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41-50,
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writes:My story is long but am in a very miserable condition. Please aunts help me.I am around 30 and my boyfrnd is around 40. When i was in his city, he was around 34 and was crazy after me. But i only had oral sex with him during our relation. This is for sure we can't marry due to family reasons.1 years back i moved to a different city and we had fight oover some issue and we stopped talking and meeting. But i used to send him messages from time to time. one month back he messaged me love u, love u text 3- 4 times and called me. Then we both decided to meet. We stayed together for 3 days. We had sex. He behaved with me nicely. Cared very much for me. Said that he had sex with me due to feelings.He didnot force me for sex, i was also willing. But here comes the point: i noticed that this time i noticed that he ejaculated negligible amount of semen during sex as compared to 1 year before. It was almost absent. At the end of stay, he took me in his arms, said that now he has less sexual desire and asked me to marry some good guy. He said now he has nothing to give me.After that meeting he has called me 2 twice, discussed with me the things we did. We exchanged messages. His messages are like: love u, wish god with u always. 2 days back i asked him to meet again, but he refused, he said he is busy. I messaged him again and agian, he did no reply. Then he texted, he is in pian and he is enjoying his pain, asked me to marry as early as possible. Again i called him twice but he cut my phone and and texted me that i am not in my control.Please tell me whats his problem. Is he suffering from some sexual weakness, does he loves me or tell lie, is he involved with someone else.Why he is ignoring me? He is not ready to talk to me what should i do. I love him very much as the way he is. What should i do. Please halp me......;( :( :(
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Listen to dirtball, he is spot on with this one. I have been in a relationship where we broke up and he did almost the exact same thing. He wanted me back, but was too afraid of commitment. He loved me and blah, blah, blah. In the end, I was extremely hurt and didn't fully recover from all the emotional damage for a good couple of years. I don't regret the things I learned from that part of my life, but I don't want to know there is another woman who is having to deal with another jerk because her feelings for him are clouding her mind like mine were.
Again, dirtball is right. Please let him go. Do not answer his calls or texts and avoid him. He will only lead to pain.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 December 2010):
 He used you for sex. He doesn't want a relationship with you. He was saying that stuff to get you into bed. It worked, he was happy, and he had enough of you.
I'm sorry this happened, but you should learn from it. I know you had a history, but exes don't typically text you saying they love you out of the blue. He had the motive of trying to get laid. He's a jerk, plain and simple.
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