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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I just ask him if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone. i got boy trouble :( okay so i've got this friend. we've been talking since october and were really gud friends. When he flirts i do flirt back but he always starts. i think he likes me i might be reading signs wrong but i strongly doubt it. should i ask him if he ... (82 words)

He doesn't trust me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for around seven months and are happy or so I thought. He doesn't trust me or believe me half the time anymore and I just recently found out that he thinks I'm am or will cheat on him with my friend who I have absolutly no feelings for. ... (73 words)

Is he playing hard to get or not? Should I just dump this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi So basically i have been going out with this boy for a few months now, but i feel that he doesnt really love me even tho he says he does. When i text him or chat to him on facebook he takes ages to reply and doesnt make much conversation and when i ask him when we are next... (148 words)

Even though we broke up..do you think he still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago but we only broke up because he and i weren't able to see each other as much and actually get to hang out and talk the way we used to. When we hung out we would always be in contact. He'd always want to hold me or tell me im beautiful. ... (265 words)

I told her she was wrong to have this man spend the night! Was I right in what I said to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age - A very close friend of mine is involved with a man for more than 3 yrs and in spite of the fact that she knows he has a live in GF she has continued to see him(is she right in doing this? of course she isn't BUT I guess the heart loves who it loves). She recently told me... (303 words)

My girlfriend loves and is attracted to me, but she's not sexually attracted to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We were both virgins when we met and were planning on getting married before we had sex but things turned out differently. After around 1.7 years of dating we had sex and have been having sex often since then (being safe) she ... (342 words)

Even though she has a boyfriend...should I still drop a few hints that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - so basically ive known this girl for a bit but we never really talked and when we did it wasnt really much. but ive recently started to like her. i really like her but shes also got a boyriend. i dont know whether shes likes me but we have started talking a bit more. i d... (182 words)

How can I make this relationship blossom into a marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some advice from readers, especially males, about how to keep my new relationship going from strength to strength with the ultimate aim of marrying this guy-I'd like to know what to do and what to avoid to achieve this. We've been together 6 months, and things ... (265 words)

What's in it for her to just be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - The background: We dated seriously for 2 years. After we mutually broke up, we dated off and on for a year. Late last spring, we decided to cut ties for good. She said I wasn’t supportive, caring, or committed enough. When she began dating someone, I realized I’d taken her for ... (452 words)

I do everything for him, I even help run his stripping company but I get no thanks in return!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old and my husband is 40. We have only been married for seven months and together for a little over a year. He owns a stripping company, and this alone was difficult to deal with, but I did out of love. For the past year I have dealt with texts between him and ... (176 words)

Is he taking advantage of me, when all we do is just kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there's this guy and i like him and he likes me also, i know this because he told me. so he is like a bad boy type and he drinks and stuff like that and he also flirts with girls but he doesn't even realize when he is doing it.He has kind of a bad reputation of like ... (466 words)

Should I come out to my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 32 yrs old and I've been married to my wife for 6 yrs.being bi sexual isn't something I tell my wife but I did tell her about my attraction to men when we first met and it didn't bother her. I'm now at a point in my life that I feel that being happy with my attraction ... (269 words)

How do I respond to a woman who flaked out on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 42. She is 34. We've gone out on two dates and have gotten along perfectly. The first time I took her to a concert, then to dinner afterward where we talked. At one point, she said, "you're so cute." The second time we went to a club, then to meet some of her frie... (611 words)

I don't want to be rejected and give up on men for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy friend. We are pretty good friends. we met our first year in college and found out we had several mutual friends, so we became friends instantly. We flirted and hung out for a year. I dropped out of that school and went to a different school to change majors and ... (239 words)

I'm at a loss for words when it comes to this boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I have a crush on a boy at school. He seems really nice and he likes to sail, but I hardly ever talk to him because he's so shy and doesn't talk to girls much. He doesn't talk to anyone much actually, only a few people, and i wonder if he gets lonely. I really want to get to ... (134 words)

It's me and our unborn baby or moving to Texas to be with your 4 other kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so as stated in an early question. i am currently 27 weeks pregnant. i live with the father although we are no longer a couple. but we act very much like a couple and he still calls me his girlfriend to family and friends. i just call him my kids dad... anyways the following ... (426 words)

I think my love affair went back to his wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do now. I am married and had an affair with married coworker. We had fantastic relationship, spending every possible minute with each other, talking openly about everything, it was about love not sex. We both were not happy in our marriages. Everything was ... (357 words)

I get this painful burning sensation when we have sex, and it's not a UTI..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have a pretty active sex life. We were both eachothers first, and we've been having sex for about 8 months For the past month or so, I've been getting a painful burning sensation when we have sex, or right after we finish. Its really obnoxious on my ... (185 words)

My teacher is starting to hit on me now that I've graduated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm 17 and I graduated school last year ive now gone on to study for my A levels.Theres this teacher at my old school and everybody loved him and its true lots of girls fancied him but I didnt at this point but he was a great teacher and I respected him for getting me ... (534 words)

When his friends aren't around, it's a different story!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, and he's been in my life forever. I'm younger than him....Okay...four years younger. He's funny and makes me laugh and smile. But he's a real player. He talks about how hot girls are infront of me. But when his friends aren't around, he's sweet and makes ... (93 words)

How can I forgive such a person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i have a known a guy for 5 years..we used to break up very much..he used to cheat on me..and the most of all he always wanted to come back to me and i really loved him and i think i still..but i was tired of being in the middle and lefted when he used to cheat on me all ... (372 words)

I moved away and never told her how I felt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Recently, I've had to move country, away from my really close friends. But the worst part of it is that a while before I left, I fell in love with someone there. And now, I really can't cope without her. I think about her all the time and everything reminds me of her! Bu... (170 words)

Why can't I keep eye contact with girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so for the first and second quarter of school ive been taking public speaking and one of the big things in that class is obviously eye contact. And i seemed to have noticed a problem that ive never realized before taking this class and im assuming that its been like this ... (112 words)

Should I let him take our baby over to his ex's house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my live in ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago. He has a ex girlfriend whom he was with for 5 years and they have to kids 5 and 6 Now they seem to be best friends and doing everything together. He says hes confused and might want to try again with her. Well we just... (264 words)

I can't get over my boyfriend's history!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend started dating in January of 2010. It was our freshman year of college for both of us, and we had just gotten back from winter break when we decided to make it official. We had been seriously "talking" since around Thanksgiving 2009, so we had gotten to ... (793 words)

I feel trapped in this relationship but unsure if I want the other one back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My head is a total mess and I really don't know what to do any more. My ex and I broke up about two months ago (we were together eighteen months) and I'm now in a relationship with another guy, which is what I guess most people would call a rebound. Uh oh. but im not so sure.... (226 words)

Falling for someone I've never met

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This probably sounds very lame and I agree with you, it is. But I can't help it. I think I am starting to like-a lot- someone*wait for it* online. I don't know hwy or even how. Well I have a blog and even though I am a 16 year old it isn't full of love boys blah blah crap. It ... (173 words)

Which one should I marry?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have two marriage proposals. one girl with average beauty and professionaly just good another is very ugly but professionaly very good my confusion is whom to marry? I have no thoughts at all regarding my future plans... (44 words)

Why is my boyfriend trying to manipulate me as if I did something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend did something innapropriate. He flirted with another woman. He specifically asked me not to flirt with other men. I approached him about it, first he tried to act like he was joking, then he blatantly lied about it. But he never apologized. Now, for some ... (140 words)

Your opinions on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm not worried about this exactly, but I really want your opinions on it. Okay, so I'm quite pally with one of my teachers, we smile at each other in class, a guy hurt me in another lesson and this teacher walked in and told him off, and then we were in his lesson after... (679 words)

I love him too much to see him go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently found out my boyfriend's being forced to move to America because his dad's got a new job. I live in England and our relationship is already long distanced, he lives in Newcastle and I live in East Yorkshire. I don't want him to go, but I know he has to. I love ... (68 words)

My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went well, nice and light, and I ended i... (1216 words)

Can we ever live my dream because he has a child with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months now and he has a 3 year old daughter from his ex-wife. I am currently 20 years old with a year and half left of college and my boyfriend is 24 years old with a degree in the job he currently has at the moment. The problem I ... (378 words)

I recently started really liking a girl I've known for ages!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i met this girl ages ago but its only up until recently that i have started to like her. shes pretty and funny and really, really nice. i really like her but theres a problem, shes a year younger than me (im 13 shes 12). i really like her but shes also got a boyriend. im not... (149 words)

Is it ok to go back to his place on a first date?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I met a guy and we are going on a date. If he asked me back to his house after the date should I go? Is this ok on a first date? I have no intention of sleeping with him this quickly, so there will not be any sex, but if he offers to continue the evening with a chat etc ... (74 words)

Is it too late to talk to my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there s that guy that i like for almost a year but the problem im too shy to talk to him and he likes me too and i didnt really give him any attention at the begining till i noticed that he was always following me around and looking at me so i thought that its very sw... (247 words)

Has anyone had brostrom repair surgery? I'm not sure what to expect.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im having brostrom repair done on my ankle after christmas. has anyone had this done? ive never had an operation before and i dont have a clue what to expect. ive been told she will find where the ligament is torn, roughen the bone, pin the ligament back to the bone, tighten ... (120 words)

How can I get her out of my mind? I don't want to love her anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna forget her, take her out of my mind, she hurt... (202 words)

I'm feeling more confident since we broke up. Do I contact her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just about a month ago, she broke up with me, ending a two year long, healthy relationship for another guy. As unfair and broken as I felt, I was a bit too emotional to come out and tell her how badly she treated me, so instead I just ended things with, "I will always love ... (258 words)

She's slowing moving into my boyfriend's life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am really confused in understanding this situation I am in. Let me explain it. Me and my boy friend are commited for 3 yrs now. his bro, sis in law knows about this and i have been introduced to his mom once. 2 yrs before i happen to interact with one of his school mates ... (373 words)

The distance created distance in our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl in Dubai for the last 4 years....I had a great job..and she was madly in love with me..I lost my job and had to leave Dubai..Once i got back to my home country we kept in touch..she kept calling and sending emails and now it has stopped..She kept ... (199 words)

I'm a mess, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I was at a houseparty, and my best friend that's a boy, *Daniel was there. We all got really drunk and I kissed him, a lot. Thing is, I have a boyfriend. He arrived a while later, and I told him what happened. He was really upset and went home. I'm now going to go out ... (153 words)

Should I visit his exes with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together two-three years...depending on who you ask.he says three,i say two and a half.we have pretty good relationship,except for one thing that doesn't have much to do with him.i'm extremely insecure and jealous.what causes most pain with me ... (477 words)

I really want a boyfriend. How can I get one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I desperately want a boyfriend. I know this sounds really desperate but most of my friends and friends of friends have now got boyfriends and I am like the only one not to have a boyfriend can you please help me on this subject how will i get a boyfriend? what if i don't t... (92 words)

How do I stop him smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi today this boy i have the biggest crush we talk in class alot but never outside class got caught smoking and sent home cause hes under age , also today we had an exam and he missed it cause of it, im not just doing this for me but for his health and education , how do i... (73 words)

Are my boyfriend's actions justified?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for about 3 years now, and throughout the years we've had many fights about exes. He's always maintained friendships with his exes, but I have not. Its not that I hate my exes, its just that I don't think its healthy to maintain relationships with ... (539 words)

Revealing too much at the swimming pool

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool and bend over and make like ... (86 words)

I loved her first but now she's dating my best friend and he's cheating on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this guy, we'll call him "Jack" for about eight years now. He's a real player and I'm starting to resent him for it. A few years ago, we met this one girl, we'll call her "Vera", at the same time. I took an immediate interest in her because phys... (562 words)

He tells me he loves me but tells others that he stays with my out of pity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok , here it is i've been with my bf for like 11 month now , but last week he left me his laptop since we had a project to finish together he was so dumb to leave his laptop while he knows whats on it, so out of curiosity i checked his chat logs to find out that he talks badly ... (381 words)

Why doesn't he just let me move on? I don't understand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he interested or is he just bored? We hadn't talked for about a month or two when he randomly said hi. He asked me how my love life was and I've always been an open book. One of the reasons we started to end was because I'm the jealous type and he says it's a nasty trait but ... (548 words)

Just been dumped and it's so hard to let go! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated my boyfriend for 1 yr, 9 months, and have lived with him for 1 yr, 4 mos. I left my hometown to move to his small town, not knowing really anyone. He recently broke up with me and I am in the process of moving, reasons being we fight too much. We have fought about my ... (320 words)

Guys, what do you like when looking at a gal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is just for abit of fun really lol. I've never had a BF, and honestly aint that interested, but lately I've decided that I'm going to make abit more of an effort with my apperance/clothes etc etc. Then that got me wondering what guys actually look for when looking a... (117 words)

Pisces man dumped me, will he ever swim back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Pisces Man Dumped Me Will He Ever Swim Back? Pisces dumped me He has a lot of girls around as friends and a girl best friend that he used to be with..also they say pisces men are freaks..well its true because he's always saying things about men..how he should be with a man they... (185 words)

What is wrong with me? I want to help Karma out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What's wrong with me? I broke up with my bf of 5 years, it has been the most difficult thing I have ever had to go through. A year and a half later and I still feel as if I got kicked in the gut. I caught him cheating, he is now living with the girl...they may have even married ... (182 words)

After 10 years of faithfullness he evicted me and divorced me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - At 34 i became divorced form my husband (MAJOR ISSUES and we had a friendly divorce) I had two children age 5 and 7. A year later I met the MAN OF MY DREAMS..a gift rom God. Although the man was divorced and 18 years older. He acted young and fun. He was a wealthy Jewish man... (344 words)

Pregnant and stressed out, does anyone have any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my job because my son was extremely ill and they wouldn't give me personal days to care for him as I'm all he has right now. My bf tried to take his dash apart in his newly purchased 2000 Monte Carlo and he ended up breaking his ignition to where it needs a new cyli... (313 words)

I don't want children and its affecting my dating relationships

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am really close to just throwing in the towel. I'll try and summarise as much as I can! My first girlfriend died in a car crash when we were 19. We'd been together 2 years and I know first love is always a biggie but to lose someone like that really ripped me to shr... (653 words)

"He's single, he can do what he wants" I'm told. But in MY house with MY friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, he's 22. We dated for two years before I broke up with him. Very bad breakup because I ended up dating someone else soon after and he thinks I was cheating on him. I wasn't, he just got really hurt by everything. He has been totally miserable and hasn't dated anyone ... (257 words)

Girlfriend has problem with texting! How do I get her time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age - I need help I have a gf when she gets off of work she has either her niece,sister or bother or her ex husband niece texting her alot at times it gets annoying cause I feel like she cares for them more than she does me. And what makes it worse is when 2 of her male friends texts ... (173 words)

5 months into the relationship and haven't talked about sex yet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was wondering if I could get some advice on sex in a relationship. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months. But we haven't even talked about sex yet. And every time I want to talk about it I try being subtle in my use of words. And then she changes the subject. I admit ... (165 words)

There wasn't alot of chemistry on our 1st date, should we try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 days ago I had a first date with a guy I met online. the date, while not a complete disaster, was not the best. i think we were both a bit nervous. At the end of the first part of the date, he asked me out to dinner (he like purposed doing beforehand), I hesitated and I ... (186 words)

My fiance has an incurable form of cancer, how can I make his remaining time the happiest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im only 19. I have been with my 32 year old fiance, matthew now for 4 years. We have always had the most amazing, honest, loving relationship you could imagine, we were planning to get married in 2013. We have the most beautiful little girl in the world. Ella whos 14 ... (410 words)

Second chance in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you believe that people should be given a second chance in a relationship? we all do mistake if our partner did something wrong, broke your trust or some other thing and you still love them do you think its rite to give them second chance? i am not in such situation but i ... (66 words)

If he is not breaking up with me surely he would have at least sent a text to let me know we can talk later?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend stopped calling me and i was sure this was his way of breaking up with me. Its been a few days since now but i feel that trying to call him and texting him for a reason why has actually pushed him away when he wasnt breaking up with me like i thought. But if that ... (81 words)

Running out of things to talk about with my online girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

3 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok I've been talking to this girl online and I really like and she seem to like me, and we text each other like nearly everyday and we are making plans to meet up. But it's gotten a point where I can't think of anything to talk about and I've asked all the get to know her ... (78 words)

Why did he send this message saying he missed me, then not reply when I told him I miss him too?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago cause of something big. And my boyfriend moved to another country cause of that...He went back to his original country and left his family here..( he is above 20)... And he said he could never forgive me and things like that...b... (138 words)

I think I have lost that 'spark' with him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when this guy first get near me i would get so nervous. and i guess i could say my heart would feel like it was beating fast. when we first went out he kissed me and i felt that "spark." But now its been two months. and i dont feel the same. he doesnt make me nervous and my ... (123 words)

Who is right here? I believe we should text at least once a day, he thinks it is fine to have no contact for days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so, i have a question, my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months now, we are long distance. he believes its normal if there is no contact between us for days, whereas i think this is wrong, and that if anything there should at least be just 1 text a day at the very ... (146 words)

What was wrong with my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pursuing studies in all Science areas. M... (475 words)

What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing any exercise at all. J... (249 words)

I have forgiven him but still cannot get over what happened.....

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a unique problem in my relationship with a Guy whom i know since 1 year, We are staying away from each other in different countries. Everything had been fine until i came to know about a girl. My boyfriend met her during one of his job trip, they got to know e... (323 words)

If I confront him and I'm wrong I will look like a paranoid crazy woman, but I really need to know if my gut instinct is correct!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year I was ill and me and my partner moved to a new location. He was going back and forth between his old house when he was selling it and our new home. During my illness I got really out of shape and got the feeling he no longer desired me. I started to get a nagging fe... (255 words)

I've tried so many times to get over her but I just cant!

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Well basically there's this girl that I've liked for almost a year I think I love her, but I don't think she feels the same and one of my friends also likes her it really gets me down I don't know what to do, I've tried my best to get over her loads of times but I just can... (64 words)

Are these signals to have sex with her?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 years old virgin male and I am working in gulf now. Before I was working for a Indian boss and his wife was good with me even after I left that job they still call me and I am in good in terms with them. The problem is that whenever my boss wife talks to me we will ... (137 words)

Am I a virgin even though I use tampons?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never had sex, no penis have enter my vagina, but I have used tampons so my question is am I still a virgin???... (25 words)

Is cheating ever something you can get over?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend cheated on me and, naturally, I'm extremely conflicted as what to do. The circumstances are thus: I was gone for 5 months (2.5 at the time of the cheating) to hike the Appalachian Trail and was not available to talk often. She did not have sex and it only ... (319 words)

Is it wrong that I want my husband to trust me about this?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, to give a quick background: I've been married 6 years and it's been rocky, but we are at a great point now. I am a very social person and have kept many friends close over the years. My childhood friend / first boyfriend at age 14, mind you still just the holding hand ... (239 words)

Am I going to be too small for the guy to fit?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! this is my first time writing asking any questions! but i was wondering if u guyz might be able to help :) I'm a virgin and i've notice that my vagina is pretty small...i honestly can only get one finger in... is this normal? and when i finally do have sex...am i ... (82 words)

Do you love your man because he has money or educated or do you just love him?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I just wana ask the girls,do you love your bf beacause he has money or educated or do you love him from the bottom of your heart? I have a bf, his not educated he only have matric(grade 12) and he doesn't want to go to school forever, but we love each other so ... (80 words)

My friend and I like the same girl and he's telling stories about her

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love this girl. shes my age. we've been studying together from kindergarten. i have already told her how much i love her. a friend of mine knew how i felt towards her. so he was always asking me question whether if i've asked her or not. like he was supportive towards ... (323 words)

Girlfriend's male friend invited her to his Basketball game.

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my girlfriend got back in touch with one of her male friends that she knew when she was like 15. They started catching up and everything and the guy has a gf and a kid and he is like 22 (my gf is 21). Anyway he plays basketball and is really good and might get drafted ... (186 words)

How do I find out what my sexual preferences are? Shouldn't I just know?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very loving boyfriend of 2 years, and we are very happy together. But I can't help but think that I could be a lesbian. I've been very masculine all my life, and I've always found women so beautiful. I mean, I am an artist, so I find a lot of things beautiful- but even ... (225 words)

Should I leave my husband and kids for this unemployed guy?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Iam married and I have two kids. I've been married to Paul for 7 years. I was never really sexualy attracted to him and he never made me feel good when we had sex! I married him because in our religion if the girl doesn't get married young then your considered old. And another ... (504 words)

Why do I flirt with other men when in a happy relationship?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old woman and have been with my boyfriend for two years. We live together and we're engaged. When I was 19, I had my first serious relationship that lasted four years, I was completely devoted to him and the relationship, however he cheated on me several times... (217 words)

Feeling left out in the workplace, any advice?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - sorry for the length I like my job,i dont want to leave or transfer. Im a shift worker, I work in a hospital environment, my work place has 2/3 people under 30, 1/3 over 30 - 2 people in their 50s, which is fine. 2 people are male, the 3o yr old male is loved by all. ... (486 words)

I'm broke and gaining weight! Help!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im just wondering if anyone has some tips on losing weight. i dont have the time or money to join a gym or classes, or buy exercise equipment for the home. i do crunches, lunges, squats and push ups at home as well as several other things every day, i eat fairly healthily ... (105 words)

STD HPV2.. tell him or not?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have hpv 2 and i'm starting to see this guy. Should I tell him? I really like him, and i want him to leave his girlfriend for me. But I have this issue, and I think if I tell him he wont leave her for me. But we have been hanging out and talking a lot, and we even kissed last ... (67 words)

In love with two very different men

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with two very different men, any advise? So it started about 8years ago with my high school sweetheart, we only dated for a few months but after all this time I have never stopped loving him, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, but a year and a half of those... (193 words)

First date at home and private? Does it mean anything?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I got this girl's number from one of my classes a couple weeks back and after a few days of txting and getting to know each other, i ask if she wanted to go to lunch and a movie, so we made a time and place on the phone, and so that day when i went to pick her up i got into and ... (166 words)

Why do I always have this white stuff after sex?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - every time my boyfriend and I have sex I get white stuff in my vagina about a day later. we don't use a condom and the white stuff smells kind of fishy? it usually goes away in about a week, but this time it hasn't gone away yet and it's been a little over seven days. this ... (95 words)

I'm the only single one left in my group of friends

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in my mid 20s and find myself to be the only single one left in my group of friends. Everyone I know is already married or engaged to be and I've never even had a girlfriend or even dated for that matter. There's been times where my loneliness has really hit hard over the ... (434 words)

Why can't he just be man enough to tell me what is going on?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i'll start from the top. I met this guy, we'll call him Chris, while I was working my side job as a wedding photographer. He was a groomsman in his brothers wedding, and pursued me from the start. I was not the least bit interested for months, but my family and friends ... (702 words)

How can I make her brother go away so I can ask her out?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this year. Our training is every Sa... (159 words)

I want to console my friend but I don't know how

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a (chat)friend, she is 20, she had lost(passes away) his best friend 4 yr ago,although she is OK in normal times, but she feel lonely whenever anything wrong happen with her,she feel depressed and says no-one likes and try to understand her, with this negativity she had ... (77 words)

How can I make him stop wanting so much sex?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I make my boyfriend behave the way he used to? Ever since we started having sex, that's all he wants, and he's not happy until he gets it. It's gotten to the point where the only way I can even talk to him or be happy around him is if he's had an orgasm first. It's ... (68 words)

Can men be happy with just an emotional relationship

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3 December 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Is it possible that a married man could just want to enjoy an emotional attachment to someone else without being physical? I know it isn't right but we are filling a missing piece in each others life by giving attention to each other that our spouses aren't providing. I love ... (111 words)

She's out of league, is it wrong to ask her out?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, there is this girl I like and we are pretty good friends. Even though we dont go to the same school, she and I sometimes talk text, or facebook chat with each other. But the problem is she said she likes tall guys but Im only 5'9" and she gets like perfect grades and good ... (102 words)

He's been my crush, my brother, and my friend

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've known this one guy literally my whole life. Over the years he's been my crush, my brother and my enemy figure. When I was smaller I was...well fat, but i've lost the weight now. When he saw me, he kind of looked surprised. And when I met up with him for a get-together ... (122 words)

Coping with my fiance's extremely promiscuous past

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm falling apart trying to deal with my fiance's questionable past. I've been reading similar posts from other guys on the subject for the past few months, and although they've helped a bit, the extreme nature of my case leads me to create my own post on the subject. As I type ... (1506 words)

Am I a lesbian? Will my dream of finding my prince come true?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old girl who is worried about my sexual orientation. obsessionally worried. and I really want help. So first of all let me lay down the basics, I have always only felt oriented to guys. Ever since I was as young as 2nd and 3rd grade, I deemed boys to be my "b... (547 words)

She doesn't approve of me socializing with other people.

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 47 year old scottish guy, i work and i also have a very small business, i met a 23 year old girl through this business about two years ago, we had great fun to start with but i,m very cautious of moving things on, she is the life and soul of a place yet she doesnt like ... (148 words)

My Mom doesn't want me to go to college!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I need advice real bad. Ok I want to start school in Jan and I really really want to start. I've been trying to my GED for 2 years and I finally got it. I was soooo happy. But before I found out I passed the test, I got a job working with my best friends family and I was ha... (294 words)

After all that's happened how could I still love him?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm with this guy for 2 1/2 yrs, we live together, we have roommates, dogs, the whole nine...anyway, we do fight a lot but I can honestly say I was too uptight. But also about other things like him cheating and then me cheating on him just to get back at him. Well we are ... (408 words)

He's sure I cheated so he's going to cheat too

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3 December 2010 (F)

age - My BF constantly accuses me of lying and is insistent that I have cheated on him on more than 1 occasion. In fact, I have never cheated on him. I don't know what to do to convince him. Now, he has "assumed" since he "knows" I have cheated on him that he is determined to cheat ... (121 words)

A question for the female aunts...

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3 December 2010 (F)

age - I have a vagina question for the ladies. Is it true that during intercourse,if a woman wants she can move her vagina muscle to speed up her man to cum?... (30 words)

My bf's a drug dealer and also very agressive but I still love him

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much that i dont see myself ... (115 words)

I want to feel appreciated!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My relationship of 2 1/2 yrs has gone stale. Normally, I would try to spice things up, or have a serious conversation on making things better, but I'm just at the point where I give up. My boyfriend is not spontaneous, and does not make me feel beautiful. I've cried to hi... (177 words)

Boyfriend has a child with another woman, tells me after two years together

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have had the same boyfriend for about two years and a half now. We've had our share of problems but we've always been able to manage to get through them. He's from Mexico, and while I'm not Mexican, I speak Spanish, so we communicate just fine. Well, he finally tol... (280 words)

We broke up but I miss him so much

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - About a month ago me and this boy broke up.. He said to go our own ways.. He's 18 and I'm 15..the thing is even though the super painful heartbreak is almost completely gone, I miss him so much..we don't even talk anymore. I really miss him, I just wish he would talk to me you ... (71 words)

Things are great when she's happy, but when she's not ...

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey first time asker i've been seeing this wonderufl girl for over 2 and a half years now. and things are mostly great, when she's happy... but when she's in a bad mood things go bad, really bad, really fast. and i don't know how to deal with it. earlier this year i ... (114 words)

Too much sex...how can I ask her to tone it down?

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3 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is an odd situation. Me and my girlfriend just moved in together. And we we were having sex like 7 times a week. And we used condoms everytime, and I brought up the pill and having more sex. She said ok and she went on the pill and we stoped with condoms. Well now ... (188 words)

Advice needed ASAP!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday i had sex with my bf and his condom popped i heard but i didnt realize it till he came in me. should i take the plan B pill or just wait next week to see if i am pregnant and deal with this issue from there???... (50 words)

My best friend is pregnant, I wish it were me!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me give a bit of history, my best friend (lets call her Tammy) well Tammy and i have been best friends for five or more years, she is practically my little sister. We have always had the plan to get pregnant at the same time. We where always going to have kids the same ... (132 words)

He said he loved me, now he won't even talk to me!

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3 December 2010 (F)

age - My BF of over 2 years and I have had a tumultuous relationship but until recently, I believed we both loved each other. I'm somewhat of a hopeless romantic, believing love will conquer all. He told me last week he has met another girl and is very happy, after telling ME just ... (89 words)

How do I convince her not to end things?

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3 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im used to answering these things not writing them but oh well, i love my gf/ex-gf very much and i want to be with her but our realtionship isnt good and we have tried many times, this time i think she does mean it when she says she wants to end so my question is: how ... (109 words)