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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while and I really do think I love him and when we text and talk and stuff he tells me he loves me very much. He tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl before in his life. He makes me feel good about myself and he makes me think that he really is in love with me. But then when we see each other in person, he doesn't tell me he loves me. He hugs me, a one arm up, one arm down kind of hug. I think he may just get nervous and shy because we always hang out in groups with other people. He apologizes later after we have left for not doing much and tells me he loves me. But does he really? Also, before our thing we have right now, there was a girl he never stopped talking about and said he was in love with. Then when we started talking and started getting really into eachother he said that he liked me way more than her and that he was leaving a good thing for a better thing. We are young, so, does he really love me even though he doesn't act like it in person?
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reader, Miss Misunderstood +, writes (2 January 2011):
 My boyfriend was the same way for the first few months that we had started dating. He would text me all the time about how much he loved me and couldn't wait to see me again, but with the both of us being very shy people being together in person was really quite awkward. However over time we warmed up to one another and he began expressing himself more in person, and I continued to do the same for him. Now he is completely comfortable around me.
Just give him time :) he probably just likes you so much that he gets nervous and is afraid of doing something that might cause him to embarrass himself. Just try to reassure him that you like him for who he is, and that you would really like to get to know him better and want him to just be himself around you. You guys will probably have a wonderful relationship in the near future. ^_^
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