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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know if I trust my inmate boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello' I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and dated for 7 months. He now is in Prison and i stuck around because i love him. Well he is due to be released in a couple of weeks, and he says he wants to marry me asap, move in, be a family, etc.,etc. , Well the problem is ... (327 words)

Feeling unworthy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy in 2009 and he was very charming. We had unprotected sex and I got pregnant. Then I realised that he was a cheater and told him to leave me alone. During my pregnancy he visited me every month and said he wanted to marry me but he began partying and sleeping ... (207 words)

With red hair and blue eyes, why haven't I found a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I read things online about people my age not having boyfriends, but then their guy always comes when 'they least expect it'. I guess my problem is, I've given up, and stopped looking for one, and he still hasn't appeared... (230 words)

He was lying to me and his mum about his whereabouts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up a few months ago after 2 1/2 years together and I'm trying to make sense of a few things. A few months prior to our split I was having a hard time at work, and I felt unsupported by him. He was working three jobs in the hope that we would move in ... (557 words)

How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest in video games. I'm hip t... (216 words)

Is she being a tease and trying to play me and is she attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She seemed only interested in me when she introduced herself to me. She also rubbed her leg against mines as she asked me to sit next to her. She always smiles at me. She looks at me from across the street, tells me she hates it when people are mean but I think she ... (81 words)

When we have sex he just lies there and I'm always the one to make the first move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay me and my boyfriend have been together going on 8 months we get along great and we live together and in 8 months we have only had 3 arguments which is a record in my book but our sex life is not that great. at first it was but then he kept acting like I was always wanting ... (244 words)

How can I stop feeling angry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday was my Birthday; I feel the same as usual just that my age has changed(LOL). I have been feeling so angry lately and do not know why. I try to ask myself what makes me angry; maybe it's my family or other people. What I want to know is if anyone ever felt this way ? ... (67 words)

I still love him, am I fooling myself for thinking their relationship will end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age - My ex and I have been split up for 7 mths. after 7 yrs. together. We were engaged when he ended it. He basically left me for someone else although, they were not involved until after he broke it off with me. 3 mths. later they became engaged which devastated me even further. ... (381 words)

How should I react to a compliment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, my question is I like receiving compliments but I don't know what to do or say when I get them. I sort of go dumb is something wrong with me? Thank you for answering.... (36 words)

I'm a virigin, when we have sex will he know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i wanted to ask the question more properly so you guys know why im askin becasue you kan get where im coming from well me and and my bf have been datinqq for 3 monhths already he is 5 years older than me and we live in different cities so see eachother llike twice a ... (116 words)

He is 3.5yrs younger, would it be wrong to date him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ....Well I just know this guy, and he's in 9th grade of highschool. We been really good friends for some time now. Everyone says we make a good couple, at first I didn't notice I have this crush on him till now. but..heres the problem. He's 3 1/2 years younger than I and I feel ... (65 words)

The woman I'm dating is 5 years older than I was lead to believe.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age - I found out the woman I have been seeing is older (5 years) than I thought. In a nutshell, I am almost 52 have been seeing a gal for going on the 4 th month. In her profile she said she was 53 and to be honest with you, when I met her I couldn't believe how hot she was and ... (249 words)

I think I'm still in love with the other guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend broke up with me back in around april, we had been together for years! I was so hurt and heartbroken. I started hanging out with a guy and around like the third week we were already talking about dating. I wanted to move on from my previous relationship and try ... (554 words)

Is this his way of asking me to visit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy, we met about 7/8 months ago, became friends and then hooked up one night. . .we hung out a few times after. shortly after the first hook up about 3 weeks later he moved about 1.5 hours away. the other day he texted me to see how I was doing. The city he moved ... (108 words)

I only seem to attract guys that are taken

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

- i only seem to attract men with girlfriends, or wives and i can't help it. When i meet a guy when i'm out and we hit it off and i started texting him it has turned out the past few times that they have already got a girlfriend or in some cases wives with children. I w... (110 words)

He has been with a lot of woman, is this typical with military men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a Marine for nearly 10 months. He has been overseas 5 out of the 10 months. We talk on the phone nearly every day and have a good relationship, but I keep finding out things about his past. I recently found out that he has slept with A LOT of women. He said ... (133 words)

He cheated on me and I'm left feeling confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so my question is should i break up with him or stay with him and see if it will work out? So i was dating my current boyfriend for 3 months and it was going perfect. i couldn't have asked for a better boyfriend. then a week before our 4 months i found out he cheated o... (531 words)

Sexuality problems... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK. I'm a 15, and a girl, and this is the first time I've ever tried to explain this to anyone. I've been attracted to boys for as long as I've been old enough to think about love. Thing is, I've recently started being attracted to girls. I'm not sure when I realised, but I ... (430 words)

Long distance dilemma, I don't want to lose him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, so, I'm not too sure how to begin this, so sorry if this doesn't make sense at first. I'm a 14-year-old girl who is either on a break, or has been dumped by her boyfriend of 19 months. He broke up with me; or whatever it was [I'm still not sure] on the 10th Novembe... (372 words)

Interpreting mixed messages.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, OK, so here's the deal. Essentially I'm getting mixed messages from a very good (female) friend of mine. Up until a couple weeks ago, I had been in a long term relationship, but I chose to end it essentially because I wasn't happy and we were different peop... (538 words)

Do all men secretly prefer big breasted women?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I've read many articles which say many studies have been done which prove that men prefer larger breasts, even on an unconscious level, because most men consciously say that size doesn't matter. But science has proved otherwise. However, most men seem to hate fake breasts ... (440 words)

Do you think she'll treat him right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okay im 27 my ex is 28, we still live together and just had a baby.. from the day his ex which he has two kids with found out about me she has been bothering him non stop first asking numerous questions about me then reminding him about thier past that she use to clean for him ... (390 words)

He is avoiding me and won't reply to my messages.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there's a guy,A who i know him for almost a year and he has a girlfren already for 3 years plus n she is far from him..it started last year on november where i n A get so close..we r just frens but were like a couple..we do everything a couple do..i really2 like him n i did ... (302 words)

Secretly in love with a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am secretly in love with a co worker. He is a lot older than me, (Im 21 and he's 44) and he has a girlfriend. (who is really nice) I have been working with him for 6 years and he's my favourite person in the world. We spend a lot of time together, talking , we have so much in ... (152 words)

Made a fake page to see why he broke up with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I created a fake page after 2 weeks of breaking up with my ex boyfried to view his facebook which he has blocked and never added me as a friend before. The thing is I did it twice when we was together created a fake page and he caught me twice.. I just want to see why he br... (275 words)

Does he really like me? Or is it just a booty call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've started seeing this guy after meeting at a party 2 weeks ago. When we first met he was really keen but I made clear I had a boyfriend, we ended up in the same bed but not sleeping together just chatting. We swapped phone numbers and well I text right away to say thanks for ... (279 words)

To tell, or not to tell...that is the question!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice and would like to know what people think i should do. A couple of weeks ago i went to an engagement party and the chemistry between the barman and i was incredible. I caught him looking at me in the mirror loads and i was very attracted to him. I managed t... (336 words)

Friend was winding him up, and he bit -- was he going to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband recieved a happy birthday text from my friend and didnt no who it was from he text thanks for birthday wishes but who are you, she took it upon herself to wind him up..i was unaware of this..and said a secret admirer from work..she sent a few of a non sexual ... (156 words)

I don't think my sex drive is functioning like it should be. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks now, and I notice that sexually she has so much of a sex drive. I, on the other hand, am one to want to do these sexual things but i noticed that i may not feel that much lust/of a sex drive. It feels like my sex drive in general ... (238 words)

Is this a case of good girls finish last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (and all my exs) have gone on and on about how wonderful my personality is, or how easy it is to just kick back and relax with me and how wonderful I am as a girlfriend. My current one said I made him feel like a king- thats how great my level of care is. I pu... (236 words)

Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me. i haven't seen him in a while and we had made plans and he says hes going out instead of being with me. when we haven't seen each other in awhile. am i tripping or is there something else going on here?... (55 words)

How soon does it take to get used to wearing a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had full sex for the 1st time last night. I wore a condom.We both wondered beforehand if we'd feel the condom.My g/f said she couldn't and actually sighed a bit with pleasure so I was really pleased. The only thing afterwards was it was so messy ta... (99 words)

I really want to know how to get through the awkardness and start a more serious relationship.

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - theres this boy, ive known for a while and i know he likes me and we can flirt and tease when other people are around but quite often, we're on our own and its really awkard and neither of us say anything. I really want to know how to get through the awkardness and start a more ... (73 words)

Is Jason trying to get her jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well, first of all im using code names. Josh is friends with both katy and jason. Katy sometimes messes with josh in a friend way. So katy and jason told each other that they liked each other a week ago. So me, jason and katy hung out. While we were hanging out they would ... (149 words)

What will my family think???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 an african american. the man I'm currently seeing is a 36 year old korean man who is divorced with two kids and has them on weekends. I never expected to be dating a man this much older than me but on the other hand my mom dated my dad when she was young and he was 56. ... (109 words)

Why would he tell me this now after a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age - Well I have a concern about my boyfriend. Just yesterday he decided to tell me that last year he went to Q-trip to get gas for his truck. There was this female that he uses to date she approaches him and asks him for $5.00. “Why” would he just now tell me this? I had mentioned ... (219 words)

I think he likes me, but doesn't realize it... how can make him realize it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend, an artist, is extremely caring and sensitive about me. Goes out f his way to help me, hangs around with me, gives me the sincerest advice, never refuses me, whenever i want to meet up...he never refuses, even if busy...likes to share his work with me, i'm the ... (192 words)

He's still far too close to the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I been having a relationship with my best friend for almost 11 months. We started out as best then later started having feelings for each other. For several months we had a great relationship but then I found out that he still talks to his exgirlfriend and sees ... (150 words)

He says he loves me but cannot take care of me... what gives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I of 5 years tells me he loves me very much and he cares for me but cannot take care of me. Does that mean he loves me but is not in love with me? I am confuse. ... (47 words)

I'm really resisting the urge to say something to this girl, but at the same time I don't know how to talk to my girlfriend about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so don't really know how to deal with a situation and I don't want to make an irrational move in case it makes things bad. However ; Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship and have been together for five months. I'm happy with her and she's happy with me, ... (238 words)

She said she can't live with me any more... help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF and I recently moved in together in Oct. IM 28 and she is 24. Basically the relationship has moved fast we have only been together for 7 months. We love each and each others company. I thought it would be best to wait at least until spring to move in but she said we'd ... (502 words)

I made a terrible mistake...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I made a terrible mistake... I got together with my classmate, who was my best friend, and I really really liked him. But my relationship with my ex didn't end "completely" because he said he would come back to me later, and I thought about him still a lot. But in the meantime ... (308 words)

Mixed feelings...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have mixed feelings! Having been out of the dating game for some time I recently met someone online. Although, at first I was honest with him and told him he was "not my type" he persisted in keeping in contact. He grew on me and we have been on a couple of dates. As he lives ... (168 words)

In love with a girl from childhood

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have known a girl since she was 8 and i was 11, she was a friend to my younger sis, i liked her so much but due to 5 years difference in academic years and cos we were young i just let her be. now she is 16 and just out of high school but am 19 and in the university, becos i ... (95 words)

HE seems happy now that he's moved on... but I'm not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex who I believe likes guys and girls but is in love with his best friend has a new pic up of himself with his best friend or some girl taking a picture of him.. Theres a reflection of a girl in the picture.. It hurts to see him moved on or with his girl best friend.. he ... (111 words)

Wanting more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a guy for the past 6 months, he is a great guy but i find myself wanting more than what he wants. I have had a rough childhood and my dad was an alcoholic and never had a relationship with him, therefore i have a problem with drinking. I know i want ... (180 words)

We can't seem to stop fighting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, My girlfriend (27) and I(30) cant stop fighting , we are together now over 3 years and have a 2 and half year old son. I think at the end of the day we are only together because of him. We live together and currently I run a scuba business and im in the process of ... (308 words)

Spit or swallow?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When giving a blow job is it better to spit or swollow? My boyfriend of 4 months has recentley asked me to give him a blow job, but im not sure whether to spit or swollow. I've heard it tastes horrible but if i spit, where do i spit? I really dont know.... (53 words)

I think he's been living a double life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, it seems my boyfriend of 10 months has been seeing his ex all the time hes been with me. Ive always had my suspicions of her and i know they were still friends. I decided this week to sit outside his house as i knew he was out and see who he brought back. Well I sat... (305 words)

Should I get involved or should I let her make her own mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'd like to ask a question about my friend, let's call her Fiona; she has an on/off boyfriend, lets call him Shrek; and everytime I've spoken to her in the last three weeks or so; she's upset about something he's done. I've told ... (221 words)

I can't be friends with her anymore because I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi really like this girl who has bf am sure she likes me we hang out alot etc ive told her i cant be friends with her ne more because i really like her have i done the right thing trying to give her a push as i dont like shes happy with her bf deep down i love ... (88 words)

When would be a good time if ever to try getting her into my life again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So here is the short of it - woman who was married to a man with severe mental issues and addictions - we became friends - we had a brief affair after a year of being close and then it turned into a physical thing but I felt emotional connection and really felt like I loved her ... (317 words)

Will stopping masturbation make me feel more horny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks now, and I notice that sexually she has so much of a sex drive. I, on the other hand, am one to want to do these sexual things but i noticed whenever we manage to at least make out, i may get somewhat of an erection but i just dont ... (347 words)

I've had it with the baby mama drama!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for some months now. I am 21 and he is 24. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship with 2 different women. I met my boyfriend way back almost 6 years ago true significant friends and we've been friends ever then but sinds june 2010 we start ... (930 words)

Still in love with my ex, however, she wants to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, To explain the extent of my problem I'd have to go back into my relationship to the Summer. My girlfriend and I had been dating for half a year at that point (I realize thats not very long). She had just moved into her first apartment, and was having a hard ti... (360 words)

18 and never been kissed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and i've never had a boyfriend, never had my first kiss or anything. I'm off to Uni next year and am hoping to finally meet someone. Do you think guys will think my total lack of experience is weird? ... (45 words)

Uncomfortable with him watching

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a little bit nervous about asking this question, but I need some help! See, I'm quite self conscious, and my boyfriend likes to watch me during sex, and it makes me really nervous! I'm not sure what I'm supposed to look like, ... (207 words)

Unsure of my sexual identity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused and i dont know how to handle this issue.i dont know if im straight gay or bisexual and i cant ask my friends becausetim afraid of what they will think.please help i dont knw what to do.can you help?x... (43 words)

Thick sperm!

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4 December 2010 (M)

age - I'm a 50 year old male. Why has my sperm got thicker in the last two years? Is this normal?... (22 words)

Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him so much and i wouldnt want my ... (99 words)

Dreaming about my crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I have a major problem about the boy I've been crushing on for 5 years. For the past week and a half, I have been having frequent dreams about said guy. They're normally about us dancing, kissing, or holding each other. I can't sleep because of said dre... (116 words)

I wish my husband would give me affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, how do you keep affection in a marriage alive? I feel like the flame has died down after 20 years. We still have a very above average sex life--but it is just sex/lust. Sometimes, I feel lonely because I feel no romantic connection. I some times crave that and it ... (92 words)

This chick doesn't want to commit??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't usually do this kind of thing, but it troubles me so I just wanted to know what you guys think. I am 21 years old i have my own company (I sell housings for certain phones) Everyday a lot of people add me.But this certain girl added me a month ago. She wanted to buy a ... (1126 words)

My period started then stopped?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Just before i went to the gym a couple of nights ago i thought my period had started. Im not due on for at least another week. It didnt really come to anything and has stopped completely now....is this normal???... (44 words)

What's with his staring problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Okay so I live in the UK and I go to uni there. There's this guy that I like as a friend, and maybe as a crush too. And I definitely kmow that he's not shy at all. When we first met he was really friendly with me; we had lunch together and had long walks together. H... (194 words)

I've missed my window of opportunity, how do I get him back now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear friend I need some advice. things ended with a guy i truly adore last tuesday. I think the problem was down to my ex. my ex shouted at me a while ago telling me he loved me but not in a nice way. my love found out about it and thought i was cheating, which i wasn't. ... (200 words)

Having it out with my son's taxi driver!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I had to have it out with my son's taxi driver today after he didn't do his job properly but I ended up loosing the battle of making my point. Just before he was about to drive off he told me that my son had said from the back of the car that I looked 'a nerd' in the jum... (217 words)

We are on date 6 plus having sex, I think he might be using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy for a month. We met on the internet, he's been to my flat, i've been to his. We have been sleeping together every time we meet up. We have also been going 'out'. dinner, cinema, art gallery, etc We have lots in common and get along really well. ... (333 words)

The magical touch that we once had in our relationship is now gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I am 20 years old, I have been in LDR wid this guy for bout two years, in de beginning he was sweet n everything seemed to be so magical. Now the problem is we do not have anything to talk bout, months n months pass n we dont talk on phone n that is because he has made... (314 words)

Is there any truth behind eating certain foods to give you more chance of having a girl or boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im sure this is an old wives tale, but you never know. Everyone here always gives good advice so i figured its worth a shot :) Hubby and i are going to try for our first baby soon (have just stopped the pill and letting my body go back to normal first) My question is, is there ... (116 words)

Should I lose my virginity? I hear so many horror stories.

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, i have a questions regarding the loss of my virginity. My Girlfriend of 9 months has asked if we can have sex, she knows i have always wanted to since we first started going out, now the oppertunity is here i dont know if there is any reason why i shouldnt? As i have heard ... (89 words)

A severe injury broke my hymen and my boyfriend won't accept this, even though I've never had sex!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had never slept with anyone neither had sex but still i lose my virginity due to severe injury doing gymnastic but my boy frend is not ready to accept this can any one plz tell me whot to do because i dont want to lose him i really love him.... (51 words)

How can I make my teacher remember me?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He is my teacher. We have an age difference of about 20 yrs (I'm 18 and he's around 40), and he's married with two kids. I study in this same school for my whole secondary school life (as the 6th-12th grades in your place), and he teaches senior forms. When I was still a junior... (392 words)

He won't give oral, I'm feeling hurt and losing my sex drive!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my bf for over a year now. At the beginning because I wasn't ready for sex he gave me oral i guess to lure me in. Then afterwards it went from once a month to now once in 6 months. Everytime I bring it up he gets defensive and said he had bad experien... (129 words)

My Husband picks minor issues to argue about,. Why is he doing this?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age - My husband keeps picking arguments about extremely minor things, he ususally does this when he's been drinking too much. I remain calm and I try to pacify him by either apologizing for the minor incident, I also have asked him if maybe there is something else that is bothering ... (200 words)

I want to forget her, I don't want to love her anymore!

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello guys please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna forget her, take her out of my m... (221 words)

I know she's going to love me again, she's just confused!

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have dated a girl for 10months now.Everything was perfect until last sunday she asked us to break up.I did everything and anything you could think of for her.I love her soo much.When i asked her why she wanted the break up,she said its because she has a crush on another ... (329 words)

What if someday I turn into my abusive father?

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4 December 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I feel like I'm typing to a damn therapist or something but here goes... When I was younger I had an abusive dad. He would whip me continuously with his belt whenever I misbehaved. Looking back though, I never really did anything that bad. He used to beat all of us, even my m... (461 words)

Wife says all our problems are because I don't show dominance

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm new to this my wife is always on this site.I'll give a brief background met at the end of senior year been together since. We've been married for two and now got my back against the wall I don't know what to do stay or leave.My wife got pregnant at 20 in the thinking ... (225 words)

I'm so confused about everything in my life and feel the clock ticking away!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'll keep this short. I just don't know what to do. I'm about to turn 30 next week and freaking out! I am pretty (although look 19 which I hate, as no one ever thinks I'm 30, so never get taken seriously) Anyway I'm single after 2 very bad relationships in last 5 years!... (289 words)

Why did my teacher act like that?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pursuing studies in all Science ... (509 words)

Two men say they love me. What should I do?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this guy for about a year, lets call him Tom. I first met him when he was going out with one of my friends. We instantly got on very well and this caused my friend to become suspicious and start rumors about us to gain attention. It didn't end well for ... (285 words)

Should I tell my friend I'm gay?

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I just have a lot on my mind at the moment. Well, I have a "friend" that I kinda have a crush on. It's a guy, and he has no clue (or anyone for that matter) that I'm gay. I've been thinking about telling him that I'm gay, We talk a lot at school and he seems to be a pr... (226 words)

Should I give up? Or give it time?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this boy and he has a girlfriend, and we hooked up one night. And he is always smiling at me, and he told me he likes me, but he's still with her. And, she found out about us, and him cheating.. and she took him back again. And we hooked up again, he changed my name ... (80 words)

Where can I meet women?

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help on where to meet women, here's the situation. I recently got a full time job and I like this job. Because of my recent success I want to find a girlfriend, but I'm having a hard time socializing and meeting women. My network of friends are no help because they ... (88 words)

I think I like my best friend too much

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am a 19 year old girl. i know this is not the right time to fall in love but this logic could not help me in the right time. i think i like my very best friend... a little too much. this is a very insecure feeling, as i really don't want it to be like this. he is my best ... (178 words)

Sweet guy boyfriend won't drive to see me

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do anymore. I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost six months now, and he's amazing - sweet, thoughtful, sensitive, and very much like me. I have never dated anyone like him and I am very happy with the way his is... except for one thing. ... (327 words)

Am I jealous or have I lost respect.

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4 December 2010 (F)

age - 4 years ago I started a new job. Everything was going nicely,the General Manager and my immediate online Manager all had a good working relationship - I had a crush on my boss and yes we flirted alot but I dont believe in crossing that line. Then one day my immediate online ... (206 words)

How do I tell him we need to see each other more?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing this guy since the middle of summer and offically dating him for three months. We get along great together but rarely see each other because of our busy schedules. It absolutely kills me. I want him to know that and want to tell him but I don't want to seem ... (99 words)

My GF cries way too much

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I have been dating my girlfriend for over 6 months now. It's pretty serious. In many ways she's exactly what I want in a girl. The problem is that she cries way too often, over little things, and I don't know what I can do about it. For example, the latest thing tha... (250 words)

Is she interested in me, or just friendly?

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - It has been almost 8 months since my last relationship and I am at the point where I am ready to be with someone again. I go to a smaller school and I met someone in my class that is really cute, funny, good looking, and has a great personality. I have been wanting to ask h... (354 words)

Slept with someone after husband abandond me now he wants back

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Several months ago my husband walked out on me and my kids. He abandond us and left us with no money and than tried to take my car and informed me to moved out of our family hom so i had to move across contry. I actually went without eating for a while. I had to get a ... (238 words)

Does she act this way because she's shy? nervous? or crazy?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone i am a bi girl, interested in this one girl in my karate class, she seems to like me, she makes intense eye contact and licks her lips a lot while doing so (but i think she's just a lip licker she does it a lot not just me), but the problem is she is verrrrry ... (593 words)

Husband treats me badly and I don't know why

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for under a year but I have known my husband for 8 years before that. We have always gotten along and everything started out great. I have a daughter which makes him a step father, she's almost a year old. Recently he has been bringing me down a lot and ... (272 words)

When we're away I miss him but when together I worry I wont miss him

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4 December 2010 (F)

age - I am 45 and have been chatting with a guy from another city and he is 10 years younger. We've seen each other twice in the past 6 months and we've been intimate; but i am unsure of my feelings for him. When I am not with him I miss him but I worry that when we see each othe... (74 words)

Poly Amorous is what's good for the goose, good for the gander?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age - Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? Would you allow your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend have an affair as long as he/she was taking care of you/home? Would the person wanting to have the affair be accepting of it in reverse? ... (52 words)

When I don't give b/f money for drugs he tells me I don't belong in this country

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Iam Chinese but I grew up here! I have a American boyfriend. who iam datinG for one year! I love him. He doesn't work since I met him. He uses drugs and drinks every night and when I tell him to stop using drugs and drinking he tells me you have no faith for me. But iam tired ... (113 words)

I feel like I am spending the best years of my life with someone I am not compatible with, but still love deeply.

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I can't believe I'm writing this, but I don't know where to turn. I'm unsure if my issues are legitimate, or if I am blowing things out of proportion. My husband and I have been together for over 13 years, married for 7. Both in our forties, no childen, by choice. ... (636 words)

I'm so shy and never know how to get a guy

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4 December 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I am so shy and never know how to get a guy!!!! I'm in 8th grade and I've slow-danced three times in my whole life. I never ask the guy because I'm scared of rejection or awkwardness, and im also old-fashioned because i feel like the guy should ask. Also, I've had some crushes ... (112 words)

Is height an issue for guys?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a question for the guys out there. Do you mind if your girlfriend or your crush is taller than you? I only ask because I am starting to believe I like this one guy, but I am 5'6" and he is 5'2" so therefore i am taller. So i am curious that height has anyth... (121 words)

First he didn't even acknowledge our baby and now he's fighting for custody of it?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 and I just had a baby 4 months ago. I met a guy last november, out of pity, I guess, simply because his posting stated that his wife engaged to another man and he's dealing with ptsd and disappeared for a month and came back found she's with another man. I was not ... (372 words)

Two ex's want me back, I've already cheated with one, do I tell my boyfriend?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have been with my partner for 4 years things moved pretty fast and we have a 3 year old daughter. The past year we havent been getting on really well and i thought he had cheated turns out he hadnt though but i got in contact with my ex, we ended up sleeping together. ... (144 words)

He was my first everything, and cheated. Where do I go now?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My screen name says it all, I am hurt and unsure, and here's why. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, Im in love with his family, as he is mine and things between us has always been wonderful. We never fought, and he respected me for not wanting to have sex until I ... (1144 words)

My boyfriend won't date virgins so I lied and told him that I wasn't one, but I am!!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello ha well i have a boyfriend that is five years older than me .... and he and i have been dating for 3 months already? ihave played with myself many times but i might have told him a lie and idk what to do about it ... well i told him iwasnt a virgin cuss iremember once s... (128 words)

I have trouble keeping a date!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Let's face it. I have trouble keeping a date. Maybe because I'm deaf and he's hearing, communicating is difficult. Or maybe it because I'm ugly, and I tried hard to pretty up. Maybe I gave up too soon after I've been trying too much or too little. I'm not a gold digger, nor ... (94 words)

I don't think my girlfriend finds me attractive!

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a terrific, successful relationship for the past 7 months, 5 of which were spent in a long-distance scenario (no more than 1 visit per month). My girlfriend and I have fantastic chemistry together, and I can honestly say that I've never been as happy with anyone as ... (192 words)

Crushing on my teaching assistant, how do I let her know?

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm crushing on a graduate student...who also happens to be my TA. She's almost 4 years older than me (I'm 20), and is very beautiful in and out. She knows me by name and all and we tend to have a lot of one-on-one discussions, so we already have a minor friendship going on. ... (357 words)

Should she continue to see him?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend has been dating this guy for almost a year, and hasn't asked her to be his girlfriend yet. During their romantic involvement, he's courted her on many dates (cruises, shopping sprees, lavish dinners, etc), which have been fully paid for on his behalf. And they've been ... (142 words)

We agreed not to join any social-networking sites, then he joins one!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When my husband and I met and became serious about each other,we both agreed that we would not participate in any of the dating/social networks. We've both seen so many couples run into problems using these sites. Plus we really don't have the time to devote to it the way ... (161 words)

I have an addiction to masturbating!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old female and i have struggled with an addiction to maturbating since i was 12 years old. I hate this about myself and desperatly need to stop. I am afraid that when i am married my husband won't be able to pleasure me like i can pleasure myself. This is an ... (75 words)

I think my boyfriend could do so much better than me!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - sigghh. i have so much i want too tell my boyfriend. like the fact that i think he could do SO MUCH BETTER THAN ME, because of my past i refer to my self as abnormal i do have a lot wrong with me, and i really love him and want the best for him.. should i say good bye for the ... (125 words)

I need advice on writing a letter, to my boyfriend.

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want some advice really on writing letters. I have a very hard time explaining myself verbally so I have been thinking about writing a letter to my boyfriend to explain about things I have not been able to fully explain but that I want and need to tell him. For example,... (566 words)

He always enjoys the sex but I don't!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem, and i dont know what to do about it.... my boyfriend and i... ugh im not pleasured by our sex... BUT HE ALWAYS IS. i dont know how to tell him that im not because i dont want to make him do something he doesnt want too. but its just getting irritating because ... (98 words)

Is this just a phase or should we call it a day?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and its been amazing we're both so happy. But the last month we're constantly fighting and on and off, but we don't last an hour without gettin back together. Is it time to call it a day or how do we get over this? It has me ... (70 words)

What exactly is wrong with me?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I noticed my life is so melancholic when it comes to love. I am 18 years old and I have never had a first kiss, boyfriend, a hug from any guy. Nothing. Is there something wrong with me? I have been told I am really pretty, but I really think my personality diffuses... (129 words)

We dated for a month and things were great, then she disappears!

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a girl that was introduced to me by someone that had been trying to do so for a few months. I always avoided meeting her because I knew she was fresh out of a relationship, but I finally agreed to meet her after about three months. Even before I met her, anytime I would ... (876 words)

My wife told me she wants to be single and live by herself!

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 23 years old and my wife is 21. We knew eachother for 4 years dated for 2 years and have been married for 1 year. We have a 1 year old daughter. My wife is tired of being a mom and wife, she says she still loves me but she just wants to be single and live by herself. I ... (223 words)

I hope my ex doesn't see those harsh texts I sent him!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a very fresh prob, it literally happened today. Basically I broke up with my ex about a month ago and we agreed to stay friends although we hardly talk. It ended kinda abruptly and I think there are still feelings on both sides but we are too scared to say something but ... (268 words)

I finally caved and spoke to my ex, once I heard his mother was dying.

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My x has been contacting me via email and other means for a while. I have not responded for 4-5 months. I heard from his sister finally that his mom is dying and I contacted him. He said he misses me a lot, and he is thinking of me. He feels terrible about how he broke up ... (261 words)

Married, confused and could do with some objective views.

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - to give a bit of back ground i have been married for 13 years and been with my wife for nearly 16. she is a great person and a great mother to our 3 children (aged 11,12,13). we got to together at young age and had the old whirlwhind romance. i asked her to marry me after t... (529 words)

Advice for an ugly duckling?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 yrs old i 've been made fun since i was very little. I was always the ugliest one the one who had a hard time making friend the one who everyone felt bad for. And the one who everyone picked on the one, who everone thought was gay. The one with the smallest boobs. Im ... (248 words)

Should I move on or let him move in?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and i have been together 2 years. we had our shares of bad times and even took a couple month break because our fighting got bad. well the time apart brought us close together so i thought. in the midst of things i have been having alot of financial strain with getting ... (424 words)

My girlfriend never wants to be home anymore.

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does it seem like she never wants to be home anymore? She always comes home so late the last couple nights shes come home when im already in bed. And tonight my gramma is babysitting so we can have a night alone but she says she doesnt know if shes going to be home for sure ... (149 words)

Would you consider this to be fate?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was asked by a guy I like (who I met on the last night of my visit in Veags) if I believe in fate. I said yes. And then he asked me if I think we met because of it, and I said yes and that I believe everything happens for a reason. Then I asked what his thoughts were and he ... (127 words)

My social awkwardness needs to stop!

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy. so i'm a 16 year old junior girl in highschool and as long as i can remember i've been really shy and socially awkward. i only hav a few friends but i want more.i absolutely dont do any extracurricular activities cuz i'm so scared of wat ppl will yhink of me or even do ... (261 words)

Do I try to talk to her again?

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4 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Gotta a quick question for anyone who wanta to send some advice over I havnt been in a relationship in over 2 years. It did last a year in a half. Im not ugly, in peak physical condition, i try to be the best i can be to all people yet no girl wants to look my way. Last tim... (184 words)

Should I tell her I really like the guy she loves?

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4 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Since 8th grade of 2009, a friend has liked this boy. She tells me she in love with him and I understand why. Im In 9th grade now and I was in front of my house with my dog and I see him walking with some friends and he says hi to me cause my best friend and him were kinda ... (167 words)