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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal to fantasize about women, even though I'm not gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! Im a 21yr old woman whose had 3 serious relationships (with men). Im 100% attracted to men, believe me i know that. I love sex with men etc. However my ex was all for giving me oral and fantastic at it let me add. When we were together i thought about giving a girl ... (139 words)

I like my girlfriend's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a church mate, my co-member in the music ministry for about 3 years. We seems to have physical and personality attraction i guess. We have a good team up and one time her sister is teasing me to her. her sister even call's me up as a brother in law and i would say i ... (236 words)

Thinking of marriage but want to experience other men first!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I'm completely in love and my mom has given him her permission to marry me when we graduate. The thing is, is that ive been wanting to experience sex with someone else. I lost my virginity to ... (96 words)

I'm jealous of the fact I don't get to see what kind of girls he's around all day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have such a bad problem!!! I am in love with this guy, just so we all know I havnt met him yet...he lives in Canada and I live in the UK...I have been talking to him for over 2 years now and he knows me better than anyone else and I know him much better than anyone else... (647 words)

Our relationship has an end date, once he moves away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf may be moving away, at the end of January and I don't know how I am going to handle this or what to do. It is like 3 hours away, I am dumbfound. We have been dating for 10 months. And he was my first everything. He is the only one at the school that, knows what has gone ... (155 words)

He said we should get back together sometime in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. Well I'm 14 years old and I have a really complicated problem. So my ex boyfriend and I started talking again last month. But I found out he was with somone else from another school but I was still cool with it. Well one day after school me and him hung out ... (694 words)

I could write a love story, I love her so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - HELP! I am absolutely madly in love with a girl. She's a friend aswell but not a very close friend. The problem is she's going out with somebody and I just can't get her out of my head! I love everything about her and could probably write a book about why I love her, but I ... (73 words)

He says he's going to change, but I see no improvement!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im a little confused as usual in my complicated relationship. i dont know if i have like a problem and this would happen with every guy im with or if its just because my hearts not all the way in this relationship anymore. so for starters we have been togeth... (607 words)

Will I ever lose the guilt of cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I had been dating my boyfriend for 4 months before i cheated on him. Our whole relationship was long distance, since he was a year older than me and in college. In March of my senior year of high school i went on spring break with a BIG group of friends, to Mexico. On St. ... (308 words)

Are my wife's actions cause for concern?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife works in a small office - there used to be seven women in one room with the other room occupied by her, the boss and another woman. After recent redundancies there are three women left in one room with just the boss and my wife in the other. He is going through a ... (244 words)

Need positive advice on feelings for a married man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear who ever is reading this. I feel a sense of wrong. I've been friends with a guy for about 2 years. Our friendship was always quite flirty but I have quite a few quite a few male friends that are married or have girl friends and I've always respected their relationsh... (773 words)

Is getting turned on by people touching my ears normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel really weird, I have this strange attractions to ears, i love it when my boyfriend touches or kisses my ears, i even make him bite my ears, I just love it.. But it makes me feel weird because it a ears and surely it shouldn't turn me on if someone just touches my ear.. I ... (122 words)

Should I send him packing or make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i separated in September 2010. We have two small children and have stayed in contact and continued to have sex frequently. We were both trying to "work" out our issues. He just recently moved back and we decided we would give it another shot. I found out he ... (253 words)

How can I get over myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've tried submitting this question before but it got rejected because the mods thought I was suicidal. I'm not. Not anymore anyway. But I do need some answers. Preferably a lot of them! Okay, to cut to the chase: I'm afraid of relationships. Like literally afraid. I've fan... (298 words)

What do I do with his sweater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

7 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids: There's this guy who I really like; so far we're just friends, but a few days ago we were hanging out and he gave me his sweater to wear home cause it was cold out. Now, I'm (secretly!) a little bit shy, awkward and unfamiliar with the protocol in this typ... (127 words)

I like a guy 17 years older than me, should I go for it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey. I have to admit I am attracted to a guy 17 years older than me and I know he is attracted to. But I don't know if I should go for it or if I should just forget it and find someone my own age. I like talking and spending time with him, but I am also a little afraid of ... (72 words)

Do most boys choose their X-Box or PS3 over their girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - It seems like my boyfriend's life is playing on his xbox or ps3, I dnt understand why he would rather play on that instead of talking to me on the phone etc. Anytime I go to his house he would rather play on his xbox than me?! Is this normal? I'm the one who always has to ... (163 words)

He is acting so out of character!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with this guy for 6 months now and he's been really nice to me my friends like him, he gets on with my family and he says he loves me. But lately he's been really off with me and gets angry really quickly, the slightest remark from me that he doesn't agree wi... (169 words)

My girlfriend googled my name and it came up under a girl's myspace page!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Now to all of you who know my gf insecutities I have another question about it now here's the problem she recently searched up on google for my name then my name came up under some girls myspace and now she thinks I am cheating because the google link says on the comment "I ... (91 words)

Could his virginity and our long distance relationship equal future problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Where to begin... this past summer I was in Germany for three months. A man in the same office as me caught my eye (he is 28, I am 22), and a week before I left, we declared our love for each other, became a couple, discussed all the major life questions (child... (217 words)

How do I know she is wet? Will I be able to feel it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i'm pretty much just wondering how wet girls get when they're horny? I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and we have made out and i have felt her up and stuff, but nothing downstairs. I can tell she wants to move forward and do other stuff with me, but i dont want ... (128 words)

Could dating this older man spell trouble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I've gotten really close recently to one of the managers where I work (not my manager so has no real authority over me). The problem is there is quite a big age gap, I'm 19 and he's 35 neither of us has a problem with the age gap but I'm abit worried about what people ... (105 words)

I have communication problems with my mum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys im having troubles with my mom ( she a single mother aand very hardworking) so im 14 my mom has 5 kids shes in her early 40 2 of her kids and 1 of her grandaughter she has to take care there 8,9 . my mom comes home from work usually yelling cause sumfin messed up she ... (150 words)

Does he like me or not? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy. And he's real sweet and generally nice to everyone. During class, he usually minds his own business, we have choir (singing). Last Tuesday was my birthday. I didn't really tell anyone but my friends found out and they sang to me during class. After school ... (722 words)

Why does my husband need so much porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here is my question. I have been married to my husband for five years and we have a 4 year old daughter and a 6 month old son. For about a year no matter when I tried to initiate sex he didn't want to. We were having sex for about 1, 2 times a month. We live together, see ... (955 words)

He seems to be running away from his feelings, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known my guy friend for nearly four years and counting. For the most part, I'd say we had a healthy relationship. On a regular basis, we'd converse during the week to talk about family life, careers/ambitions, friends, dating, etc. Also, we share a lot of the same values, ... (460 words)

How do I improve my chances at dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been single for most of my entire life, except for 3 brief relationships of which were not that great. One of those was a setup and the other 2 I met off a dating site. I have never actually asked a woman out on my own. I'm 26 and lonely a lot of the time.... (232 words)

How can I put my insecurities aside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I squash the insecure, jealousy bug and be done with it? I have always been insecure and jealous about my husbands ex girlfriends. If my husband or anyone starts to talk about one of them I immediately get hurt and annoyed. Then I'll stay like that for the rest ... (220 words)

He told other girls I was good at giving blow jobs?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I can honestly say we love eachother. He has told me since the begining that I give awesome blowjobs. Today we were joking around and I asked if he ever told anyone how good I am. He said yes I told 2 girls I know. I was caught off ... (86 words)

How do I tell a boy how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy called William i am only 14 so its probably only love or lust or something but i have another problem this boy called Tom likes me and has told me and i really don't know what to do because i only like Tom as a friend and i told him but he still keeps ... (78 words)

He claimed he was going to tell his girlfriend about me, yet I have not heard from him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I met this guy about six months ago and we really liked each other so we started hangin out n getting to kno each other but after a couple weeks i started to notice that alot of times he wasnt answerin my calls or texts but i let it go i didnt care but anyways we quit ... (252 words)

Is it possible I'm pregnant even though the test came back negative?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well about six months ago i was with this guy who i just met and he was 20 at the time and i was 16. we had sex using no protection or anything and now i think im prregnant. ive taken preg test but all but 1 said no and i cnt go to my parents. i gained a little wait tired ... (90 words)

Yasmin contraceptive pill instructions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, really confused here! I'm on Yasmin contraceptive pill and earlier on I vomited about twenty minutes after I took it, so I took a another pill directly after and have kept it down. I'm just wondering if I'm on it for twenty days instead of twenty-one days and then have my ... (83 words)

My ex is 23 and dating a highschooler, what's the matter with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - She's 23. We shared 5 years of love, then she left me one week after she met this 17-year-old guy. To this day I'm not completely sure why. My guess is that he just was available for her (they're like neighbours) and I wasn't, because I had been living and working in anoth... (278 words)

What kind of players are prowling around on plentyoffish.com?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a man on plenty off fish. We hit it off instantly.. The first couple of days after our first meeting was texting all day - phone calls even made time to sneaky a quick kiss.... We have seen each other several times in the short month we've known each other.... He tel... (190 words)

I fancy her so much it hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well... i have this friend, well i say friend its more of a person i just say hi too really. but first thing is that she is a girl and so am i and i like her more than just a friend, i fancy her too death, i mean its killing me how much i like her, well i dont think she is ... (226 words)

How can I open myself up to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't understand why I am so worried about being hurt or unable to love a girl. I just don't feel anything for any girl, just physical attraction nothing more, I went through a break up which left me confused of who I am, what I want and everything else. I have gotten back on ... (189 words)

I don't want my girlfriend and her son to move with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I met my girlfriend, it was supposed to be a physical no strings attached kind of relationship. She has a son, something that never bothered me before because I wasn't trying to get serious. I myself don't really want children at all. About a year after meeting her, we ... (144 words)

My wife came home smelling like condoms and booze!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife have been married for a year and four months. recently she's been accusing me of cheating all the time. i can't have no girl friends because she calls them and tell them a set of lies. her friend was going away and invited her to club Friday night without my ... (146 words)

Her high sex drive is driving me bonkers!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend just can't leave me alone for a second. Whenever we are together, she just can't keep her hands off me and wants to have sex ALL the time. I mean I love her dearly, but i'm not really an affectionate person where as she is. I'm not really one for holding hands and ... (236 words)

Guys, how do you feel when a woman encourages you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, when a women tells you "you are strong", "you are smart", to encourage you. How does this feel? -Does it make you love her more, because she is loving you? -Does it give you strength?... (40 words)

Tired of being celibate, do I get my kicks with a random person or continue being sexually frustrated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been divorced from my husband for a year and in that time i have been celibate. I still see my ex husband ocassionally because sometimes i get stranded especially when my car breaks down. The reason why we broke up was because he was physically and mentally abusive ... (233 words)

Facebook tagged pictures from an ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf's ex has pictures tagged of him and her on FB when they were; it's been 2years..They still talk bc its like a circle of their friends. Why would she still have it up tho even when shes in a new relationship? I know I have him and its memories etc, its just a curious ... (104 words)

Should I still be a part of my ex's daughter's life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Should I continue to be part of my ex daughter life if she left me. She said that we grew apart. I was always trying to help her get a head but she just wanted to stay where she was at. I asked her to marry me bought a house for us to live in she paid nothing. She wanted to ... (119 words)

I can't come to terms with the fact my boyfriend's bisexuality!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay.. My boyfriend of 5months, Told me he was bi, Im not sure how to take it, im not sure what to say about it.. I may seem very selfcentred and it doesnt change him, But he's always told me about guys he's found fit and things, but now im not sure, I suppose ive just been ... (153 words)

How do I convince people we're just friends, or at least stop the name calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is a guy[since I don't get along well with girls] and we've been hanging out a lot[not alone, with our other friends] but in my school and in his, people have been saying we're together. Since I already have a boyfriend,but he lives in another country[... (253 words)

Sometimes I want to hit her, and other times I want to hug her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this strange relationship with a girl in my class. She is so annoying sometimes I want to hit her but also i want to hug her sometimes. See the thing is in loads of lessons I seat next to her and we used to be good friends but then we sort of stopped and I couldn't stand ... (289 words)

My friend gave me oral sex but I'm not sure if it was cheating

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey agony aunts. I've been feeling really guilty lately because i don't know if i've cheated on my girlfriend or not. last week i was staying over at a friend's house. This is the first time i've ever dated a girl so i was worried about how to give her oral sex. My friend who ... (179 words)

I desperately need help to leave this poisonous relationship with the man I am in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. He pursued me after we broke up with our respective exes, and after around 5 months I really fell in love with him. Our first year together was good. However, just over a year after we got together, I started to suspect he was ... (891 words)

Sunken eyes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello all i just want to have some advice about the my eyes, they actually went deep in my face and my face also got skinnier , i think its coz of lack of sleepin or even coz i dont eat healthy, and its nt nice coz now when i smile , it appears like i have those lines under my... (90 words)

How do I possibly get over these wrong feelings I have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a young guy that is happy with my girl friend, but I need to get over my crush, which is her brother. I know it is bad, trust me I know, but I have strong feelings for him. Some days I am fine, but some days I hate myself that I feel these feelings. It does not make it... (441 words)

I don't want to hurt him by turning him down but I don't want to date him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 17 and I broke up with my long term boyfriend about a month ago. Theres always been this guy at school, let's call him Matt, that has been interested in me even before my ex came along. At the time, I liked Matt too but then tragically his mum died and I decided he... (187 words)

Am I too ugly to be loved?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im ginger, ugly and fat im 19 and i ust cant get girls to like me they never talk to me and the ones that do talk to me are the ones that just do it as a joke any help please ... (42 words)

Boyfriend quit job and is now acting all cold and distant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year just randomly quit his job 3 weeks ago. Yeah he hated it, but it made GOOD money. Ever since then things havent been the same. We fight all the time, he never hardly txts me anymore, i always have to be first now. I dont know what to do. He is all ... (71 words)

Phys Ed teacher flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a new Phys Ed teacher and i think he is flirting with me? He says to me are you wearing contacts i said no, he then says wow you have very nice eyes i said urm thanks and walked away. Then he keeps coming up to my table-tennis table and always trying to help me and... (109 words)

Why do I cry every time I leave my boyfriend's house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why do i cry everytime i leave my boyfriends house? I see him maybe once a week and it still affect me because idk when i will see him again. I miss him and am not at all needy. I just get a big feeling of sadness a couple minutes before i have to leave and i cry on him. He ... (127 words)

Is this a move that alot of women put on men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So we just started to date, we're entering our 4th month now and at first we agreed to have a casual relationship, but now she is starting to fall for me (so she says) and is asking me to become exclusive with her.. I'm noticing that she's been very distant when it comes to ... (744 words)

I just feel so directionless!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, well its been a feeling for some time but more prominent at the moment, I just feel so directionless! My life isn't going anywhere. I'm 21, never had a girlfriend, sex, never even had a proper kiss, no female friend. I'm quite shy and find it extremely diffic... (430 words)

Texting her ex...Damn technology

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So My question is pretty simple; so me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 months. We both just got out of longer term relationships of 3 years and we are very happy in the relationship we have now. The problem is she always is texting her exboyfriend all the time. ... (227 words)

I want to marry him but he has other girl friends! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i love a boy ....want to marry him ..but it seems like he dont cares for me and have other girl frinds, what should i do ??? help me please... (30 words)

Should my best friend tell her parents that she is going to stay at her boyfriend's house?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - sick of them going on about it . all my friends keep going on about my best friends boyfriend .and how she needs to tell her parents the truth but to be quiet honest why should she tell them she is going her bf's when they don't agree on her seeing him .# he is a decent la... (115 words)

How should I approach this problem? His ex is still part of his circle of friends....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy since the last ten months..I'm absolutely blissfully happy with him, and I get along excellently with all his friends. The only problem is that his ex is part of his friend circle. He broke up with her because she was too pushy and ... (194 words)

How do I know if his feelings are true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel like he is dating me because he feels bad. How do you tell your boyfriend that I mean how do you know if there feelings are true? I trust him, im just insecure. I mean. Like. Okay. Lately ive told him a lot of my issues with my life, bu... (310 words)

Is the amount of phone sex we have normal? And is marriage a possibility when it is my first relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girl and i have been in a long distance relationship for about 3yrs now. We're both in the university. We are sexually active and lately we've been talking for over 4 hours and we have lots of phone sex. Is it normal? And Do you think its because we dont meet so often? The ... (121 words)

He said it is only me that has to change!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple days ago, I opened up again to my husband how his relationship with this female coworker makes me uncomfortable. He always says that I'm just jealous maybe a little bit but that's not the whole story. He txt or chat with this girl more than we do, she calls him ... (663 words)

Why do I feel like this and how can I stop it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't to do with relationships or anything. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I suppose advice or opinions really. I'm 17 and in my first year at college. I've had quite abit of time off with migraines (which are related to stress), tonsilitus and my mum being in... (269 words)

How can I stop cumming too quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - when i having sex with my wife i tend to cum with in 5 to 10 mim 's how can i stop that.... (23 words)

How long should we wait to get married? And how do I stop her from moving in on me right away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi my question is when should we get married how long before. and how do i keep her from just moving in on me right away. we both have our own places. is that a commitment problem.... (43 words)

My girlfriend wants me to have multiple orgasms

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF seems to have some concerns over my semen volume and my orgasms lately. She says I sometimes do not cum very much, while other times I cum a LOT. I think she is being a little naive, as many of the times she says I dont cum a lot it is the second or third time, and the ... (229 words)

What to do with an arrogant surly girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my question is to get the discussion started about this my question is has anybody had a girl friend who disreguards cuts you short when you start to talk says honey dont ask that thinks your untrained e.t.c direguards your funny statements and rolls her eyes but she does lau... (109 words)

Confused feelings about a new relationship

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just recently (in the last couple of months) started seeing a girl who I really like but am having moments where I feel confused about how I feel. She's not someone that I was initially particularly attracted to physically - we had met a couple of times and got on... (807 words)

I feel like I am at the bottom of his list

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner of 8 years decided 3/ 4 months ago that he wanted to have some time apart. He said that he loved me but he needed this. Since we have been apart i have only seen him 3 times, the reasons which he said he needed time apart was he said i was controlling and didnt... (299 words)

I really like him but was mean to him

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there's a guy that i like for almost a year and he's with me in college an i know that he likes me too i didnt really give him any attention at the begining till i noticed that he was always following me around and looking at me all the time,so i thought it's really nice tha... (407 words)

What do you think? Something just doesn't sound right about this to me!

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who recently got back from studying 6 months abroad. There he met a girl who now says she's in a relationship with him, and as I have them both on facebook I see all the cutesy things they write each other. My friend seems really in love with her and all, from ... (281 words)

No Romance. What should I do?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my Girlfriend for two and a half years. We have had a great sex life life but recently she has never been in the mood and we haven't had sex for a while. My problem is I love her personality, but having no sex is a big put off. She has been having ... (124 words)

I want to avoid a heartbreak. How do I save myself?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted about my predicament before. I did ocntrol myself until a few days ago. And now I am back again. Here is this guy I have severe crush on. I don't know much about him other than he is single but I am really carried away by his charm. He is very admirable, helpf... (455 words)

Why did she leave me for him?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there i gess a lot of people hav been and feeling the way i am this is my story. i met this amazing girl when i went to see a friend at uni and i had talked to her before on the phone just as friends but when i met her that all changed i fell for her.it was a long distace ... (637 words)

I think my boss may have been making things up about me and a colleague, what should I do?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone give me some advice..... I was having trouble with my partner and there was this guy from work who also was having trouble. He split up with his girlfriend and we became very close helping each other. There was this initial attraction but besides that we ... (181 words)

Help! What should I do to be good with the ladies and be more confident around girls?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am almost 18, 6 ft 2, 176 pounds. i have never been in a real relationship with a girl and never kissed before,i dont know what wrong with me. I have many guy friends and few female friends in a 3:1 ratio,im handsome(many girls tell me so)ive been asked out and many girls ... (191 words)

What do I do if my girlfriend is not happy anymore?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What do I do if my girlfriend is not happy anymore? She says she still loves me a lot and I have not done anything wrong to make her feel this way. She says I do so much for her and she can't accuse me of being a bad boyfriend or not taking care of her and her needs. She i... (535 words)

Is it weird that I don't dream and why don't I dream?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont Dream or have nightmares, i once in a blue moon have a dream and when i do shortly after i wake up i can remember it only bits and pieces about it, my Grandma and aunt have really nice dreams every night when they sleep and often reunite with loved ones that have past ... (91 words)

Who is being unreasonable here? I just want my baby to be safe and for my ex to be contactable if I need to speak to him!

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7 December 2010 (F)

- Hey guys, really hoping for some advice over child access. Basically, my ex and I no longer together. He used to see our son (7 months) every other weekend for the whole weekend and one day in the week. I have never denied him access. However, my ex lives with his parents... (272 words)

How can I impress her on her birthday?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i Like a Girl , the girl also Like me but only one mistake is our parents don;t like to talk.when i Was 11 years old i have done such a mistake that is why she don;t like me i don;t know what is the mistake , ON 10th of December Birthday of that girl tell me how can I impress ... (99 words)

My girlfriend is a pothead.....

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend who used to be a pothead and she kind of still it. I'm not against weed but when it comes to her I am for some reason. I think I just don't like the pothead mentality. The whole thing where they are in love with the plant and all of its accessories and can't ... (347 words)

How do I trust my man with the kind of past I've had?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm getting married next year to a wonderful man who's been nothing but compassionate, patient, loving and endearing. But before him, I was in a very long term relationship that lead to nothing but hurt and lies. My ex was always doing things for a married woman who was ten ... (671 words)

What does he mean by this?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean if a guy tells me "You are so wet, it's amazing" WHILE he is inside of me? How does my being wet feel to him? ... (29 words)

14 and never had a boyfriend! Help!

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, blond and brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is really getting me down ... (68 words)

I don't know if I love him anymore, should I stay or go?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a boyfriend for 2 years now. I don't know if i love him anymore but i don't know how to work on the relationship . What should i do? Break up with him or stay with him... (41 words)

He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the underlying meaning of "He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you?"... (19 words)

Worried about what my family will say about me dating a 40 year old....

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i am 22 almost 23. I have a friend that is 40 and i know he has strong feelings for me. I'm starting to have feelings for him too. Would it be out of the question to start a relationship with him? He's seperated with an 18 and an 11 year old son. I would worry about my ... (74 words)

I'm getting increasingly infuriated with my friend's ex husband, what can I do to stop myself from getting so angry?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a bit of a fix when it comes to a woman I'm dating and her ex husband. You see this woman and myself are co-workers which is how we became friends. Over the past year and a half she was not in good way due the separation. I was her shoulder to cry on and over time we... (294 words)

I cant stop missing him every day! How do I deal with this?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a very interesting person who taught me to stop fretting over little worries and enjoy the larger picture of life.. At first.. I did not really feel the connection.. But the third time we met, it was all sparks flying.. and we found ourselves in bed before we... (412 words)

Should I explore my options?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a problem that I am not sure how to handle. I have asked around and thought about it for awhile but cannot seem to make a decision. I am a 20 year old college student and recently got back with my ex who has been in my life since I first came to college. H... (462 words)

How do I stop myself from losing all hope of ever finding my Prince Charming?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and only a year from graduating college. I am the epitome of a hopeless romantic. My bookshelf consists of piles of historical and contemporary romances, love poems and fairy tales. I spend my Friday nights watching romantic comedies or writing short romances ... (184 words)

He says I am always picking fights - is this true?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend states that i am always picking fights with him... I wanted to know if i actually am. I am currently unemployed and i've been going for job interviews...of late there was one extremely good offer where i made it to the final round and then i got rejected as... (253 words)

Living with the grief of losing your father....

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi how to live life without my dad? he recently died of cardiac arrest on 22 september 2010, after his death there is no happiness left in my and my mom's life. i am the only daughter, no other child, i want my dad back pls. help me out how to live with this grief which weighs ... (62 words)

Heartbroken here! How do I get over what happend to us?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is going to be long. So plz take the time to read cuz I need some serious help. And be open minded its a complicated situation and last time I posted about it I acually had someone laugh in my face. So if u could plz not laugh about it and don't plz give caring ... (1015 words)

Did I sound 'cheap' because I didn't play hard to get?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,i met this guy one day,he was a cousin to my guyfriend though i didnt know him and neither did he know me.but we got acquainted that day,after that day i kept thinking of him and really missing him.then i told him that i like him alot and he said that we should get to know ... (122 words)

It's him or me! How do I get her to make a decision here?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a woman that I work with after returning from some vacation time. She was beautiful. But, I figured I didn't really have a chance with her, i wouldn't even try. I had heard she was married and didn't want to pursue her because it would have been against my rules. So I ... (237 words)

Neighbor Confusion!

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i live across from this guy, extremely cute , he just went away to college i am a senior in highschool. we were talking flirting all summer, really into each other got the daily message from him..and now he is off to college, and when we talk it is like he is playing hard to ... (118 words)

I want to ask her out, but her brother is always there! What should I do?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this year. Our training is every Sa... (163 words)

Do you think she's hiding something here, or do you think she told me the entire truth?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, and we have plans for her to come on a trip with my family to the Dominican Republic in a month. We're both 17. We had already agreed that telling each other what was on our minds should be the first thing we do, and she ... (621 words)

What can I do about a dishonest boyfriend?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is super long. I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a little over 2 years. I love him very much and he claims to love me know. I've always thought that we had an honest relationship but the other day he admitted to me about lying to me about smoking... (169 words)

The guy I like, is now interested in my friend!

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last semester, I met this guy and we started hanging out and going to parties together. I really liked him, and he was such a nice guy. I thought it was going somewhere, but things I guess got awkward, and nothing happened. I was really bummed, and whenever I see him now, I get ... (190 words)

Afraid to get my first kiss? Advice?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy likes me an i like him. He is a player tho. if i date him well I'm afraid of gettin my first kiss! and one other question, How do i stop being shy around guys?... ... (39 words)

Who's the total weirdo here?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my new boyfriend for a few months now. Not long after we started seeing each other, he shared that his last long-term girlfriend had died of a sudden illness just a year before. Not long after that, I noticed that he keeps some of her ashes in his living room ... (134 words)

She likes him, but he likes me, and I like him. Did I mention we're all friends?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My really good girl friend is in love with my best friend and he doesn't feel the same way.. because he likes me. i feel horrible because i like him back. my friend doesn't know. should i go out with him?... (41 words)

We have anal sex one time, and now he always wants it!

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am kinda having an issue that i don't know how to address. me and my boyfriend tried anal a couple weeks ago. i was afraid at first but i was surprised that i actually liked it. but the problem is now that seems to be all my an boyfriend wants! i don't mind doing it sometimes ... (134 words)

New and exciting sex positions to share?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what are some different sex postitions that are exciting and feel really good? i've only done missionary like boy on top and thats all. i dunno how to make it more exciting and feel really good. also how do you arrive before the boy? i need some help in reaching climax and some ... (90 words)

Is it too soon to let him know, I like him?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have always read peoples problems on this website and have decided I need your help. My love, John of 1 year, 9 months left me last week to go for an expedition in California, hiking to Arizona and then hiking all the way home to Montana, I know ... (607 words)

Can't afford a divorce, which is only harming my kids and myself in this marriage!

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 44 years old, have been married for 20 years, and have two children. A boy 14, and a 5 year old daughter. My relationship with my wife has been "ok" up until about 7 years ago. We went to counseling (had to fight her tooth and nail to make her go), but nothing changed. She ... (410 words)

What are my options?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys I will try not to appear very pathetic on here even though right now I am very much feeling like it.First off I know my flag is American but I am not from there. So...here's my situation. I live in this town and no matter how much I go out,I haven't met any guy. Why... (565 words)

I feel a connection but not sure if I like him, should I go on a second date with him?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok to go out with a guy on a second date to see if you really feel a connection there? Cause I'm not sure if I like him as more than a friend right now, and I would feel bad if i gave him a false hope by going on a second date. What do you guys think? Is it ok to test out ... (86 words)

Is this enough to suggest that she likes me?

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 16 male, I'm not sure if a certain girl likes me or not, she tends to get close to me if were around eachother, she has admitted to me that she masturbates in the shower, and she texts me alot. Does she like me?... (51 words)

How do I stop self-destructing the relationship with the guy I have?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and while everything looks fine from the outside, I truly feel like I'm self-destructing my relationship. I love him, and I want to stay with him, yet I am pulling away because I'm afraid of getting hurt. This is my vicious cycle: ... (326 words)

My girlfriend's ex is playing the sensitive card!

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Lately I've been getting rather worried and at the same time annoyed with my girlfriend's ex. I don't even know him personally, but frankly what's going on is really bothering me. According to my girlfriend, every time he contacts her he ends up pouring his heart out to her... (437 words)

Lost: The love for my fiance.

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my fiance with all my heart, but I don't think I'm IN love with him anymore. I don't know what to do. We have been together for 2 years and live together. He is an amazing man - kind, funny, adores me, treats me well... so WHY do I feel like this? It's only the ... (201 words)

How do I handle the tension with my teacher?

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have strong feelings for this teacher, and i think she found out... She now tries to ignore me and we make way less eye contact than before, when we use to find ourselves staring into each others eyes intensely. I don't know how to act infront of her and there is always some ... (61 words)

Planning to leave the nest but not sure how to handle things till then.

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to deal with my mother anymore. I'm from quite a strict european background, but it's not my dad who's strict but my mom. I'm 27 and I still live at home as I've bought a house together with my parents to help them out and for all of us to live in a nicer ... (391 words)

Stop and stare!

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7 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please read everything and help me out. Much appreciated! I am a black girl who happens to be attracted to any race of male, black, white, asian, latino, doesn't matter to me. An attractive guy is an attractive guy. I am a college-age girl and have been told that I am att... (300 words)

When I get an erection it tends to hurt.

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this question is a little weird hence the anon. But whenever im with my girlfriend and she teases me, because we dont wan to have sex yet but she loves teasing me, and i get well..ya know hard. It kinda hurts. But then, when its sponatneous and out of no where it doesnt hurt ... (70 words)

I thought she was my best friend, till she tried to steal my boyfriend!

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7 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Today I found out that while my fiance now boyfriend and I were having problems, he went to smoke some weed with my guy friend and my best female friend, which I knew about and I don't touch the stuff but I thought oh fine whatever. My guy friend is moving in a couple days and ... (672 words)