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female
reader, missm83  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 fear of her squirting or spraying all over you..i have that prob.. :/ ..i know i squirt , and he has never been with a girl that squirted..so hes not sure how he would react... so i stop him and let him give me an orgasm from sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI definitely know that she's about to orgasm when her stomach begins to quiver and knees buckle, inaudible sounds etc. I asked her why it makes her uncomfortable and she told me that it was that she is afraid of letting go.
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female
reader, Fabulosa +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Why don't you ask her! There are many different reasons that can cause this. For instance she may be uncomfertable with herself, she may feel guilty for not "finishing" together, you may have rabit teeth, or she may just want to be penetrated. Only she knows the real answer.
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male
reader, JustinNki +, writes (30 December 2010):
 THE SAME THING MAN!!!!!
My gf refuses to let herself orgasm from being fingered or oral.
It pisses me off because i wanna satisfy her in that way.
I later found out that it had some deep reasons why she wouldn't let herself even when she was SO close.
she said she just didnt like it.
but it went back to stuff that happend to her when she was a child.
im not saying thats what happened to your gf but I mean you never know. We humans subconsciously do and act ways for a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): I've been with some woman that when they come they "spray". And they were terrified for the longest time to come in front of me.
Plus it could she's afraid you won't like the taste of her cum.
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female
reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (30 December 2010):
 There could be a number of reasons.
Bad past experience, perhaps she is afraid of what she tastes like? She could just not be comfortable with the idea of cumming in your mouth as some guys aren't comfortable with that either.
It sounds like its a personal preference for her. Talk to her and ask her. Make sure she knows its okay if she isn't comfortable with it, you just want to understand.
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male
reader, pitcrew3800 +, writes (30 December 2010):
 Don't be to sure she is not cumming. I have exs that soon as they get off would make me stop because they got SUPER sensitive after they came.
Main reason I am going with this idea is that she is "gasping" no.
If you can read your girlfriend and tell when she is about/is cumming you could try fingering her to continue the pleasure at the same time letting her clit de-sensetize alittle.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): yer, i have the same problem :/
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male
reader, pitcrew3800 +, writes (30 December 2010):
Don't be to sure she is not cumming. I have exs that soon as they get off would make me stop because they got SUPER sensitive after they came.
Main reason I am going with this idea is that she is "gasping" no.
If you can read your girlfriend and tell when she is about/is cumming you could try fingering her to continue the pleasure at the same time letting her clit de-sensetize alittle.
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