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writes:I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely.I really liked talking to him, but he has a girlfriend and we were just friends so I always respected that. I sincerely miss him now he's back home and so I put that on my status in the messenger. I posted him a Merry Xmas note in his messenger and to my surprise he erased on Xmas day. I asked him why and didn't replied and he won't speak to me now. What did I do wrong if we are only friends? He'd supposed to have told people back home about we hanging out since we never talked nothing but friend stuff. is it wrong that I said I missed him as a pen-pal like I told him? I don't get it! I mean the fact that he's back home it doesn't mean he has to erase me from his contact list since we've always been friends like for 4 years now, its not like I will bug him daily since he's back to his life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): I expect it was due to his girlfriend. Either he thought it might cause a problem or she didn't like it. One way or another. I think you should not have said you missed him, it looked as if you might care a bit too much. Sad, but there we are.
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reader, soon567  +, writes (30 December 2010):
I think they're correct here. My GF blocked like 8 friends of mine and I miss chatting with all of them. I think you were excited to have him home and may have been a little to friendly. She never blocked any woman I chat with that tried to get to know her too. Try speaking to his GF.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Ok...even if it was the gf who blocked you....what would you have done if you saw such a message from a woman on your boyfriend's page? Think about it.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (30 December 2010):
i beleive there are two possibiliteis
1-) he is maybe thinking that you like him more than a friend and by his unnecassary rudness he is trying to back you off
2-) "and i do personally beleive that this is the real reason for his rudness"
he might told his gf about you and she gave him a hell of a time about you that he is why he is affraid of being in any kind of touch with you
your reaction on both possibilties is to ignore him
and if he contact you back and you still like him
give a big hard time before any you make responce to him
Good Luck
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