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writes:I met this guy when i was 16. From the first time i met him, i was really excited. I thought he was beautiful and i really admired him. So we kept in touch through the years, granted its only been 5 years. Fast forward to the present, and i think ive fallin in love. I've always loved him i guess. I remembr telling my best friends after i met him that i was goin 2 marry him someday. We finally took our friendship 2 the next level a year ago, but since he lives 4 hours away, we've sort of been stuck in the same spot for a year and a half. I have a bf now. But this guy was in my city for the week, and one thing led to anothr and we resumed where we left off. We haven't had sex so its not about that at all. I love being in his arms. I've always loved everything about him from the very first time i met him. Now he went back and im here and i feel so bad without him i dont even care about my bf. I only want him. Im so tired of waiting for him. How do i get over this crazy in love feeling? I feel so juvenile.
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reader, redbutterfly +, writes (30 December 2010):
look. If you aren't willing to wait for him, then you really don't love him. like they say love is patient, love is kind, it isn't angry or boastful and it most definately doesn't take joy in wrong. They always say that if you love them you'll go wherever they go but if they love you then they will stay. So go this refers to you go to him if you love him as much as you say you do then fucking prove it. I've lived my whole life with people ridiculing love and calling a silly little heart feeling "LOVE" when it's not. it's just infatuation they feel for another. If you love him then you will stay at his side and and figure out a way for you to be together and leave that bf that you don't care about because you may be hurting him and in the long run whether it's 30 years from now you'll think about this and you'll think of all the people you hurt when you're alone and still undecisive. So if you don't care about your bf leave him and and that "crazy in love feeling" is never gonna go away you'll think about it when you meet someone else because i bet ur not gonna stay with that bf of yours. You're gonna think and you're gonna see that guy in people you date. You can't forget those things. So love is just jumping at the chance to be someeon even though you know it could cost you your life but with love you won't have to.
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