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*rettybabe24
writes:Good day ya'llPlease advise a sister here. I have a boyfriend who is so stingy l dont even get him.I mean l have always paid my own bills with no problem and l dont intend on asking him to pay mine. Now my problem is that, he doesnot mind calling me to ask for airtime or ask that l take him out. The most worrying thing is that he just asked me to marry him but am so scared he will abuse me financially when we stay together. The most l can settle for is 50/50 not me paying all the bills coz lm scared thats what lm going to be do. He has more than one business and l have an office job and am still studying, please assist:-( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Well perhaps you need to be asking these questions of him, tell him if you're going to marry him, you need t know he'll pull his own weight in both the relationship and finances, if this still doesn't help try getting a prenuptial agreement to ensure your safety. You could keep separate bank accounts and have him know you expect to be equals in your marriage. I would suggest sorting this out before you begin preparations for the big day. Best of luck, hun. :)
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