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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Her past is keeping me up at nights...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend, who I've Been with for nearly a year now, her past truly bothers me and keeps me up at night. Here's the story: before were together she went on holiday and had sex a few times, she says, with a guy who was a lot older than her she was 17/18 and he. Was 29 that's ... (196 words)

Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting? whenever i see something nice my boyfriend would like i buy him it when i have the money and also cos i know he would like it. my birthday is next week and i don't want him to spend alot of his money so i just t... (306 words)

Why is it so hard to let our first loves go...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello im going thru some crazy times, but im sure a lot of other people are too. I just wanna know why is it soo hard to let our first loves go? He says he will go if thats wat I want and i cant give him a straight answer. I know we cant work together but i love him! Is anyone ... (81 words)

Should I just cut all ties with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am just want other peoples opinions on this, me and this girl dated a little while back a year or two ago, things just ended with me still liking her and her liking someone else and left me for him. She started to date this guy early this year and well I just found it odd how ... (556 words)

Does he just like having conversations with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so this guy who ive asked questions about before is talking to me again. He started talking to me this time. most of the time it was me talking/texting him first. well i got texting taken away this summer. so anyway he started talking to me on facebook. now i know him and he ... (170 words)

How do you handle when your partner, who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you handle when your boyfriend/girlfriend who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise? Its hard for me to accept that someone who loves you would walk out on you like that. How do you cope? Moving on or staying and risk them walking out on you ... (53 words)

Should I take him back? Is he stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with this guy because he is a real prick sometimes, to the point of making me feel like the biggest idiot on planet earth and within one week he was back with his ex. We were together a little over a year. They have children together and were together over 10 ... (293 words)

Should I ask the singer of my bad out? Would she say yes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, let me try to explain my situation as best i can. I'm the lead guitarist and singer in my 4-piece band, we do proper gigs at pubs and blues clubs. My co singer is a lovely lady by the name of Megan, and she's the problem. You see, from the moment i met her, I had a ... (349 words)

Should I shoot him an email telling him I'll wait for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I do not know what to do. This guy and I were friends for four years and we date during five months. We never broke up just stop seeing each other last september. Now he came back to my life after his disappearing act. I realize something changed because now I am... (373 words)

Love drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [ Mod Note: 2 questions combined by poster.] my bf said that he has a tipsy feeling..... not like in drunk tipsy just a feeling. im not sure what he means ....im confused.. and he keeps sayig whats happening to us.... im gettin worried about it.... im feeling a bit wired ev... (86 words)

Can I date more than one guy at a time? Or is it wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating this guy for about 7 months and while I adore him, we had a discussion and he said he was not ready to commit to me, so I began to date other people. He s 38 and I'm 25, he's white and I'm black, he has a very supportive involved family and I don't, so I ... (638 words)

I have needs that my wife isn't meeting!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 5 years, a while back my wife and I stopped having sex as much (maybe once or twice a month) she has never had an orgasm (in her life) so I assume that is part of the reason and she just do no be in the mood. Once the sex slowed down I use to ask ... (588 words)

Should I call him and sort out the details, or just let this slide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I have been dating for just over 2 months has hinted through his actions that he wants to end things. Since I knew what was coming I was prepared for it, and have also been feeling that it is time to end things. He has been unavailable without proper explanation for ... (390 words)

Could this breakup be the space she needed?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help. My girlfriend all of the sudden started to miss her ex which led to some distant behavior. I started asking what's wrong and she just got irritated but I could tell something was up. So she calls me tells me she misses him because they were together for so long, ... (396 words)

What can I do? Should I break things off with my wife or go with the woman I'm cheating with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I am 30 and have been married for 4 years now, I have one kid out of this marriage. My wife had a strong relation in past and it always showed up in our relation, which always deeply hurted me. She was never affectionate to me as she was and still is to h... (179 words)

Tips for my first kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Any tips for a first kiss ? Xxxxx... (12 words)

It's been 2 days since I last received an email from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dated this guy for 2.5 years. We broke up in Oct due to trust issue on both part. Last week he email me after no contact. Simple emaisl back and forth for 2 days. I told him I was getting help for my issues and he said the same. I told him that we need to continue our session ... (143 words)

Should I have a relationship with my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, Hello my name is Salah i made this account to let loose a sercet i have keept from my famliy or 3 months... Ive had sex with my cousin. It's werid i mean now i look back to it i seems ook i mean i have feeling for her she dose to but i dont make her feeling go f... (532 words)

I acted as if I had an abortion!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have just started talking to the teacher who betrayed me a year ago after i found out i was pregnant and confided in her. i've never had the confidence to talk about what happened next even when i forgave her. i'll never forget what she did. We spoke about it the other night ... (154 words)

I kissed a girl and she ran away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to a party on Monday and this girl approached me and we started dancing, i asked for her name and what she studies (it was a university party) She was rubbing her hands on my chest and i was feeling on her bum. Anyway she looked really shy as she was looking down. I ... (147 words)

Am I underweight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi. I know this is not a medical site, but I'd just like some opinions from regular people. I'm a 24 year old female. I am 5 foot 6 and weigh 8 stones. Is this underweight? If so, is it very bad? Thank you.... (44 words)

Should I talk to my father about my step-sibling rivalry just in time for Christmas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 20 years old and for the past year or so, I have felt distance between my dad and because he has another child with my step mum, I feel that there is a sibling rivalry with my "half sister" and that she fights for my dad's attention whenever I visit which I find very ... (261 words)

I've never even owned a fish, how are we going to compromise on owning a dog?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are planning on moving in together soon. We have always been opposites when it comes to pretty much everything. But now we are having a problem. We cant decide on what type of dog to get. He has ALWAYS wanted a German Shepard. Mainly because they mak... (192 words)

How do I stop my obsession that my innocent boyfriend is going to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together for quite some time, we have a house together,share incomes,do everything as one.He has never cheated on me yet I cant stop doing things such as checking his facebook post or see his chat logs for MSN and I dont understand why.I have been ... (275 words)

She is dating someone else, but asks me for help with everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, i have a friend who is a girl. yes I am sweet on her a little,but I was okay with being her friend because she has a guy she is seeing but here is the thing, the guy is a big shot sort of and is always busy. so she ends up asking me to do stuff for her all the time, like d... (247 words)

I want to leave my bad relationship for this other guy, but he's advising me not to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious problem. I am in a bad relationship, I know I should leave, but the circumstances don't allow it right now. I never know what is a lie and what is not, I have to make up for financial losses he creates, he gets angry and violent suddenly. I decided to hang in ... (265 words)

My friends even told this guy off, but he doesn't get that I'm not interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Lately I've been having a lot of problems with this guy at college, he likes me but I have a boyfriend, I'm not interested in this guy who likes me at college at all, I do believe I'm madly in love with my boyfriend who i've been with for a year now. I've told... (275 words)

Is it a turnoff to look older than you really are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was out the other night with a group of friends, we went to a restaurant to eat. Our waitress looked about my age and was fairly attractive, and I made a comment to my friends saying as much. My friend's girlfriend looked at me funny and made a comment saying that I should ... (166 words)

Do you truly appreciate all that your man/woman has done for you and your family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my wife for 10 years; married for seven. We have three beautiful children and the other day, she and I were just sitting at the kitchen table. She was drinking an orange juice reading the paper and I my coffee with a crossword puzzle. We were just sitting the... (112 words)

Wild night with girlfriend only..did it turn me bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a straight male in a long term relationship. I have had enough women that I lost count, which I'm torn between "thinking I'm totally boss" and "feeling terrible" about forgetting some of their [past girlfriend's] names. I say this just to enhance the understanding of ... (294 words)

He wants to be friends, yet he said he felt something for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Okay heres my question... I went on vacation for 5 days to the beach with my host family and I. There were four other family's that went along and one of the family's had a son a year older. The first two days we were hanging out getting to know each other. I don't kn... (304 words)

How do I make our sex life more satisfying for both of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Every time I have sex with my wife it only last for about 3 minute. Not to mention that we don't have sex that often only about once every 2 weeks. How do I lengthen that time of the sex? And sometime, most of the time I just don't feel the sex drive with her, and when i ... (143 words)

Does she not love me if she's not sexual with me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I were separated for 3 years, It was all my fault. We talked everyday and 3 months ago I relocated back to her home of record to try again. She isn't sexually attracted to me in the least bit. The more she denies me the more I ask, the more I feel bad because I am ... (287 words)

He is leaving soon for college, what should I do before he goes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupidx theres this boy i have the biggest crush on and i sit next to him in most of my classes like i.c.t and maths.ive been crushing on him for over a year now and ive been scared to ask him if he wants to hang out after school but i no will never cause of hes a badboy. ... (90 words)

Is my girlfriend thoughtless or does she not even care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for nearly a year and a half now. She is the same age as I am. We've been able to meet before, and had a great time for the few days we could be together. Anyways... I love her very much. She says she loves me, an... (816 words)

We don't get many chances to go out alone because she has a child, but always manages to find time to go out with her friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years and she has a child, so we don't get many chances to go out on our own. However she seems to find time to go out with her friends. But on those occasions I'm not allowed to go. When I mention we should go out together she makes excuses ... (67 words)

She refused me, what do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - we were just friends at school for 2 yrs but i had secret feelings for her. after 5 years we met again at an organization. this 5 yrs were so bad for me, as i loved her i could not love anyone else. after few months at this organization i sent her love letter by email stating ... (180 words)

We have to abstain from sex in order for the medication to work, but can I still masturbate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my husband started taking some medication for conceiving, we were told to abstain for 12 days, my question is, is it wrong for me to masterbate will it it reduce the chances of me getting pregnant? this medication is for feitilising the eggs, and for him is a sperm ... (87 words)

He doesn't enjoy giving oral sex....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together for about 6 months. We have a great relationship and a great sexual relationship apart from one thing that really bothers me. He doesn't enjoy giving oral sex. He wants oral sex at least once a day and he gets it but I miss it. He's only ... (99 words)

Does his facebook stalking mean anything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm in a long term relationship at the moment, and I'm very happy, we live together, the ususal stuff. However the other day at home I was on the net on my boyfriends laptop- we do share them as his is faster than mine and mine breaks easily. Anyway. I went to the hi... (333 words)

Boyfriend watching nude pictures!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months. its a ldr.recently i visited my bf.we had lots of fun and even sex. but during sex his p***s was not so erect.i don't know whats the reason behind it. after i came back i checked my bf's google history in his a... (161 words)

Can't leave him because he is my first boy and now husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I came from a quite conservative family, with my mom not really cool about the ideal with me having a relationship before marriage. She even said my husband will not respect me if I had sex before him. I met my first boyfriend and had sex the first time quite late(... (324 words)

I don't want my love life to be this difficult!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here was my situation a few months ago: My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him... (943 words)

Need ideas for celebrating a two-year anniversary!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's coming up to my 2 year anniversary with my bf. He's going to come to my place after work before we go out for dinner. What can I do/ do to my room for a surprise that'll make it all romantic but not too girly? ... (46 words)

My parents found out about my secret boyfriend and now I have to break up with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged 1. I have a secret boyfriend at school which my parents immediately knew when our adviser heard the news and told them..Since my parents are strict on dating because they're Asians,they were very disappointed to me an... (132 words)

How to know that a guy likes you, but is hiding it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how to know that a guy likes you but hiding it. we study in same class at same tiution.he always helps me in bad times when no one helps me.he teases me alot playfully not seriously.sometimes he tries to sit next to me but sometimes he sits very far away from me.he tries to b... (161 words)

Having an affair and torn between my love and my husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a married woman(33yrs)and i am having an affair for the last 1 year with a single man (31yrs) My husband( 55yrs) and i have a daughter together(3 yrs) and been together for 8 yrs. My affair started whn my husband wanted to divorce me after having affair while i wa... (363 words)

Can I get my deadbeat husband out of our lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I meet my husband while working abroad and was married for 8 years to a man depended on me for most things, then he got a good job where he was respected and met another woman there. He left me In a strange country with no family with our 4 year old son who has ADHD. He did... (189 words)

Far from my husband, thinking obsessively about a colleague who seems perfect for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm recently married, but due to immigration controls i haven't seen my husband since September. I should mention I spend 3/4 of my life in one place and 1/4 in another; my husband is from the second place. I have had feelings for a guy in the first place since before I even s... (176 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me once, should I trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 1 year now, we'r planing to marry together because he asked me to and I do love him. Our relationship is going well and sweet nowadays. I remember it was 3 or 4 months ago that I found out he cheated on me while he flying ... (390 words)

Been with my boyfriend for 17 years and all he does is play on his computer and smoke cannibis

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner 17years we have 4 children i dont feel like i love him no more and he doesnt help me in any way he just likes playin his pc and smoking cannibis he wont get up and go get a job so we always are skint but im afraid to get my kids and go as i dont know ... (114 words)

We are just friends..so why do I feel guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I just broke up. We broke up because he said i wasnt his because i had had sex with guys before him. No matter how I tried to explain it he wouldnt understand. He said the only way to make me his was to have sex with me every day, and he got mad when i didnt want to. ... (183 words)

He is keeping me a secret because I had a thing with his friend! Is he using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been going out for a little while now, and he put me as his gf, on facebook, because i asked him too, but he wouldnt comment me or my pics, and if i commented a pic using hearts, he wouldnt answer back. finally he told me that he has to take off that he has a ... (315 words)

Has he really lost his labido or has he found a new woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have always had a very healthy sexual relationship and get on really well as a couple. Recently he goes to bed early in order to avoid a cuddle before sleep or if is awake he refuses to touch me or have sex with me.He claims to have ... (112 words)

He spends all of his free texting his co-worker!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been having problems. We have talked about going to see a couselor but everytime I go to make an appointment he says we are fine and dont need one. My real concern right now is, I found out today that he has been texting his female co worker for almost a... (534 words)

I don't want her back, but why am I turning down offers from other girls just to prove to her that I can be a committed person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - the story behind this is fairly long and extensive so i'll save everyone most of the details on the whole thing, but basically me and this girl had feelings for each for almost 3 years. during which time we both dated other people and tried not to act like it bothered us, up ... (552 words)

Lowering testosterone in women really seems like a bad idea..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Women: Have any of you ever been prescribed a drug, or known someone who has, that is meant to lower testosterone to help with acne? My dermatologist forced it onto me only recently(I can't remember the name of the medicine.) I was alright with it until I started looking ... (120 words)

Lack of Intimacy in an Early 20s Relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and I've been in a relationship for almost 2 and a half years, and my girlfriend has hardly ever wanted to have sex for over a year and a half; it is getting progressively worse (she is 20 years old). I am just about to graduate, and both of us are doing very ... (195 words)

Help with mad Girlfiend parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So the major problem started about a week ago when my girlfriends car broke down, I offered to tow it to her house but she said it was ok. Her grandma and sister then later went and moved it to the gas station just down the street. They called my girlfriend and said that the ... (245 words)

Who do you prefer, a good boy or a bad boy, both girls and guys opinions matters

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey this is just a short question. I've been curious, is it true that girls only go for bad boys? I'm usually considered as the good boy which a lot of my female friends told me. So it has always been on my mind for awhile. Girls and guys opinion: Which do you prefer, a... (79 words)

The dynamics of the Scorpio-Cancer lesbian love relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age - This question is directed primarily to Scorpio and Cancer lesbians who have experienced or currently involved in a Scorpio-Cancer Lesbian Love Relationship...HOWEVER...I welcome those outside of this category to share insightful information as well. What are the dynamics of ... (68 words)

Is it wrong that I miss my FWB guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I want/need advice Ok sooo I was friends with this guy then we started havin sex. We were not in a relationship and This went on for 8 months. So I was attached to him he was my second. Sooo things ended by me findind out that he took my cousin out on like a date. Bu... (415 words)

My husband smells so bad that it affects our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im so worried. my husband stinks real bad. though i did not tell him because he might be embarrassed, but i have been buying deodorants for him bt he dosent like using deodorants. this is really affecting our sex life. i dont know what to do.... (46 words)

Confused about this girl...likes me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Confused about this girl...likes me or not? im gonna try to cut some stuff out to make this nice and simple i bumped into this girl i knew from high school about a year ago, she added me on facebook and not much happened as we were both in a relationship at the time. i ... (692 words)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted it. He always tried to ... (362 words)

Facebook on verge of ruining an engagement

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I recently got re-engaged with someone whom i had a 5 year on/off relationship from another state. He proposed in September and now its December and he refuses to add me on his Facebook because he feels "he needs his space and he wants to take one step at at ti... (116 words)

I have nothing left inside for her, should I end the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I have had 20+ years of a rocky, but congenial marriage and the children are grown and successfully out on their own with good jobs or still finishing college. We agreed we would go our separate ways when the children were soundly off to a good start. I want to ... (212 words)

How can I get over my boyfriend watching pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year and we now have an apartment together. On a daily basis our relationship is fantastic and we love each other very much, I even believe (cornily enough) that he is the one. But I have a large insecurity issue when it comes to... (310 words)

When do I stop a love/sex triangle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

10 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, before reading this i can only say its rather long but in the end a pretty good situation that im stuck in and need help from more then one person with. Hi, I am an early 20's male inseek of much advice,When I was 15 I met a girl named Megan at the time I had never had a ... (591 words)

Neither of us can move so we can be together!

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for about a year and half, and everything is perfect between my boyfriend and I. However, we have one problem we live in two different countries. I want him to move to my place, but he wants me to move to his side because he states he can not leave ... (77 words)

First time sex, would the next day be too soon to have sex again?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still a virgin and planning a trip to go see my boyfriend up at school for about four days and I was wondering that even though it might hurt having sex the first time is it too soon to like wait the next day to maybe have it again? ... (50 words)

He says he just has a flirty personality

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been talking and hanging out with this guy I met at work for about 4 months now. He is always telling me how much he likes me will wait however long it takes for me to trust him. He used to be quiet the ladies man and has slept with a lot of women. I don't know ... (202 words)

Where does my confidence go when I'm not on stage?

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10 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a singer in an R and B band. When I'm on stage, I'm completely in my element; I'm able to be confident, sexy and energetic, and people love it. The problem is that I'm not usually like that. People will see me perform and hang out with me afterwards, when I'm still ... (140 words)

How do you get guys to stop talking to you when you have a boyfriend?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get guys to stop talking to you when you have a boyfriend? I am really shy and accept everyone who wants to be my friend and I'm always am nice but now I have a boyfriend and I don't know how to get part of the guys that talk to me to leave me alone and one in parti... (98 words)

In love with long term gf's cousin

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10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my gf now for 3 years. The last few months I have been feeling myself less attracted to my gf and increasingly attracted to her cousin. I love my gf, but it feels as though it is in a sisterly way. I dont want to break my gfs heart, but I am completely in love ... (119 words)

He seemed to like me, why is he suddenly distant?

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10 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - There's this guy who I've been sort of hanging out with lately. He's really cool, and we're into a lot of the same things. He's friends with my ex, who I'm still friends with, so that's how we started hanging out. I'm starting to think he might be boyfriend material. he ... (257 words)

Guys, should a girl be outgoing or hard to get?

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10 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, I'd like to clear something up. As a girl, I naturally have some trouble understanding guys. I'm getting 2 different messages from things I read/people I talk to. One is that guys like it when a girl is the friendly one, goes out of her way to talk to them, and shows th... (148 words)

I'm terrible at asking anyone out! Help!

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of wondering if anyone could give some advice on getting a date. I am a lesbian (have been all my life) and I know there are a few girls around school who would be willing to date another girl. The problem is I'm terrible at asking someone out. I'm not always sure if ... (131 words)

Is it too late for me? To have a boyfriend?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I`ve been feeling really sad lately and could use some advice. I can accept an honest answer, although I really had to get my courage up to ask this. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I`m really scared that at my age it`s too late. I`m worried that I`m past the age tha... (276 words)

I cannot tell if I am over my ex or not!

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont think im over my ex....its not a good feeling ): we went out for not even a month but i liked him so much. i cared so much about him that he was so hard to get over. he only broke up with me because i had "problems" that he didnt want to deal with i guess ): but like 3 ... (377 words)

I'm always talking about trust and now I've gone and kissed another girl. What do I do?

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10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years with my girl. Things have been really rocky over the last few months and we've talked about knocking it on the head at least once but then worked it out somehow. I'm totaly confused, do I love her and the relationship is hard ... (236 words)

All I want is the keys back, why the silence from my ex?

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10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone hope someone can help me with this. My ex girlfriend of 5 years dumped me with no specific reason no fighting arguing cheating etc... We were living 2 and half years together and when she left she forgot to leave spare keys for the house and her mum told me that... (189 words)

Why do men treat women like this?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I got treated bad (I know,I know why didn't I leave). I always felt something wasn't right about him. I tried to make him happy, wore my heart on my sleeve and tried even harder even though I couldn't do anything right. I know I'm a ... (315 words)

Did I say YES too quickly to his proposal?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had this boyfriend of mine for 6 years now, and I am really in love with him although we both have differences (as any couple does). On the other hand, there is a guy that I met at school who is amazing. He is perfect for me in every way. He is sweet, and he and I h... (186 words)

Help! I'm in love with my brother-in-law

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please let me explain in detail. I have been with my husband for 8 years, we have only been married for 3 years. We have two kids under 5. Our marriage has been on the rocks for about as long as we have been married because we had kids right away and I feel like he never ... (241 words)

Should I dump him like my friends say?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think i should dump my boyfriend. I think I still like my ex but my friends say that im just tired of people making fun of me for the guy that im going out with (hes black and im white). Help me!! I dont know if i should dump him!... (51 words)

Am I really depressed about the break up?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago and ever since, I've been feeling really low. I was speaking to a friend of mine yesterday and she said that I could be depressed because of the break up. I know that the way I'm feeling is because she left me but ... (182 words)

I'm just scared that she will run and return to being single.

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10 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 year and 3 months. For the past month it seems like shes a different person though. I could feel her become distant and slip away. She was always so loving and caring. She finally told me the other week that she has doubts about or ... (141 words)

Am I in love with my teacher?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Kso. I have a problem. and Im confused about it. I have this teacher. and He is always there for me. He is sweet, kind, and it seems like he focuses more on me, than anyone else. For example; 1. He ALWAYS seems to make eye contact with me. Even when he is joking, or teach... (497 words)

Will he become bored with oral sex?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I both virgins discovered how much fun oral sex is! I am not ready for sexsex, and he is ok with that, besides i am really getting the hang of blowjobs. (and if u must know he has a wicked tongue) My questions are will he become bored with bjs? Will i get sick ... (174 words)

Should I work on my marriage?

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10 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - About a year ago my husband confessed he cheated on me while I was pregnant with our now four year old. I was so hurt by the betrayal. Anyway we ended up separating and our marriage was over. I ran into a friend of a friend who I was always VERY attracted to and we started ... (333 words)

Will the size of my boobs even out?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Girls... I need your advice. So im 15, and I am size 36C. The thing is, one boob is bigger than the other. Will they even out eventually, and if so, when? And like during sex (im not having it) do guys find that unattractive? Also, is it normal for my nipples to be small? And ... (72 words)

How long do guys last during sex?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just wondering. How long do guys usually last during sex? Or how long does sex usually last?... (19 words)

She says it's not me but it feels like it is

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10 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people so I have a question and need help me and my girl have been dating for about 8 months we met over the Internet. Everything was fine of course we argued a little but recently she's been acting distant grouchy mad at me she says it's not me but it feels like it is, she ... (92 words)

Paranoid about naked photos I sent of myself

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I sent naked photos of myself over the Internet to someone I chat to. I know this was really really stupid but the guy is really genuine and he did the same etc. He lives in America (thank God) and I'm in the UK and he doesn't have any other info on me apart from my first name ... (273 words)

Why do I want to marry a military man when I'm older?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey... So this isnt a relationship question. But if any of you have husbands who do this as a job, you could help. Why do I want to marry a military/army man when Im older? I just think it would be cool. I know they would be gone a lot but for some reason I want to? Help :/ ... (59 words)

Is this what you call a role model?

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was back in school, in 9th grade. There was this girl who really loved P.E, but she loved her gym teacher the most. She would always talk about him. He was her coach in athletics because she was one of the best. She would tell me" when I grow up, I want to be just like ... (133 words)

I'm 14 and need to tell my parents I'm pregnant

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10 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so im 14 and may possibly be pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months now. I've been on birth control for about a year and a half. Although, i stopped taking it 3 weeks ago because I am getting a new prescription. Me and my bf decided no sex until i ... (253 words)