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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Being the third person in a relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a girl, the first time in my life of 21 years. She's wonderful, but also taken. When we started chatting a lot she had a really bad relationship with her BF. By the time we first slept with each other she was thinking of finishing with him. She actually ... (376 words)

My selfish girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What do you if you are on a relationship with a selfish woman? She thinks everything revolves around her. I love her dearly but I have been holding back on getting engaged because of this issue? Is it possible that with time and cpmmunication she can change? Is it worth ... (55 words)

I got pregnant from an affair but lied and told the father I had an abortion. He'll find out about my lie soon enough!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently found myself in a very difficult place and any help would be most welcome but please don't tell me I am a bad person as I feel awful anyhow... I have been engaged to a lovely man for three years and we have a twelve month old son.. I am 28 and he is 36, we met... (215 words)

What do my friend have that I don't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 39 and am told by people that i look a lot younger. attractive and smart, intelligent with a good job, good sense of humour, own home and car, one son aged 12. i have friends that i go out with occasionally, although they are all settled down in relationships so not ... (327 words)

His needs come before mine!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been with my fiance' for over 2 years.but we have 1 big problem.He loves to receive oral sex,and hand jobs.but he will not give oral sex nor will he pleasure me with his fingers.he claims lots of men dislike it.I try to explain to him that foreplay is very important for a ... (93 words)

He broke up me me because I didn't make him a priority. Now I regret it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I have been hurting the last several days, and have a constant knot in my stomach. A few months ago (3 or 4) I started dating this wonderful man. He is intelligent, smart, funny, and really good to me.We have tons in common, and have a really good time together. ... (347 words)

After a year, I'm not over him, I'm bitter and cynical! How do I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex-boyfriend for two and a half years. It was my first relationship and my first 'love', we had plans and I thought we had a future. He broke up with me a year ago, out of the blue, said he had fallen out of love and couldn't commit any more. It's been a yea... (232 words)

Websites being accessed when I'm not home..what to make of it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - if you logged onto the PC and the browser came up with a dating site on it and you looked at the history which showed a cookie that said 'contact' and another one that said 'wink' as well as one for the aforementioned website and all the properties information showed these had ... (64 words)

I want to take things slow. How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question about a boy online who I was flirting with. I've met him briefly face to face as he is a friend of a friend. Any way we're arranging to go out/stay in with a few drinks when we get back to university and we've discussed kissing and stuff. Its very ... (128 words)

He keeps inviting his ex to family functions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age - Although I continue telling my boyfriend he is being disrespectful inviting his ex-wife to family functions, he continues to do it anyway. His daughter is an adult and I do not feel the need to include his ex-wife if he know it makes me uncomfortable. I feel he is living in the ... (59 words)

Both of these guys want to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a serious problem in my relationships. I am in love with two guys that both love me and want to marry me, I really did not want to go out with these 2 guys at the same time but I really dont know what happened and now i am in real deep problem. Both of these re... (150 words)

Why is my ex talking to me every day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so if you read my other questions you will have a better understanding of my dilema or break up. My ex has come back to be my friend he admitted that he slept with someone the same week we broke up after a silly argument and i assumed we would get back together. Anyways that ... (243 words)

He says he won't do anything I don't want him to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend is 2 years older than me and loves me tells me he will not do anything i ask him not to. i can tell that eritates him though. whatt should i do?... (34 words)

He thinks if he's around me his "cover" will be blown

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so, i like this boy. we've been friends for about a year and a half. were both in the closet. i told him through facebook messaging i like him and he never replied (that was like a year ago) so its been a while. but after i told him, hes been the same around me. sweet, flirting ... (189 words)

Wife's past still hurts me 25 years later

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age - Please Help Me it hurts Till Today from 25 Years ago. Back in my Twenty's I was Friends with a Group of Guys We did all kinds of things together. But mostly Party And Look for Girls. I met a very nice Girl who was a Virgin We dated few Months I didn't Think We had much in ... (1189 words)

What is the difference between a friends with benefits and a lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - can somebody tell me the difference between a friends with benefits and a lover: He said that I am his lover.... what does this mean? Does he care about me for the future? or is this just a temporary sex relationship? What do you guys think?... (55 words)

What will people think of my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - recently i have been having feelings towards girls and i don't know wether i should tell anyone and am affraid of what people will think about me if i told them.... (31 words)

Should I be scared because my perfect hot guy wears kinky underwear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I started dating 2 months ago this very hot guy, who is so perfect. He's a lawyer, he's very beautiful in his mid-30s, he's wealthy, has a nice house and on top of that he's very nice and generous... The thing is last week, I surprised him putting his underwear in... (152 words)

What kind of toys do I buy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I discovered i might be gay... I've read on many websites that i should try to penetrate my ass by myself for my first time but i dont know wat kind of toys to buy and is there anything else necessary...? Isnt it weird a young guy like me going into a sexshop and buying toys. ... (57 words)

I make the effort. He doesn't. Why does he do this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've been talking to a guy for about two months now. I'm really into him, and it seems like the attraction is mutual. I think we really click. In the begginng he kept on asking me if I was talking to anyone else, and I reassured him that I wasn't. Then he told me that I b... (294 words)

24 and never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't find a girl, no matter what I do. I can't find anyone to even go out on a date with me. It's gone beyond even trying to find "that special someone" or "the one", I'm just trying to find any girl who will go out with me. Every girl I ask out pretty much just says no (the ... (284 words)

I want to keep the baby of 2 month relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 8 weeks pregnant and boyfriend wants abortion and has already dumped me! he says he has a 6 month baby and is not prepared to have another baby and we were together for only 2 months! i want to keep the baby but im afraid of being a single mom. im feeling sad and lonely and ... (85 words)

Is it weird to not enjoy making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it weird to not like making out with someone? I've only made out with less than a handful of guys, and they were all during relationships. They've all gone the similar way...it's cool at first and I don't mind making out, and then eventually it's just boring and I prefer ... (118 words)

Do I let him go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My BoyFriend And I Were At The Movies And I Grabed His **** And Well He Wad Already Hard And We Put Our Jackets Over Our Selfs So No One Can See And He Took His**** Outt Amd I Stared To Kinda Jack Him Off3(; And Then He Wanted To Finger Mee But I Wouldnt Let Him Because Well I ... (84 words)

Is their an avenue for my liking Muscular and Strong women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I consider myself to be a normal and straight guy. However, I find myself attracted to women with a muscular build, who are also strong athletically. Now, don't get me wrong, I said muscular not masculine because women in bodybuilding who abuse steroids and develop a square... (121 words)

My best friend doesn't want to be my best friend any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My best friend of 4yrs abruptly emailed me a note saying it was time we go our separate ways. He did this after I sent him an email that was very innocent. He was also my personal trainer and I was his number 1 client, I also helped him with his business at times. He always ... (341 words)

I've become attached, but he's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I need your help and I have to admit being so much confused. Since a year or more, I am talking to a guy on net. He is decent and kind, educated and has a good job in another country, where he lives with his wife and 2 babies. We started talking by him telling m... (579 words)

I have a crush on my son's coach!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please help i have fallen for my sons cricket coach. he started to flirt with me and as im shy i didnt do it back and then we started to talk and see each other alot as he sees my son to coach him.after a little bit he would text naughty texts but he had a girlfriend so i would ... (185 words)

Should I wear the promise ring like an engagement ring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a bit confused. For Christmas my boyfriend got me a Promise ring. I'm not confused about that, I'm very happy about it actually! It's just that we are young and I want to wear it on my ring finger because it's basically a promise to get "officially" engaged when we are ... (249 words)

Is it wrong to have a " special" friend while in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am involved with someone and so is this man that I am asking about. We met thru work 2 years ago. He has reached out several times to me thru calls and text which I thought was strange as we are both in long term relationships. Our communication became more frequent and I ... (371 words)

Should I open that forbidden door or play it safe?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello im needing advice. im 24 and a parent to a 4 yr old boy. im also married and have been with my partner since i was 18. hes 30 yrs old. my dilemma is that he wants another baby. he feels hes ready and i do too but is it wrong for me to want something else. i never had a ... (224 words)

How can I make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex-boyfriend dated for 4.5 years. We had a bumpy relationship in the beginning years but it eventually smoothed out though there were still arguments occurring often. But we both were madly in love with each other. He did so much for me and we always reminded each ... (336 words)

Anything I do for him is not enough for him. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I finally took the step to move in together. We've been together for almost 5 years. We've had our ups and downs....but for the past couple years, I have really felt like he won't ever commit to me. He says that he eventually will, but I am doubting it. The... (200 words)

What do I do when she says "I don't feel that way about you yet?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody, I need some help with my current situation. I have gone on 5 dates with this woman over the last two months. She is a mother of two and has been divorced for a year, the marriage lasted 8 years. (Not sure if it is relevant) So here is the deal. We had a b... (217 words)

What is the meaning behind his gift?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some advice on the meaning of a gift I received for xmas from my bf of 4 months, please. We said we'd get each other little gifts, but he bought me a beautiful sapphire necklace :) I'm not sure what this means (he hasn't ever told me he loves me) and I'm not ... (94 words)

He's still flirting with girls on FB and texting even after just moving in with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dealing with my old high school boyfriend again. So far so good. But I have a minor problem. He spent the holidays with me and he's still here. He only leaves to go to work or go home to get clean clothes. But I noticed he's flirting with girls on his ... (118 words)

Frustration for both of us over my slow arousal point. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is very good at oral sex and i really enjoy sex with him. I get frustrated, and so does he, because it takes me way too long to reach an orgasm. Sometimes i feel as if i'm concentrating too much on it, and maybe that is why. What is something i can do so we both... (69 words)

He doesn't want to get married again. Is this a deal breaker?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is going through a divorce and experienced a bad relationship. He feels as if the marriage ruined it. He told me he cannot see himself ever marrying again. Ever since I was a little girl i have always wanted to be happily married. Should this be a deal breaker?... (51 words)

Is it cheating if he's separated but waiting for divorce finalisation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce and has been separated from his wife for several months. The only reason his divorce is taking so long is because of financial issues. We have a pretty healthy relationship so far. He is so hurt from his soon-to-be ex-wife ... (117 words)

He's playing me, I know, but I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - to put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now. After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be apart from him, he was playing me. ... (229 words)

Do I keep this relationship going? I haven't seen or heard much from her since we had sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was seeing this older women for awhile as a friend. We would go out and have fun, she didnt want sex at the time because we were just friends she said. One night as it happened she ended up having sex with me and i havent seen or heard much from her since. Should i let i... (121 words)

How can I protect my friend from getting hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I help my friend not get hurt? She and this guy (who is three years older than her) have been flirting with eachother a while now. And she's confessed to me recently that her feelings for him are getting stronger. This guy has hurt one of my other friends who was ... (276 words)

Hooked on these great feelings of desire.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age - I am a married woman having a emotional affair with a single man 8 years younger than me. I met him on a social network. I told him in the beginning I was not leaving my husband cause he loves me. However, I have grown to really like him and think about meeting him. He says he ... (90 words)

Do I want to lose my virginity to this girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the dilemma: I've been seeing a girl, roughly same age (23/24) for a few months now. I'm a virgin and recently found out she isn't. I'm afraid this will make her lose interest in me and also it makes me wonder if I really want to lose my first time to her. I care ab... (114 words)

Son's girlfriend cheated, now his whole outlook on life has changed.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age - I need help really badly. My son he has been down for the last year or so. He had a girlfriend who he loved a lot. He did things for this for this girl that were super romantic and she reciprocated. I liked her. 5 years later,, and I repeat my son is the "long term ... (281 words)

I do all the housework and he refuses to contribute or help.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. I am in a relationship with a guy who is a year younger than me. He moved in with me three months ago (after online dating for two--I know it was a little soon...) I'm starting to get second thoughts about continuing a relationship with him. He doesn't ... (252 words)

I can't leave because of the kids, but our relationship is terrible.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in a terrible situation and would love to get some advice i have been with my partner for 5 years now. we have 4 children who i love very much. Me and my partner dont get on we always argue. Every day there is something im doing wrong i tidy up every day i Cook all the ... (408 words)

Love and bills.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm in a relationship with a man who loves me and knows about my past. However, I have big financial woes (he knows about that too). I've almost 30 thousand dollars of debt in credit cards and personal loans. I'm embarrassed by it and unfortuantely, I can't pay them o... (241 words)

He lies about smoking weed!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I have this problem with my boyfriend... He constantly lies to me about weed. I am so against it and i tried to forbid him of using it.. He always hangs out with his friend that smoke weed, and he claims that he does not. I convinced him that i know , so he admitted it.. ... (164 words)

He can go out and do things but I can't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please make me understand that I am not the only one who thinks he is selfish.........OK so my boyfriend of five years is lazy he has worked off and on and has been trying somewhat to be a better person. he got laid off like three months ago and has not looked for a job ... (263 words)

She's amazing, why is she with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl, she lives about 2 states over, and we've been together for about two months now. We're both still in high school school, and both have social lives (Or at least she does), which brings me to my question. She is insanely beautif... (186 words)

Sex with an ex, then he had sex with another girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm an idiot...the other night I decided to have sex with my EX boyfriend...I'm only 13 years old and he's 15. I don't even know how it happened I was just supposed to hang out with him cause even if we broke up we're still like bestfriends. But i don't know...things just ... (144 words)

If he really loved her he wouldn't cheat on her with me right?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am extremely torn and confused over a guy that I was with 8 years ago for 1.5 years. Because of certain circumstances we had broken it off and recently about 4 months ago he came back into my life. He remembers everything we have done, all the memories. Problem is he lives ... (313 words)

Can being out of shape affect masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Im 24 coming 25 and i have been masturbating for about 10 years. Up until recently i have been able to last 30-50 mins while watching porn but now it seems that i can't last long. Up until i have been excerise semi regular but now i haven't. Could lack of energy be... (95 words)

How do I let him down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What do I do when 2 guys are fighting over me? They are both cute but they hate each other. D and I have been friends for two years and he's moving next year. F and I have dated 3 times before and even though we are not dating now, he still tells me he loves me about 10 times ... (163 words)

Why would she stay with him after he cheated on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello All! My question is "Why does a girl stay with a guy after she finds out that he was cheating on her?" I dated this guy for a few months and then found out he had a girlfriend the whole time. I told the girlfriend and she still is with him. We met through salsa and I se... (139 words)

What to do about an overly clingy selfish girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a male and I have returned to my home country to visit my family. Throughout my relationship with my girlfriend she has constantly grown more clingy and selfish. She gets annoyed when I tell my family that i love them. She doesnt like me speaking to them and she insists ... (224 words)

Is dating online safe for a teen girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 14 year old girl and want to date online but is it unsafe to date online please help... (21 words)

What is considered nagging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What does nag means to girl? I'm having fear of whether or not should i message this girl about my concern for her. I fear that she interpret my message as nagging...... (32 words)

Share your stories about coping with a bad breakup.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been going through a really painful breakup. I loved him so much, I'm only 21 but i feel as though the love of my life left me. Today, is a particularly bad day. I feel awful. I think i'd be really encouraging if anyone who has been through a really bad breakup before ... (68 words)

All he can talk about is sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start by saying me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and I love him with all my heart. He says he feels the same but sometimes I beg to differ. Anyway, lately all that's been on his mind is sex sex sex. I mean I don't mind, I love having sex with him but I ... (121 words)

Does romance novel chemistry really happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering, does passion, as described in novels, really exist? I mean stuff like: my skin burned like fire where he touched it, when our eyes met it felt like my bones turned into jello, I felt completely possessed by insane desire, I don't even remember how we got ... (93 words)

Can someone explain love to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello dear cupid this may sound like a dumb question but can you guys explain love to me? all my life i've never really seen a good relationship. my mother, my aunts and even my older cousins all been in bad relationships and some are still in those bad relationships and if t... (231 words)

We want different things, but make each other happy now.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been dating for about 2 years now,and recently whenever im with him,i started to feel wrong,yet i feel comfortable and safe everytime he's around.i love him,yes.he love me,yes he do.much more than me i think.he care me about me,pampering me all time,even when he's mad ... (210 words)

Are we even still dating? He said he doesn't want obligations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this gets a bit lobg, but I am beyond confused and need some second opinions. So today marks nine months in my LDR. According to him, it's eight but that's besides the point. I guess I should just be happy he even remembered with the way things have been going. Anyway, ... (427 words)

We are from different backgrounds, but we love each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend truely. N i wish 2 spnt the rest f my lif with him. The only problem is we are of different tribes n my parents dont like the people of his tribe. What shall i do. And my family doesnt know about him yet. M afraid to tell my parents about him, they would ... (64 words)

I think she's developing an eating disorder.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey all, my problem is my daughter, she is a beautiful 13 yr old, now she and i have been given a hard time by her dad we are still together just. she has no confidence and is 10 and a half stone shes not tall and so does look a big girl. i have suffered on and off all my life ... (192 words)

I like my friend's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I can't get over my friends brother. He is one grade level younger than me but he's 13 too because his birthday is in September. My friend doesn't know I like him. My friend and I aren't BFFs but we aren't just friendly. At least 5 times a week, I'll look up on the ... (100 words)

I can't sleep at night, now he wants to end things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf r living together for 3 monthes.i've some problems with my sleeping.My sleep doesn't come at night.i usually get awakend for the whole night and do complete my studies and during day i go to sleep.my bf is saying that i'm disrupting his sleep.he now wants to ... (87 words)

She doesn't respect herself enough for me to be with her, but I still love her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and I had been together for one year, and broke up recently. For both us, this was our first relationship, and got serious pretty quickly. We were talking about moving in together, discussing our future together, etc. The first few months, we ... (392 words)

I feel like the less valued person in this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sort of dating this guy, who is also my flatmate. We´ve know eachother for about 3 months and i know i like him more than he likes me. I feel that in our ¨relationship¨ i am the lower value person (i always seek his company, etc) and i would like to change this. what ... (61 words)

Should I wait until next year?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, first off, I'm 14. I'm still in middle school and I'm single. i don't mind being single, but there are times when I would want a boyfriend. Like really badly. So, there's this guy who's junior in high school. I've started to like him. We've chatted once or twice. He's a ... (107 words)

We love each other, but should we start something long distance?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so irecently moved from NewYork to Florida. While iwas in NewYork, imet this guy. We instantly clicked, and he is now one of the two people who ireally trust. He is the first guy iever fell in love with, and he has fallen for me too. We had a great relationship when we ... (186 words)

Why does he ignore me to flirt with my best friend?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why does he ignore me after we have been talking for time and flirts wit my best mate even though he knows me and her are friends?... (27 words)

How do you tell love from lust?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you tell love from lust? I am 35 and recently met up with an old flame i used to hang out with when we were teenagers. I always liked this guy and he liked me. We had a brief relationship but it was mainly based on sex. He did however tell me once he really liked me... (185 words)

How can I get him to say sweet things out of the blue?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - First off, ilove my boyfriend. Ireally do 3 he's truly amazing ! He makes me feel like I'm the only girl for him. He definately goes above and beyond for me. The only problem is that he's not the PDA type. Imean he is physically and all that, but not with words and such. He tel... (143 words)

Why can't I talk to girls?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel difficult to communicate with the girls. I used to talk and play with girls when i was small. Those girls grew up and now they are big. They have all the qualities what i wish to have in a girl. I feel to have sex with them. But i couldnt even communicate casually with ... (110 words)

Should I give up on this marriage? He doesn't even live here anymore.

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do i start afresh or try and make it work? My partner and i had been together for over 6 yrs we have had 2 children, we split in july after i had discovered he was getting overly friendly with his ex/ he moved out and went home 2 his mum, we didnt speak for several wks and ... (310 words)

Should I tell him I love him? He is with someone else.

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... there is a super long backstory to me and my best friends relationship but I won't bore you with it. I'll just lay it out plain and simple. I met my best friend 5 years ago... have a connection with him that I have never found with anyone else before in my life. I've also ... (406 words)

What are the signs that he could like me?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i no if sumone liks me, i cant stop thinking about this guy, i really like him slept with him a few times but cant tell him how i feel, we do txt sumtimes but thats it I will say sumthing eventually but i need to no sum signs that he mite like me, He does put kis... (90 words)

How do I get him to that point?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is totally weird, I never thought I would have to ask a website about this. I just need someone to help me figure this out. So, I met this guy about a year ago online, (something I never do) and we had started talking and nothing really came of it. I kinda brushed th... (911 words)

Does she like me too?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i used to see girl in my church, though i'm a new member of the church, but whenver we are in the church service we stare at each other, i don't know may she also feel the same i'm feeling, cos i like her, what i'm scare abt i have never experience a relationship b4.... (56 words)

He wants to have sex but we're unsure if we can marry.

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hiii i m 22 years old and i have a boyfriend. we both are virgin. we already have oral sex. he is now asking for anal sex.i want to but i have some problems. what are the changes that happen to body after having sex first time??? does it hurts lot first time?? main pro... (115 words)

Should I be unsettled by this?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I'd love some advice on whether I should be unsettled by something I found out about my new bf of 4 months past or not. So far, things have been awesome, like he's too good to be true:) We met through work, and he's gorgeous, thoughtful, kind, caring. He took care ... (540 words)

One of her friends is in love with her!

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A group of friends including my girlfriend went out for a night. As people went home, she was left with one of her male friends. He confessed his love for her, but she told him that she's in love with me. She was sharing a bed with another female friend that night but he ... (120 words)

Cheating, or loving?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, pl help me, I m married 6yrs old with kids,my wife gets very angry whenever i remind or remember regarding her past boy friend, regarding whom she says "I don't love now, 'I love only you' not anybody" but I feel some where she feels for him but not telling about it, ... (97 words)

My girlfriend calls me a manwhore!

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27 December 2010 (M) age 30-35 - So my girl and I have been together for a couple years and we used to be really happy but things lately last 4 months or so havent been all that great. She makes me feel bad about myself. Since I've had some history with women before dating her, she calls me a slut and a ... (111 words)

My husband won't stop insulting me!

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am 28 years old and i married to my boyfriend. we are crazy about each other but my husband is bad tempered and whenever he becomes angry he easily insults me. we have no other problem but i can not tolerate it anymore. i have talked to him many times but it was not ... (72 words)

He talks about sex all day but just goes to sleep when the lights are out.

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf talks about having sex with me all day but when it's lights out he just falls asleep. Why?... (22 words)

How should I prepare for being a teenage parent?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay thnx for the previous advice guys and yea everything is fine now, my parents were pretty stricken at first but after their shock they were very suppportive! our friends were all shocked but their great... just another question...what should i be prepared for? (i don't sl... (106 words)

Coping after leaving an abusive marriage?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a mother of 3 children and have been single for nearly a year and a half. My marrige vows were broken well before I left with the kids after physical abuse. He had emotionally, financially and verbally wore me down, but the phsical abuse that sparked my babys prematur... (383 words)

Help me salvage my relationship with my best friend.

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys. so me and my best friend have been friends since seventh grade. were sophomores in high school now. we used to be really close, but now we arent. hes been hanging around these ghetto, mexican kids and they are a really bad influence. hes a totally different person. we ... (144 words)

I want a baby so bad, but we can't have one.

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It breaks my heart to see all these young women on here pregnant and scared when there are people out there that want babies so bad and can't have them. I've been married for 5 years and we can't have kids. The adoption agency we spoke to said that it costs around 15,000-20... (186 words)

My Boy Friend wants sex but I want kisses too

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend and i have been messing around for about two years now. I'm bi. We both have had girlfriends in between us fooling around. i really like him and feel like we should be together. We have amazing sex. But he doesn't kiss me. i mean it's not like i ask and he says no, ... (121 words)

Convenient FWB? Or a relationship in progress? I'm confused

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27 December 2010 (F)

age - About 7 months ago i met this guy online (lives out of town) he came out we had a nice time and ended up sleeping together. He then returned two weeks later but I didn't feel it, and told him i didn't see things progressing. We decided to be FWB as we had a very strong sexual ... (279 words)

My BF is obsessed with sexting me and I think it's inappropriate

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost three months. I love him and he loves me. Very much. Our parents refuse to let us date, so we date through text messages, late at night, when we are alone. He likes to virtually "do" me while talking. He says it's his only pleasure ... (133 words)

My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relationship, um I can say it's ... (539 words)

He was my friend but all he cares about now is popularity

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally in to someone else at that time, that i never notice that he like me. Everyone including his best friend ... (142 words)

My BF and I get so nervous when we are together

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I ask a question on here why my boyfriend and i get so nervous around each other but I have to ask something like that. If you haven't read my last question then I shall give you a summary of it. my boyfriend and I get super nervous around each other. We can't talk to each oth... (171 words)

The changes in my friend are unsettling me

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is really starting to change. It all started when we went to the mall. I saw these really cute pants but I'd wasted all my money on a birthday present for my mom. So, my friend says "take the pants, put it in your purse and walk out," I say "but...with my luck ... (158 words)

Why he didn't call me back after spending a great time together?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a very attractive girl and I've been texting with this guy for a while. last week we went out and had a great time together. I know he liked me. We kissed, hugged but when he drove me home I didn't invite him in. After kissing inside the car I sad goodnight and left. I thou... (132 words)

Is my Fetish too Weird?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this may seem weird but i'm 20 and a virgin. When i masturbate i like to wear girls panties. Is this a really weird thing to do? should i be really embarrased by this and learn to stop doing it?... (40 words)

What can I do to keep a girlfriend happy?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? ... (36 words)

Does he prefer the sex toys and and porn over me?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I've seen this posted before, but mine feels a little different. I know my boyfriend likes to jack off. Never botherd me. But we are going on almost 2 yrs and sex is fading. Maybe once a week. Now he has this fake vagina, that I got for him. He didnt like it at first, but ... (136 words)

Does he truly love me or just like me?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 17 yr old girl and i'm in love with a guy truly and deeply from 2 yrs ago. We were friends for 1 yr ago. Altogether i've know him from 3 yrs ago. i want this relationship to develop into marriage. The only problem betwen us is that he doesn't share anything with me. Not ... (192 words)

What can I do to keep my girlfriend happy?

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27 December 2010 (M) age 26-29 - i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship so i want to keep her happy what.can i do keep her happy? ... (31 words)

Is he serious in his long term commitment to me?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, so I'm kind of stuck on what I should do, so I need some advice. I'm a 25 year old gay male who has been in a 4 month long relationship with a guy who I met on a hook-up site over the summer. We decided to start dating and I've been pretty happy. But ever since he... (271 words)

I made a horrible mistake and lost her. Should I tell her I love her?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Am I the only one down in the dumps for playing the hard to get game and lost because I took it to far? She's with him now. I regret never telling her I love her. Should I tell her or is it to late? She got engaged to him Christmas Day.... (52 words)

I lied to my Mom, but I love this boy so much

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - About 5 months ago i met my uncle's wife's brother at my little cousin's birthday party. They all live in mexico so i rarely see them. This boy and I didn't talk, we just looked at each other and smiled, through out the whole party. After that we didn't talk..i felt weird b... (294 words)

Do I move on? Or just stay friends?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, i'm in high school and I have a best friend and he's a guy. We text everyday and flirt. I've liked him for a little more than a year and he says he's liked me too off and on since last summer. Well since this past summer i've really fallen for him and we've gotten pretty ... (192 words)

Does it sound like he's truly falling for me?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my current boyfriend in a chemistry class last semester. We finally went on a date 2 months ago and have been together ever since. He is smart, tall, funny, athletic, takes care of himself, and everything else I've been looking for! We see each other about 3 times a week ... (150 words)

We split, but I'm still madly in love with her

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27 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone now recently me and my gf split and are now pursuing a friendship. Yet we still argue like we're a couple. She recently got mad because of a joke, when she thought I was serious. But I was not. I don't want her completely out of my life. How can I show her I'm ... (76 words)

Why is this breaking my heart?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is this breakng my heart?. He's nice and he's sweet but sometimes he's a complete jerk. I mean i love him and everything. He goes out of his way to make me happy, but seriously he's 3yrs older then me, i'm 15. He has a major fit when i tell him to make his own sandwic... (110 words)

I'm frustrated because my body can only manage a fleeting arousal of seconds

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue when it comes to sexual pleasure. I get aroused when I'm with a boy, or by myself, but my arousal is in vain. I only feel pleasure for a few seconds before it is gone. I have tried many times, in every way, to achieve any sexual pleasure with complete and utter ... (121 words)

32 and I don't know how to approach women successfully

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27 December 2010 (M)

- Hi there. I’m 32 and still trying to get the hang of this dating thing before I lose the will to live. Im really trying to put pressure on myself to find a girlfriend as the gaps between partners in my life has been just too big meaning I’ve had little experience with women: 3 ... (439 words)

He cannot take care of me like he wants

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a gentleman 17 years older then me. He seems to not be able to get hard. He has tried a number of medications to help and they do not. We have sex and it is really good sex, but he gets so upset because he can not "take care of me" like he wants. So what do we ... (64 words)

How to move from Best Friend to Boy Friend?

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm gunna jump straight into it. Me and my friend have been friends for a couple of years now we went out near to when we met (bad idea) and it didnt work out, she sorta didnt want to kiss n just didnt feel the same way about me compared to how she did to start with. So... (533 words)

Almost 14 and no relationship experience yet

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13, 14 in January, and I've never had a relationship. I've never kissed anyone either. All my friends have at least kissed one, and most of my friends are in relationships and are really happy. Is this honestly normal for me to be nearly 14 and not have any relationship ... (68 words)

Does it sound like he likes me?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes who I am friends with, and I like him. He is always putting his arm around me, and laying his head on my shoulder, and stuff like that. And whenever we're alone he jokes about how its the perfect time to make out. One time in, after lunc... (377 words)

Is it risky of me to do this no contact for a month knowing I want my BF and the relationship back?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my bf for 4 years he cheated..he confessed it and told me that it made him realize how much me and the relationship meant to him and he was willing to prove to me how much he wanted this relationship and to earn my trust.......although deep down i believed ... (198 words)

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the wrong crowd and got involved... (347 words)

How do I tell him I'm not ready?

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27 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ready, and at the time i ... (220 words)

How much time on Facebook is "normal"

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27 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this isnt really a question, its more of a wondering :) is it normal for people to spend all day everyday on facebook. two of my best friends do it and i dont no any other people who do that but is it normal? thanks btw :)... (53 words)