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writes:I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that he is going to move out if he has to. We have had some major problems in our relationship and it really hurts me he can't give up such a small percentage of money just to stay and be with me. The first half of our relationship he gave her 100 dollars willingly and just stopped after awhile, so I don't understand how he can be like this now.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 December 2010):
Your boyfriend's a bum, and you can do better. It'll be worse in the future when he decides he doesn't want to pay the mortgage and you lose a house.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Hes a spoilt freeloader.he cant have all for free(food,bed,roof,water,sex,chores), forever.let him move if he wants to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Thank your mum for giving you a great New Year's gift!! She just did you a big favor!! This parasite that you have living off you and your parents will finally be off!! How can you be with someone this cheap??? Ewwww!!!!!
Let him move out ASAP and fend for himself...just make sure he's not back in 5 days' time. Lock the doors!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Sorry, but he is a freeloader. I know the type, and it will only get worse if you let it. Run. Dont walk. Run.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (31 December 2010):
 I pay $300 to my OWN parents! That's chump change they're asking for him to live with them. Call his bluff. If he thinks he can live cheaper elsewhere, he's either lying or a fool.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (31 December 2010):
 He doesn't like to spend money.. fine, let him move out and see if he can find somewhere free to live. He doesn't have any respect and is treating your parents like fools.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Man please I wish i pay my parents 350 dollars a month plus food.200 is the least he can do.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 You (and your parents) are well rid of this parasite. Your mother just did you a huge favour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): what a prize idiot for doing that. He should have just given the money like your mum asked. Unless he is trying to hint that he wants you to move out together he is being totally unacceptable.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 I think your relationship is over. Im sorry to be harsh, but this speaks volumes of his character. First off all he SHOULD pay your mother money, really he should be paying way more than 200 dollars a months. Take a look at what he'd have to pay a month if he rented his own place and payed for hsi own food. He is lazy, he takes off of your family and takes it all for granted. By righst he should get kicked out, some nerve he's got to smooch off of your mother like that! It's not even his own family and he show this lack of respect. Then IMAGINE what lack of respect he will have for you if you ever were to marry.
Your boyfriend is taking you all for granted, and is plain and simple using you and taking advantage. Has no respect, and no, he does not value the relationship. It hurts that he wont pay? Yes it does, but it hurts because you know that you need to end it with this man. Believe in his actions and believe in what he is telling you by his actions. Do not excuse him. Just end it and trust me you can find better!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 December 2010):
 He's being selfish. He can move out but I guarantee you he's not going to find a place with the same kind of deal. $200 a month for room and board isn't too much to ask. Hell, my rent alone is $675, and I still have to pay for my phone, electricity, gas, and internet.
It says a lot about him that he's unwilling to help out. Do you really want a manchild as a boyfriend?
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