a 21 year old male living in the US as a student and my name is Aiden. Girls confound me and I know virtually nothing about them and I have very limited experience around them. I have a female best friend who I've known since I wa... (515 words)

Help...i can't get a woman out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

21 December 2010 (M)

age - On a chance meeting I briefly chatted with a woman younger than myself. I'm 15 years her senior. She's 30 and has a young child. Amazingly I was instantly attracted to her, and now I cannot get this woman out of my mind. I cannot become involved with this woman but due to a ... (102 words)

Is it possible that he treats me seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a club three days ago, we were dancing, talking and, well, we had sex in a toilet (yeah, I know, but I was drunk and it was actually the first time I did something like that). After that we spent some more time together, left the club in the morning (also ... (284 words)

I think I'm losing him to his best friend... What to do?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK my BF's BFF is now single. I didn't really mind if she was taken but I know she loves him. She told him herself after she found out about me. And now It sort of bothers me because it's long distance. And yesterday I asked my dad, who unfortunately was a bit of a player, if ... (223 words)

I want that inch back! Does weight affect penis size?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is kinda of weird question. Well like a year ago i had 9 inch penis but i was 6.5 tall and had only 160 pounds. So i started to work out and gain weight well i am 210 punds now and my body is in a pretty good shape ,but my penis seem to shrunk like an inch. I want ... (102 words)

Unemployed and yet my wife is asking for petty cash!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am currently unemployed, while paying for a large 5 bedroom home and all related expenses for my spouse and 2 children to live comfortably. My spouse continues to ask me for petty cash that she expresses is needed because of her over spending or not spending. Am I being petty ... (53 words)

Boyfriend cheated on me and then doesn't understand that I want space?!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is thai and went away to thailand with his sister for 5 weeks. this is his last week of staying there. only yesterday he told me he slept with another girl within the first week of going there. he said he was so drunk and says he doesnt care about anything when he ... (289 words)

I'm not ok with him hanging around with women he's slept with!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I'm not comfortable with a situation I'm in and im not sure how to address it.. To keep it simple..prior to my relationship, my bf racked up a large 'score' so to speak.. and he's from a small town so everytime he goes 'home' he's around or potentially could be around ... (207 words)

Why didn't he just tell me he got back with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There was a guy I was dating a few years ago but things didn't get serious as the timing was off. I got back together with an x.boyfriend. We stayed friends and in contact via facebook. I ran into him on the weekend (Saturday) at a friends. We really hit it off again. We ... (201 words)

Husband cheated on me 2 years ago but I am having dreams about it!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband cheated on me two years ago.. but since then we have been working through it and trying to move foward.. but in the recent week or so i keep have recurring dreams that hes still cheating on me. in my dream i run into the girl he cheated on me with and she confesses ... (145 words)

I want to move on from cheating boyfriend but we have kids!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me and i can not take it any more because he always on his phone not working at this time having nasty pics of other girls on his contact list and he really don't wanna have sex with me anymore saying " if i really want to have sex with u ... (127 words)

Why is my cousin so possessive of me?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does this behaviour imply that he thinks Im his possession? I told my cousin that I was buying a dress and he said 'not too short', I asked why not and he said 'you are not so young' (I am 41). Yet he also has said before that I have such beautiful legs so it does not add up,... (128 words)

Boyfriend has been acting differently since his brother died

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I got my first boyfriend a year and a half ago. We're still together, but recently he's been acting differently around me. I feel like now he doesn't care about me at all. He started acting differently when his brother died a couple of months ago, which i totally ... (260 words)

I just got married but am thinking about her sister!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just got married to my girlfriend who I have been dating for 10 years. But, I think I am attracted to her sister now. My wife is great, but from time to time I think about being with her siter. I don't know whats wrong with me. Help!... (49 words)

He ignores me and then says its my imagination

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf is avoiding me constantly, if he is nice to me for 2 days he would avoid me like plague for another 4 days, then again he would talk to me as if nothing happened. Whenever i ask him what's going on, he'll just say i am imaginging things. For the past 2 ... (121 words)

We're both attached so why does she act this way?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So Here goes. I have been working with a very nice pretty lady for 3 years now. I am married. She got engaged a month ago. When I first started working with her she was single and I had a strong sense that she was attracted to me. She would touch my arm sometimes, stay under an ... (246 words)

Confused soul who thought she knew it all...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hard to determine what my relationship status is with this man however it seems to work for both of us. He's an aquarius and I'm an aries (both independent souls) Started off as friends who met online from a social network and about a month later met in person briefly. Since ... (206 words)

Did I do something to make him think I am not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been talking to this guy all week and he met me and my friends out on Saturday night. We talked the entire night and well into the morning. We fooled around a little bit, but there was no sex (oral or otherwise). We fell asleep and then when we woke up we talked for al... (184 words)

Who is telling the truth here? I am stuck in the middle and don't know who to believe!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he's rough around the edges, but he is trying, and seems to be growing up, and in my head we're not all perfect. my mother has always been on the fence about him, and my best friend says she likes him, but she always has this pause...me, ... (591 words)

One of my breasts is bigger than the other, will this affect my relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, This question has been botherin me for a long time now. I have unequal breasts. One is half the size of the other. Will it affect my relationship in any way?? Do men give too much attention only to your outer appearence? Bcoz of this i feel very shy in front of... (69 words)

Is this lack of communication during the day, and seeing each other only once a week normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, guys.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1.5years. I'm 25 and he's 35. Ever since we got together, there's one thing that really bugs me. his habit of not calling. OK lemme make it simple: 1. He never texts or calls from morning till evening. He calls every nigh... (194 words)

Why can't he look me in the eye?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why can't he look me in the eye, he might sometimes but when our gazes meet he looks away or starts walking and talking instead...we had some ups and downs in our knowing eachother, and i think this guy is an attention hound when it comes to the ladies.., my first year of ... (212 words)

Will he think I am desperate? Should I wait for him to ask me instead?

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21 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Hi aunts! So, I like this guy and I think he likes me. We do get along well (we work together) and I'd love to ask him out. I'm gonna see him tomorrow at work and I'd like to just casually say something like: "Would you maybe like to come over to my place for dinner tomorrow... (89 words)

Can I forgive this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for over two years but four mths ago,I discovered he'd been having cybersex with strangers,including on webcam and swapping intimate photos.I've tried to keep the relationship going,with the beginnings of therapy,he got rid of the net straight away and ... (152 words)

How can I make her be my friend again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

21 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. Okay, so... I had a girl which was my best friend, we used to talk almost the whole time and being together a lot, I loved her but didn't tell her because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. One day she saw I had no mood, it was because of it, I just kept thinking th... (419 words)

I don't want to give up on this, I want to work through it. But what now?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have lived a heterosexual life and just came out of the closet a few years ago, not knowing I was even in. My experience so far has been quite challenging. I have a question but not sure if it's just the relationship I'm in or if it's me. I've been married twice an... (1591 words)

How can I make it in life?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have lost all hope, joy , happiness...what can i do? i have failed to get a job, or get into another relationship..more so i have no one i can tell about my challenges...so am all alone, scared..infact terrified...so what can a simple gal like me,,,who has a heart of gold.... (58 words)

Is he referring to oral sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, This is a question for the guys. If a guy says to a woman he wants to touch and lick you until you scream.Is he referring to oral sex? ... (32 words)

He thinks I lost my virginity, but I feel I didnt! Who is right here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Something Strange Happened to me... i had no deep experience in sex but i knew a lot of information from my friends, one week ago i was with my boyfriend and he tried to penetrate i feel pain so he stop a little bit and repeat after that he enters his finger what surprise... (127 words)

Our paranoia over each other has started to tear us apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How to deal with paranoia in relationships? Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 2 years and over the past year our paranoia over each other has started to tear us apart. We have both recognised it and want to work it out but just dont know how! I am always par... (146 words)

Why does my ex want to be my friend after what he did to me?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is my ex hellbent on being my friend when he put me through the ringer? I hate his guts and he's dead to me! ... (25 words)

I've tried my best to get over him but after his phone call I am back to square one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm having a problem :\, 27-11 Me n my boyfriend broke up, I'm trying my best to get over him, I tried dating another guy but its not working at all, I tried talking to him about us getting back he's refusing and saying that its better for me like that, its so ... (123 words)

He has a wife and a baby that I never knew about, and now he wants us to start trying for a child!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was in a relationship two years ago of which one day i received a call from a lady posing to be my boyfriend wife, i was shocked but when i confronted my boyfriend he said it was all a lie then a 8months ago i received a sms from my boyfriend saying that he has a wife now... (131 words)

Should I fight for what we have or leave him alone? It is hard to let go after 5 years....

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 5years and recently he says that the relationship we have together is making him depressed as we are not right for each other. The thing is he breaks up with me every other month and i dont know whether this is 1 of his moments or not. I cant ... (99 words)

Broken hearted, losing sight......

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello dear Cupids. It has been two months since my girlfriend brutally dumped me with a text message. So much for honoring a relationship of 2.5 years where we shared a lot. Even before our relationship we were so closed. I helped her through a very difficult period in her li... (411 words)

I feel dead towards her now, but I don't know what to do because of our baby girl....

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well hello there. i got a problem. so mostly the problem is that i have a baby. if i didnt have a beautiful redhead 7 month old little blue eyed toothless princess then i wouldnt be in this predicament. ive dated baby mama for about 3 years now. when i met her i just thoug... (1073 words)

She's in a relationship but I told her how I feel, and now she has cut me out of her life! Why would she do this?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi ive been really good friends with a women who is in a relationship already, we got along so well its unreal, she shows all the signs she likes me and my feelings for her have grown for her so i told her how i feel open up to her and said i dont think shes happy at home ... (130 words)

I'm really questioning my feelings for him but I don't want my children to loose another dad.....

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2yrs and have recently moved in together since doing this he has changed, he goes out drinking all the time, spending my money as he doesnt work, and im starting to really recent him freeloading of me, he is a nice guy, when he is ... (215 words)

Am I right to leave him due to his impotence?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for 5 years now my husband is impotent i am really hurt that he hid this fact from me. i want to leave him now is this my right decision.... (34 words)

Can you ever be friends with a member of the opposite sex?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this isn't really a problem I was just wondering what everyone thinks on whether guys and girls can ever just be friends? My friends think one will always find the other sexually attractive but is this true? I've had lots of guy friends for years lol! X... (48 words)

He wants to stop having sex until we get married! I don't know how to feel about this.....

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my fiance went totally religious on me and were on not going to have Sex anymore untill we get married, let me make it clear that we are engaged with no set date at all :-( this past sunday i went to church with him for the first time and we havnt been having Sex now for ... (189 words)

Why does he hate me when I stay, and hate me when I go? I cant win either way!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey I hope you guys can help me. Ok so here it goes- I was head over heals maniac in love with this guy that I'll call Brian. Well I slaved myself to him around the clock so he always knew he was man's gift to life 24-7. Thing is he never said or did anything to let me know he ... (280 words)

I'm feeling insecure about myself, even though I shouldn't be!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I seem to be suffering from self-image issues since a break-up about a month ago. Since it happened I've had this overwhelming sense that I need to be "better" at everything. I've always been in great shape, but I have gone to the gym every single day for the last month a... (312 words)

Is it normal for men to use prostitutes?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for men to use prostitutes? Does paying for it make it any different? Basically i found out my bf had slept with a couple of prostitutes in the past before i met him. He says there is nothing wrong with it nd its just like meeting a girl out on a nite out, havi... (331 words)

Is it ok that I'm not a big city person? Or should I force myself out of my comfort zone?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I am the way I am.. and whether it's normal or not. I'm in my mid 20's and I have a degree in communications. The qualification is renowned for being a particularly difficult course with a high dropout rate. I topped my class, won several awards and gradu... (576 words)

He knew I was leaving for a week and went out with his mates instead! Should I be worried?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been great, I wouldn't say anything has been wrong. I'm going away tomorrow for Christmas for a week and me and my boyfriend organized to hang out tonight before I went away. Except I haven't heard from him all day, I called his home but his parents ... (121 words)

I cant get over my wife's past!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, please help me in this issue, i hate the partner/lovers changing girls, I had no girl friend or sex in life, i used to watch a girl but no use, now i m arranged married person but after few years i came to know my wife had 2 bfs but not sex but the thing is now I m ... (123 words)

My girlfriend is asking for too much.....

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys and gals i have a problem... a major one... my girlfriend wants to have sex with me! First of all why now? im fourteen for goodness sake and second of all i don't really love my girlfriend anymore i was going to break up with her today because i think this re... (334 words)

Why am I obsessed with a woman I don't want?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why am I insanely obsessed 24-7 with a woman I don't want?... (12 words)

Are they hiding something from me?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,i'm deeply in love with my boyfriend and he says he loves me too.but recently he's been acting kinda distant,he doesnt seem to care anymore,doesnt call or text.but whenever i call him he doesnt seem to have much to say.i forgot to mention that he's a cousin to my guyfriend ... (78 words)

Am I a Heartbreaker?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a relationship with a man who continuously tells me that he loves me. I put in a whole lot of effort to keep this long distance relationship work. I make sure that I am looking good and well taken care of from my hygiene to what I have on. At times my man ... (243 words)

My Guy Will Be Mad If I Get Him A Christmas Gift.!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - what should i get my guy for Christmas when he says he dont want anything from me? hes the type of guy that like to be the provider in the relationship! but hes reining my Christmas spirit because im so use to giving gifts on christmas! should i get him anything even though ... (66 words)

He just won't make the appointment to get us checked after his infidelity. How can I pursuade him without feeling like a bully?

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21 December 2010 (F)

- Hello Cupiders, My question is this... I have been with my husband for 5 years, about 1.5 married. In this time he has gotten unprotected oral sex with 8 random men. I have been very worried about STI's, and have told him that. I know all the dangers, and I myself am a v... (563 words)

In my dreams my ex is great, in real life he's not! Why the dreams?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm 23 currently in a relationship with a sweet guy. We have been dating for over a year. No ones perfect but he's close to it. Lately I have been dreaming about my ex bf. Every night actually for like weeks. Its annoying. I thought I had him out of my head already. My ex wa... (186 words)

Should I think there is still something going on between them, or are they really just 'best friends'?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well..Ive been dating this guy for about 4 months now and am so in love, but like every other relationship we have our share of problems. In the beginning I wasnt the only girl that he was seeing at the time. He lied about the other girl even when I found out about her. He ... (155 words)

Why wont she say once and for all if its over, or if I need to change for this to work?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My fiance has moved out, again, during the most stressful time of year for us. My income fluctuates and is seasonal. She is out of work and without her own transportation. She's stuck at home alone and not meeting any goals. I'm used to hibernating this time of year. She wants ... (330 words)

All he does is play xbox and never spends any time with me!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend and i have been dating over a year now. We have been living together 8 months and latley he has been treating me like a pice of (you know what)!! We are supposed to be getting an apartment together soon and we have been visiting his parents a lot lately and ... (164 words)

I want true love! Am I asking too much?

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21 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm hurting bad over an ex betrayal. I loved her so much, and I can't seem to get past it. I want to give all this love I'm holding in my heart to a good woman who deserves it. God I just want to be appreciated and respected. It's killing me to have been betrayed so often, I ... (301 words)

Ex says nothing can change her mind about us!

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21 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I need help please I'm so in love with my ex and I can't even think about living with out her right now we are just friends and talks to me like nothing happened and like me feeling sad and even crying in front of her many times I just don't know what to do I am in love I only ... (244 words)

My boyfriend doesn't get the "butterflies" with me!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me in a conversation about butterflies, and how he hasn't felt them for a long time. The last time being with this fling/ex of his from years ago - who he concluded was flaky and what he felt was infatuation. I asked him why he thinks he doesn't feel them with ... (291 words)

Does fighting make a relationship better?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been with my 16 year old boyfriend for almost 7 months now, we dont fight at all some people say thats its better to fight sometimes it makes the realationship stronger? would anyone agree? we do have little moods with each other but not big arguements. the reason i ask ... (88 words)

She wants things her way regardless of how I feel

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a older women for almost one year, we started as a simple fling which turned into something serious. We both know were not getting to a serious level in terms of a relationship, eventhou i would like to and i have told her that where she said its not going to ... (188 words)

Do men like lingerie or women naked?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I got some realllly cute Lingerie at Victoria Secret to wear for my boyfriend the other day and I guess the thought never ran through my head but do guy's really enjoy lingerie or are most men just all for the full blown nakedness?... (45 words)

How do I go about making my next move?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've a crush on my TA for quite some time now. Throughout the semester, I'd take advantage of her office hours constantly and is always willing to help me (though I know this is her job to do so), so we know each other by name and face. We already have a minor friendship going ... (382 words)

Is she just teasing me?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So we're on msn, me and a girl i like. We are not going out but things have started to happen since the christmas party. She's feisty and we know each other well. Next term at uni we want to spend time together alone and see how things go in private but keep things, at least ... (226 words)

How do I know if I'm still in the running?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am at a loss here. I have tried. I recently heard talking about how she wants to work with this other guy just so they can "make out". Now, I'm not naive enough to think that she's not thinking about other guys, that's obvious that she is...but how do I know if I'm still in ... (182 words)

Is my married friend trying to get closer to me without realizing it?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I work with a married couple. I am friends with both of them. I email with the husband frequently about guys I like, men and their behaviors, and sometimes other things going on in the office. I do not talk to him on the phone or outside of the office in any way shape or form. ... (525 words)

I asked my husband to leave, he left without putting up a fight. why?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 7 years and known my husband since i was 15 years old. i am 31 years old now. we had a lot of trust issues before we got married. we went through marriage counseling before we married. we had a beautiful wedding. i knew when we first meet that i was ... (195 words)

Is my wife having an affair

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm married with 2 children(2 and 6) and have been together for seven years, we met at college when I was 16 and didn't get together till I was 21. Anyway in august I came home from work and my wife told me she didn't love me, but agreed to try and work it out. So I tried ... (423 words)

Boyfriend is trying to bring my confidence down

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have another serious question. my boyfriend of 4 years has been trying to bring my confidence down. i've been told I am very pretty, have a nice body, and great lips. I am 5'3" 132 lbs. I should feel confident of myself but I dnt. My boyfriend has been telling foe years that ... (162 words)

I'm a guy who's not great at reading women. Can someone tell me if this girl likes me?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sort of felt up my abs at a party(she was sober). Touched my shirt where my stomach was. Smiles with me. Said she had a really fun time with me. Told me how she wanted to ask me all week to go to dinner with just the two of us. I saw her at breakfast and she seemed kind... (342 words)

Why was he so quiet during oral sex?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hadn't seen my boyfriend of 11 months, in 6 days. When we met up, I thought I'd surprise him with a blow job, our first, and because I was on my heaviest day of period. I did not feel comfy with regular sex. It was amazing for me, and I hope for him as well- he came, but ... (228 words)

Until this weekend I felt used and was building a lot of resentment, now I feel like an abusive jerk.

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently had a really really bad argument with a woman I have been dating for a little over a year. The problem I'm having is that I said some TERRIBLE things to her and I feel awful for it. I guess the best place to start is from the beginning. When I first met her th... (943 words)

Mixed feelings for the guy I'm dating.

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have mixed feelings for the guy I am dating. He lives out of town and we saw each other 4 months ago. Things were so/so but we continued to stay in touch as we seem to have some chemistry, albeit sexual. He's coming out over the holidays but I am still having mixed fee... (127 words)

Am I defective? I can't have an orgasm

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 now and have been in a relationship or a while and no matter what i do ive never gotten an orgasim. I cant seem to give myself one and my boy friend isnt having any luck wither. Is there a possiblity that not all women get the pleasure o experiencing one? Or could it ... (81 words)

I keep driving away the girls I like by being a wuss!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, im looking after some really needed advice or a point in the right direction. the only problem i keep having with my realtionships is limited to girls that are really attractive or i consider special. i turn into the nicest guy/wuss which drives the away. i have no other ... (104 words)

Was he hard? And why did he react like that?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i've been dating this guy for 2 months now and we are in high school. He has a hard time getting hard, and its not just with me, in general he just has a hard time. Its alittle discouraging to know that he doesn't get hard, but i love him so much and he says he loves me ... (182 words)

What is the mindset of a man who makes obscene phone calls to women?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I logged on to one of the secret confessions websites and I read the confession of a guy who, years ago made obscene phone calls to women and teenage girls. Even though he didn't give out his name or hometown, I think I know who he is and that I was one of the girls he made ... (81 words)

When I think of my ex I get all these negative feelings!

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i was told that i cant stop thinking about my ex. i wish her the best but when i think about her all thses negetive feelings come up and i want them to go away. what can i do?... (39 words)

So why would he keep the ring she bought for herself?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone.. I just have a simple question but rather confusing to me. I dont know if I should call him my boyfriend or just some guy i'm with. His 12 years older but I love him to bits and have loved him now for almost 4 years. A while ago I contacted his ex-wife I really ... (186 words)

Can a man overlook he's ladies past and just want to love and protect her?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, guy's, i have a concern that I'm scared about and would really appreciate your feedback and words of wisdom. I'm a wonderful loving lady, but my past has been a nightmare. Recently I've met a beautiful man who I'm scared to love. He thinks I'm perfect, but I'm not. I was ... (224 words)

In love with a married man, how do I say 'no' when my heart says yes?

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here is the deal. I am in college, but right now I am on winter break. My sister, still in high school, and I went to go watch her boyfriend in a school performance. The teacher I used to have a crush on was there. I gave up on anything happening between us. He is married ... (182 words)

How do I get him comfortable so he can tell me how he feels?

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21 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! i need some help. i am in highschool and i love my friend. we have been friends for about a year though we don't talk too much. we are both in the closest. he is gay, please just believe me when i say that hes gay. after about 4 months of knowing him I (like an idiot) s... (180 words)

I feel so betrayed on an emotional and mental level!

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21 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve always known that my BF (we’ve been about 1 year and a half together) was in contact with his Ex-GF (at a frequency of 1 or 2 times a month) which never had bothered me. I also don’t think of myself to be a jealousy monster: I totally let my BF go out clubbing (without... (1062 words)