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writes:Hi all girls there. I often hear girls saying I have a wonderful man/ boyfriend etc. i wonder what it take to be a wonderful man from the ladies point of view. well what it takes to be a wonderful man? is it wealth, look, traits,education or personality that one posses? i expect an honest answer.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Hi
Honest answer :)
My mans a pain in the ass! (half of the time) and i could punch his lights out often...then there is this other half, a wonderful man that i fell in love with...A certain truth about him that makes him strong, humour that wipes my tears and other people's. A warmth that makes him generous and good to be around.
It does not matter what he does for a living/ what he has or does'nt have/ he knows WHO he is HIMSELF and that is who i love and i can not see any outside image of him because he does not use this to define himself so i can't really define him either....he is simply him...and this is what makes him wonderful to me ( sometimes ) :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): I'm still young, however, I think I can try to answer this one.
So, I don't think wealth really matters, unless it's a very supperficial woman, and she's probably not worth it. Some women seek out wealthy men but if a guy is wealthy and is also a jerk they won't like him.
What really wins over women's hearts are them being funny and nice. Character overall. Don't you ever wonder why so many women complain about nice men being gay? If a man can make a woman smile and to get her laugh in dark times, this man becomes very special to her. As long as he makes her happy, he has a real chance.
However even if a man makes the woman happy, the woman may not want to be in a relationship or might be already in one so she might reject him, so don't get mad if it doesn't work.
Also, being handsome is kind of important. The way a person looks and physically acts influences a lot as to how someone else might see them, and I know this is how men look at women too (remember it has been proven that the first thing a woman observes in a man is his smell; if he smells like he hasn't showered in days, he's completely out!). Character may overcome a lousy appearance but for this to happen people must obviously know each other, they have got to interact.
For me, the order of importance to look into in a man is the following:
Character Appearance Education Wealth.
HOWEVER that is MY point of view. This may drastically vary within countries and cultures. I have learned to appreciate men this way, but other women may have been raised differently and have had other types of experiences that might have changed their point of view about this.
For example older, divorced women might be much more interested in wealth and background education than me, a teenager. College girls could also be more interested in the guy's physical appearance.
Girls coming from "orthodox" families that decide her love life might only be interested in the man's family, education and wealth. I believe this to be common in the middle east or simply in very religious families.
Good luck!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 Hahaha, many of the women I see post about having a wonderful man then ask why he's cheating on her! LOL
"He's so great and caring, but why does he hit me?"
"I'm in love with the greatest guy ever, but why won't he leave his wife?"
I'm curious as to what the ladies will say too.
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