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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:"I need time to think." Those words from my gf have resonated in my mind for over 5 months since she suddenly dumped me. I'm new to dating so I have 0 experience in this sort of thing. I spent my high school years as a combination of a nerd and a jock, excelling in academics, athletics, and all my extracurricular activities. I had a graduation party in June and it was the first time we saw each other in several years (her family has been friends with my family for a long time) and we instantly took an interest to each other. We dated for a few weeks and then one night she invited me to hang out with her and dumped me in public. To this day, I've been deeply affected and I haven't been able to live a normal life because she was the only girl to ever come to like and respect me. Also, making me feel even worse is the fact that I did so many great things for her and her family without wanting anything in return besides friendship. I just don't know where to go with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): SJ92 thank you for your response. I don't do things that would make girls not like or respect me (at least I think I don't). I'm always doing nice things for others just because I like doing them. Also she's not a scary being, she was so kind to me and liked me for who I was as a person, but for some reason that I've been trying to figure out for over 5 months, something made her become irrational in a nanosecond.
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