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writes:There's this girl that i like who is in my university. We live on the same floor of our halls of residence and i have a massive crush on her. I told her about it as i just had to get it out and she said that we were just friends. We were in a club and both pretty drunk so i guess that it was VERY stupid of me to tell her then because maybe she thought that i was joking with her and maybe that influenced her responseAnyway I was more than ok with her saying no and she gave me her number. Two days later we bumped into each other in another club and we danced together and she proceeded to grinding on me, which was good but a little bit confusing considreing she said she wasn't interested but i danced with her anyway. Anyway i must have danced with her for about 20 seconds and i went to the bar to get some water because i was dehydrated. She probably thought that i was rejecting her or something but i wasn't too bothered about her because i was upset about something else completely unrelated that night and i went to find my friend.My question is does she like me or not because she's all i think about 24/7 and it's driving me nuts.We're both pretty comfortable with each other which is weird because i'm usually somewhat nervous around other girls.I feel really great and really happy when i'm around her.She doesn't mind me touching her at all or getting in her personal space.We're both from completely different backgrounds and maybe that's why she's a bit scared.She's always happy whenever she sees me and we always make eye contact with each other.I think about her all the time and i haven't been able to do any work because of that.Should i just forget about her or is there still hope?Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe've only known each other for about 8 or so weeks. I think she likes me too and i want to ask her out to a movie but i don't know how i'd say it in words. I posted here to see what people thought. Thanks for the responses.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): I think there's hope. But you'll truly never know unless you ask her out. I mean maybe she acts like that with a lot of guys or MAYBE she is completely obsessed with you and she's comfortable with you because she likes it to. I say you confront her about it when she's NOT drunk. I think that relationship could take off. But most likely not unless you start it off. If your a decent guy and she dances dirty with you I doubt she'll say no. I personally think she likes you from what you say and she probably wants something more than a companion she can be really be comfortable with. I mean if she wanted that she would get a dog. So confront her! I doubt she'll reject you and at least you'll know the truth of whether she likes you or not. And if she doesn't stay friends and move on.
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