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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's telling him that if I don't give him a kid soon, he will leave!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't have any children, but my boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter. He said he wants another kid soon. I'm 23, he's 24. I recently just graduated from college with a bachelor's degree and I'm currently looking for better employment (something to do with my major). He, on ... (281 words)

Do girls feel the way guys do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I usually post anonymous on this site. im 14 and im a freshman in high school. theres nothing specific here, just one genereal question for females only plz. im a guy and i want to know if girls have crushes. hear me out. i always feel like girls KNOW they have power over ... (99 words)

Was I in the wrong? How would you have reacted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Brief history: My boyfriend admitted to cheating on me with this girl. Her and I got into many verbal confrontations over the telephone and she and he both caused our relationship a lot of grief. He most likely had been cheating on me for a while, but finally decided to change ... (326 words)

Help! Do you think it is possible for someone to be INCAPABLE of returning someone's love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do you think it is possible for someone to be INCAPABLE of returning someone's love? I love a girl who suffers from severe mental and emotional problems, and I realise she has become dependent on me. She can't return my love, even if she felt it. Have you ever experienc... (60 words)

He doesn't seem as keen as he was at the beginning...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with this guy for about 2 months now and I think I love him, and I know he loves me. In the first month and a half or so he put lots of effort in.. telling me I was beautiful, telling me he loves me etc.. Now he doesn't put as much effort in as I do, and I feel like ... (95 words)

Actual sex grosses me out!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - whenever i think about sex (me having sex, others having sex, or watching porn), i get grossed out. i get aroused by like kissing and stuff but not sex, why is this? (im genderqueer, 16, and a virgin)... (38 words)

Should I wait or go for it with him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok Im thinkin of getting into a relationship with an older married man, his wife is very ill and will soon pass away, and he is very lonely and is looking for a friendship and possibly more, should i go for it or tell him friendship only? i want to get to know him, btw im 22 ... (63 words)

Do I date this too perfect guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - none of the names I use here r real. I use them for the sake of easy following of my story. Im Dana. I go to his chool as a freshman. There's this guy I met this year (we went to different middle schools) named Joe. He's GREAT. Funny, smooth, cute, slightly muscular, ... (347 words)

Women who have a Facebook account turn me off. Am I alone on this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 December 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Am I the only guy in the world that won't give a girl who has a facebook acct my time of day no matter what? I can't stomach the site. It's foolish, ridiculous, petty and childish sorta like immature teenage mentality. I can understand teenagers getting off on the drama, ... (80 words)

Finding a virgin to date at my age is a rarity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - At school last week I was in my favorite class wich was history. I thought that it was going to be a regular fun-filled day because usually thats the class that all of my friends are in. In my group of friends there is one boy (besides me} and two girls. I always thought that ... (432 words)

Is it weird not to masturbate to porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't masterbrate to porn as I a have no need to, it makes me have an erection yet I'm not "turn on" and I'm a virgin, I have a girlfriend, we don't do anything sexaul, yet I masterbrate over her. Is it werid NOT to masterbrate to porn?... (49 words)

I'm in love with her regardless if she's able to have kids or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all can anyone please help me out??? im truly madly in love a girl. we used to work together, tho we were just good friends at the time nothing more. she left with her ten BF and had a child. approx 3 years later we meet up again through a mutual friend and got on great... (442 words)

My brother is destroying my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - first off my brother is doing drugs, smocking weed and cewing tobacco. it is stressing out my dad and mom everyday my brother is in at almost one in the morning. everyday my dad yells at my brother and they get in a fight. my mom is always making it worse and joining it. i am ... (153 words)

Is she ignoring me because my beliefs are different than hers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so, i need advice on what to do with my "best friend".i am a thirteen year old girl. we have been best friends for about three years now, but have know each other since kindergarden. we are both now in 8th grade, and are falling apart. we've always had are differences, ... (183 words)

How can I love my bikini body?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate my bikini body... and the problem is, weather's getting warmer by the day! First "problem" I have is I have a small bust. I don't like wearing push ups or padded bikinis because I feel like I'm faking it. This wouldn't be such an issue if I had something to "make up" for ... (343 words)

She hardly talks to me, I don't know if she's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl in one of my classes and asked her out to lunch sometime, go ther number and everything. so after a couple days of waiting to contact her i asked if she wanted to go out for lunch and a movie, and she said shed love to, so we planned a date, and on that day ... (229 words)

How is a girl supposed to act when recieving oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me? And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over this? Any help appreciated... (62 words)

He's a freak in the sheets!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys i reaaly need your help...me and my new boyfriend have been dating 4 a week now and we'v already had sex 3 times which makes me feel weird...he wants us to keep having sex because he never gets,saticified..he says his a sex freak am i in the right person's hands??.. ... (51 words)

Everyone assumes he's gay but, I think he might be into me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I need a bit of advice! Met a colleague of my sisters for the first time yesterday, he's very cute, howeve everyone in the department, for various reasons, assumes he's gay, but I'm not so sure. As soon as I walked into the office he was very friendly (he shares ... (168 words)

My life with Edward Cullen

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this boy that I've been seeing recently, it's been 3 months since mine and my boyfriend's break-up after two and half years, I want to know if this is too soon to move on or if this amount of time is normal? But I would also like some advice on this other boy t... (454 words)

My mother bad mouths my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this morning that i woke up i heard my mom talking to my family saying a lot of bad things about my boyfriend. i dont understand what her problem is, he doesnt do anything bad, and im not saying it just because i love him, im saying it because its true. not once has he ... (160 words)

How does an orgasm feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months and we regularly have sex. I have been with a few others before him and i dont think i have ever had an orgasm. The thing is (it sounds silly) but i dont think i know what one feels like. I mean - i love having sex and dont ... (121 words)

I'm dating 1,2,3 men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I"m dating a few guys. Just dating, nothing serious. I am looking for something serious, but at the moment, I have these really great guys pursuing me and I really don't know who to choose. The first guy, I've known for years. I've always had a crush on him for years. So he fi... (460 words)

After 3 weeks he needed space, now he's talking to his ex-wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy that I was seeing for 3 weeks told me he needed space for a little while. Now he is talking to his ex wife..The problem is he left something personal at my house. I want to take it to him, but I am torn between getting over him and giving him space to figure out that she ... (176 words)

Did he write me a letter just because he knew I liked him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Me and this guy have known eachother for almost thirteen years, we've always been almost friends, mostly just competing for the best grades and stuff as we always had lessons together. Anyway now we're both 17 and I realised about two months ago that I really liked him. I was ... (212 words)

Should I tell him in one year when I leave school, or wait the two years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a secondary school student in the UK, aged 16. I'm leaving in June to head to college. I consider myself a pretty normal individual but I have Asperger's Syndrome which means I've matured emotionally, much too early. According to my files, I'm registered as about 22 in ... (338 words)

He tells me he's over me but won't file divorce papers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So i left my husband over a year ago cause i was selfish and we fought alot. We were together for six years and have a son together. But i find myself still crying and miss him and i told him i was still in love with him but he is seeing somone but he tells me he doesnt love ... (93 words)

I think my brother is on drugs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need big time help i dont know who else to go to for this. My sister has a baby to take care of and my parents are old and have many other problems. I think my brother is taking drugs and i dont know what to do if i tel me parents and they try to say something to him hes guna ... (86 words)

I have a problem, I like my teacher!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a 17 year difference between ... (109 words)

What is an appropriate age difference?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?... (37 words)

Why has my online dating friend gone quiet on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I joined a dating website plenty of fish, started talking 2 this guy 3 months back really nice person got on really well,(but have never met) Anyway yes all those 3 months we have spoken or at least text on the phone every day, well that was until wednesday ju... (360 words)

Can we put the cheating behind us and just be happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for two years. 6 months ago we went through a very very bad rough patch. he was going out 3 times a week, taking alot of drugs and going to this flat where girls were but would never let me come and i was very paranoid. he never wanted to have sex ... (195 words)

Can lying to one's partner about having cheated on them ever lead to anything good?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I see how lying (by omission or otherwise) about having cheated on someone can prevent immediate conflict, and seemingly keep things status quo in a relationship... but over time, does lying to one's partner actually lead to anything positive within the relationship or does the ... (71 words)

My ex!!! Please help me deal with this as I don't know what to do any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the deal. ive been with this guy for 5 months, and he dumped me 4 months ago. when I met him he was really nice and we had an instant connection. we went to a theme park, wachted a movie etc. eventually we kissed, obviously like eathoter more than friends.It was r... (1605 words)

We always called each other best friends but I'm not sure anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This girl and I have been best friends for nearly seven years. We met in elementary school, and have since then called each other best friends. We've been through so much together, know each other so well, hung out too many times to count...you get the jist. I had to move away ... (394 words)

Family stresses!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom and i arent getting along, when we're alone its constant arguing and when my grandmother is around its like she wants to diappaer me. the worst part is she doesnt like my boyfriend, and im pregnant with his baby, but she doesnt know that yet. i dont understand why shes ... (69 words)

Am I wrong to try and pursue this relationship???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age - My wife and I haven’t got on for years - she hasn’t slept with me for 8 years, and hasn’t even slept in the same room for 5! Two weeks after Christmas last year I was diagnosed with cancer. I couldn’t stay at my flat while having chemo due to the lack of heating (which the land... (344 words)

Is she trying to pressurise me into getting engaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years - and much of our time is spent in domestic bliss - at home life is ideal. But until we are "engaged" she insists that our lives are kept separate - I have to go on holiday alone - go to parties alone - attend my ... (144 words)

How can I tell him that it's never going to happen, but without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm really close friends with a guy and we get along great. We share a lot of interests and we always have fun just talking with each other and hanging out. But recently I've kind of been getting a vibe that he may like me as more than a friend. Speaking with other ... (125 words)

Sex with an older guy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to have sex, but it'd be illegal? I'm 16 and I don't know how much longer I can hold out. These hormones can't be tamed for much longer, I can feel it. Except, I don't want to have sex with some young guy my age. I don't find them attractive at all. I want it to be with ... (78 words)

She's playing hard to get!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age - I'm in the friend-zone with "Veronica", who lives with her sister, "Betty". "Veronica" sets me up on a blind date with "Betty". I call, I drive, I pay, I entertain, I think of things for us to talk about. "Betty" doesn't lift her precious pinky finger. Two days after the d... (124 words)

Distance is murder to your relationship.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend love each other really much but she lives in Florida and I live in the Netherlands. I only get to see her once a year. Thus far we have been togheter for 9 months, meaning I only saw her once for a short period of time, next time will be august again. ... (244 words)

How do I know if I am attracted to women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if I am attracted to women? I've always been attracted to men, and there are certain characteristics I like in them. But sometimes I think I may be bisexual. I just have a great appreciation for everyone. I love everyone, and men AND women have beautiful bodies. ... (60 words)

My boyfriend disappears out of the blue

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - A male perspective would be nice on this one. I have been dating a guy for three years. He is very loving and kind and goes out of his way to do things for me and for us. He infused himself into my life and made be believe that there really are good guys out there! Sometimes... (368 words)

Fallen out of love, my problems are manifold.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - For some, life is beautiful but for some others like me it is agonizing. I have been married for a few years now and did not want children until recently mainly due to financial hiccups. But then many problems are causing us to delay it further and meanwhile I have fallen ou... (372 words)

Girlfriend told me she's always had feelings for her male best friend!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone I need everyones opinion about this. what does it mean when ur girlfriend tells you that she always had feelings for her male best friend ? I know that they got intimate and they kissed and stuff but sometimes i dont really get it when she tells me she alw... (90 words)

How do I remove a hicky???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - How can I remove a hickey fast!??? It's between my neck and shoulder! I need an answer quicklyyy! please. ... (21 words)

I'm not getting a thrill out of sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, thankyou for opening my question =) muchly appriciated. So. im 15 my boyfriend 18 i love him so much, a few week ago we started having sex (first time for me) he was all nice about it and was gentle and everything the first time.. but im not getting a thrill out of i... (121 words)

I can't stop thinking about my sister in law

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - For the past few days I have been rather confused. I am a married man and I have been getting mix feeling for my sister in law. Since my wife is vey close with her sister, I spend a lot of time with her. My sister in law would follow us everywhere she gose and help take care of ... (204 words)

I cant turn on my fiance! Is He sleeping with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have been together for about 6 years years, we have a three year old daughter, and im pregnant again. We split up awhile ago, and during that he slept with someone else. We are better now, and i have never been happier with him. but know matter what i do i cant ... (107 words)

Can his mom keep us from living together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and pregant by my boyfriend who is 16. I want us to live togather and he does too but his mom wont let him. Can she realy keep us from living togather? I think he should have a right to live with me and his baby. Also what would happen if he just move in any ways? Thanks.... (60 words)

My ex left me because I couldn't trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex left me because I couldn't trust him. He would always give me reasons not to..he loved the attention from girls and would flirt with them constantly on facebook and we broke up the first time because he was not over his ex girlfriend. All of this made me feel insecure and ... (327 words)

It's been 2 years and I still love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - In 6th grade, i started to like this guy. let's call him tyler. anyways, so at the end of the year, i began to like tyler and there were rumors going around he liked me too. he asked me out in one of the few classes we had together, and i said yes. the next day, he broke up ... (375 words)

Why does he prefer me over other students?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's mighty handsome, but we both know what's at jeopardy here. At least I hope so. Okay, so, here goes: -Whenever we have a class discussion, if I'm not talking, my teacher will look at me. When he's reading the paper and no one's talking, he does the same thing. He doesn... (243 words)

I'm 13 and like my 33 year old teacher

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a thirteen year old girl and i like my thirty three-year old teacher. The thing is, he isn't even that attractive. I only like him for his personality. I would NEVER tell him how i feel, because i know he doesn't feel the same, and if he did, that would be illegal. He is ... (200 words)

Fiance has issue with me going to rock shows alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a new time poster - long time lurker to this site. So my fiance has an issue with me going out and doing things without her. The two of us have lived together for a year and a half (been together 2.5yrs) and the longest we went without seeing each other since we met was... (553 words)

Everyone tells me she's cheating on me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so, i moved to a new school and never planned to get in such a deep degrassi style relationship but.. when i met this girl i felt like it was like real movie falling in love shit. And we always got along and we were always together. we've been together for almost 9 ... (406 words)

I am not willing to fall victim to the risk he took when he was younger and single!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a man who is older than me. a great man with all kind of good qualities that would impress any woman. but when time was passing by and i talked to him more he was playing the field when young and he has had unprotected sex before. i am not virgin but i dont have much ... (161 words)

He confuses me how can I know his feelings for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet this guy at my job. And the moment we saw each.other I knew I had to have him.. He.gave me his number I called the same night. We decided to hang at my house because it was my birthday weekend. He came to my house drunk. And smoking I was sort of pissed. But I realized ... (169 words)

Does my ex boyfriend still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - we dated for almost 6 months and broke up because of a misunderstanding in which I told him something a friend said and later on I found out my friend had lied but my ex didn't believe they had lied he just wanted to blame me. after about 2 weeks of being apart the both of us ... (923 words)

I had my period, took the pill and now having my period again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know the i had sex 2 days after my perieod passed and i took i pill in 72 hours and then i had sex again when i took i pill after tht and now i hav period again is anything wrong with me?... (52 words)

My only contact with her is through social networking. Should I try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need advice please, im a sixteen year old guy and need any sort of input and youll see why. i recently met this amazing girl on my vacation, problem is im blind to any girls clues. any ways this is how i met her, we both participated in a pool competition(not water, balls ... (360 words)

Girlfriend 3 days late and freaking out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 18 years old dating my girlfriend of 19. Last month she got her period on the 8th. Between then and now we had sex once with protection on and I didn't ejaculate inside her. We checked the condom afterwards and there was no hole or a tear. She's 3 days late on her ... (243 words)

Pleasure without penetration

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how can my boyfriend and l pleasure ourselves without sexual penentration?... (11 words)

What UK benefits are you entitled to with children? We want to start a family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been thinking of starting a family. We currently rent a house, and live quite comfortably. We both earn £19k a year, although I understand I will be on SMP at about £450 a month, which would be enough to make ends meet, but we would obviously be ... (154 words)

I like him but they don't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and right now living at my aunties... I am in love with this boy at school but the thing is there is history...My cousins girlfriend is really good friends with him so he came around the house quite often but my auntie does not like him...now that my cousins girlfrie... (104 words)

Difficult to meet someone in the land of the frigid (aka Canada), why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know a lot of people are going to go off on me for generalizing here, but it's based on what I've seen through my own experiences, as well as friends... Anyways, recently a bunch of my buddies and I were discussing the difference between women in the U.S. and women here i... (377 words)

Why all the fighting over Facebook??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Here's my situation... I met a man online, through a dating site and we hit it off from the first date. Mutual attraction and chemistry, and it just felt so good at the beginning. We decided to get off of the dating site, but he wanted to be friends on Facebook, and so... (491 words)

Scent of a woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a young woman at work, who I always know when she is near because... I can smell her. She smells amazing and the weird thing is, I don't think it's her moisturizer or perfume. I want to approach her and introduce myself, but I think I'll just come off weird. But man s... (154 words)

Because of his parents, I am always on the outside looking in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. Its not been an easy relationship, his Mum can't stand me and as a result I've been banned from entering their family home for some time. There is no reason for her hate, she's just a possessive parent and can't stand her ... (519 words)

Love Letter with a Twist

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. Hello. My girlfriend and I broke up over a silly issue two months ago. Our first and thus far, last fight. That's fine; we've both moved on. Being Christmas and all, I wrote her a thank you, merry Christmas and happy new year letter. It's very sweet and I wrote ... (211 words)

Separated and finding it hard to let go

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I separated from my husband 6 months ago and I've been finding really hard to let go. I didn't realise how obsessive I'd become until somebody pointed out to be yesterday. I've had all night to think about it and OMG I've become an idiot. So I've decided I will live day ... (123 words)

My boyfriend left me because his mother won't agree to our marriage! He says he loves me!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope everyone is okay... I just really need some advice, the whole night i was awake and feel so distraught and I have just come here for advice and some kind ressauring words, just to make me stronger again or anything from anyone i would appreciate it so much. well h... (936 words)

We were best friends, but things have changed since she's been dating this guy

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so lets call this girl Autumn. She started going to my school in sixth grade, and we were BEST FRIENDS until the beginning of this year, eighth grade.. I mean were still best friends, but she doesnt act like it. I think it all statred in the end of secenth grade when she ... (217 words)

Boyfriend doesn't help at all and I'm fed up with his ways!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts. I guess I'm here more or less to vent. I am 20 years old, and I kinda have 2 jobs. I work graveyard at a nursing home and during the day I babysit and also on my nights off such as tonight I keep a 3 month old for a little extra money. My fiance works ONE job and ... (206 words)

Why can't I shake off this ex girlfriend?

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - a couple years ago, i dated this girl for a short time, and lost my virginity to her. it was the worst relationship anyone could imagine. lots of bad things happened--i found out she was cheating on me, she almost had a physical altercation with a relative, and a lot of other ... (227 words)

My parents don't like the guy I'm secretly dating!

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11 December 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Im 15 and My parents don't like the guy i talk to. He's 17, has a job and on his way to High school diploma. I dont know any one. I literally have 2 friends around my age. One girl(16), one guy (17). But this guy is my only guy friend whome i happen to have a huge crush on. W... (182 words)

My ex says I'm selfish because I can't be his friend

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My exbf called me a selfish cunt tonight because I don't want to hang out with him or his friend until it won't bother me that he is going out with a girl her met at his job.he thinks i should be over it by now but how can he when everytime we run into each other I break down ... (206 words)

We used to talk and laugh

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11 December 2010 (F) age 26-29 - hii guys :) i'm having a problem :$ there's this guy in my class that i'm in love with since I met him (half a year ago) and a couple of days ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend and we're togther :D:D my problem is quite silly actually, but before we were together, we ... (132 words)

Should I tell her I brokeup with her for another girl?

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Has anyone ever broke up with their girlfriend/boyfriend because they hooked up with a new girlfriend/boyfriend but didn't didn't tell the one who they broke up the real reason why they broke up with them was because they didn't want to hurt them? I did this to my exboyfriend ... (79 words)

My husband is going out again and I can't deal with it!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - well i'm here to tell you my situation, my husband is going out again , you see we been married for 9 years and we have 2 kids together a girl thats 6 and a boy thats 2 and he wasn't working for 3 years i was the one working all the time he would babysitt our kids and take our ... (163 words)

Married lover doesn't love me but is extremely fond of me?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age - Hi Ive been seeing a married man for about 9yrs, well i tried to break it off so i told him i would tell his wife about us if he didn't plus i said a lot of other very hurtful stuff to him, told him he had no respect for her ,or his marriage vows, well he got mad at me but when ... (148 words)

My lesbian lover got married and is now neglecting me

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm a lesbian 44 yrs. old, that un-expected i met a professional girl.. then we had an affair.. she break-up her boyfriend because of me but then one day she asked me a favor i'll let her to answer her suitor.. i say her yes, with the agreement that we continue our affair. but ... (103 words)

Does spiritual love exist?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age - ~SPIRITUAL LOVE-PAST, PRESENT and FUTURE~ Does anyone here believe spiritual love exists? If so, what is your definition of spiritual love? Have you experienced it or are you currently experiencing it? If yes, specify and qualify instances supporting related convict... (169 words)

Confused about the feeling of an orgasm

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, first of all hi. I'm confused about the feeling of an orgasm. I'm 19 and have been with my fiance for 4 years. We started intercourse a little over a year ago. I noticed i could get him to have an "orgasm", but never had one of my own. He recently started trying ... (100 words)

Did I just miss something great?

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple of months ago I met a girl who works at the Dairy Queen up the block from my house. I'd go once every week around the same time and she'd be there to serve me my blizzard. She made them the best for me after a few visits and they never let down. She'd always get ... (548 words)

During break-up, lesbian wife slept with a man.....eww!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Due to major unresolved problems in our relationship, I chose to leave my partner of nine years on July 4, 2010. We had been having problems since Feburary, but on that day I could take no more. Yes. I am the one the left, but I didn't leave with intentions to stop loving ... (211 words)

How do I tell my parents about this much older guy?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm currently in a relationship with a man who is 15 years older than me.. i'm 20, he's 35.. we have been dating for a few months, and we're falling in love...however, i don't know how to tell my parents.. i adore this man and i want to be with him. we're currently planning on ... (82 words)

She only wants to RECEIVE oral sex!!!!!

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11 December 2010 (M)

age - I have been seeing this woman for 6-months. She refuses to have sexual intercourse because of her religious convictions, however she has let me perform oral sex on her numerously, never returning the favor! She refuses to kiss as well. She likes to hang out an awful lot, like ... (260 words)

Should I sacrifice my love for my friend?

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend loves a girl and now even i too love her now,but she really hates my friend to the core and at the same time she says that i am like her brother.Now should i let her go for my friend or shall i continue to be in touch and date her even though she thinks me as her ... (62 words)

Did I creep her out or what?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am bisexual. I have a close friend, and we play fight, and flirt. She is straight. We hug, and joke a lot. She spends the night a lot, and we text each-other everyday almost. She was over my house washing dishes, but then I tried to kiss her on the cheek to thank her, an... (266 words)

Broke up with a girl but realized she's the one

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A relationship ended about 1.5 years ago by my hand. I made up reasons in my head to leave, none of which had any significant basis. Poor decision? Absolutely. What was I thinking? I have no idea. She goes on to date another guy, and I go on to date another girl. I... (215 words)

How can I win back my ex girlfriend

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you get the attention of your x girlfriend when you want to win her back... (17 words)

My mother seems to not want me to move on

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11 December 2010 (F) - I am 26 years old; still living at home..paying off loans, helping my parents and also not really making enough to be able to afford it My father is actually the more laid back, practical one..he doesn't question me really if i am going out..he will basically just ask where b... (536 words)

I know I like him, but does he like me back

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions combined. hi guys and gals! i have a major problem. i am a girl and i am not like most girls are. You know likes: jewelry, make up, dresses, etc. I am more of a tomboy and most of my friends were boys and tomboys so i never had a crush on a g... (232 words)

How can I contain my bad attitude?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and My boyfriend have been together for almost a year i have a bad Attitude problem because when i lived with my parents thats how people would commucate to one another when they are up set they will yell my boyfriend wants me to change the problem i have do you have any ... (60 words)

I'm afraid to ask him how he feels?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i like him a lot, but the problem is that he just broke up with his girlfriend. I know that he doesnt really care that they broke up so its not like he is hesitant about having another relationship. We have been really close and talk every day, i just dont know what to do. I ... (78 words)

Does Girl A know I exist because Girl B makes me feel complete

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - oh my God, this is just not right my heart is burning with desperation and i don't know if my thoughts are selfish and if i am being stupid for looking at someone else, but woman are just so wonderful, your laughs will make us weep and beg and do all kinds of tricks so that we, ... (198 words)

She claims she loves me yet, she cancels our dates?

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question that I need someone else's opinion on: I met a woman online and we been on several dates. She tells me that she loves me and wants to be with me (I figured a little early but what the hell) She lives with her grandmother who doesn't allow any man in the... (445 words)

How to turn this friendship in a relationship?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy met at work aboyt 7/8 months ago. We got to know eachother, then one night about a 1 1/2 months ago we made out. we have hung out a few times. He recetnly moved about 2.5 hours away. Once he was settled he invited me up and I went everything went great. We ... (138 words)

It's killing me inside that she's meeting new people!

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do i get over my ex? please understand she was my bestfriend, my gf, my everything. We talked 24/7, we were always texting so its very difficult for me because since we were always together. We had everything set, everything planned. It was a very serious relationship, We... (156 words)

Be happy with who you are, your past makes you the person you are today

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This year has been CRAZY, alot has happened.. at the time, i did not think anything was possible to get over and most defently didnt think i would be able to move on.. but here i am .. and somehow... im stronger than i have ever been and i look back at things that have... (947 words)

Any egg donors out there?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm thinking about donating eggs. Please, if anyone has ever had any experience with it, share your story. What are the risks/benefits involved? What were your feelings regarding it? Did you feel it was worth it for whatever reasons you did it for (money or altruism)? Your ... (54 words)

He says he doesn't have herpes, but I want to see some proof!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - he admitted that he slept with a woman who had herpes in the past. that was before he met me. we have not had sex yet. he doesn't want to get tested i am not going to have sex with him. it's a pity because otherwise he is a good man. he says he doesn't have herpes but i want ... (94 words)

I'm worried that when I start to age, my 18 year old boyfriend will dump for a young hottie!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 year old woman. my boyfriend is 18. I love him like i've never loved another man. I'm just worried about the age difference. Men take longer to mature usually than women. I'm just so indecisive about this relationship and it's all because I am so much older. I'm ... (94 words)

Are they lesbians and am I cut out of this relationship?

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Three years ago my girlfriend and I decided to have a 3some with a girl that we had just recently started geting to know. So one night after the bar closed that my girlfriend worked at we all went back to our house and started playing around with drinking, and kissing, and ... (361 words)

Are these feelings I have for my teacher normal?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i am a thirteen year old girl and i kind of like my teacher. He's married, and twenty years older than me. I know that this is kind of weird, and i would never tell him how i feel. But, i just don't know what to do. I miss him on the days he isn't at school, and i talk ... (100 words)

Why am I feeling a sense of morals gone bad?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 18. I have had 10 sexual partners in my life so far. But this is a total over a 4 year period. Is this considered promiscuous behavior? I don't dress provacatively, nor do I engage in a relationship with more than one person at a time. Im attractive and maybe I give ... (79 words)

I don't think it's healthy I spend all my time with him!

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, bit of a complicated one folks. My BF and I are in a long distance relationship. I'm in Ireland and he's currently in Canada so it's quite a long distance. We see each other roughly every 3 months, for anywhere from 2-6 weeks at a time. we've been together ages, our ... (353 words)

Naked women...

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11 December 2010 (F)

age - I've been in a happy marriage for over twenty years. I've always known my husband has looked at some naked women pictures when years ago someone handed him a book and now with the internet, he receives emails w/jokes w/naked women, some of the emails are a slide show of naked ... (126 words)

Could he be depressed?

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-avoiding-me-or-am-i-over.html --Continuation of this issue with a new question attached. Well, I got to talk to him, and he told me that he wasn't upset at me, but he also said he doesn't know what was wrong. If he knew what it was... (231 words)

He hardly ever wants to have sex... What's wrong with me???

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11 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 5 years rarely wants to have sex with me! I have explained how this makes me feel and how it kills my confidence and self esteem. but yet it seems like he does not understand....he always says I have issues meaning I am a nympho and I am not normal cause i want ... (162 words)

All I want is answers... why???

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11 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ~Listening to Bruno Mars- Talking to the moon~ Hello everyone and anyone. i have a story of well my real life heartbreak. Im 25 years old, goodlooking guy. Never really dated seriously too much. Was always the "player". Until one day i met a guy online (myspace) i kno ... (633 words)