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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He didn't want to have sex while we were together but now he does?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am enganged to the love of my life. We've only been together for 4 months but everything is perfect, except for one thing and we've just had an upset convo about it. He suffers from depression and low self esteem and although we are close sexually and can discuss everything, ... (308 words)

I enjoy watching my boyfriend masturbate!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really enjoy watching my bf masturbate himself off. Is this weird?? ... (12 words)

In the hospital and my boyfriend was watching porn

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in hospital (pregnancy loss related) and had an overnight stay, whilst I was in overnight,I found out my partner masturbated to porn. I feel angry and emotional over this, am I over reacting? ... (35 words)

Threesome considerations and do's and don'ts.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I just want to know things to consider and do's and don'ts when having a threesome. My wife and I are going to have one with another woman. My wife has gone there before but I never have. Always wanted to and now I have the chance. We have been married for 6yrs and are in our ... (68 words)

All tied up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, so my bf has told me he'd like me to tie him up during sex, and maybe to tie my wrists sometimes too. I think this sounds kinda fun, but wanted some advice on how to surprise him by doing this. I have some ribbons to tie his wrists, but would love some advice on how to ... (88 words)

She was drunk and wanted to mess around but I held off. How do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm a little scared by this dilemma. Been friends with this one girl for YEARS. We met in Kindergarten and now we're seniors in high school. So, it's been a while. Well, we both went to the same party and I started talking to this other chick (just friendly banter)... (266 words)

My boyfriend is going abroad for a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend may be going abroad for a year, to France. We're 15 and I know it's not like we're older or whatever, but our relationship matters alot to both of us. We've been going out for a year, and i really don't want to lose him, but I'm scared not seeing him for a year ... (96 words)

What do you do when you are feeling down about yourself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been feeling unconfident. I would like to know what you do when you are feeling down about yourself? I try looking at myself in the mirror; I feel good for a second then the insecurities comes back. I want to start feeling confident but don't know where to start. ... (101 words)

I just can't get intellectual stimulation from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for about 15 months. Before we decided to take that step, we were best friends for about 5 years. The problem is a few months ago, we began to fight a lot. Last month, I finally decided I cant be in such an unhealthy relationship anymore. We decided to ... (544 words)

My wife asked me a strange sexual request...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I want to find a woman who will watch me...enjoy myself...lol. are we crazy? How do we go about it? She is adamant about NOT involving her friends. ... (39 words)

He told me I was pretty then he ran off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have liked this guy for awhile now. And my friends say he likes me but idk. I want other people advice too. This is what he USE TO DO he used to talk 2 me all the time and tease me. But then one day he said i think your pretty and then ran off. He hasn't really ever talked ... (80 words)

One of my boyfriend's mates is my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i know ive been with my bf for almost 2 months now..... and because i hang round with his m8s.....one of his mates is one of my ex..... im kinda gettin a feelin im likein him again ( my ex) but i dont want to to split up with my bf and i no i should'nt..and i feel like he's ... (111 words)

He dumped me a week before Christmas!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for six months and then moved overseas for school. We had a very intense relationship, but it was very stressful on the two of us because we knew it couldn't last with the distance. While I was overseas we had short convos every week or so via text or email- b... (257 words)

He will not give me closure until I cut ties with his daughter!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex where together for 7 years..In those years I helped him raise his daughter whom I learn to love like my own. We broke up 5 month ago (I cheated)...I still love him and I am very regretful of what i did but he wont take me back...I still have most of my belongings ... (203 words)

Weird behaviour from friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl one year back when we were both in separate relationships. We started flirting few months back and talking almost daily. We even teased each other about being married to each other because we have got into several tiffs over time. About a month back, I felt like ... (438 words)

Why didn't he text me the next morning after I spent the night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it guys wait so long to text and/or call? Me and this guy we had worked together for a few months but not anymore. We got to know eachother at work, starting haning out outside of work a few times, made out a few times. The other week we had a great time I slept over ( w... (100 words)

My boyfriend needs a place to stay, I want my parents to take him in!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We are very happy together. The problem is he has a bad home life to the point that he had to leave and move in with a friend. Now that hes at his friends house new problems have arrived because his friend is jealous that ... (284 words)

How judgmental are guys on the first date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Guys, One of my friend gave my number to his cousin and sent to each other our pic and we liked each other and exchanged the numbers.. since one month we texted to each other and sometimes called.. he asked me to hand out twice but unfortunately i was so busy with my ... (423 words)

I don't feel that this is grounds for divorce!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married for 4yrs. There have been several times when we argue about how things are not equal in the relationship. I work and stays at home. Naturally, I would expect things to be done when I get home from work and they aren't. Over the past 2yrs, she has ... (171 words)

Why can't my ex learn from all the wrong he has done to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why wont my ex wont realize all the stuff hes done to me really messed with my head and physical fitness?.... Ok well i been off and on with my ex and hes really always talked to girls behind my back didnt treat me right. Until i assumed i had enough n we went on a break cu... (401 words)

Is it normal not to feel anything while being fingered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal to not really feel anything whilst being fingered? and how could i change that? any help would be great :)... (31 words)

My best friend and roommate's boyfriend has ruined our friendship! Should I move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, I have lost my best friend and it wasn’t even my fault. My best friend and roommate Beckie (not her real name) started dating this guy called Caleb (not his real name) who is basically a jerk, he cheats on her and he is controlling. I instantly took a ... (291 words)

Masturbated during my period and more blood came out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey you guys how you doin? well i'm a bit confused and scared of something, its about msturbation, i use my finger.. i actually masturbated while i was having my period but i did it a bit harder than usual, and blood came out, this question is so rediculous but i'm really ... (59 words)

He says he's gay but, I think otherwise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there was a guy in my life before he told me he was gay but i didnt believe him, he was so nice to me and brought med out in his car he had this cool car with tinted windows but nothing happened between us but he is such a lovely guy was he telling the truth i wonder?... (59 words)

I don't want to watch my friend get hurt by this obvious player!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i was just wondering what everyones opinion on this guy would be.Its a man that my friend is somewhat talking to and we cant seem to figure him out. ill call him J. So for starters she is in a relationship and has been for the past three years with the same man and J k... (473 words)

Heavier than normal period!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on a really heavy period this month, I'm filling up my pads quicker than usual. The pain usually goes away, but this time the cramps are more painful, and they're there all day. Before I came on I had a different type of cramp. Is there something wrong? should i be conc... (54 words)

He won't stop cheating and he won't leave either!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so exhausted, my marriage has been terrible for years but I am trapped in it. I cannot leave due to our 3 children (if I left we'd be homed in another town, I cannot uproot my children like that) and financial circumstances, whereas he could very easily leave me. But he c... (336 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend for my best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...i have been carrying this burden for too long, so here goes. I was in a relationship for 9 months when i cheated on my boyfriend. Why? Because i was in an emotionally abusive relationship....because i was weak to walk away. I kissed my best friend...once...then onc... (602 words)

Is this guy trying to ruin our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and then broke up for less than a month, and now we're back together. While we were not seeing each other, she met another guy and started talking with him. Even after we got back together she kept talking with h... (323 words)

He didn't tell me he has baggage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for 4years now. i recently found out that he has a 6year old child who he didnot tell me about from the start. i actually asked him on our first date 4years ago if he had a child and he said no. he only confessed to having one the o... (88 words)

I cheated on my childhood sweetheart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship wth my wife for 15 years now and we were kinda childhood Sweathearts,, We got together when I we were young, She was 17 and I was 21.. We have had fun times and good times and she is Loyal and trustwrthy and pretty...But I got bored and I... (172 words)

Am I just his backup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am a mid-20 year old guy who has never been in a real relationship (kissing, etc,) with either a girl or a guy... however, I have been aware over the past several years that I am primarily attracted to men. Over the past two months, I have been han... (564 words)

Inappropriate PDA involving my husband and his cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i saw my 32 yr old husband allow his 20 yr old female cousin to sit on his lap and recently she came up to him and fixed his hair in the front plus remove lint out of his hair....plus whenever i talk to her she is only asking where he is....am i wrong for thinking this is ... (69 words)

Not getting enough sex, would you involve a third person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What would you do in this situation? I am married now for 9 years and I do love my wife, but I think we are more of friends than lovers. We had a strong sexual relationship before we got married, having sex 4-5 times per week, many times at her request. We did many ... (614 words)

I'm not clear about sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Dear Cupid, I am 24 years old, normally i came from an orthodox family from India. So i dont have clear about sex. Last week i had a chance to sex with my would-be. When i touch his penis, his penis erect but at the same time his penis was full of water, i afraid ... (114 words)

Is he just a moody guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im in a strange situation, I am at uni and living with three other girls and a guy. Me and this guy have some history and used to be really close, he was there for me at a time when i was vulnerable and lonely and our friendship is important to me as i don't have many ... (236 words)

How do I cope with being used by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - m pretty sure the 3 months we had he used me. He wanted sex with me WAY too soon, said all the sweetest things In the world. we did fun stuff together and he called me every day. Then i started to notice he went out ALOT (and without asking me or telling me) I spoke to him abou... (419 words)

2 guys, so little time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: 2 questions combined from poster] I talk to my best guy friend about basically everything. I ask him for advice on guys to, and he always gives good advice. We go to different schools now, and my school has dances with a different school than his. A while ago at a... (250 words)

Can sex or my penis size ruin my relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I just started to go out with my girlfriend, and she seems like the greatest girl in the world except for one huge problem. At times she can be very sweet and caring and there are other times where she can be very judgmental. She said she has only been with 5... (244 words)

He's in an open relationship, does this mean he can date me too?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this boy i realy like and i told him but he said he has a girlfriend but now on facebook his relationship status says in an open relationship does that mean he could stay with his girlfriend and go out with me?... (44 words)

Am I wasting time on my husband?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It has been a month since I found out my husband was having an affair (he didn't tell me, I found out). After a lot of talking, I've taken him back (he agreed not to have anything to do with her again)and we have been to counselling and that seems to be going ok. On Monday, I ... (282 words)

Why do guys do this...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is not a relationship related question...actually they are several questions. 1. why do guys find butts so attractive? 2. why do guys grow their nails long...that's just gross 3. why do guys seem incapable of thinking about anything but sex? 4. how do guys view girls... (88 words)

Talking to his ex......again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer, my boyfriend (lets call him T) and I had to be long distance for about 3 months because of school. During those months, his ex got back in contact with him. Now, T met this girl on some social networking site. At the time, she was living in Nevada (he was l... (310 words)

Is this weird? Are we doing it wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't like being fingered. I don't like doing it to myself and I do not like my bf doing it to me either. Is this weird? Are we both doing it wrong? It's just a shame because it turns my bf on more than anything :/... (48 words)

I don't want our relationship to end but I do need to think about the well being of my little girl.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a lot of issues here I really need some help. I'm engaged to marry this guy. But I'm not so sure if its such a good idea anymore. I have been with him for a year now and we did date in high school. We still act like a new couple and love each other very much. I also ... (339 words)

Does he like me even though he is shy around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like guys the age of plus minus 26 to give me thiere opinion. Im 19 hes 26. Im chubby. He has sort of a nice body. He has'nt had a gf in 5 years. I want to know if he might like me. He is shy in fornt of me. We met at church. Ive liked him since the first time I saw... (106 words)

I want him back but he does not believe in us anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello . My boyfriend and I just broke up. Here is our story. I was married with a child when I met him. For 2 years we lived our love in the dark, and far from each others. He is my great love, and vis versa... Last August, I decided to finally take my courage and leave my... (615 words)

He got really demanding when I was giving him oral, has he been watching too much porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - when my bf and i had sex the other day he asked me for a bj and i accepted but he got really demanding. i think he watches too much porn he says he doesn't but i have seen him download it before. What should i do?... (48 words)

Testosterone supplements?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a healthy guy in his early 40's, and I have a bit of a reduced sex drive from when I was younger. I had the doctor give me tests, and found I had normal testosterone (around 500), but I have all the symptoms of low T...reduced sex drive, lethargy, moodines, irratability ... (97 words)

I can't let go of my ex! Help me get over him please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! Two and a half weeks ago my on again off again boyfriend of three years broke up with me. I thought everything was going great and was looking forward to the future and it was really out of the blue to me. He never showed that anything was bugging him. He sai... (181 words)

I like him, he likes me, but he is a backpacker and is leaving soon! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I really like this guy who lives in my house. He's 20 and a backpacker. He moved in 6 months ago and while I didn't like him at first over those months I've gotten to know him better than my parents. I never really 'liked' him until on his birthday (turning 20) we ... (213 words)

We love each other but there is not that 'spark' and we are never comfortable around each other! Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, he is a really great guy and everything but i always feel like we are not comfortable with each other i feel like i can't be myself around him and am pretty sure he feels the same way. Its always a bit awkward between us ... (168 words)

A 17 year old shouldn't have trouble staying hard, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - here's the problem...me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for over a year and sex was always great...until he started having issues staying hard...i mean he satisfies me in other ways but i still want him to be sastisfied and feel like a man...but he also has Evan's ... (130 words)

I'm liking my ex again and he's giving me signals.But I have a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dating this guy sometime back for 4 months. i broke up with him because i suddenly started feeling as if the love was gone. a month later i got into a relationship with an pretty good friend. its been 7 months since i've been dating him but since the past 1 and a half ... (216 words)

I don't talk to women due to past rejections, so now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - ......how to deal with rejection? (I have had rejection many times, and had no sex life for around 7 months, some people say masturbate but i think its a waste of energy and fluid and is self harm so i cannot enjoy masturbation, and this apparenty leads to anger , also if ... (119 words)

I want to try anal but she's really against it. Can I convince her?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been having sex with this girl for a while. We jumped into bed together really from the start of things, but that was really the only quick thing about it. She for almost a yr never entertained the idea of her on top or doggie, she just laid there, even fell asleep ... (376 words)

I'm seeing my friends mom as I have in the past, but now she's acting distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i got a friend same age as me i started seeing his mom in seceret a few years ago we got close well we had a falling out imoved away as did they shortly after out of the blue she calls me up and offers me the spare room i move to ohio take the room and help with bills. now ... (217 words)

While dancing with another woman, my boyfriend got an erection. Is this normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend needed to attend a formal dinner/dance event. Though I was the partner of choice, I could not get out of work on time to make it to the benefit. Instead, My boyfriend invited a friend to be his partner. Later that night, he told me that he danced with her and had ... (107 words)

What constitutes an emotional affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What constitutes an emotional affair? Where's the fine line of being good friends versus having an emotional affair with a friend of the opposite sex. My fiancee and I were just discussing this and realized that some of our friends have not been married for more than 5 year... (621 words)

Am I stupid to trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my Bf for 9 months now, We've been in a long distance relationship between europe and asia now for 3 months, Last week I met him for the first time since the long distance commenced. I found out that he had a one night stand (although he says that he didn't f... (287 words)

If we stay together, how can we rebuild trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you read my last plea for help, you know my situation consists of my latest boyfriend coming forward to tell me he cheated. We've since then Nov 12th, split and I have not talked to him since. Many think 'once a cheater, always a cheater', but I'm a firm believer in good ... (195 words)

40 and still a virgin...is sex painful for first timers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm 40 years old and have never had sex. I'm afraid of doing it because I've heard so many women say how painful it is the first time around. I want to enjoy it as much as my fiancee does but the fear is of the pain. I've had to ask my gynecologist to use the smallest ... (212 words)

Friends of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello... My fiancee and I were talking in regards to having friends of the opposite sex. He was close to his classmates back in highschool about 25 years ago. Most of them were females. He also had a next door neighbor family with whom his family were close friends with. Th... (801 words)

Please help me get the love of my life back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy on the internet. I'm not actually the prettiest of all but he accepts me for who I am and that's what makes him special. We often chat online and sometimes we talk on the phone. One day, he wanted to meet me in person. We met one night and we talked. He made me ... (256 words)

Long distance question......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it proper for two lovers to live far away from each other?... (13 words)

When a guy is all over you, is it a turn on or turn off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - girls; if a guy is constantly all over you, praising you (telling you how hot you are, randomly buying you things, texting you all the time, etc), while trying to court you is that a turn on or turn off? ... do you find that by his doing this you miss the "chase", or do y... (71 words)

Why do some people get into relationships easier than others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

- I'm 23 at uni and I get depressed when I see most people in relationships at university and get into them fairly easily. I have no problem asking women out (though I used to until recently) but then I seem to struggle to get into the relationship phase. It is depressing as I ... (143 words)

How can I forget about her after she cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an international student in this country, and I met my ex-girlfriend in the university before almost three months now. She is less than 2 years older than me. since we have been together my love to her became more and more deep everyday. She loved me too, I had felt tha... (610 words)

Does this mean he talks about me to friends and family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So the first time ever he actually said hi to me. Today at school his friends and my friends mess with us. When we talked last night people kept claiming he was talking to his gf. Does this mean he talk about me to friends and family?... (47 words)

Is it worth pursuing her anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So theres this girl and i like her a lot. about a month ago everything was good and she seemed to be very interested in me, she was very flirty and her face lit up whenever she saw me. Then about two weeks ago i started to get the vibe that something was wrong, like im annoying ... (147 words)

I'm absolutely sure that he likes me, but is just to afraid to ask me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, there's this guy that I really like, and everyone says that they know he likes me, but he's really shy and I don't think he'll ever get the courage to ask me out. I'm getting pretty sure that he likes me because we text all the time, stay together at school, etc. I know ... (102 words)

Trust or not trust

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

16 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married seven yr old, I never had sex before marriage and I expected my wife also must be virgin and I believed always she was virgin as she said/says but after 8yrs now she said everything about her past, now i understand that she had 2 boy friends whom she left for some ... (106 words)

Is there a chance we can be more than friends?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Situation: my friend and i are really really close. by the way we are both lesbians. we share common things: music, food, places, hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. i met her sophomore year in high school. but we got closer during senior year. we tell each other's problems... (221 words)

Move Forward or Move out

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So my story goes like this. My girlfriend and I started having some major problems around March of 2010, which culminated in May. We were having alot of trouble because she was generally unhappy with her job, and kept bringing problems home. After asking me for advice and help ... (1558 words)

What happens if a man does not have sex for a very long time?

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What happens if a man does not have sex or ejaculate for a long time? (I had an active sex-life up until 7 months ago, but none since, will it stop working and will i get prostate cancer?....) ... (43 words)

I think I'm with the wrong person and don't know what to do!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 23 and living with my boyfriend of two and a half years. I really think I'm with the wrong person, but I don't know what to do. We have been living together since about three months into our relationship and it's been a mess the whole time. Don't get me wrong, he... (276 words)

I don't know how I should feel now......

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - During the start of my junior year in high school I saw this girl in one of my classes. I thought she was really cute at the time and she would stare at me sometimes too. Its really corny but It sort of felt like love at first sight I guess. All I knew was I had to get to know ... (546 words)

He has given up on us! What can I do?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We were engaged to be married soon after a whirlwind romance and something terrible happened in my life and I turned to him for support. I was very hurt when he wouldn't talk it or offer me comfort or help. I foolishly called off the wedding and moved out just over a month ago. ... (192 words)

Is it better to be friends with your ex-boyfriend than having him out of your life?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. I am confused. My boyfriend and I are together for 1 .5 years already. We are in a serious and happy relationship. Yes, there are some misunderstandings but we resolved them all in the end. Just few days ago, we argue about something and it didn’t end good.... (412 words)

I love her but I think that love is slowly but shurely fading. What do I do?

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so i have been dating this girl for almos 5 months now but it just not the same as it was in the begining. In the begining we where like any other cuple talking all night on the phone till on of us would fall asleep. We would go and see movies alot with just one another and ... (113 words)

How long before you should have sex?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boy friend for a few years and we havent had sex yet? How long would be a good time to be with someone before you have sex with them? ... (34 words)

How do I get him to want me back?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Okay so a few weeks ago my boyfriend of eight and a half weeks told me that he loved me but didnt have romantic feelings for me anymore. He said he would try his hardest to get them back. Now, three weeks later he broke up with me. The other day he told me that he had been ... (352 words)

My children's father abandoned us, but his brother stepped in and saved the day.....is it wrong that we have fallen in love?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a single mother of two children. The father of my children abandoned us with nothing. No food, no money, and no secure shelter. When my children's father brother found out about the situation he provided us food and shelter. In this process we fell in love. Is it w... (122 words)

He has a thing for younger girls and I am worried he might try it on with me now I'm 18!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am a senior in high school and 18. For two years now I have been singing with diffrent musicians at diffrent venues. Now that I am "legal" I am able to sing in bars....I have a new musician Im working with named "tom"...tom is 33..he has an 11 yr old son who lives with ... (245 words)

Can I save my marriage before it's too late...or is it?

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I find myself horribly sad this holiday season. Thanksgiving was depressing, but as Christmas nears, I am racked with pain over my pending divorce. It has been a year since I confessed to having an affair to my wife. Since then, there has been nothing but sadness, hurt and ... (452 words)

He stares a lot and then looks away when I look back at him, does this mean he likes me?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - if guy stares at you a lot when you don't look at him and if you caught him staring at you and he turns away fast does it means he likes you or not. because i know someone who always looks at me but if i look at him back he stops looking at me i don't know is he into me or not ... (67 words)

Should I have faith in us even though he's with someone else?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated this guy who because of how we met I believe it was god leading us to each other, he 2 months ago, without telling me dumped me for someone else, even so there are signs that he still cares about me and misses me, my friends say I should just forget about him and I try ... (129 words)

How do I not make myself sick knowing that he is already with other women?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Just wondering if anyone can share advice on how to not make myself sick (hypothetically speaking) knowing that he is "with" other women? Boyfriend of two years cheated in the past and after trying to work through things many times, I've finally said "forget it,... (114 words)

Do you think he has feelings for me?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for almost 3 years. we met at a show of his (hes in a band) and we immediatly had a connection. At first, I was working for him, doing pr for his band. I did this for about 2 years. We would often hang out, and talked everyday. Things started to get heavy. ... (346 words)

I want to work it out but he's so stubborn to change!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - what kind of relationship am i in? hello reader i've been in a relationship for two yrs.and my boyfriend is crazy! he and i now live together with his mom! which she's not the problem actually we bond good now bette than last year when we first got together. but he use to be... (470 words)

After having one night stands why does she wants to take it slow?

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - why would a girl who has one night stands when she's single want to take it slow in a relationship? Seems to me that this girl is hotter for the guys she doesn't want to date... I don't get it.... (43 words)

Should I stick with this marriage?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 I have a three year old son and married for seven years, my husband is 54. There is the age difference and then our cultural background is starkly different as well; I am an immigrant. In the seven years that I am here I have not accomplish much. I have not been ... (978 words)

He's sending out mixed messages, what should I do!?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend been sending me mix feelings, all month and I don't know what to do! eh I start the story from the beginning. My friend and I been really good friends since the start of the school year. He's a freshmen and I'm a senior through... We started to talk to one another and ... (479 words)

Why Did I Get Married!?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Friends, I have posted here before in the pass with same problem "My Husband"! I meet my husband in March 2009 married him May 2009 I'm 30 he's 49 now it's a 1 year 7 months later and I'm struggling in our marriage! I feel like I been treated very badly when we fi... (824 words)

I don't want him! I want a proper guy!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I’m annoyed and confused about how I feel. Over the summer, I very nearly got into a relationship with a friend of a friend. We’d fancied each other for ages and both knew how the other felt. He’s not good-looking but he was really lovely. The problem was that we only spo... (319 words)

Signs a guy likes someone else?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know, what are some signs that a guy likes your friend and not you? );... (22 words)

Am I in love with him? Do I actually like him?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my best friend and I have been friends since the first grade. We were always hanging out, we were even on the same swim team for five years. I've known him my entire life! When we got into middle school, things got even more complicated. For instance, in the 6th grade I ... (333 words)

Do I have reasons to worry about his mom?

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16 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi all! My boyfriend is leaving to another country for 10 days this Friday and I'm fine with it, I want him to enjoy himself. However one thing slightly irks me.. His mom really doesn't like me a lot, calling me ugly and little nasty things throughout our relationship (1+... (168 words)

He wants a baby and I don't!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 18 years old and my boyfriend wants us to have a baby, and he is 21. i told him so many times that i dont want a child right now because i want to go to college and stuff. so i told him that we could just so he can be happy. but he didnt know i was on birth control. ... (109 words)

I'm wanting to make ex pay for what he did to me

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16 December 2010 (F)

age - I'm not sure what I am looking for here but, I need some kind of help with processing feelings I am having concerning my ex. My ex ended it with me 7 mths. ago after 7 yrs. together. He basically left me for someone else although, they did not get romantically involved until ... (385 words)

Girlfriend gets mad when I try to kiss her!

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16 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i don't get my gf i try to kiss her and she gets mad. i get frustrated when she doesn't kiss me and i only try to kiss her a few times a week! i tell her i love and she either says "Suck my d**K" or dido or dildo to be funny but never an i love you too... (60 words)

Love can make life eithr heaven or hell. I love her so much ill hurt someone for her

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16 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am Jason Im 18 I have this really great girl we are togetha for 7 months. She makes me feel great about myself, she loves me, thats my opinion im sure she loves me. Months later she started to cheat on me with an ex-friend naython and my current friend naython becoz she ... (207 words)

What is the Air Force like? Would you recomend someone for joining

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been looking into joining the air force because it seems like the best branch of military for me. My question goes out to the people who have already been in the ari force or not a lot about it. It isn't anything like the marines or army where you're on the ground fight... (186 words)

Standby my Friend or Fight for my Man

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have liked the same guy for a year. Everyday I awake up thinking about him, go to bed hoping tomorrow I will not think of him. We live in different States. When we meet it was only to be friends, I was in town for business. After just 30 minutes I felt something I never felt ... (436 words)

Did I miss my chance with this guy?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well were both in high school and he's a in a grade higher than me so we never talked or have classes with each other.He used to show signs of liking me such as staring at me,smiling and being near,he was hot and cold for 3 months so I was confused on his feelings. On this ... (315 words)

I'm scared about going to school pregnant!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im a 14 year old girl and im pregnant by my boyfriend of a year in a half. He is supporting me on everything but im so nervous to go to school by the time i get big. how do i handle the criticism of the kids in my school?... (50 words)

When I bring up marriage, he says "its not happening right now!"

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been dating 4 and a half years. We have a 1 and a half year old child. And just recently bought our first house together. When ever I bring up marriage he tells me its not happening right now. What do i do? Do I keep in this relationship? I want to be married, and have ... (74 words)

When he says "I dunno" does he really mean " I don't know"?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Long, jus' saying. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for a month, long distance. The first couple weeks were great - we were all over each other as far as wanting to talk to each other and enjoying each other's company. But then, it just... stopped. Like, ... (710 words)

Am I just an easy girl for him to play with?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I'm on and off with this guy for more than four years, we are sleeping with eachother for almost two years and I know that he is the man I love, I did so many sacrifices for him but I'm still not sure if he loves me or not, he plays it cool, he told me that he ... (101 words)

Do high school guys llike asian girls?

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a Freshman in highschool and this new guy moved to my school this year(also a freshman). He's 5'10 and I'm 5'2. Just thought that i should mention that i'm asian and not to sound full of myself but am NOT ugly. one question is do guy in high school find asian girl ... (238 words)

Every time we argue he tells me to sleep on the couch or leave!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - so I am not sure what to do about my relationship as of now were engaged,but he is having tons of problems with his ex and baby mama she is causing lots of drama for him and I battling court, visitation, child support. We have a child in common too. I feel alot of anger towards ... (99 words)

A problem with 2 guys!

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16 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confused with guys at this point. theres this one guy, we'll call him "Boy A", and we used to talk EVERYDAY on the computer via Skype, and ever since we met in real life and hung out 4 times, he now ignores my messages and only says a couple of words to me in the hall... (174 words)