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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I approach him without making a fool of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i like this guy, he's a lot like me, shy backward and is very quiet. I asked him out a couple weeks ago online and he never said no. I see him looking at me all the time, along with his friends. No, I haven't approached him in school, and the reason is him looking at me. I'm ... (105 words)

HIs attitude has changed overnight and I don't know what I did!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been dating a man for a few months and everything was going really well. He complimented me and wanted to speak and spend time with me. We spent xmas together and I stayed at his (invited of course)Then all of a sudden on the Monday he became very distant and aloo... (130 words)

Should I try to get her into therapy because of her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl I know and were not exactly boyfriend girlfriend but we sure have a connection and i love this person very much. Well I read her diary and it said at the ages of 9-10 she was molested every day and practically raped and it happened from two guys around the ... (253 words)

I'm afraid if we hook up I'll disappoint him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK So I will keep this short. There is this guy I like. Lets call him "Kevin" Anyways Kevin has been with a lot of girls. He was always the hook up type. Now he has decided to start looking for a relationship. I know he is serious because he has stopped having sex for several ... (230 words)

He won't date me because we're 5 years apart in age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so i need some help here as i don't know what to do, I'm 16 and he is 21 next week we met on a work night out and instantly clicked, we were chatting and flirting and ending up snogging each other its legal I'm from uk, after a week of phone calls and texting i fell hard ... (181 words)

My sister found out about my relationship and could ruin everything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi M 19.. I'm in a very serious and sweet relationship with an amazing guy.. Here the prob is I dont know how but my sis got to know about my relationship.. Guess she read my messages or cards.. This the worst that could ever happen to me or to my relationship. I ... (127 words)

I'm ready for this relationship but he can be unreliable. How can I fix this relationship so he's ready too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got back with my exboyfriend, he asked me out again. I feel as if he's not ready for a relationship yet. I really love him. Im ready for him, but i don't feel he's ready for me. I don't know how to make him know how i feel. I've been waiting for so long to get back ... (190 words)

Should I be the one to 'cave in'? We haven't spoken for four days

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of a followup from my last question. I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in 4 whole days now and I don't know if I should be the one to cave or not? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-asking-too-much-im-not-asking.html He's emotionally a handful, I don't f... (137 words)

He feels like a 'keeper' but I'm finding it really hard to trust his sweet talking words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, almost 10. I love him, I think I'm in love with him. But I don't know, how can I be sure? How can I be sure he's in love with me? He tell me he's madly in love with me, and I'm the only girl he EVER thought was beautiful, could that ... (421 words)

Promise ring goes on what hand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - when you get a promise ring what hand do you generally wear it on?... (14 words)

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as me. As I had some religiuos r... (870 words)

People are spreading rumors about my fiance cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Other people are spreading rumors and accusing my fiance of cheating,They have also told him negative things about me. He said that he isn't cheating and it is causing a great deal of stress within the relationship. What do I do?... (41 words)

Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it. if he turns up tomm what the hell do i do ... (63 words)

Is he just sweet talking me or is he in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend tells me I'm the only girl he ever thought was beautiful, all the time, he tells me he thinks NO other girl is even close to cute and I'm the only girl he ever found beautiful. Is this true? Or is he just sweet talking me? Or could this really be true because he ... (60 words)

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a relationship after his ... (319 words)

My mother's manipulating ways are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my mum has always been controlling and manipulative and we used to argue when I was growing up. im from a strict asian family and didnt have freedom like my friends through school and had to lie about going out, boyfriends etc. now im at uni i only come home for holidays and... (462 words)

I need to know how to french kiss by February

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I Need Help , Im 14 And Im Supposed To Be Tounge Kissing This Boy The 2 Days Before Valentines Day And I NEVER Tounge Kissed A Boy And Im Scared I Will Mess Up So i Need To Know How To Do This I Mean Like Step By Step Anddd Were Going To The Movies Too.! Help I Have No Idea How ... (71 words)

I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next. I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, i started sending her mess... (139 words)

Why is she with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Gonna try keep this short.Im 27, met my current gf whos 25, 4 years ago through her sister,who is also my work colleague,she gave me her phone number so we could chat on an IM chat service.We chatted for a month,i got to know she liked clubbing,took a drink,didnt smoke ... (368 words)

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to lose my boyfriend telling him ... (74 words)

My girlfriend has had over 30 plus sexual partners before me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and been with the girl for almost 4 months. I love her and she loves me and wants to have my children and has talked about marriage before. Here's the tricky part. I have no history of my own. She was my first while she's been with 30+ guys. How should I feel ... (126 words)

"I still have feelings for you, give me another chance"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating this guy for almost three months and I was thinking about what to get him for our anniversary. Well a few days before our anniversary he told me on the computer that he wanted to take a break and start the new year of college single and if he couldn't find ... (277 words)

Have you advice for a 17year old who's never had a boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, female and living in the UK. I know is sounds really lame, but I have never had a boyfriend and I've never kissed a boy either, (apart from playing kiss chase when I was about 8, which obviously doesn't count). Is there something wrong with me? Without sounding too ... (302 words)

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town that's about two hours away ... (216 words)

We seem to have grown apart, is there a way back or should I go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Good evening to all and happy new year! Ive been asking myself why am i visiting this site? How did i came upon it, what led me to being here and the answer hit me - i know who i am, i know what ive achieved in life regarding work and studies and so on, but ive realised tha... (433 words)

Husband is great but he looks at teen porn

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look to be around 14-18. I want to ... (213 words)

None of the sexual aids help me get it up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age - my problem is that i cant seem to get a hard-on, i have tried a number of sexual aids i.e. all kinds of pills that say they can do this or that and yet none have worked for me. can someone please help me with my problem. i would love to make love to my wife.... (63 words)

Both of these men are crazy about me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im so confused and i have to make a choice soon. i have found myself in a bind dating two awesome men at the same time.the 1st guy is a recently divorced commander in the us army(i live in clarksville,tn-right next to ft campbell,ky). he treats me very well,helps me out ... (223 words)

I'm running out of time to let him know how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i'll try to be brief here. theres this guy i fancy who's 18 years old but i'm only 16. first off if we ever did end up going out would it be wrong? anyway he's going back to college on wednesday, which means that if i exclude the newyear and sunday i've only got monday ... (261 words)

First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few times a day and we were ... (234 words)

How do I get the maximum sex out of my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married last month to a businessman. he loves me but sleeps little with me.. though we are together in bed but less he will hug me to sleep together.. intercourse only on weekends because of his night business files on the bed. knows less sex postions, so how to tea... (74 words)

Does the anus produce any natural lubricant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! So I'm a 16 year old guy, just starting to except the fact that he's gay. But I was curious, and so I'm gonna ask this: If a guys is being stimulated anally, does his anus produce any kind of lubrication or liquid like a vagina would? Idk, stupid question...but it just ... (71 words)

I'm so scared! I don't want to be a lesbian, but I'm not sure if I am one or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i think i might have HOCD (homosexual ocd). im so scared of being a lesbian. i would rather die. i just recently got over my hocd when i found a MALE crush. ive never had a crush on a girl. im not romantically attracted to them. however, ive known since i was 11 that im ... (237 words)

Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republic. I was surprised when ... (513 words)

I just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a lot of work but still i worked... (186 words)

I love him, but I get turned on by porn and not by him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for help with my sex life in regards to a particular problem I've been having over the past few weeks. Me and my boyfriend have been in an amazing relationship for almost 2 years, and sexually active for just under a year and a half of that. Recently, I have not ... (222 words)

Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many chances to be a trustworthy ... (157 words)

Troubled relationship has become perfect but should I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am the one that told u b4 that had fight with my bf we were 2gether 4 2 years we fought and he scared me with msgs and said bad words but know am back with him i 4gave him and know hes totally different hes calm gentle and truly romantic cn he change totally in this short ... (83 words)

I'm in my mid 40s, but my overbearing mother won't back off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my mother. Quite a bit of the following is venting, so you may want to skip to the question at the end. I'm in my mid 40s, but she still tries to tell me what to do constantly. There are many things about her I despise, and ... (1199 words)

5 year relationship, I don't think she's who I thought she was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a 5 year LDR relationship with my girlfriend and am starting to have doubts about whether or not we should stay together. We met only get to see each other every few months, so it took me a while to get to know her. She is a great person,loyal, never jealous, ... (444 words)

He's cheated twice and lies about doing drugs! Dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has been making me feel terrible lately. I feel as if I can no longer trust him. He cheated on my twice and lies about doing drugs. Well he didn't lie more like tell me he would quit for me then text me the next day saying I can't tell him why to do...... Idk if he ... (102 words)

Feeling sad, friend just got engaged yet I know I won't be for another 3 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend just got engaged after being with her bf for 2 year. I have been with mine for 2 and I know it'll be at LEAST another 3 before my bf ever even considers it [due to training for his job]. I feel a bit saddened. I know I shouldnt compare myself and every relationship is ... (74 words)

Guys:Do you honestly think he has led me on intentionally or unintentionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known him for a year.I used to see him only as my friend...a few months ago,we were closer and we became good friends,but he started flirting with me,touching me a lot(played with my hair,touched my back,put my hair into his mouth and bit it and told me the smell of my ... (214 words)

I don't know how this works...do couples tend to buy more expensive gifts for their partner through the years and discuss the price range??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just received the Christmas gift box my bf who I'm in an open relationship with sent from the US, I'm in the UK and he moved from the UK to Asia for a job. I'm from a culture in which we don't celebrate Christmas so this is the first Christmas gift I've ever received. I want ... (253 words)

Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some travelling and went to his home... (194 words)

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking on the phone. I know he is ... (124 words)

5 years together and planning to move to another state, but we're having problems. Should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 years, not engaged, ugh, but I do love him very much. We lived together once around the 3 year mark and broke up because he wanted to spend every waking moment with me. I mean, I love him, but I needed space. We we're broken up for 1 ... (236 words)

Fight or flight - is it even worth it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been dating this guy for four months, passionate, loving, attentive and productive relationship. The problem, I was the "other women" - wait, let me explain. He isnt married to her, never has been, they have a baby together, a son (now 7 month old), she fell pregnant ... (544 words)

The perfect boyfriend but I'm not sure if I like him or love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys,i think im confuse.im not sure anymore if this is "love" im feeling towards my 2years boyfriend,or just my hormones talking.well..lemme tell you about my situation.i came from not-so-happy-family.people say im very cheerful and opstimistic,but its very rare for me to ... (442 words)

I thought I married a man, not a little boy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at my wits end with my husband and do not know what to do anymore. We have had issues for a while, I will address them, for two weeks he is good and then goes back to his old ways. My husband is 13 years older than I am. I have been successful from a very young age, ... (945 words)