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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Falling out with a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - About two months ago my best friend and i got into a huge arguement. when i first met her it was fine, and we had a lot of fun, but after a while she wanted to sneak out at night, and have sex with her boyfriend. i would always come with her to make sure nothing happened and ... (227 words)

Sad, depressed, lonely and isolated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I hardly have any friends and when I think I do, I end up losing them. I end up realizing that none of them are good friends. I have tried so many different types of youth clubs and activities to try to make friends. But I never ever do! I'm not a quiet person at all. I'm very ... (177 words)

She's fallen for me but I'm gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi :) i have a problem thats all my fault and i dont no what to do about it. it started when i realised i was gay i came out to my close friends but i then found out that one of them liked me (shes female). i decided that i might not be gay so im now going out with her to see ... (260 words)

Was he just trying to hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex and i split up around 2 month ago then out of the blue i got a missed call now this was a new number i had sent to him in a letter, so didnt expect it to be in his phone. anyway i text out of sheer curiosity friendly casually say hey did you mean to call he replies ... (221 words)

Is it possible to have a relationship when he still has feelings for his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately i,ve been hanging around with one of my guy friends and i think he really likes me. We hold hands the whole time , we hug each other in a way you would only see couples cuddle , we comfort each other bout everything and we both had painful relationships. But his ex is ... (153 words)

She's not over her ex, should I even bother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I use to be a real shy quiet guy. only really been with a girl because A: either they asked me out or B: i thought it might work... i have been in 4 relationships,first was a girl who lived 1400 miles away, we met online on an online game called world of warcraft. we talked on ... (597 words)

Are we just lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

- Hey guys, So I've been in a 'relationship' with my man for almost 7 months now and it's kind of an odd relationship. We live apart and I work from 2pm until 9pm and he works from 3am until 2pm so we don't see each other in the week as by the time he finishes work I'm about t... (195 words)

Is he a womanizer or just polite?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

- Can anyone please help me decide if this man I am quite friendly with at the moment is a womaniser and not just being friendly. I look after this man's son at the nursery I work at. He started offering to give me a lift home a few months ago (he picks his son up at the same t... (446 words)

Online dating -- did he change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I met a guy online on a dating site. He said he likes my presentation and profile a lot so we started to talk. The first day we talked for around 2hours and 20 min and he said some times that he likes me. He next day we talked again and he said some times that he li... (357 words)

She's cool and doesn't deserve my games

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Been fwb with this girl from work 4 3 months. She's new I flirted, she crushes on me and I'm flattered but tell her I get kinda lazy in relationships, so she agreed to fwb. Well damn she got to me with her amazing blowjob skillz, and to top it off, she's really nice. She ... (154 words)

Do I need to tell any future suitors I have ME?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome otherwise known as ME. I would like to meet a partner and settle down. I have recently started on-line dating again, but wonder at what point I should tell dates that I have CFS? The CFS is such that I can just about hold down a full time job, ... (209 words)

His love for me went from 100% to 65%!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend doing this?? doesn't he want to be with me anymore? my boyfriend and i broke up last night we we kept arguing..he takes me for granted and he doesn't appreciate me yet he says he loves me very much and he says hes really tried but he doesn't like hur... (188 words)

What makes guys jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im curious what makes a guy jelous? im not wondering this so i can treat a guy badly, im wondering this because it seems like guys dont understand it when a girlfriend tells him something bothers them or makes them jelous. do guys not get jelous or do they just not talk about ... (146 words)

Pointers for enjoying sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some pointers to make my sex life more enjoyable. for now...i just wait until the guys finished and i don't really feel that much enjoyment. pointers anyone? :)... (30 words)

When you cheat does it mean you really don't love your partner anymore?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just have a very simple question, i have been with my bf for 4 years now but i have recentley cheated on him for the first time ever and i am very confused about my feelings but i just wanted to know: when you cheat, does it really mean that you do not love your partner ... (59 words)

Should I confess to my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this really great guy online several months ago. He recently had back surgery, and during his recovery we have become closer friends. We text and phone every day. He is still recovering from the surgery. We see each other approximately every week to every other week ... (145 words)

He's not their biological father, so I don't understand why he wants to keep in contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am going through a lot these days. I have a tough situation I am dealing with. I have a new topic. I have been together with My boyfriend for a year. He recently got a divorce from someone he was married to for 6 years. He has been separated from her for a year a... (293 words)

I'm female and I can't last during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 20. I have been with him since i was 15 years old and i love him very much. It was a sort of love at first sight kind of thing. We became sexually active 8 months after we got together and he has always been the sweetest kindest ... (305 words)

How do I deal with my first heart-break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About a week ago, I finally "manned up" and told the girl I love how I feel about her (by writing a note to her). This is the first time I have ever had to do this because I have never felt that way about a girl before, and as I am pretty shy it was really terrifying! I turn... (191 words)

I'm afraid giving her space means she's going to forget me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - If you have been a bad boyfriend but you know she still loves you and misses you do you give her space when you break up with her and realize you messed up? I went to counseling and all kinds of other stuff to change into a better person. I broke up with her like a retard and ... (122 words)

My wife is sexting, and I'm not the one receiving the messages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - About 2 weeks agop I checked my wifes email as had suspisions, on it in her deleted folder I found emails from facebook from a guy we both know that were increadibly distasteful, so I managed to log into her facebook accound where I found messages both in her sent items and ... (105 words)

How can I contact my boyfriend in private?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im here for asking for help This is the first x-mas of me and my bf together.. we r in a LDR and my parents dont know about our relatioship (Well in arab socitey we dnt use to tell our parents about the relationship we r in because if they know they will get angry ) when... (190 words)

I wanted to make him feel good but I failed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, me and my bf are both virgins and we decided to have sex when I'm ready. Lately I've been feeling like I really want to do that, we talked about contraception, tried to imagine our first time, talked about the future and so on. We're being a couple for 2 and half ... (349 words)

Boyfriend say he's fat and now doesn't participate during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my bofriend and i have been having some sexual issues. He has recently put on some weight and feels fat. He used to try and start on me by turning me on first but now he wont have sex with me unless i start wich is very annoying becuse sometimes i want him to come onto ... (147 words)

I want to kiss my female friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I am 16 and my best friend is also, we are both girls and i love her to death as a friend, but sometimes it feels like more. me and my best friend always text flirtatiously and we even talk that way. well today we were hanging out and laying in my bed. we were flirting and ... (171 words)

I'm not his girlfriend anymore, and he can't talk to me this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf dumped me a month back saying like he is getting emotionally attached to me. I didnt call him after that, yesterday i called him to return his stuff back. He said he missed me and wanted me back. I said i like to be his friend but cant be his gf anymore since he... (229 words)

I'm thinking about leaving my husband if he doesn't stop looking at porn

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 5 years now and my husband and I are both young only in our 20's and have 3 little girls I found his porn 6months into our marriage and we have had problems every since he says he's gonna quit and never does and now just gets mad when I try to talk to ... (101 words)

I've been in a relationship with him for 7 years but don't feel the same way as he feels about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age - I have been in a relation ship for 7 years and do not love this person as he does me. I feel terrible about this, and do not wish to hurt him, and so I continue on seeing him. How can I extricate myself from this situation, but make up for the wrong I've done to him by leading ... (62 words)

I want a second chance at a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year, before that we were friends for 2 years, and considered the other our 'best' friend for over a year of that. We got together in September 08 and broke up in September 09. Basically we were arguing loads and he had anger p... (952 words)

Sealing our commitment.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi it has been a long time since i been on this site and would like to do some follow up on my relationship, since my last time here on this site things has change for the better. my boyfriend and i are doing very well and we are happy, since the trouble we had back in 2009, ... (111 words)

Should I ignore this feeling or break things off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have been with my BF for 6 years we have a daughter whos 1 together. Latley ive been feeling not so close to him.He has been really getting on my nerves and i feel like im faling out of love i really could care less if i see him again. He is extremly lazy and if i ask ... (154 words)

I'm 13 he's 11, should I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i fancy this guy who is two years younger than me. i am 13 and he is 11. we met on holiday in holland this summer and we are always texting and ringing each other. he lives about 15-20 minutes away from me so it isnt that far. i fancy him because he is funny, sensitve, kind and ... (133 words)

I'm 16 and have a crush on a 30 year old married man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to start on this question, I guess i'll just get straight to the point, I have a major 'crush' on a married man, i'm 16 and he's in his mid 30's.. he lives near me so my parents are quite good friends with him and his wife aswell. I'd never even spoken ... (453 words)

Is there any way to deal the situation that he use not having sex to punish me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have some problems in our sex life as well as the relationship. We have different sex drives, I am higher and he is lower. And because of that every time we argue he uses sex to punish me. He would not have sex with me for two weeks or a month and say ... (210 words)

How do I fix things with the girl I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone :) im in a real pickle here... k here goes; im in college, and there is this girl that i just ADORE! i have been after her for the past 2 years now. she didnt even look me straight in the face aT FIRST, but then i got closer and things developed a little bit. we b... (193 words)

My girlfriend's parents are forcing her to marry someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - actually the thing is that my girlfriend is 5 years elder than me and her parents are forcing her to get married with some other guy.... i am very young in age only 19, my problem is that i can not talk to my parents about this. what should i do?? please help me someone.... (56 words)

I really love my best friend! What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend i've known her since last year when we met at a volleyball on Homecoming vs: [removed]. We both go to High School and i'm a Senior, she's a Sophmore, she says i'm really smart , she does like and thinks im an awesome guy and she she would ... (167 words)

Should I have allowed him to do this? I felt pressured into doing it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys right if u read my other question it will be about my realtionship wiv my boyfriend but if you haven`t read it,its about me and my boy friend being alone and he tryed to pull my skirt up and i slapped him coz of it and we argued about it. He called me someone i wasnt ... (111 words)

New to sex and have some questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod note: this poster submitted several questions which have been combined here into one.] After having sex withvmy boyfriend I got really wet it even went threw my pants; I'm scared Is that normal ? My boyfriend and I have had sex a couple of times now but it's always the ... (266 words)

Help! I think I'm falling out of love with my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years. After 5 years of dating I became pregnant with our first child. We got married while I was pregnant and had another child shortly thereafter. We now have 2 kids under 5. Before we had children we both liked to drink and smoke pot. Once... (1106 words)

Is this a case of wanting what I can't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Recently a very close guy friend of mine got a girlfriend, in the past we have been very close and occasionally i'd think we could be more than friends. He told me he liked me on a few occassions and was always confused as to 'what we were' (friends/ more than friends) I would ... (248 words)

Is my fiancee cheating with his co-worker?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well,I just got engaged and my fiancee has been acting strange. I usually pick him up from work and everyday all he talks about is his female co-worker. He apparently talks to her about everything, even the problems in our relationship. Apparently, his communication with her is ... (192 words)

I'm not sure why I can't leave him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i'm in a relationship with a guy, who most of the time, is very affectionate and loving, but whenever we argue, he becomes quite aggressive, i.e. pulling my hair, choking me, kicking slapping etc. Despite this, I love him so much, that I cannot seem to take in what's really ... (137 words)

Can I win her back, even if she thinks I don’t trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll make this short. I was dating my GF for 7 months in Oct we moved in together and it was up and down. Basically my past relationships have always ended with me getting hurt so i have trust issues and Im not jealous but i get this itch to see if something is up. The ... (297 words)

How to stop arguing and save our family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with the same amazing man for almost 18 months now and engaged for almost 16 of the months. We have a 6 month old daughter and just got our own place in a new state. We have been in this new house for almost 3 months, but we have been arguing so much lately and it's ... (212 words)

Part of me wants to stay, but part of me really wants to go over... what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I don't have a DearCupid account, I'm using it on behalf of a friend. I'm 19 years old, and I'm female. I live in a part of Australia that is a bit remote from the rest. I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple of years. We've broken up a couple of times but always... (180 words)

Help! I don't know how to tell him that the pain is kicking the pleasure's butt during sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Lost my virginity five months ago to this difficult man and five months later, it's a little like love. Anyway, it used to be that I'd get extremely wet when he just touched me or looked at me. I still get turned on but my body's reaction isn't exactly the same. He penetrates ... (135 words)

I'm worried that if I keep texting him he'll think I'm a stalker!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 nights ago I slept with a guy I met in a bar. Its the first time ive ever had a 'one night stand' sort of thing. Anyway, he asked for my number in the morning and we were texting for the next couple of days, but now he's stopped replying to my texts. I'm not that bothered ... (104 words)

How do I get over her and project a care free attitude when I see her around college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i was best friends with a girl sometime back, it was like we both were very close and the chemistry made me fall for her, i couldnt help it. Even she was close to me and used to hug me when going on bike rides, i even used to let her sleep in my arms while traveling, and she ... (483 words)

Why is he teasing me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my boyfriend who is 18 is amazing! I love spending time with him and always have a laugh when I'm with him. We've been together for just over 2 years. I suppose you could say we had a sexual relationship from the beginning. I had done stuff with my ex's but hadn't ... (257 words)

Do you get more pimples when you don't have Sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you get more Pimples when you dont have Sex?? Because i notice this big change in my face pores when i dont have Sex and then right after i do my face completly changes.... (35 words)

Should I trust my otherwise wonderful wife who is my best friend and soulmate or listen to the frightening inconsistencies about her moral character?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am married for about a year and a half to a wonderful woman who I fell head over heels for marrying after only 10 months. There are some concerns that have surfaced that I really need advice about TRUST issues. Shortly after we got together, my wife told me about a five yea... (1051 words)

Are there a lot of people who are open-minded where sex is concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering.. are there lots of people who are quite open-minded when it comes to sex? I've only had one boyfriend before, we were together for a few months but never had sex (I wanted to wait before I lost my virginity to him but we ended up breaking up befo... (228 words)

He has stopped taking me seriously even though he has had a whole year to see the real me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im a swinger and a round a year ago i met another swinger we both became more attached than usual and started having a serious relationship, he didnt know i was a swinger i never told him. anyways recently i told him and since then his attitude towards me changed.i expected ... (172 words)

My entire family say I am a bad mother even though I am trying my best! How do I deal with this until I can afford to move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have a huge problem that effects me everyday. Ill start out with the background information. It all started about two years ago when I got pregnant at age 18. My sister was 16 at the time. Anyways, I lived at home then and still do. The problem is every since I got ... (332 words)

Is it possible to fall pregnant even with protection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to fall pregnant even with protection? I haven't had a period in 2 months and I never missed one in my life, I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. Could there be a different reason why I have not had my period or was the test wrong? Thanks!... (57 words)

How do I stop loving someone who I was going to grow old with...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband is leaving me after 19 years and two children together, he has been suffering from depression but whether its a side affect or the cause, I dont know. I have spent years bending over backwards to make the marriage work and he has ended it with a classic 'I just don... (138 words)

We're just like 2 magnets drawn to one another!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years and have a son, i work with a woman who has a serious boyfriend and two children. We're both happy in our relationships but for some reason cannot seem to leave one another alone. We have both tried to cut ties and stop talking, but for some ... (111 words)

Torn... who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The problem is I am in a happy relationship but I am in love with a colleague as well. My partner and I have a lot of history we dated 5 years ago but I left him as I wasn't ready to settle down. In April we reunited and I fell head over heels in love with him, he then in ... (328 words)

I feel like she's covering something up to protect my feelings.

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey OK. My gf broke up with me and I've had some contact with her. Now we're not gonna talk for a while. I went and met her at her house yesterday and we talked for about three hours. She made a promise to me after we broke up that she knew I was the one to make her happy ... (337 words)

Is my penis big enough to satisfy a lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have small penis of 4inches,should this is enough to satisfy a lady,if not than how can i satisfy a lady ?... (22 words)

As the girlfriend, how would you feel in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I simply want your opinion on the following scenario. Your bf [who has in the past broken your trust issues and met up with an ex behind your back]allows a different ex gf to come to his state, stay over night and generally hang out because she's sad. She hasn't spoken to him ... (74 words)

He cheated on his ex, and now I've found out he kissed other girls whilst with me....am I being fooled?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. And previous to me he went out with a girl for a year and half. He always told me he never cheated on her but I recently he told me he slept with a couple of other girls when he was with her because he didn't trust her. I feel ... (201 words)

What do I say to the girl that I really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl i have a massive crush on in University. We're both comfortable with each other and we dance together whenever we go out and she doesn't mind me touching her at all. Thing is though, i'm really scared to tell her how i feel. I wanted to tell her how i felt ... (201 words)

I have developed a phobia of driving!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles! Please can someone help. Since I passed my driving test 4 months ago I've developed a driving phobia. I'm a nervous person anyway and get panic attacks but I was fine driving with my instructor. When I passed me and my boyfriend went for a ... (223 words)

We broke up, he hasn't text or called, and his friends are saying he is talking to someone else.....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI THERE. well i just recently broke up with my ex on wednesday. he texted me thursday morninq and we didnt talk friday at all .ever since we broke up he hasnt really texted or called me :/ .his friends said he is talking to someone already.but what i wanna know is how so ... (109 words)

He took my number but did not text me, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

- when a guy takes a girls number and doesn't text first what does this mean?? a guy took my number at the weekend and we were kind of texting the next morning however i was the first to text him.. how long would i wait before texting him again? or should i just text him an... (75 words)

Is it ok for a girl to just want no strings sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

- is it ok for a girl to just want no strings sex?? i'm 23 and to be honest ive had enough of relationships, i get bored after a while and find myself doing anything to get out of it, as they don't make me happy. I've toyed with the idea of having a friend with benefits, however ... (200 words)

Why is my ex slagging me off on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so basically ive broken up with my boyfriend and i am getting to the point where im over him. the otehr day i went on his fb just to see what he was up to and how he was and on his wall practically every person he talks to he is slagging me off and blaming things on me, th... (146 words)

My girlfriend's sister tried to kiss me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

13 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Last week I was shocked to find my girlfriends' sister trying it on with me! I'm 22 and live with my girlfriend, who is 23 and her sister is only 16. My girlfriends whole family came to stay at our house as we live quite far apart and one day I found myself alone with her ... (214 words)

Is this a sexual confusion?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - For the last few days, I have been going through this sexual fantasy that I might not be male and I should convert myself into female through surgery . I have no problem while it comes to my penis erection. Besides, off late, I have been watching porn movies hell a lot on net, ... (209 words)

I'm always worried another woman is trying to flirt with my fiancee!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I'm constantly jealous about the littlest things. I'm always wondering if another woman tries to flirt with my fiancee. He tells me there's no reason for me to worry. He has said one too many times there is no woman and if they show any reason to flirt or even move on to ... (440 words)

How do I break up with him?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents knew that i was going out with this guy and they requested me to break up with him..The problem is,i don't know how to break up with him without upsetting him..If i don't break up with him,it will be forever in my conscience,and i would be in danger if my ... (78 words)

I cant trust him even though he has never done anything wrong!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I've been seeing this guy for about 3 years now and am having a hard time trusting him. He hasn't done anything to show he's been cheating on me. IN fact, he's constantly telling me he loves me and only me. I'm constantly upset about one thing or another and he's... (141 words)

Dating problems......is it because I am too pushy and afraid to be happy?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 27, as I wanted to focus on my education. The first one was a LDR, but that didn't last because , even though I did go and see her, when I came back down, she decided to cheat on me. The second one said she didn't want to be with ... (184 words)

I always think about my ex when it comes to having sex! It is ruining everything!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very confused about my sex life. My ex boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago, now I really want to have sex. But every time I am ready to do it, I always think about him and ruin everything. What should I do now? I need some advice.... (49 words)

How do I become more confident around girls and when meeting new people?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, im 16 and having a bit of trouble. I've found that I fit in with a wide range of people, and they have said really nice things about me. I feel well liked by a lot of people (even people who know me through friends or may have met me once). However, I still care a lot ... (122 words)

I wasn't her first. How do I cope? How do I move on?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I let go of the things she did before me? We've been together for almost 8 months now, and we're very happy. Of course, there have been some bumpy spots here and there, but we've overcome all of them. There's just one thing that I can't let go.... She's very, ... (266 words)

Should I just leave her be or actually ask her what's going on?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up for a couple of months now and we decided to stay friends. We both agreed to this because there was a loss of attraction on both sides. However, even though we agreed to stay friends we both gave each other space that was needed after the ... (162 words)

Was I right to end it?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently met a girl 2 months ago, we clicked very first and after one month, I discovered she was lying to me of her relationship with her ex who she said that they had broken up. I realised this after she returned my phone back after she got her's back. I got to know the... (248 words)

Erection problems....

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people ... im 19 ... im not getting strong erections ... and when my penis is erect , im not having the feel that it is erect until i hold it up ( not with my hand ) ....pls help ... i dont know whats wrong ... and pls tell me the soln ... im a virgin... (58 words)

Should I tell someone?

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13 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - One of my male friends, maybe "friend" isn't the right word, has repeatedly been trying to get with me behind his girlfriends back. For example: the other night i was out with friends and he was in town, which i didn't know at the time. All night he was constantly askin... (288 words)

Will we ever get back together again?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What am i gunna do?? am soo hurt:(? my boyfriend and i broke up last night we we kept arguing..he takes me for granted and he doesn't appreciate me yet he says he loves me very much and he says hes really tried but he doesn't like hurting me and making me cry so we sh... (143 words)

Is he too complicated?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I am 25 and from Australia. My bf is much older than me, he is 42. I have had problems as you all know about his ex wife and there divorce status. Now guys i need your help again. My boyfriend has three children from previous marriage, which is complicated, he is a ... (210 words)

I’m worried this relationship is doomed……..what can I do to sort things out once and for all?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys was wondering if I could have an objective view on this as it is really worrying me…please bare with me as it will be long cos I feel I need to give as much info as poss. Me and my guy have been seeing each other for almost a year. I have been the happiest I have ... (1486 words)

I'm just so confused... why the sudden change?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a MASSIVE thing for this guy. I've posted questions on here before and 99.9% of the answers say he's flirting and interested... but now I have a problem and I need a guys insight into things. so I don't know this guy (we'll call him jj) overly well, but he's friends... (463 words)

Should I just give in and text him, or not bother?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, So there is this guy that I like but he doesn't seem to put too much effort in...anyways, first he started texting me and we alternately texted back and forth, but it started becoming a bit sparse. so he texted me last about a week ago and i guess its now my turn ... (110 words)

Neither of us really understand what love is! Help!

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I used to be a bad person. I was raised by a single mother that never really cared about me because i was a mistake. I was shown no love growing up so I gave non. About 2 years ago I looked into this girls eyes and sense then she is all i can think about. I have ... (140 words)

All we do is argue over little petty stuff!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend now for a 1 1/2 years, to me he is everything I've ever wanted out of a guy! But the past 2 months all we do is argue. We moved in together about a 5 months ago. We are going to the same college and thought this would be easier. However, he ... (363 words)

I feel doomed at 21 to be alone forever!

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Although 21 years of age is still relatively young, I can't help, but feel doomed. I am god-awful at relationships. I have tried multiple gay dating sites, but the results were far from what I expected. I have tried getting out there and "meeting people." I, even, tried lowe... (134 words)

Don't know what to do! In love with husband and lover

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help plz.im in love with two men.my husband and my lover.i dont know what to do?... (18 words)

Dumped by an email!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently dumped by email this afternoon. We had only been dating 3 months, but I personally think it is cowardly after even one date. At the time I read the email, I wrote a response that was too polite, and did not express how I actually felt (along the lines of "we... (178 words)

I made a mistake, and just want to be forgiven!

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am desperate for some advice here. And im at a complete loss. Anything helps. So a few years ago I had dated a girl that I really liked, and it all worked out pretty well. Eventually, I started feeling constricted, and felt like I wasn't being fair to her(in the se... (371 words)

How should I play this long distance thing now?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Before I begin I just want to say that my situation is a little complicated...... I met a girl last year who was one grade below me in high school, we never spoke much in high school but because of it being a familiar face we started communicating.. And our ... (300 words)

If he only sees me as a friend, why would he go on a date with me?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush told me he only saw me as a friend, but he said he would go on a double date with me. if he only sees me as a friend, why would he want to go on a date with me? Would there be a possibility that he could end up having feelings for me? Should I even go on the date, or ... (69 words)

I found it I was pregnant and he started calling me names

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very confused and in need of advice . I hv been a commuted relationship for three years. I just found out I was pregnant , not sure how my birth control failed , I use depo shot. Anyways I told my boyfriend I was pregnant and he freaked out . Demanded I get an abortio... (190 words)

How do I tell my ex I don't want him back and I'm happy with my new boyfriend?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,me and my ex broke up because of some misunderstanding,but it was so clear that we still loved each other,i kept regreting why we did that until i met this guy that swept me off my feet,he was so gentle and nice.we got to know each other for a long time and now we're ... (188 words)

Sex with a big guy, will it hurt?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ive had sex with my ex boyfriend almost everyday and he did not have a big package down there and i have been dating my current boyfriend and we did not have sex yet but his package down there is quite LARGE and i am afraid if i will feel the same way i did when i first lost my ... (90 words)

My ex says she loves me and misses me but she has a boyfriend?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for our senior year in highschool, we always had a rocky relationship but we were completely in love then about 2 months into college she broke up with me the day before my birthday and i was devastated, she started seeing this guy who was much older then her ... (644 words)

I have vaginismus and thick hymen. I am ashamed and lonely.

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13 December 2010 (F)

age - ~ASHAMED and LONELY~ I have vaginismus and thick hymen, which is the primary reason, while not the only, that has presented me with minimal relationship and sexual experience. I have never experience complete penal penetration, due to the excrutiating pain, ripping and b... (214 words)

I cant get over my trust issues to have a healthy relationship

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I started dating when I was 14 years old (I'm 21 now) I have always gotten hurt in some way. I've been cheated on several times, lied to, dumped for someone else, and the list goes on. Anyways, after my longest relationship, I became a total freak when it comes to ... (159 words)

Woman keeps emailing my husband asking why he doesn't respond!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age - Two years ago I found out my husband were having an email/emotional affair. Since... we have been working on our marriage. With this said I still do not trust my husband; and I probably never will. But 32+ years, adult children, and grandkids - I've decided that to try and ... (463 words)

I want to stop feeling badly and obsessing over my ex!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I finally get over my ex and stop obsessing about him and feeling bad? It's been almost 8 motnhs since I broke up with him. He was controlling and too jealous, a bit of a hypocrite and too proud to admit his mistakes. Basically, 90% of the times, our problems were my ... (646 words)

Does he speak the truth when he was drunk

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - do u speak the truth when your drunk okay well me an my ex aint together but we still see eachother hes done alot to me but i dont want to be with him right now until last night his dad called me drunk saying his son can get any girl he wants and to saty away from him and that... (137 words)

I really don't want to divorce my husband but I want piece of mind

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so I have been married for 18 years and the last 3 years my husband has carried on this friendship with a married woman. So he says its just a friendship, I have seen lately texts that she sends to him saying i love you and he replies back with I love you too! I have seen ... (187 words)

I'm pregnant and want to keep it but my fiance wants abortion

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old , I have a 13 month old son ... My fiance has two children , we just found out three days ago I am pregnant.. At first I didnt know what I wanted to do , but now I realized I want to keep the baby.. We have talked about it and have tried before but now all of a ... (134 words)

Anybody else believe in soulmates?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - So, I want to know if this could be real? Ive never believed in that "one person" that was made for us. It just seemed to far-fetched to be realistic. But here goes... I had a great friend in the 9th grade (28 years ago) She and I could talk about anything,and we often di... (477 words)

Will men find me a whore for initiating anal sex?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a bit concerned with the fact i am constantly thinking about anal sex... it turns me on so much... my boyfriend likes it, but he prefers vaginal sex... i was wondering if men will find me a ''whore'' for iniciating the anal sex activity... i don't want to be seen as a ... (149 words)

Should I write a note to boyfriend's parents? Is that respectable?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been in a long distance relationship for about 1 year and a half now. I love him dearly and we’re planning a future together sometime in the next year. I’m working out the details of moving to be with him. Anywho, long story short, he lives with his parents and has a great ... (516 words)

Is he playing mind games . plz help!?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i recently met this guy, turned out he was a senior at my college. we have been talking for three weeks now, mostly on facebook and msn-since i don't have his number yet. He asked to schedule for a coffee date, i agreed but told him i can't see him until after my exams. so we ... (177 words)

Will she still be 'tight' for me?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend had sex one time before she met me for literally only 2 minutes and told the man to stop. She knew what she was doing was wrong theres a long back story to this. But I'm wondering will she still be tight when we do it? Tight as a virgin?... (52 words)

No self confidence after breakup!

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I regain my self confidence back? I was in a five year relationship, that was mostly toxic, although he loved me, he did make remarks about my body, being overweight, sometime not wearing makeup etc. either way he broke my hear and left, and came back like a million ... (168 words)

Is this what all the protective guys do?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the third time i've asked a question here, that just shows that my life is full of drama. The only reason i dont tell my family and friends about my problems is because they can be very judgemental so i guess i need an outsiders opinion/help. So anyway i met this guy ... (148 words)

Can anyone explain my bad luck with attracting women?

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13 December 2010 (M)

- Hi there, just wandering where i'm going wrong trying to attract the opposite sex. Its all been going wrong in so many ways pretty much all through my life online dating -Tried this and the girls seem sooo picky on there, even the average looking ones. I even get messed ... (443 words)

Is this a superficial relationship or are we just normal teenagers?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is our relationship just a physical one, or do we just find each other really atractive? We have been dateing for 9 months now and around month 2 we did everything but sex, and started having sex at 6 months. Were both in high school and when we hang out most of the time its... (148 words)

How can I encourage my unemployed boyfriend?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend has been unemployed for about a year and a half. He used to have quite a nice paying job, and saved about half his salary every month. I know he is looking forward to buy a house later on and the savings are for his down payment. After he quit his job he studi... (318 words)

Does she mean what she says about not having 'those' feelings for me?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I was seeing a girl that ive known since high school but just in the past 6 months did it get serious. about a week ago we had a video chat and she told me that she didnt have "thos feelings for me" but, she tells me im a great guy and I treat her like no one else. she has ... (184 words)

How can I rekindle this relationship?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfreind 3 years now, and i think we may be coming to the end of our relationship, she says im too nice to her, and when im with her it just doesnt feel the same as the 1st year we dated. I'm her 1st serious boyfriend and she says im suffocating her. I have ... (81 words)

How should I handle my girlfriend's parents?

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13 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 2 years and its a long distance relationship. Im 16 and in my junior year and shes 15 in her freshman. I told her, and i do intend on going through with this, that after i graduate im going to drive down to meet her. ... (217 words)

Why are the worst men attracted to me?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have started to notice this trend lately that has been happening ? iv noticed that the worst men are attracted to me like im not being rude but im talking drug dealers and drug addicts themselves, the are really attracted to me an upfront about it . i would not mind ... (126 words)

Boyfriend pressured me into having an abortion

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, please give me some advice. Iv been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and about 6 months into our relationship I fell pregnant. I was on the pill at the time and think it must have happened due to a little tummy bug. I was head over heels in love with my boyfrien... (475 words)

Is my boyfriend serious about me?

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13 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay before I ask my question ill give you background information and I would really like advice from male readers but I'm happy with whatever I can get. I have been dating this guy for about 7 months. He told me from the beginning that is very blunt and doesn't hesitate when ... (245 words)