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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Keeps pictures of his ex on his computer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why does my boyfriend keep pictures of his ex on his computer and a picture of both of them together as his desktop screensaver? Why does he say that he has a lot of love for her but he loves me.He has been with me for almost a year now. Any advice... (52 words)

If I tell her, i'd break her heart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out close to a year now. When i first met her she seemed to be wonderful and so motivated! Always on top of things and busy etc. Well she made me so happy and basically made my head spin just being around her. I made her my girlfriend soon ... (281 words)

He says the same thing, what does this mean

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so there is this guy who looks at me a lot but talks to other girls and he talks about that he dumped his gf and he doesn't want gf if he doesn't need girl friend so why he stare at me all the time even my friends caught him staring but when i looks at him he looks away i am ... (137 words)

He apologized but still wants to be apart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi every one.First thing, I am sorry for my english. I am learning, but I will try to explain what's going on. I am married for 3 years, my husband left me because he said that he doesn't have future with me. He wants to move out of the country to another country, he doesn't ... (237 words)

Help, I can't be without him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke an ultimatum with my boyfriend and he broke up with me. I want to just die! I promised I wouldn't do shots anymore, and that night I did one. But at the time I really didn't think it was a huge deal. I was leaving, and someone bought the whole bar a round. I ... (139 words)

Should I stay with him and put up with drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got in a relationship with a guy I used to be head over heels for 6 years ago. We lost touch and have both gone through some pretty hard times but a few months ago we made our way back to each other. Things started off pretty rocky... He's a great guy I can swear by ... (249 words)

I worry about disappointing people, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A month or so ago, I got drunk at this party and this guy came onto me and kept on kissing me and made flattering comments which I appreciated at the time and was attracted to his intelligence and the interesting conversations we had. He eventually asked for my number and later ... (247 words)

Feel weird of jealous about flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - A girl i have gone to school with since i was 12 has recently become single. shes always had a thing for my bf of a year and they had a 'thing' a couple years before me and him got together. my bf was out the other night and he told me that they got chatting for a while an... (227 words)

I love him, but I don't feel sparks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Our relationship is amazing in so many ways. We have a very stong emotional connection and laugh alot together. We still have a good sex life and I love cuddling him. However, something that has often bothered me and I have been ... (190 words)

Was what he did wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I appreciate you taking the time to read this and if you could give me advice I'd be really grateful. This would be really long if I went into detail so I'll just go over the basics. I used to date this guy and our relationship became physical. We broke up but decided ... (309 words)

Haven't seen him in years, am I doing the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am completly in love with this guy Bobby. I met him when I was 16 he was and is everything I want in a man. He broke my heart when I was 16 he left me for someone who was suppose to be my friend. He isnt a good person he robs everyone he knows. I dont think he really ... (165 words)

Should I wait for him to text, I don't want to seem to eager?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this sounds ok so far ?. I spoke to this guy i like on the phone tonight, and he said that he had been worried because i hadn't spoken to him much, although, i did get back to him eventually. He rang me three times tonight , he had to go off the phone a couple of ... (234 words)

Can we be friends when he's moving on and my heart aches?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It could be a saying that TIME HEALS the PAIN. But when Im sensing these lines, its become unfulfilling. My 2 broken relationships have left me devastated and being unable to think of anyone is all because of the trust and fear if the person who loves me ever in this life wou... (1006 words)

A bully is spreading a nasty rumor that I'm sleeping with a 26 year old man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old. My brother, Danny, is 22 years old and his friend, Justin, is 26 years old. I have a good relationship with both of them. And by a good relationship, I mean like a brother/sister relationship. Even Justin is like a big brother too me. Justin and I are ... (217 words)

Is my ex really gone? Or do I still have a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I was dating this girl for about 4 months and while 4 months doesn't seem that long, we moved really fast. We fell head over heals for each other and spent everyday together because of how much we had in common and how well we got along. She soon moved in (probably a bad ... (626 words)

I want to get past him stripping for women online and for cheating on me 4 times,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so i was with my boyfriend for 2 years, since january 2009, although in july we had a bit of a fallout for about 2 weeks. we got back together unofficially, although i was telling my friends, and then i found out about 2 weeks ago, that since july through to now, he's been ... (292 words)

Your happiest marriage memory?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupiders. This isn't really a relationship quiestion as of such. It's just, i'm on this site regularly to help out with people problems, giving advice and such like. I was just wondering if there is anyone on here who is in a happy marriage or relationship? ... (90 words)

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and i have been dating for a year and a half now.I also have a 3 year old daughter,which is not his,he treats her like his own and treats me well and always buys me anything i want.When we started dating we saw each other about 4 times a week,because i was ... (455 words)

Why does she reject me when her mind is clearly saying "yes"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - theres this girl i love that i cant get out of my head. she says she just wants to be friends but her actions dont say so. on the bus to school she plays with my hair and flirts with me. thats not the only reason i love her. shes just so amasing her hair is blond like its made ... (128 words)

This lad is a whole new world!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey:) Well I split up from my boyfriend in August, but after a couple of weeks we were flirting and stuff again. 9 days ago we agreed to go out together as he claimed he had changed so I thought you only live once... why not. So we met up on the night round his house and it... (530 words)

He started something with me on Facebook and didn't finish it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - I am a married woman but our marriage is struggling. I had a situation over the summer whereby I was speaking frequently with another married man on facebook. I vaguely knew him from the school where our kids go to. I had seen him staring at me but had shrugged it off and ... (548 words)

Is it a good idea for me to tell him about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a senior in high school; I just transferred to a new school for their fine arts program. I recently came out as pansexual to most of my friends at school. Through some friends, I met a very cute guy. We have gotten to know each other very well and consider each other go... (428 words)

Am I addicted to sex or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I wonder if I'm a sex addict because me and my gf have dated for about 10 months and recently have decided on somewhat of an open relationship. She doesn't do Anything but I do, I mostly have sex with friends and co-workers daily and idk y in the last yr I've become so ... (80 words)

I woke up in my husband's arms and he was on his laptop looking at porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm about 8 weeks pregnant and married. This morning I was watching tv with my husband and fell asleep on his arm. When I woke up he had his laptop and was looking at porn. I don't know how I should react. I don't know if this was no big deal or a sign that something is ... (59 words)

Did I deserve getting hurt?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Before i write this i know some people are probably thinking i deserved what happened but here goes. I was out one night with some friends and a guy i know was there too. Me and him had a casual thing a while ago but that finished. I regret that because i ended up liking ... (491 words)

He's out of my league!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I started talking to this guy a few months ago. I never thought he could like me because i just feel he's out of my league, but he's shy and he's hot but doesn't know it if you know what i mean. Our conversations have included: -Asking him "what if i liked you?" ... (245 words)

We've been out to dinner and she likes that I call her, but she doesn't want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello friends am 20 and have never had a gf ( btw i'm not the ugliest of guys!). There's this girl i really like, quite friendly and pretty. Ok, we have gone out for dinner once, and she is always happy when i call her, but the problem is she doesnt want me visiting her. ... (77 words)

This blast from her past is causing her to question our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my ex girlfriend were together for 7 months we fell in love with each other. Well this friend from her past comes back in her life after being gone 5 years. well my ex says that she still has feelings for this other girl she didnt know how to tell me because she loves ... (169 words)

Should I meet him half way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm new to online dating, but I met a guy, we started talking, and decided to meet in person for coffee. He suggested a place, I agreed to it. I looked up the directions, it's about a 50 minute drive for me and 5 minutes for him lol. It's by his place. Would it be appropriate ... (84 words)

My boyfriend said I was beautiful but had seen better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - So I have been seeing this guy for almost 6 months now. We got close very fast, and everything began so wonderfully. He always told me how beautiful he thought I was. I have a bit of a hard time accepting compliments, so we would kind of joke about it. I know I kind of asked ... (790 words)

From hot to cold - lost all interest in sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a surgery on my bladder that went terribly wrong just over a year ago. For months, I had to wear a diaper 24/7. That made me feel so undesireable and unsexy. I recently (about 3 months ago) had surgery to repair the first one. My doctor has released me to have sex. The ... (115 words)

Ideas please on How to take our holiday romance to next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I went on a group tour to italy as a single traveler. Anyways, on the tour I met a cute woman who is also a single traveler. During the free time when most of the people go with their partner or travel companion I have went around with this woman. It turned out that we have ... (192 words)

Given my dream, and my history with both men. What is my dream telling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I literally just woke up from one of the most confusing dreams I've had in a very long time. I remember it vividly. *** I was at a flea market with my cousin and his wife. I get a call to my cellphone and it's my ex boyfriend. He tells me "I know its been four years and ... (1621 words)

We had a connection and now he's got a girlfriend

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months back and he lives in manchester and im from london we spent alot of time together as i use to go up there a lot with friends we spent loads of nights togther and days he treated me so nice done all the romantic things listened to me sometimes we even ... (202 words)

Where did my beautiful loving wife go?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have 3 boys and have been married for 8 years. This year just after our anniversary my wife began an affair. She had become increasingly distant, and I finally asked her what was going on after 6 weeks without intimacy. She flatly told me she was tired of my ... (879 words)

What's up with this discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I been having a problem and I really want to know what happening to my body. I just turned 15 a week ago and like two days ago water has just been coming out of my vargina. I'm not into sex or anything so why is water coming out of my vargina. when I sleep I wake up ... (94 words)

Can remaining single have a negative impact on a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - If a person remains single, does anyone think it can a negative impact on said person mentally? Are there positive consequences to be had? Perhaps a deeper sense of self, or greater self sufficiency? What do you think? I am not talking about jumping into a relationship for the ... (69 words)

Shouldn't sex last??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy always have sex well kinda we did like 3 times and when we do it's only for like 30 or 40 min .. And idk if he cummed or not or if he had an orgasim or not .. But shouldn't sex last for like an hour or 2 ??? ... (55 words)

I think he's controlling and abusive. Should I marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met my boyfriend 10 years ago , but we really stayed together since 2005 in a long distance relationship.He is a really nice guy.Until on oct 11,2010,i went to Lisbon to stay with him for 3 weeks.In those 3 weeks,he constantly emotionally treated me very bad.He kept on ... (255 words)

Our "friend" has a reputation for going after taken men, and now we've broken up over her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age - Have been in the relationship 4 years, after being friends for about a year. I really enjoy being with him, and i thought he felt the same. Over the past year, our jobs have kept us in contact with a woman who is now the catalyst of our troubles. I have known her for 20 years, ... (255 words)

My boyfriend calls me a huzzy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm 13. My boyfriend's 14. The past two nights he's called me a huzzy. A huzzy is a whore. I'd feel kinda better if, ya know, he'd been joking, or apologized. But he hasn't. And he'd been serious about it. My friends say that they would have broke up with him, but i like ... (68 words)

Did I make the right choice by asking him to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight about a week and a half ago. For the last month i have felt that he has been acting a bit strange. He seems a little distant, kind of quiet, sleeping alot. We do seem to be more irritated with each other lately, and we havent had sex ... (432 words)

Can I get an STD by having unprotected sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so I lost my virginity to this guy that I'm not even dateing . And he fucked a lot of girls and I didn't no that till after I had sex with him .. And we used no condom twice .. Is that bad?? He told me befor he cumed tho but I dnt want to get any disease or anything... (76 words)

Should I ring him when he tells me to, or do I play hard to get and ring him another day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think it's better to ring a guy when he tells you to, or is it better to play hard to get and ring another day ?. This guy i like wants me to ring him tonight, but we are only going to be casual with each other, not in a proper relationship, so i'm wondering whether to ... (102 words)

Don't all guys like anal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Don't all guys like anal? My boyfriend of 2 years begged me to try but now won't even come close to that region...i feel embarrassed cause i thought all guys liked anal. help? :( ... (35 words)

I wish my boyfriend would treat me with some sort of respect!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do. my boyfriend treats me like shit. we have a baby and im 8 months pregnant again and he has a job so hes never really home during the day. i get up every morning with the baby and tend to the baby all day then my boyfriend comes home and i always have ... (390 words)

I'm the biggest flirt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - soo I don't know what it is, but i just love making guys like me. not just as friends but as more than that and it's an issue because I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for almost a year. I know I'm only 15 but whatever, it's still an issue b/c what I do is I ... (199 words)

My friend likes the guy that I'm going out with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have liked this boy for about 8 years now... since the day i met him.. i have been out with him about 3 times and i still really like him, he likes me and we see each other almost everyday we don't go out but we act like we do. i have just got in contact with an old school ... (123 words)

What do I do when guys whistle at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - writing this to me sounds stupid but i really need some advice momentarily. So.., im 16 years old and im really shy . This is something that hasnt happened to me only that one time. About a week ago i was visiting friends in Atlanta and we were driving , we stop at a red ... (156 words)

Does the Oedipus complex work both ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I know children supposedly are attracted to their opposite sex parent, but can mothers, for instance, be obsessed with their sons? My boyfriend's mom doesn't like me. I can see it every time I walk in the house. Her glance drops and she sizes me for a good five seconds and... (424 words)

Why does he still want to see me after I treated him so poorly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy online about 6 months ago. He lives out of town but is in town every few months. The first time we met we hit it off and as we had been speaking for about 2 months there was definately some sexual chemistry. We slept together and had a good time. He then came b... (466 words)

Trouble having sex...any help??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and a guy I've been seeing decided to try and have sex last night. he got as far as putting the tip inside but I couldn't handle the pain of any more going in. we're going to try again another night, and I don't want to disapoint him. is there anything i could do to help ... (123 words)

My boyfriend says I always make him sad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have only been to my boyfriend house for 4 times all only for a while. But yesterday I got to know from my boyfriend that his mother don't really like me. What should I do I did not even do anything wrong to offend her? We have been together for 10months. I feel very sad and ... (89 words)

Should I be supportive and let him work out what he wants by himself? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in a very strange situation - I met a guy a few weeks ago, went on a date with him, had a great time. since meeting him, he's called me every day, and we went out a couple of more times, and ended the dates with a kiss and a hug. He then got really sick with the flu and ... (474 words)

Should I let my parents stop me from attending school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice!! Ok sooooo I'm 19 and I work part time. and I want to start school asap. Why? Because it took me an extra year to get my diploma. And I have no reason not to be in school. No kids, I have my diploma, a nice job ect. Sooo my boo want use (meaning my best fri... (480 words)

Why text? Can't guys communicate bad news better than that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know there is this general perception that guys don't like talking on the phone (or generally in fact), but why do so many of them think texting as the sole method of communication is acceptable? I'd like a relationship with a man who wants to speak on the phone now and ... (422 words)

I really thought we felt the same, and then he broke things off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend were in a LDR and until last week things were going great (well, there were a few niggly things - but nothing major). We were looking forward to spending some much needed time together at Christmas. Last weekend I was a bit down and took it out on him, ... (552 words)

Do I tell the truth in this 'truth' game?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved to a new school, where I know no one. So my new friends have been playing a truth game with me to help me get to know each other. Last time they asked me who my first kiss was. I'm afraid to tell them, because my first kiss was a girl and I'm worried they wil... (90 words)

I've slept with 3 different guys in 3 weeks!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 year old female and have slept with 3 different guys in 3 weeks. I'm wondering if I have problem or if is this something I should just feel content about? ... (37 words)

Unrequited love for best friend of the same sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. A brief overview: I am 18, female and very much in love. With another girl who may or may not know about this. My feelings for her have always been there, burgeoning and intensifying all the time, really outstripping all other trifling fancies. To the point whe... (696 words)

Open relationships never work....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am in an open relationship with someone, let's call him Bob. I've never liked someone so much in my life but Bob had to move out of the country. We keep in touch and although I haven't seen Bob for 3 months, I can't get him out of my head. He's coming here for winter break ... (317 words)

I'm texting a guy my friend likes to give him hints that she likes him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive done something really bad, One of my best mates really likes this guy( they have been mates for ages) she always gos on about him and helps him out a lot with work, Anyway about 2 months ago, i took his number from her phone and started texting him myself sayin stuff l... (304 words)

Backwards boyfriend de-evolution

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is age 22, we have been friends for about two years and in a deepening emotional relationship since last february. So it has almost been a year since we started being intimiate. My question is is that i am 28 and he is 22 and we had a tift two weeks ago re... (375 words)

How can I make him aware of my feelings for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok theres this guy ive liked since march when a mate told me to add 2 facebook The only problam is i cant tell him i like him, i once again i can getting another gf, he had one then split up, still single at the moment tho :) Anyway this guy i have slept with him a few tim... (252 words)

He forgets to call, should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for two years and a half and recently every time my bf goes on trips for a couple of days he forgets to call. We live together. I am worried he doesn`t miss me or love me for that matter. What is it???... (50 words)

Return to wife or stay separated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age - Well, I'm still wondering what I should do now. I am in a long-term marriage of over 25 years but for many of those years felt very lonely. My wife and I had drifted very far apart and it seemed like we had very little in common any longer except for the children (two gr... (814 words)

He dumped me because I'm not his mother's choice!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there, I posted a previous question earlier, it was about my boyfriend, who i dated for quite a long time, our relationship was beautiful, we were deeply in love with each other and then he just ditched me in the minute out of nowhere saying that he doesnt think he can m... (396 words)

Diamonds are a girl's best friend???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me, we have an amazing connection and we are best friends. He even says that I am his perfect match and he truly wants to marry me in a few years. He had one very serious relationship before me (they lived together and moved across the ... (216 words)

17 and not interested in sex any more??? What is wrong with me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for just under 2 years, I'm 17 turning 18 and shes 16, for a while now we've been sexually active, which is great but lately I've put no effort into it and don't even think about sex which is really strange for me because I used to crave sex all the ... (297 words)

Are there any honest men out there?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and have my own car and job. I'm an honest person who actually wants a relationship. Yet I've been burned twice this year by two players. I'm so sick and tired of being used. One guy cheated on me and dumped me by text message. The other guy said he wanted a relationship ... (114 words)

I want to spend time with my family too...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf is upset that i am always leaving him behind to spend time with my family. and whenever he is upset about this, he ignores me and tells me that i should just leave him alone. i would really like to make him feel better. but how? i dont think it's fair that im treated like ... (68 words)

The long and the short of it!

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I consider myself short at 5'8". I have always had a strong attraction to taller women. The taller the better. Is this normal... do most guys around my height feel this way and do very tall women feel that attraction to shorter men?... (43 words)

Why does my boyfriend have another account on Facebook... as a woman???

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been in a relationship with a guy for two years, we only managed to see each other at weekends. I thought our relationship was good and was ready to take it to the next level, when I discovered by chance he has a profile on facebook under a different surname but saying he is a ... (111 words)

I just want a guy to respect me!

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 18 years old i just got out of a 2 year relationship 4 months ago with a guy, im gunna call bob in this story haha but im redeemed and would like to start dating again. I just dont know where to look for a guy who repects me, treats me the way i want to be tr... (176 words)

Was I really the bad guy and should he treat me like this?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After breaking up with my ex 2 years ago, we kept in touch because I wasn't ready to break from him completely. We talked online and by phone, supporting each other, whilst my hope increasing that we may reunite after I finish school( he even tried to move into my building)When ... (425 words)

He jokingly told me to get an abortion!

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need some little help here. First of all, me and my boyfriend are together for about 2 years and we love each other very much. We haven't had sex yet, but we're about to (both virgins). One of my greatest fears is "what if the condom breaks?" and I told him t... (276 words)

I just cheated on my boyfriend and didn't feel guilty!

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in so much trouble. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and everything is great. We love each other and I really don't want to lose him. But there's this other guy who likes me. I ignored him at first but now I'm actually interested in him too. He has never prompted ... (182 words)

How can I ask a girl out without leaving any room for her to back out of the date?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In short, there has been a girl I've known for a long time and I've been wanting to ask her out for a while. However, with me, and as well as other guys, she's been known to back out of a date for any reason, and number one is for "being swamped". This is legitimately true for ... (396 words)

He doesn't want to spend christmas with my family...

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has recently decided that he doesn't want to see his family anymore. They won't accept him being gay and after years of making an effort and trying to forget it, he's had enough. So with Xmas coming up, he won't be spending it with them. I asked him if he would ... (332 words)

Why is my ex boyfriend playing mind games?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off for about a year. When he broke up with me at the beginning of this year I decided I was stuck in a sick cycle and I didnt want to get back together again. So within a month, he realised he made a mistake but I was already seeing s... (225 words)

Is it my fault my daughter's a lesbian? How do I correct her?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age - My daughter went out of town for a business trip 3 weeks ago, and I've been going to her town home r times per day to check on and feed her 2 cats. Today I had the shock of my life when I entered her town home this afternoon... when I entered her town home and the image that ... (235 words)

I have a weakness for this other friend...

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship ive been with him for a few months but i need help? I have a friend who ive liked for a few years but he lives in a different state now and we only talk every so often but everytime we talk i feel something so special for him but i love my bf also i just ... (106 words)

The darker side of sex...

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy I really like. He's awfully sweet and really cares about me. He does does everything in his power to make me happy, so when I told him that I wasn't so sweet an innocent and liked things to be darker, rather than nice and "normal", ... (187 words)

Close friends... but I think I love him...

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have a best guy friend that I have always loved ever since I can remember. The day we met I knew there was something different about him that I liked. He was sad at a party- we were complete strangers- and I went to cheer him up despite all my friends telling me he was ... (448 words)

Miss my high school teacher so much...

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in love with one of my high school teachers last year (my senior year) and I am in college now, far from home. I still think about him and I was going to visit him at school before the Christmas break. I don't know if he knows how I feel about him or not. I'm unsure ... (134 words)

Is she annoyed at me for something I did?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I talked to a girl for 3 months. Fell in love. I asked her out 1.5 months after meeting. She had a bf but they broke up 2 weeks later. We finally went 'out' (i dunno if it was a date) but I didn't make a move. I thought I messed up but we talked till 1 AM a day after as usual. ... (145 words)

Should I date him instead of just being his FB?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo I have been having sex with this guy like every weekend .. And he's not my boyfriend like we are kinda like fuck buddies I guess but we only knew each other for like a couple weeks or like idk a month but the second night we met we were like messing around and he was like I ... (79 words)

Is my boyfriend abusive???

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and have been dating for amost a month, we talked for 4 months before dating. My boyfriend and I are both sixteen... I would say my boyfriend and I are a lot more mature than most our age, being that we have both been through a lot. So now to the reason why im ... (345 words)

Will she still have thoughts about me?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a girl for 2.5 years, but she is attached with her bf for about 5 years now. Initially, she didn't like me but after a year, she started having feelings for me because her bf is emotionally abusive and very possessive too and she broke up but patched back many ... (155 words)

My boyfriend's sister keeps trying to break us up!!!

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We're in middle school and I'm going to change the names for protection. Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a month and we really like each other. However, my boyfriend's sister, Mary was my friend but when i started going out with her brother she ... (125 words)

He's a waste of space!!!

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 26 year old female with a 2 month old babe, my boyfriend is 22 and all he wants to do is rap, and worry about what he needs done or paid off, but anything i have to do is not important to him, his actions give it away, he doesnt do anything around my house, like take out ... (104 words)

My Dad's selfish, Mom's stubborn & my family's full of spite & I'm hurting. Help please

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sorry if this turns out to be a long post but I have quite a lot i'd like to get off my chest. I honestly dont have anyone to talk to about things that are going on in my life. I do have friends but theyre not that close where i would start talking to them about personal... (788 words)

Three guys and a girl...

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Merry Christmas to all! Ok lemme give you a history lesson. My friend 'Andrew' has been a good friend of mine for five years and i have liked him for that long also and he finally figured out that i like him. Now my guy friend 'Randy' are in a kinda relationship I really ... (119 words)

I miss talking to him and wonder if I overreacted?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a few months ago after moving to a new city and we seem to really hit it off. When I first met him, I just got out of a relationship and wasn't looking for anything other than friendship. I made this very clear to him. We never got really close but we talked ... (353 words)

I Need To Know, Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This is my dilemna. I had been dating a man until thsi past summer, when we for various reasons decided to cool it and remain friends. He is now dating somebody else, and I have to admit I am really jealous and furious about it, and I have let it be known! I want him back! ... (280 words)

Can you hide from love?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. What are your thoughts on that old saying 'You can run from love but you can't hide from it'?... (21 words)

Are "Sex God" type videos worth it?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I see a lot of rather sensational-sounding videos, books, etc. that purport to be able to teach guys how to be sex gods, give women mind blowing squirting orgasms, etc. Are any of these books, videos, etc. any good? If so, which ones? For the women, are good lovers born or m... (107 words)

I'm anxious to have a baby and he's pulling away

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been sick recently and had to do surgery, going through that i think about becoming a christain. my b/f and i was trying to have a baby before i got sick but we hold off after i found out i was sick so we decide put off trying having a baby until i got better. So i asked ... (461 words)

He doesn't know I'm married and I can't let him go. I can't cope please help.

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't cope. I'm married and care a lot about my husband but I find myself having strong feelings of love for another guy. The guy doesn't know I'm married and has no idea how I love him. He's the kinda guy that I wish my husband was. I've been unhappy with my husband for ... (265 words)

Is she just being friendly or is there more to it?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, nearly 22 year old male and never been on a date etc. A few nights ago I went out with my coursemates including this girl I didn't know very well. This girl and I got on pretty well. She asked me to dance with her (I refused at first as I cannot dance) but she i... (119 words)

I like him A LOT, but I wanna get over him, but can't. Help?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'll try and make this short. I like this guy, we're friends, but ever since his gf he got this school year, he barely talks, smiles, says hi, or texts me back anymore. I mean, lately he'll smile but quickly look away, and that. Well, I really like him a lot, and everytim... (283 words)

First she's available, then not, rejected me, now she's jealous. Is it just me?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok there's this girl i've been friends with for 2 years. i was at the pub with her and sort of started having feelings for her. So i invited her over for dinner and cooked her a meal to die for. I really wanted to impress her so i pulled out all the stops. We had a choc... (177 words)

Has he just grown 'used' to me now, after just eight months?

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first became sexually active with my current boyfriend, it was really easy to make him cum though sex, oral or by hand. But 8 months later and its a lot harder too. Obviously he still does, but it takes a lot longer. At first I thought it was because we have sex quit... (139 words)

Nothing makes me horny. Does this make me abnormal?

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19 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Is it normal not to find the act of sex enjoyable? It's nice for the first five seconds and then Im no longer in the mood. I know it's a "mental" thing but I cant even imagine anything while having sex. I really can't ....nothing makes me horny, and I'm not a naturally sexual ... (101 words)

Unwanted attention from a 6th grader, but how to discourage her professionally and gently?

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a freshman and I do a lot of volunteer work at the BGCA. If I have 120 registered hours at the club, I get a full credit toward my highschool transcript. I have this girlfriend, "Dana" and we're very happy. However, there's this girl who goes to the Boy's and Girl's club... (226 words)

I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?!

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what I should do... I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?! I met my husband while in Iraq (he was inshape and so nice). We just had a baby and then he wanted to go active army. Since we had a child he couldn't join unless he was ... (299 words)

How is the best way to handle meeting the youngest daughter?

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19 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'll make a long story short, I've been with my boyfriend nearly a year. When I first began seeing him, he had been separated from his wife. We lived 45 mins apart, he and I slowly established our relationship. A couple of months in to the relationship, he told his two ... (408 words)

Why doesn't he want to do anal anymore? Is it me?

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19 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Boyfriend and I have been dating two years, a while ago he asked me to try anal with him so i did. He liked the thought of it and it was something he always wanted to try. After we tried it he lost all desire to do it... which stinks cause i really enjoyed it. He avoids anal ... (104 words)

I've been with my first boyfriend for around 3 months now and feel like its a doomed relationship.

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my first boyfriend for around 3 months now and feel like its a doomed relationship. I know that marriage can never be an option between us because of his jealousy (that is already showing) and our religious differences. I have been plagued by thoughts of an e... (223 words)

I really had no intentions of cheating on her...

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19 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend and I just broke up. She had found out i sent some pictures to some girls a few months back. I tried to tell her that it really meant nothing which it did. but was just called a liar. I mean yeah i've thought about other girls in sexual ways but I don't have ... (190 words)

I have a problem concerning friends.

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19 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem concerning friends. I always have tried to keep a close group of them and to have honesty and trust. Well, today a coworker told me that one of my friends told her some things that she didn't want me to know. The coworker told me that the friend had done some ... (229 words)