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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

New to sex and want to make it better

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i make sex with my boyfriend better for him? I feel pretty useless.. i mean.. i dont exactly just lay there but like he kisses my neck.. plays with my boobs and bum and stuff.. and i just dont know what exactly to do. hes rather experienced.. had about 12 partners.. i ... (145 words)

Two successful dates, but I'm not sure how much she likes me?

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24 December 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I've met a girl online. I am quite taken with her. We talked for a few days, maybe a week online then we decided to meet. It was a really good first date. No awkward silences, great conversation. After we parted, she text me saying that I was as nice as she thought... (444 words)

I'm really jealous of this girl who's in classes with my crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive liked this guy in two of my classes for about 4 months now,and it was kinda a big deal for me when i first started liking him because i had been sadly in love with my ex for a year after we broke up, so it was such a relief to be over him. ive felt really good about myself ... (258 words)

We broke up because of my insecurities, now he just wants to be friends

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well...my ex and i have been together for 3 yrs. we were goign to get engaged and it ended up all falling apart because of my insecurities. after this i didnt talk to him for 6 months, never once did i call or contact. he would message and stuff. and i would be subtle. finally ... (423 words)

Ideas for a special day out with someone you love?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've got a date with someone I've been seeing next week and we haven't had any alone time for a month or so. So basically I was wondering if anything had any ideas for a night in? And how to make it extra special as we haven't been together in what seems like a while. Than... (67 words)

Does he love me or just like me as a friend?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really close friends with this one guy. I'v known him for a really long time, and I sorta like him... alot. We're both muslim, so we can't date. So the other day was my birthday. I don't have a facebook, but one of my close friends posted on her facebook that it was my ... (149 words)

How can I motivate him to be more pro-active in bed?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI :) My boyfriend and I have been together for over 10 months now I’m 19 and he’s 22. He’s you're average guy he’s sweet, caring, generous and loving. However nowadays I’m starting to enjoy sex less and less with him, mainly because I feel like he doesn't put enough effort wh... (247 words)

Would this be a weird way to have our reunion?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A rather odd situation but here goes. When studying abroad for a few weeks a while ago I met a girl on one of the courses. Nothing much happened then but since I came back some months ago we have stayed in touch, talked a lot etc. long story short is that there may potentia... (289 words)

Worried he'll leave me straight after we finally have sex

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and we've been wanting to have sex, but don't know when the right time will come. But i'm afraid that after we have sex he'll leave me and won't love me anymore. Plus he acts diffrent around me, when we're in public h... (89 words)

Is it normal to bleed after rough intercourse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - A few days ago i had what you could call "rough" sex. As in penetration was hard and fast. After i noticed quite a lot of blood on the bed sheets and it shocked me because i didn't realise how rough we must have been. I have never bled before that and am pretty sore. I a... (130 words)

Are tampons comfortable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i started my period not long ago and i use pads but there really uncomfortable and panty liners :/ i want to try a tampon but im not sure if it hurts? if its even more uncomfortable? and whats its even like to have one "in"?? please help me... (54 words)

My bf gave me a black eye. My Dad wants to meet him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend hit me and gave me a black eye and i dont know whether to leave him or not because i'm kind of scared of him. My dad keep asking me to tell him where he lives because he wants to go round there but i dont really want to tell him because i don't want him and ... (104 words)

Is he being flirtatious or just friendly?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age - can a man give you flirting jester an just be friendly ? flirting jester are winking stareing into your eyes hugging you once in awhile smile at you an putting his hands on your shoulder . have a man that i see a few times in the month that does this to me . just need a li... (73 words)

Urgent! Please: need more ideas for coupon book for Christmas

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm making a coupon book for my boyfriend for Xmas. I need ideas of what to give him with hem. I already have a "free 45 min backrub", "free clean any room in the house spotless with in 2 hours", a "get out of trouble free coupon" and a "ZERO bitching from me all day coupon". ... (88 words)

Week old relationship and already fighting. Is this a bad sign?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a really new relationship, we've only been dating for a week now. I've noticed that we have quite a few differences and don''t always get along. He tends to not always think before he speaks and I get upset sometimes. We also live about an hour away from each other so we ... (169 words)

How do I withstand the cold war with my mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok blunt and simple... I know that parents grieve or what ever when they find out there children are GBLT but roughly how long does this take? O.O I know it's different from person to person but it's literally killing me... Me and my mother used to have a very close ... (172 words)

How do I deal with my girlfriend's intimate scenes with her costars

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24 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hey hi...my girlfriend are me are together for 5years...shes started modelling and doing tv serials from past two years...i dont mind her doing it but cant stand her doing intimate scenes with her costars..she says its a part of the job and cant avoid it...till now she has ... (95 words)

Does he really love me, or was he just drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly dont know what to believe. So the guy i like and he likes me back called me the other night and he was all like ''wassup baby.'' We just talked for a while and i knew something was wrong. So i told him i'd call back later. So he started "acting" sad. So i asked why ... (133 words)

Can't blank out my ex. Still compliments me but no longer fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my ex always compliments me. he dumped me a couple of months back but i cant get over him. i tried to hate him but he broke up with me so gently i ended up hating myself for not going out with him sooner. i started becoming depressed and he never texted and i never texted him. ... (116 words)

Please don't judge, need advice. I'm crazy for him. He has 5 kids by 3 women and his wife is pregnant. At wit's end

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I've been in a relationship with this man for over a year now. He's married. In the begnning I idnt know he was married. His family lied to me he lied to me. I got pregnant and we now have I child together. She is 5 months old. He and his wife have 3 kids and... ... (580 words)

Guys should I tell my ex that I really like him still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this question I mainly for guys but girls can answer too:) so I really really like my ex again... But he started dating this girl recently.. He only asked her out because I said no..(he was in love with me) But now he really likes her. Me and my ex were good until one day ... (129 words)

I have a new guy, BUT keep thinking of my ex, even though my ex bullied me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I am extremely confused with my relationships at the moment. My boyfriend of two years split up with me two months ago and then a month ago, after becoming close with another boy we got together. My problem is I keep thinking of my ex and I'm not certain whether it is ju... (260 words)

Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). But he seems to have an issue ... (201 words)

I want to marry her, but she says we're just friends

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i'm in love with a girl but she said that we're friends but she does not behave like a usual friend. What should I do . I want to to marry her but she always refuse... (38 words)

She's still in love with her baby's father. Will I get hurt?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl about 6 weeks ago and right now we are in a friends with benefits type of relationship but it's really complicated. We go to school together and hang out a lot and we feel like we have a lot in common. The problem is that she just got out of a 4 year ... (344 words)

I've love a few, but all end in tears. How do I date men who don't drop me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a divorcee and have suffered lot of physical and verbal abuse during one year of marriage. This happened 4yrs back and I'm single since then. Have entered into few relationship after that, but they were couple of years younger to me and unmarried. I loved them more then... (109 words)

It's Christmas, but how to break up with my girlfriend?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been in a relationship for 19 months and at first, the 6 months and counting was fantastic. Not a problem whatsoever. But now, all we seem to do is fight and argue. She tells me that I annoy her whenever I try and speak to her and when I ask her "How come you won't t... (210 words)

Who should tell my daughter what happened?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age - I'm a divorced dad who has a 20 year old daughter living with me. Let me make this short and to the point. Her long time friend who is 22 and in our life since she was 4 years old, propositioned me for sex. I denied her telling her I can't be with my daughter's best friend. ... (149 words)

How do I get through this? He called to tell me to forget him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I traveled from my country to another one, for a job, leaving my parents, my friends and everything. I met a guy that i loved so much. I liked the new country. Because of him and we spent a lot of happy times and great moments. But I found out, after 6 months, that he is in a... (182 words)

Can taking one birth control pill before your period mess up your cycle and make you more fertile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I havent had sex since Feb 2010 because my boyfriend had went away for a while. And while he was gona I stopped taking my birth control. So he came home Dec 15 2010 and I was expecting my period that and I didnt want to be on it because I wanted to have sex. So I had a few ... (363 words)

Is getting an AIDS test scary, how is it done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So in health class weve been talking about STDS and aids and how it is transmitted through any kind of sex. Two years ago i used to give my now ex blowjobs, but i usually didnt swallow the cum except for once or twice.But my health teacher told us theres a place in our city ... (129 words)

I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age - i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i think of it , plan it , and ... (144 words)

I have a suspicion he's being devious. How can I trust him again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my boyfriend off and on over 2 yrs,it usually only lasted 3 months at a time but this time we've been together for 7 months.I have trust issues because he has lots of girl friends and many of them he met on internet date lines.when we first got back together ... (135 words)

He is everything I've ever wanted in a man, but can I take this chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 35 year old single mother of one 8 year old girl. I was with her father for 13 years before he decided to leave. He is still in her life but we do not get along due to his verbal abuse and disrespect. it took me a while to trust men again but I met a great wonderfu... (450 words)

Was I raped by this guy years ago. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a really traumatic first time, experience years ago. I was making out with someone and I was happy just with that. Then he forced himself on me and had unprotective sex with me. It was very painful. I couldn't stop crying, but he kept going anyway. When he finally ... (128 words)

My wife can't have children so she told me to marry her sister!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

24 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 1 am 30 years man . I am married with good wife of 28..we have no child ... we consulted a doctor , there is some problem in my wife , so there is no chance of child .. my wife has one sister of age 23 ,my wife ask me marry her , whether i can marriage her legally... (63 words)

I am sleeping with my husband's best friend

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am sleeping with my husband's best friend. It started a year and a half ago. Every time we spend together is just amazing. He says all the right things and makes love to me in ways I cannot describe. Trouble is, I love my husband very much and I have no intention of lea... (170 words)

She said she missed going out with me but next day she said she meant she missed having a boyfriend?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well i stooped texting my ex's and i did not text her for like 5 days then she sends me a text inviting me to her birthday and and she told me if i was going or not i just said i did not know and she was trying to convince to go she told me that all of my friends are going to ... (560 words)

I have doubts about my partner

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have doubts about my partner. When i met her she told me that she had booked a holiday to mexico with friends for xmas. As xmas came around i found that she is sharing a room with a male friend. Last night as we were making love for the last time for 2 weeks, as she was ... (165 words)

I kissed my boss! Should I tell my fiance?

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24 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm in love with my boss im engagde but me and my boss spents more time together then me and my bf i really dnt know what i must do we kiss this morning for the first time do i tell my fiance or do i just make if it never happend i realy do love him but im madly in love with my ... (76 words)

My ex still has my heart and its so annoying!

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i split from my boyfriend about 3 months ago, we havent spoke or anything since coz i want to get over him. i thought i was over him, but i started talking to this lad i really like and i cant seem to fall for him, my ex still has my heart and is so annoying. i cant seem to ... (77 words)

I'm in love with her but she is taken by someone better

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in love with this girl ive known her for about a year she has had the same boy freind for almost 10 months and im afriad she might fall in love with him i have never heard her say that she loves we are not best freind because im to afraid if i get close to her she will con... (223 words)

How do I trust him when we're about to take the next step?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now and to the outside world it's seemed like a fairytale romance. He's my first boyfriend because I always told myself to wait for the moment when it seemed perfect, and it did. We had rough patches but we always worked ... (1106 words)

She wants me to ask out the guy I like...for her!

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i kinda like this boy, but i never told anyone he is about 1/2 years older he always smile at me on the bus and i laugh at him with my friends and stuff like that but then afterwards my friend liked him but i never told her i like him and she wants me to ask him out for her. a... (170 words)

My daughter's is obsessed about Michael Jackson and wants to follow in his footsteps

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all, i hava a problem with my 13 yr old daughter, most young girls have an obsession with a singer at some point i know but my daughters is michael jackson it has been going on since she was about 7 and its worrying me as it seems to be getting worse she constantly talks ... (195 words)

Why doesn't he get me an engagement ring?

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24 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - What does an engagement ring symbolise/ mean? My bf and i r engaged bt he don't want to buy a ring, says it's a waste of money coz he'l hav to buy a wedding ring soon. Hw do i keep tellin people i'm engaged when der's no ring infact nothing to show (though d ring doesn't ... (60 words)

I don't love him, but should I stay with him because he is safe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 i have a 2 year old with a man i dont love, we were together a year when i fell pregnant, I was stupid 19 year old thinkin "it wont happen to me" although i cant say i regret it as i love her so much! But about a month after havin my daughter i completley fell out of love ... (317 words)

Is anal Masturbation a sin?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is anal masturbation a sin? I recently found out how awesome it is, but I really want to know if it is a sin or not...help please?... (27 words)

Does the constant calling and texting after breaking up mean she still loves me?

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24 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hi recently me and my gf broke up i still love her very much but she doesn't plan on getting back. now even though it was a horrible break up we are still very good friends but what i don't get is she wants to text and call how we used to. we even had well what i think of as ... (124 words)

Does my ex miss me? or is he just happy to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - since my ex broke up with me 2 months ago we have been on fairly good terms. he wanted to still be friends, and i never really gave a direct answer to being friends other than i would need some time to be able to even talk with him again. so we did a short (1month) period of no ... (476 words)

Why do men TRY to be misleading?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys insist on doing purposely sweet things knowing it’s forced and insincere, knowing you already don’t buy it, but just to con you, do it anyways. God , if I’m trying to see the relationship for the whatever the heck it really is, I’m making the it easy for you, I’m ... (201 words)

My girlfriend never stops to think of me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me please... Me and my girlfriend have been dateing for almost 8months, but weve been friends for years. I've always loved her, but its so deep now that i cant seem to be away from her. However are one problem my past. I was in a very abusive relationship for two ye... (123 words)

She lied to me and I have no reason to trust her now

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im 17 iv been dating my gf for about a year,just today she told me something she had kept from me this whole time,it was that she played strip poker and whent skinny dipping one time a couple yrs ago (shes 16) with her friend and a guy,this ticks me off because i asked her ... (93 words)

He uses smoking as a way to cope with stress but I want him to quit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm 15 and I'm kind of in a relationship with this guy ( same age ). Ilove him with all my heart, and he loves me back. Itell him everything, and vise versa. He has had a difficult life. He's in a depression, but he goes to therapy for that. He tells me that I'm... (217 words)

First Christmas without my ex here and I am about to lose it.. how can I stop this depression?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's my first Christmas since my boyfriend and I broke up and I am just about to lose it. This has been the worst break-up I have ever had. I have lost myself and feel like I have nothing left and all these holidays are making it so much worse... we lived together for 2 years ... (573 words)

I like him, but I do not know how to express it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy at work who I think has a crush on me for awhile. He used to walk by cubicle and look into my mirror so I would notice him. He would smile and look away. Then, I took notice and eventually liked him. I said "hi" to him and then the glaring and staring occured. He ... (177 words)

I'm afraid to get tested for an STD

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Could ihave an STD ? I'm 15. Iam not sexually active ; I'm a virgin . But in the past, ihave done stuff. They say icould get an STD from skin to skin contact ( refering to genital areas ), and ihave done that before. They also say you could get it by trying on bathingSuits, ... (172 words)

Why do I think loving someone is weak?

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24 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm really torn within myself. I'm confused. I have the desire to be with a woman, to give myself to her completely. I have cravings for a good, loving partner. But for some reason I hate myself for it. I feel that if somehow I fulfill my desire for love, and emotional ... (134 words)

He didn't get me anything for Christmas! Does that mean he's not into me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend didn't get me anything for Christmas. We've only been dating a month. He is visiting family overseas right now so I sent him a present. He knew I was giving him something but still didn't get me anything. Should I take this to mean that he's just not that into ... (56 words)

Am I a horrible person because I told all of his girlfriends what he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've heard of second chances but never 14th chances.. Me and my "Friend" have been "Friends" for about 2 years roughly 3. We went out for about 6 months till we broke up then he started getting with girls that were frieds of ours. He made me mad that he could do that to me.. W... (495 words)

Is it cheating to self masterbate in front of a massage parlor attendant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it cheating to self masterbate in front of a massage parlor attendant? She offered to do it but I wasn't comfortable with letting her. She encouraged me to finish myself. I enjoyed the experience, but i'm feeling the guilt.... (40 words)

It smells down there. Do I need to see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have a problem...whenever me and my boyfriend have sex he says it smells down there bad to him...so i went and bought summer eves bodys wash and wipes for whenever im not at home well i used these products and the smell goes away but whenever i get intimate it seems ... (72 words)

Boyfriend's father died and I think he's manipulating me using that excuse

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im havin a problem with my bf we have a child n one on the way just recently his dad passed away. i tried my best to be there for him but there's a time i get mad at him for a reason such as him wanting to go out all weekend he expects me to say yes to him when i dont he w... (149 words)

Is it bad to masturbate several times a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to hump (or masturbate) multiple times daily?... (10 words)

Will skipping pills give me the effect I want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been on the pill for about 5 or 6 months and this month i wanted to start my period a bit sooner than i'm supposed to. i have 2 normal pills left and the next week is the sugar pill week. i was wondering if i just skipped the 2 pills and started on the sugar pi... (70 words)

No girl has shown interest in me since the break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So broke up with my girl friend about a month ago and no other girl has shown any interest in me at all and I'm starting to think that no other girls in my area have any interest in me and it's really bummin me out. What do? ... (48 words)

My daughter is suffering over this man! How do I help her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age - Ok I dont know where to start all I can say ..... He left woman #1 to be with woman #2 that had his child then he left his child and woman #2 to go back to woman #1 that forgave him then left woman #1 to be with woman #3 my daughter is suffering over this man and it kills me ... (90 words)

Sparks and excitement but unreliable guy VS boring but stable and committed guy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If you had a choice, what would you pick? A relationship where you feel a lot of sparks, there is a lot of physical attraction, and there is a lot of passion and excitement. BUT where the partner is unreliable and has so much baggage that you are in for a very rocky relat... (211 words)

I lied to my boyfriend about getting raped and being pregnant and he wants me to help raise the baby!!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm 14. My boyfriend (who's 13) and I are really close, so we tell each other everything. One day, I saw him talking to his friend, who I SWEAR was hitting on him (she was touching him and everything)!! So I (obviously) got upset... I didn't know how to deal with this!! ... (137 words)

I think he's lying about who he's calling or texting

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there well i wanted to ask what do you when you love someone for 2 years now and that person told you he loves u too. but he rather show his love to you then say it. but then you think he lies about who he texts, call, or doing on the weekends?... (54 words)

Torn between 2 best friends

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a HUGE problem... I am in a relationship with this really great guy, but I also have a GIANT crush on this other guy, let's call him G. And my bf name M. So, I think G keeps giving me hints that he likes me also, and I really want to be with G. But I do NOT want to face ... (82 words)

Am I right in thinking I need to get rid of him??

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Need to rant a bit and get some confirmation that I'm making the right decision because I don't trust myself anymore. I met this guy and fell for him. He seemed so nice and so interested. But then he started canceling plans last minute, and things started to go bad. I me... (340 words)

After two and a half years he's still not "ready" to get married??

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2.5 years. I love him and want to marry him and he says the same....BUT he is not ready right now. WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN?!? I really do not understand, he says he does picture me as his wife and pictures of having kids but he is ... (198 words)

Is the invitation really to watch a movie, or is it something else?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a blind date recently. It was great. There was a second date, a couple of days later. At the end of the date he finally kissed me for the first time. The guy seems to be very respectful and gentleman like. For our third date , he invited me over his house for a movie. ... (113 words)

Why is it wrong for the woman to make a decision about marriage?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2.5 years. We have a house together that we bought about a year ago. I have been ready for marriage since about our 2 year mark. I started discussing this with him a couple months ago. I know many people say you should not discuss ... (145 words)

Why do boys not like me?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid.... I have one big question. Why dont boys [ever] like me? I am about 5'4, have dirty blond thats about a little past my shoulders, greenish blueish eyes, have a GPA (grade point averge) of 3.7 out of 4 , im skinny (105 pounds) but muscular ( im a competitive danc... (319 words)

He has a girlfriend, what should I do?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, well i recently moved countries, ive been here for about 4 months now, and havent met alot of people, i live in an apartment, and about a month ago a nice lad moved into the apartment downstairs, hes nice looking, and hes a really nice guy, the problem is he has a girlfrie... (121 words)

How can I be sure a relationship won't ruin our friendship?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Last summer was the summer before my freshman year. A boy that I had gone to school with in middle school and I started texting and talking on the phone all the time. I liked him a lot, and he told me he liked me. However, at that time, we thought we were going to... (249 words)

Foreskin problem please help!

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hello i'm just gone 16 and i have a foreskin problem... it can be pulled down (when and not when erect) without hurting but it doesn't seem to stay down, i do NOT want to be circumcised, please i really need help do you have any?... (46 words)

I kicked him out because he cheated, but he really does love me

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem.... I found out that my boyfriend (lives with me for the past 2 years, have been together 4 years) he cheated on me with a co-worker and everyone from work found out.It happend over a year ago but I just found out now.He cheated with her for about 2 months then ... (151 words)

Having second thoughts about the break-up

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple days ago my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We have been having a lot of problems due to having to live in my mother's house together because his parents kicked him out and he had no where else to go. This ended up ruining what we had before the move. Now he ... (192 words)

I may be in love with my stepdaughter...

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I married my ex wife with her having a 8 month old daughter.I stayed married to her mother untill she was 13.than me and her mom got a divorce and me and my stepdaughter built a incredible relationship up to that point.(know by incredible I mean unbevievibly close nothing ... (194 words)

I'm in love with a girl who doesn't like me?

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, I have 2 girls who like me they are both nice and I would get with either of them but I fell in love with a girl who doesn't like me along time ago and we are best friends, I know she doesn't feel the way I feel about her so I'm not sure if I should get with one of the ... (78 words)

I'm not thinking straight, so could I get a second opinion about his being on these sites?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To start at the very beginning, I had a boyfriend, I slept with him and he pretty much left me straight after he got "what he wanted". I ended up heartbroken. He did it over text as well which didn't help. I'm already 'clinically' depressed according to my councilor and his ... (379 words)

Was I being played, with the last few weeks the end game?

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24 December 2010 (M) age 41-50 - It all started 1 year ago on a site, met the girl of my dreams (personality wise to me she was the yin to my yang) but she just came out of a bad relationship so we taking it slow making sure she gets to know me better and likes what she see's. Things are clicking well between ... (1561 words)

Pain for 2 days after sex, doctor says nothing's wrong -- anyone experience this?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, i'm with my bf 14 months over the last 4 months wen we have sex occasionally i do get very sore pains just at the end of my stomach, i mean these pains to be so painfull, i dont get them till like the day after we have it and the pain last about 2-3 days. i have been to ... (193 words)

Lots of awful yellow headed spots down there? What to do?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hi! I dont know who else to ask. It's quite embarrassing! For about 2 years now i've shaved my down below adea. Using a new razor every time and sensitive shaving gel! But i always go really itcky pretty much right away! I've noticed more too. Lately a few days after i've... (90 words)

Should I try to slow things down or just go fot it?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 45 year old divorced female. There's a 45 year old male that I'm interested in at work. Actually he lives on the opposite coast but travels to my town quite frequently. We work very closely together. I can tell there is definitely some chemistry between us and I would ... (201 words)

My guy is looking at quite a lot of gay porn on line. Why?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found gay porn on my guys computer..it wasn't just one site, there were several over a couple of days and some had galleries,is it normal for straight guys to look at gay porn? There was other porn but quite a lot of gay porn.... (45 words)

Lonely and hard of hearing

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok I'll be 23 in a few days and I've never had a boyfriend. I go to work and then come home. I'm not sure about going to bars or clubs because I'm half deaf and it's really hard to hear in loud places like that. I've also had the problem of guys not believing me, about my ... (83 words)

Like this great Mexican guy, but am travelling whole of next year. What should I do?

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24 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Socorro!! Please help me!! This is a job for King Soloman, but he was busy, and you aunts at DC are the next best thing. I´m really in a bind, and the only solution I can think of is to just cut myself in half... but that would probably kill me, and I DO... (848 words)

I'm 19 and have never had a girlfriend.

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 and have never had a girlfriend. I have never been kissed or hugged (besides family). girls always tell me im a nice guy, but not what they're looking for - im always just a friend. i am pretty average, i recently started working out intensely for the first time hoping ... (152 words)

I thought my mom would understand when I came out to her!

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24 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just came out to my mom because I thought I was ready. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months the first ever person I had been in a relationship with and I needed to talk to her about it. I thought she'd understand after all she's liberal and I've never heard her say ... (162 words)