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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is wrong with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - k, what is wrong with guys? everysingle time i say basically anything or try to talk to my boyfriend about anything he thinks i am bitching.... like at dinner tonight for example.. i cooked (like always) and told him hes guna do the dishes for once. then the baby started to ... (202 words)

I'm not sure if my married male friend still fancies me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about my male friend.He used to fancy me, even though he is married, but i'm not sure if he still does. I saw him yesterday, but we hadn't seen each other for three months before that, and he got back intouch with me last weekend to ask me to go out ... (421 words)

Why do I still feel love for him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I guess this is a question asked so many times on here but it is still a big thing to me so I appreciate everyone taking the time to read and advice. I will start with the main problem and then tell the details of the story. I still seem to have feelings for my ex but w... (537 words)

What can I do for my mom to just let me see my boyfriend so I don't have to hide it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello ,im 15 about to be 16 in a couple months im a sophmore at the moment but ill bea junior in high school very soon. i do have a boyfriend he is 16 about to 17 a junior going on to senior year also soon, we have bin dating for 10 months i know him extremely well i do love ... (646 words)

Is it wrong to know her past in details so that I can forget them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 28 years old man and my wife is of the same age. Well, she is from a different country and we met each other when i had been to her country for some work. Well it wasnt love at first sight but we eventually fell for each other. At that time i knew that she had some past ... (221 words)

The things she is saying are total wishful thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im friends with this teacher and we have alot of fun joking with eachother, im his ex student. I'm pretty close to him and we consider eachother as friends however this girl he talks to also has strted making stuff up about him flirting and being suggestive with her which ... (141 words)

Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha... (45 words)

My husband is controlling! What is the right thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Me and my husband recently had a child and it has gotten to the point where he does not let me take the baby out, his mother is constantly telling the baby that she is her mother which is very annoying, just a few days ago while he was gone i got my things a... (131 words)

Am I putting myself in a bad situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy. I've dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. I'm a virgin and he's not. He hasn't relly pushed sex on me but I know he really wants to have sex with me, so sometimes it's a little hard to stop when we're together. Anyway, for Christmas, a bunch of my friends are going ... (101 words)

Flriting online but I can't be sure of his intentions, how do I proceed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right so, I feel I'm getting too old for things like this now but I'm curious. do you guys think this boy likes me? Normally I'd just think he did but I've been hurt too many times to take the risk. we met at a university event, he added me on facebook, we talk on facebook... (185 words)

I feel really bad, I got my boyfriend aroused but went no further. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and don't really know what love is and know that I wont find my true love for a long time. so I don't really want to be involved sexually but at the same time I do. And I'm allowed to. My mom will get birth control pills and everything. Please don't judge my mom by that. ... (131 words)

Mixed signals...how should I go about this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well normally I hate these type of questions but I'm desperate enough to want to ask. So, here goes: There's this guy in my uni, whom I have a crush on..We have the same classes and everything but I never really got to meet him until now. We randomly started talking one day ... (1031 words)

I'm confused about this guy I'm dating, is he just not that into me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes, im 35 yr old woman who has been on 7 dates with a 44 yr old man, we met thru a course, and hit it off. he added me on fb and it went on from there. Due to his job he works long hours so i have only been seeing him once a week. It always seems to be me that texts... (178 words)

My Ex-Wife's New "Friend" With Whom She Appears To Have A Relationship Smokes Pot Regularly...And We Have A Young Son.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age - Simply put folks, the above is what's going on. I found this out quite by accident and the source of the information is irrefutable. When, I in a roundabout way asked her about any bad habits he might have she straight up lied to me when I asked if he smokes anything other ... (281 words)

Does this guy still like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) age 26-29 - Ok I used to date this boy and some people complicated our relationship and we broke up. About 3 weeks ago he told me he had a new gf. That's kool I liked other guys and dated someone after him but he cheated on me soo.. Anyway yesterday in gym we had to play dodgeball. He was ... (162 words)

True Real Unconditional Love while being married to someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 20 years and feel that at least 5 years ago, I lost that loving feeling. I remained in my marriage because it was the right thing to do and I did tell my husband that I was not happy and we did not have what we should feel in our marriage. He agreed ... (460 words)

Never had a boyfriend and would like advice on how boys think

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really want a boyfriend i feel lonley and i've never had a seriouse relationship with anyone!! i have never gone as far as holding hands, hugging, or pecking on lips. and i know that i am not afraid to do any other stuff with any one. im desperate i would be gratefull if a ... (94 words)

I fall for people that are much older and taken!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a five year emotionally abusive relationship been a couple of month and I seem to fall for ppl that are older much older and taken :( I am 24 and like men in their thirties is this normal? How can I regain self confidence? I feel so discouraged, like everyone ... (68 words)

On a break from my cheating boyfriend -- how best to reach out to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I recently found out he cheated on me with a friend of his that I recently met...she has a boyfriend and everything and her and my boyfriend were having a little fling on the low but I caught them because from the moment I met her ... (397 words)

Stuck between my daughters father and my boyfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently living with my boyfriend we bought a house last year, I am also seeing my daughters father on the side we have been doing this on and off, now here's the hard part my boyfriend is a great guy honest, trust worty , good provider and hasn't hurt me, instead has ... (211 words)

I can't help but blame myself for our breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My LDR boyfriend recently broke up with me and I have not contacted him and have absolutely no intention of, unless he wants to. It's nearly Christmas and New Year next week and there could be a possibility of being tempted to wish him a happy Christmas and/or New year. Is it ... (198 words)

I want to move away from my parents ASAP, but I know that I will get the guilt trip of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. I am having a problem with my parents! We are a traditional Italian family, and usually Italians are pretty social and have many friends, but not my family. My mother has become very ANTI Social. She is 54 and my dad is 64. I have three older sisters and I... (516 words)

After six months I started having feelings for my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ohkay. I'm 16. I was dating this guy for 4 months. Things were going good. Except after sometime, i lost interest in him, as in i started feeling like i dont love him anymore. We broke up after a small fight. And that was it. I started dating someone else after that, i lo... (238 words)

She has a male best friend AND a boyfriend--how is it possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - The other day I met a young woman at a party. She was talking about how she was leaving soon, and her friend was picking her up. "He's coming in 15 minutes," she said. I was sort of interested in her, so I asked, "Oh, is that your boyfriend?" "No," she replied. "He's my be... (131 words)

Guys: What is so great about anal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there This is mainly a question for the guys. I have been on this site for a while now and there is one thing that I kept asking myself. What is so great about anal? I am really interessted and just want to get a few honest and mature answers. Is it not gross? I t... (111 words)

Is it a bad idea to make a move on her at this stage of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have posted here before but now a different issue has shown up in the same matter. I am posting this here cause it has been spinning around in my mind for weeks now and I am not able to find any answers. I would like to know what other people think, mayb... (503 words)

She's controlling, bitchy, bad in bed, and I love her to pieces. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - this will likely be pretty lenghthy so bear with me...figure i'll get it all out. there will be a multitude of questions throughout so feel free to answer one or all of them. i have been involved with my "situation" for the past 6 years. started off in high school where we ... (1252 words)

All over me one minute, distant the next

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago, I met a friend of my friend's while we were all on a night out (Let's call him Dave). According to my friend's boyfriend (Mark), when we (me, my friend and Mark) walked into the bar and joined their group, Dave pulled Mark aside and asked him "Who's she? Is ... (798 words)

When is the right time for our daughters to meet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi my partner anad I have been together for over 5 months we both have a daughter each from previous relationships.Both the girls are 16 but totally different natures.I was wondering if they should have met each other by now as my partner keeps putting it off.Can anybody ... (49 words)

How can I stop acting so camp/"gay"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm Gay myself but I act and dress so camp. Currently in the closet at my old school I used to get teased and called the f word, or constantly being asked if I was gay or not. I hate the way I act and the way I dress, but I don't know any different. How would you sugges... (115 words)

Rebelling against being controlled makes things awkward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years Together for 13 years my husband was always in charge of everything he made all the decisions I will always be the good wife and just sit back whatever he wanted he got. These last couple of years I changed I started to hate myself for what I let ... (154 words)

Is it okay to go back on the contraceptive pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago after being together for just over a year. When we broke up I came off my pill, however in the past week we've been meeting up and having sex in his car. What I want to know Is there any possibility that I can go back on ... (89 words)

A blog post convinced me that I'm being used

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy and we were together about 4 months, split up for about 2 but kept in contact and are now sort of back together. altogether we've known each other for about 7 months and I haven't slept with him though he has asked me and he seems to be waiting for me to ... (286 words)

Help, bisexual girl feeling less attracted to bf due to lack of sex life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a bisexual girl in a relationship with my bf for about a year and half. We have an age difference, I'm 27 he's 36. At the beginning our sex life was quite good, but now it went downhill. He doesn't give oral anymore and we have sex like 3 or 4 times a month. It makes... (155 words)

Is it bad that a 14 year old is dating an almost 13 year old?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - please dont be rude about this. i have a boyfriend and he was born in 1998 and i was born in 1996. so hes 12 and im 14 :/ well he turns 13 in febuary but a few months later i'll be driving (permit). is this bad? then his class figured out we were going out and this girl called ... (105 words)

My husband has feelings for a co-worker.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has feelings for a co worker. he says he loves me and can't help these feelings. we have been married for 23 years. i am confused and don't know what to do. i love my husband but am having trouble with this. this woman recently left her husband and they work closely ... (75 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's housemate not liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has just moved in with a lad mate of his. Problem is, the friend doesn't seem to like me. I am a really nice person and have never done anything to him that could possibly upset him. However he ignores me, invites my bf to big group outings in front of me and ... (134 words)

My LDR girlfriend has just logged off chat and went off to be alone in her room with a guy she has kissed before!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when your long distance girlfriend goes offline on msn so she can watch a movie with her male bestfriend that she kissed before?!!! I was just talking to my ldr gf and she left me for her best male friend to watch a movie in her room!!! I asked her you w... (114 words)

Feeling so guilty. I was drunk and did stuff with a friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, two nights ago, I got drunk. But not over my head drunk, I still had a bit of consciousness intact. I was at a party and one of my guy friends, who I'm fairly close with, offered to take me home. I let him since it wasn't the first time. But, let me be clear. Nothing ... (231 words)

Her ex is still a big part of her life, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been going out with my gf for almost 8 months now, and have been bugged for a long time about her still being friends with her ex. She went out with him for around 2 years and they definetly didnt have the best of relationships. He treated her really badly in ... (520 words)

My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. How do I forgive him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. I just found about it 2 months ago. He paid her $200.00 for sex in a motel room. (Isn't that protitution?) I also found recepits where he bought her jewelry three different times. He hasn't bought me jewelry ... (155 words)

Should we just stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - okay so i am 16 in high school i like this bot in my year as well we are both 16 and we are both single . i like him but i don't think he would ever see anything in a girl like me because i don't pile my make up on i do't wear my skirts that short i have a decent sized cle... (149 words)

Do I like this guy or not? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh God, Do I Like This Guy or not?? Im so confused!! First things first, I'm 16 and really tall, 5 foot 11 inches, to be precise, and he is 6 months younger, but also 6 inches smaller than me. Yesterday, I had some friends round for the night and he came as he's one of... (229 words)

How can I tell my mum about my BF when I know she cant stand the thought of "us" being together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem that really bugging me. I have a wonderful boyfriend and we love each other and would obviously like to get married in the future. The problem is that my parents cant stand the thought of me being with him. My mom thinks he's not "worth" me, she feels that my ... (301 words)

Would society think our relationship is wrong?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i know that this may sound wrong okay but here goes. i am 16 he is 27 we are in love okay and i no that may sound naive but we have been in a strong relationship for about 8 months i am almost 17. well we have a lot of respect for each other and he hasn't asked for sex ye... (138 words)

Should I confess or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and im finding it really difficult to cope with my guilt. about 3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend wern't getting along very well and this boy added me on a social networking site i accepted and he swifly wanted to chat to me ... (164 words)

Complicated relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have (in my opinion) a very complicated situation. I really like this girl who lives in a completely different continent than I do. I met her in my old school, and shes nearly a year older than me. We didn't talk much to eachother since we were in different grades and we were ... (190 words)

Could I have an STI?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, i've recently had unprotected sex and my penis has been really itchy, at the tip of it, and there has been a yellow colored discharge coming out, not much but just a little bit, would this be an STI? if it is what can i do, i dont want my parents finding out considering i ... (98 words)

Instead of seeing me over Christmas and New Year he is spending it with his flirty friends! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now but there is this huge problem with our relationship. He has these friends that he is unusually close to that are ALWAYS flirting with him. I told him how i felt about it before but he didn't listen. There's also ... (115 words)

Should I tell my husband I still don't think this will work and try and figure things out with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I could ramble on about a introduction about my life, just like everyone's life... there is always drama. You cannot prevent it. Unless you just are immaculately great at keeping out of trouble. Here is a half India half English girl by blood. 23 years old, and managed to m... (847 words)

Did I cross the line by posing as someone else and chatting to him online to trap him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Am I in the wrong? and did I ask too much from him? Right Id had been dating this guy for a couple of months and thought it wasn't working out (We had meet on match.com) We would go to his and watch the football or racing and stuff. Whenever I asked for us to... (649 words)

What do people think about blocking your ex after you broke up and the no contact rule?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi , I recently broke up with my BF and loved him very much, but he was controlling, and I was very unhappy, and had no choice but to cut all contact.( this was nearly two weeks ago) Anyway, I have blocked him from Yahoo MSN, and blocked his emails but the thing that bugs me ... (239 words)

What are the signs you are getting over someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, How do you know when you are getting over someone? what are the signs? I feel I am geting over my abusive and controlling ex applying he no contact rule but somehow don;t want to , even though he was bad for me. We had great sex, and I still still miss him (but no... (75 words)

How can I break this relationship between my husband and his colleague so I can get his love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - my husband has a female friend.who want to share everything personal feelings...emotions matters even family matters.with my husband..they are collegues..my husband is not flirt..not interested in girls but he says we are just true but free friends but i can not say no to ... (152 words)

Now that I can have sex again, I need some tips on how to have good sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I have a unique question. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years now and we've never had a fully functional sex life. Sex has always been too painful for me, until I had an operation last year when the doctor finally diagnosed that I needed some ski... (167 words)

She cant trust me after I was having conversations with my ex behind her back, what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid Well I'm having the problem of my love life at the moment. I was with my ex-girlfriend for 1 year 4 months. For the last 4 months we have been separated by distance. We have opted for a long distance relationship because we really believe in the strength of our ... (609 words)

Is she just wanting to take it slowly, or is she stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am looking for some advice on this situation. I have been seeing this woman for a month and a half. We have gone on 5 dates so far. I am really interested in pursuing a relationship with this woman, but there are two things that are making me question her interest. (Some ... (307 words)

What is a guy to do when he dates to find companionship, but can't commit because of baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Someone I know, who likes me a lot, but currently has a boyfriend, is still trying to get close to me and doesn't seem to want their boyfriend so much as me... and while I've already told them we need to just be friends, the whole of a conversation we had tonight caused me to ... (439 words)

Should my husband allow this woman to come back and work for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age - I believe a woman sends my husband inappropriate emails - baiting him... She works with him seasonal 2 months of the year. He can make it so that they will not work together and I am wondering if it is wrong that I would suggest that if she works for him this year that he ... (237 words)

Does my teacher have feelings for me? Or is this normal behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We'll I'm 16 years old, female and it my first year in college. So,I have Saturday classes and my classes were on Military Training Service. As far as I know, military training is quite hard but I still chose it because I've always wanted to try it out. So, every time we have ... (370 words)

Should I break up with him? My friends have seen him with other girls.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Should i break up with my boyfriend? My boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months tomorrow. He recently started to cancel on dates and hanging out. My friends say that they see him with some girl at our school. One of my friends saw him making out with a lot of girls a... (107 words)

We've known each other over a year now and have never had a fight! I thought it was healthy to fight occasionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me. You know how every couple has their fights and that it's healthy to occasionally fight with your partner ? Well that's not the case in my relationship. I'm only 15. Technically, I'm not dating this guy, but you can basically say iam. We've known each other for ... (168 words)

Why did she lie to me when she had actually moved in with another guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that the good guy ends up the jackass? My gf broke up with me telling me she loved me but was overlaod with work, her son so on and so on. I am such a sucker. My best bud sister is her friend and everyone's talking behind my back about how my ex moved in with a guy 3 ... (108 words)

Am I too young for love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Am i too young to be in love ? I'm 15 years old. The guy i'm in love with is 2 months younger than me. We never officially dated, but we act like a couple. I have never fallen for anyone before, so i cant be sure if this is really love. I really hope so ! I have never felt this ... (199 words)

Is it possible to finally be together one day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, i just turned 15. Imet this guy about a year ago and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, and he is as well. The thing is, he lives in NewYork, and i live in Florida :/ also, we never dated or anything. I lived in New York for a while, which is where we met. We became ... (155 words)

Are my feelings rational? And what should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Before my girlfriend and I were together she had a small fling with a friend of mine. She has told me that she had no feelings for him and that the only reason she was with him was to help her get over her ex that she had recently broken up with. In this time that the... (97 words)

Can I have sex with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, , i am 28 attracted towards my cousin sister ,shweta ,she is 33 yearrs old and married.she is very nice to me.i dont know how to approach her?,once i met her last month after gap of 1 yearrs then i touched her feet ,but she hugged me from front?what does it mean?can i go ... (106 words)

I'm pregnant by someone else, my boyfriend doesn't know and I can't have an abortion!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey pipo m hopin u help me out on this problem....me and this guy have been datin 4 2yrs nw,n i met this nice guy we went out @ some club and took enuf beers...we later went 2 his home we had sex and now m pregnunt n my boyfriend doesnt knw about this n i cant have an ... (63 words)

Should I just accept that I'll never find someone who loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i know many of you here who have read my past posts realize that i needed to move on from my gf who has thrown me on an emotional roller coaster. Many of you also suggested i find someone new now thats the problem the way i got with my ex was through friends now i don't have ... (94 words)

I haven't heard from my boyfriend and I don't know what is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been great lately, except yesterday we got in a little argument because he reuined our new years plans and is doing something with his friends, I got a little upset over it but in the end I said it will be good for him, because he will be with his ... (174 words)

Going on 20 years old with First Kiss Anxiety, what to do?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I think I have anxiety. Honestly, since the 6th grade I have been planning for my first kiss and since it has not happened I am freaking for two reasons. 1) I am scared I will be a terrible kisser. 2) That guy will destroy my reputation since he will ... (172 words)

Cooking for his fussy children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age - I am late 40's, no kids and never married. Got a great man who is early 50's with adult daughters and teenage grandkids. Problem is holiday meals. I am a terrific cook of any style food. Trouble is, kids and grandkids are oddly picky eaters. They do not eat green veggies of any ... (145 words)

Why did my ex treat me like garbage? How can I forget about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in love with my ex and would've done anything for him. But all he did was treat me like dirt. He'd insult me in front of friends, ignored me at parties, flirt with other women in front of me, always put me last, and was never once romantic towards me. Then he dumped me a... (80 words)

After being hurt I have given up on love, but I want to start all over again. Where do I begin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Due to recent events in my love life I've been hurt an have given up on women. I need some advice on how to start back. Where can I begin?... (30 words)

How do I earn his trust back after I kissed his best friend after we had broken up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok. me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 weeks ago. but i started liking one of his bestfriends. we kissed in the hallway at school and my ex was mad at me. see the thing is we dated for over a year and we love each other. how do i tell him im sorry and how do i earn his trust ... (82 words)

Me and my girlfriend both cheated on each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its almost the end of 2010. In February of this year, my girlfriend admitted to me on a drunken night, two guys took advantage of her and they both had sex with her within minutes. Since she told me, I in returned confessed that I had cheated on her too, with two other p... (310 words)

Am I crazy for feeling this way or am I really unattractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK i am acualy 175-180lbs and i have a body that makes me look like im at least 130lbs and i look good (so people keep telling me) in a bikini but i dont feel like it. im curvy with a pudge on my stomach and my butt sticks way out from my back ! and i dont think it very ... (129 words)

I don't want to break up with him, but I cant take his flirting with other girls anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks but its our 2nd time dating, before it lasted 3 weeks and i really really like him like a lot and he treats me really bad. he flirts with other girls in front of me even when were holding hands sometimes and its gett... (236 words)

I have not been interested in sex in about 10 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have not been interested in sex in about 10 years; I am 44 and have been married 15 years. It started when our kids were young. I have tried hormones (pill and even testosterone) and I am simply not interested. Anyone else in my age group have this issue? I wish my ... (113 words)

My sister bullies me and undermines me all the time, What can I do to cope with this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I badly need your help in coping with my sister. She's always bossing me around and tries to play spoilsport in whatever i do. It started very early when she even tried to sexually assualt me. I was 10 at that time and all i could do was run away from her. Now im 21 and than... (143 words)

He beat me, should I stay with him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 4 weeks now and i have a problem write ino im young but me and my bf have sex quite alot (this will make sense later) but he asked me if i wanted to come round after school on our last day but i didnt realise his mum and younger ... (252 words)

We weren't together then so why does it worry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf and I were broken up for a year and got back together 7 months ago and everything is great now. I found out right before we got back together he slept with another girl... it was while we were broken up but still sleeping together. This has really been bothering me and ... (178 words)

Is this guy interested in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy at work but we don’t work in the same building. The place I work has facilities all over. I first started thinking he liked me when I noticed him staring at me then he looked away. So then another time I said hello and he kind of stuttered and just said good ... (688 words)

Our 2 year anniversary, and the only thing I can think of to give him is sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Major Issue, please help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for so long. Almost our 2 years anniversary. And I want to get him something special. But, the only thing that comes to mind, is sex. We're both virgins, and he loves my body, but It's just so nerve racking to... (87 words)

How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so Ive known this guy since 5th grade from band class. Im a total band geek and its my life and we have sat by each other in band everyday since then. for years we didnt really like eachother for competision reasons. but since weve been in highschool weve been good friends. ... (146 words)

In need of flirting techniques.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, so heres my "dilemma" if you will i used to play straight, but now i'm "out" now, but ive only upfront and told my friends, not everyone in my college knows if im gay, but they dont know if im straight i need to know how to flirt with other guys, like in class or in bars... (134 words)

He has Asperger's syndrome. I want his friendship. I don't want to be his therapist

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was hoping that someone may have some advice for me here as I have not been able to find much anywhere else. I met a guy last week at a friend's party. I thought he was cute, so I approached him and started talking. He seemed caught off guard, but was very friendly and ... (325 words)

Do I risk telling my client that he has extremely bad breath?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - it feels so mean to having to ask this, but how can I handle it? I have a great client, he provides me with a continuous stream of research work. He's well mannered, always a gentleman. When I've finished the research i get it all ready, and I drop it off at his business. I ... (222 words)

I can't stop being jealous of her ex boyfriends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i've been with this girl for a little over 4 months and things are going pretty well, we're very affectionate to eachother,we have great conversations, and she tells me all the time how much she likes me. the problem is that i cant stop being jealous of her ex boyfriends. her ... (159 words)

I make out with my step brother on a regular basis and I know its wrong. What do I do?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this has nothing to do with any of my other questions.. its just diff. drama.. and im sorry its long! okay welll my dad got married a month ago to a really nice women.. all she talked about was her 2 kids.. lets say danny and andrew.. well ones 14 (my age) and another 10 .... (420 words)

He is waiting for me to make the first move! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay if you have read my past two questions.. then you should know what i mean.. okay so my friend(my best guy friend) the guy i like is really flirty with me and we have talked everynight this christmas break.. even like just now he called.. i never show any sign that i ... (132 words)

Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. she also got mad because she ... (344 words)

He says that all I do is bitch at him but I'm just trying to help him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... I love him very much and want to spend my life with him... But he doesn't make the right decisions for his life... He's scared of having cancer, but he smokes a pack if not more of cigarettes a day, he's always complaining ... (162 words)

How do I find a guy that isn't fickle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm the type of person that doesn't fall in love easily and when I do I fall hard. My ex turned out to be a very fickle person, he falls in and out of love easily. So how do I find someone who is the same type as me?... (49 words)

I have fallen in love at the wrong age and I'm unsure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 14 years old, about 2 years ago I met this girl and we are now best friends but I think I've fallen in love. I know it's stupid to fall in love at my age but she is on my mind 24/7. She calls me about three times a week and I do the same. She comes to my house every week... (107 words)

I have social anxiety but want to ask this guy out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, a bit of background: I have social anxiety. I used to just be shy but its developed into a complete phobia. Its a problem for sure, but it isnt severe to the point where I cant go out of the house. The problem is that no one really knows the extent of it - people ... (375 words)

Do I wait for him to call?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age - Just wondering what men think..... I met a guy for dinner that I met online... we hit is off great. Had a great time. Met for a second date... it was hot. Did some making out... I did not do it with him. Told him I dont do one night stands. He called me everyday for a w... (202 words)

For the last 2 years she hasn't showed me any love or affection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with girlfriend 4 years, she is 25. She says she loves me but for last 2 years she wont show me affection, or show her feelings for me, wont hold hands in public, wont kiss,denies we are dating if anyone asks and, makes me feel so bad that I wonder what I'm doing with ... (155 words)

Can a trust lost be found again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my girlfriend for ten years. I have been totaly 100 percent commited to her and our relationship. I have just recently found out that she had cheated on me at the start of our relationship and got caught by the guys wife. It soposedly ended there. in 2007 in ... (194 words)

Should I tell my mom I'm pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 years old and 4 weeks pregnant. the father is 19. no one knows should i tell my mom since it was consensual? what about the dad? i have only seen him once that night. should i tell him? would he care?... (44 words)

I just need a second opinion because my thoughts are not always rational

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, I feel like a sleaze and know I am one... So please don't act as though I don't know... To start at the beginning, I had a boyfriend. I slept with him and he pretty much left me straight after he got "what he wanted".I was heartbroken. He did it over text as well whic... (378 words)

Is this behavior attention seeking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has these hits of feeling bad, and she makes up depressing things in her head and then converts them to reality and gets really shitty about it and then ends up taking it out on me. So I try to ignore it, and it usually works. But she keeps going and making... (118 words)

Am I a female feeder? I have fantasies about my man gaining weight, Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently heared allot about male feeders but I think I might be one too? However, I am female and I have a boyfriend of three years. I'll call him "John". He's always been skinny, and he tried to gain weight: for his own self esteem and for his health, as he only weig... (227 words)

If he loves me, why doesn't he fight for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten months tomorrow. things have been rocky for a long while. about 6 months ago i tried discussing with him the fact that i wasnt really happy like i used to be, that he used to make so much effort, do all the little thinngs, ... (426 words)

What guys do like red heads? Seems like Blondes are favorites.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've heard people say that most guys like red heads. Is that true? cause it seems like the blonde's are the favorites for sure.... What guys do like red heads?... (30 words)

I feel she's going to dump me. And I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girl friend for 4 months now and I love her more then anything. But she never seems to notice me. I mean I got her a nice £8 watch for Xmas. She got me the black eyed peas album. I feel like I haven't got her enough. She doesn't talk to me as much on facebook ... (180 words)

Hard to let go of past, current bf kept me on side before we got back together and slept with other people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone. I wrote here months ago about my ex BF at the time was dating his ex soon after we broke up , but always kept me around and made me think he wanted to break up with her to be with me again. Everyone thought I should just move on and that he would never leave ... (492 words)

Guys, do you lie about enjoying sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for the guys: do you ever lie about whether you enjoyed having sex with your girl? And if you do, why? Just curious and would like some insight into a guy's mind, like what reason there may have for lying about it. Thanks! Background: my guy and I had been phys... (125 words)

I can't trust my friend! She went after a guy knowing I liked him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend knew i liked this guy. i had liked him for a long time. he was my firstkiss and i really really liked him. then she started talking to him. and they started hanging out. and i was obviously mad about it. i would get really depressed looking when she would bring ... (152 words)

How to I show her that I can be the man for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29, and have been working with this girl, 23 in my office for nigh on 14 months or so. She is the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. I noticed her straight away but didn't approach her for awhile so as to weigh up if she was genuine. We started chatting one day and i found ... (354 words)

How long into a relationship was it before you met your partner's parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! Happy holidays to everybody! Ok here's my question: how long into a relationship was it before you met your partner's parents? I've been dating my guy for almost eight months: so far I've met his brother and his closest cousin (and non-family, like close friends). I'm ... (97 words)

Is it me? Is he depressed? He won't open up to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks now. Nothing is official, but he has told his friends and mum about me and everyone we work with knows about us. I am somewhat confused though. He spends alot of his time in his room and has sometimes when we see each other he is... (239 words)

What should I do. My husband receives pictures from women, of women, on his phone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I trust my husband? I really do have trust issues when it comes to my husband. I don't want to leave my guard down, I guess to protect myself. My husband is always texting, all the time. Constantly checking his texts. The other night I was setting the alarm, when his phon... (165 words)

Can we be good friends again? The way it used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this boy and I have been very close friends for a while and today, my friend asked if he liked me, and he said no, and now he barely talks to me now. He was always so nice to me, walked home with me and we would hang out with each other. But after what my friend said, we bare... (84 words)

She's my close friend, but I want to get over my romantic feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A few questions about close friendship with a girl We have an intensely close and deep friendship. We have gone out for dinner together, spent time with each other on every possible occasion. She's been there for me through very tough times. In the past I have been attract... (155 words)

Should I wait? Or have sex at 14?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17 and we have been talking about sex for the past 2 months, i have been with him for the 6 months...We are in love and we are Virgins i have very high expectations from my family and i dont want to tell them that i want to have sex at the age of ... (90 words)