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30-35,
anonymous
writes:She tells me she has feelings for me, but it's on and off for about 1 year. She is in a relationship with her bf for about 4.5 years. They broke up but patched back many times. He is very possessive and she went through so much of emotional hurt with him. She shares all her problems with me. Suddenly, she doesn't wish to talk to me anymore, she just threw me away from her life because her bf hate it when she talks to me and she also thinks one day he might change. She knows I care so much for her and made her happy during her hard times. Once she even told me she wants me in her life and doesn't want to lose me. She still has problems with her bf. She knows her relationship is unhealthy and she also knows I cared for her happiness and well being. It has been 4 months we last talked. Will she still think about me or is there a way we could be together in the future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): You are the Nice Guy being used. You are her emotional tampon. She gets this kind of support from you so she does not have to demand it from her BF that would not give it. She has the best of both worlds right now so she has no incentive to choose you or him.
You need to take a step back and slow down the contact. It might not work but what you are doing now will definitely not work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Try talking to her one more time, if you can. But if she won't budge, then just try to move on. If she understands she's in an unhealthy relationship there's not much you can do. And if she really didn't want to lose you then she would still be contacting you. And if she cared enough to leave the unhealthy relationship the she would have. So try to move on. Sorry
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