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anonymous
writes: Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, besides the occasional kiss on the cheek.We do live together and yes we fight from time to time it just seems we have been fighting alot latley and when i ask her or even bring up the fact that we dont have sex anymore she either gets real mad or just says she is not feeling sexual,she is 22 years old and I am 25 so we should be having lots of sex,and im in real good shape as well so what should i be thinking right now?i think she is either cheating on me, or cheated on me
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): In all likelihood she is cheating.
There is no medical issue she is going through.
Have you done your homework: checked her cell, email, any special friends, going out without you.
You are in a committed relationship so don't feel bad to snoop. You owe it to yourself to get to the bottom of this.
You need to confront her. She may not be feeling sexual with you but she is surely doing it elsewhere.
8 months, you have been very patient. You are right, u are 25, you should be enjoying your life. Once you verify her cheating, kick her to the curb, and start your life.
As I said: you owe it to yourself.
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reader, Merilee +, writes (30 December 2010):
Unless she has some sort of medical condition where sex has become painful, I would say yes. She may not be sleeping with someone else, but there is someone else on her mind. If its not medical, shes having an emotional affair with someone.
I would talk to her first, about possible pain. If thats not it, I would find out if shes on the net. What sites is she on. Get into her email, if shes not cheating, she will give you access, she should have nothing to hide.
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