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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex makes me nervous, how can I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am extremely good at going down on my girlfriend, but she's getting tired of it and wants me to actually have sex with her now. Theres one problem though: I have not had a lot of sex in my life, and when it comes down to do the damn thing, I get nervous that I wont perform ... (80 words)

He asked me to be his F buddy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I had a one night stand with someone I met in a club. I don't usually do this kind of thing. After we had sex he basically asked if I wanted to be f*ck buddies with him. I was not expecting that at all. I also had to leave pretty soon after, but he walked me home. He texted ... (165 words)

Devestated after having a still birth. Should I make a career change based on my son's death?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I recently had a still birth. My son died because of an accedent from the umbilicol cord. I am so heart broken. I was suppose to return to work last month but told my job I still need time. But to honest I.don't ever see myself going back. I have always enjoyed my work as a ... (172 words)

I have a dream of marrying her? Could this mean true love or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and the girl i like is 18 years old she lives in another state. we been talking to each other for a year and half. I have feelings for her and i tell her everyday. yesterday i had a dream about marry her and it showed the same dream over and over again. my ... (77 words)

What does he mean when he looks at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So i find this guy at school really attractive and i notice he is always staring at me and when i look at him he looks away quickly or looks down then when i look away he starts staring at me again until i notice him again....what does this mean? ... (50 words)

He knows I'm checking him out, why won't he say hi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have a dilemma.. I’ve been going to the gym for about 2 years (at this location). There is this guy who’s pretty darn hot, probably mid 20s or so, but unsure. I’ve seen him for the past 2 – 2.5 years at the gym, and it’s been so confusing. I go to the gym to wo... (438 words)

What would my strict parents do if I tell them I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend (who is also 16) for over a month now. Our relationship is going quite well and we like each other a lot and we both think our relationship is getting quite serious. My problem is that my boyfrien... (260 words)

Loves me, but not in love with me. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I am deeply deeply in love with my gf but here's the problem she says she loves me too but she is not in love with me. I know we have been through a lot as a couple and she says because of that she has fallen out of love with me and me being more of a sensitive guy rather t... (107 words)

She switches boyfriends once a month, I want to be an option!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I like this one girl, one of my good friends, i knew her in elementary school but then we went to different middle schools, and just this year we both started going to the same high school. I can' take my eyes off her and we talk a lot and text a lot and i love her personality. ... (254 words)

Want a baby, but what about the risk of STD's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. what if you don't want to get STD's but u want 2 get pregnant. what do u do?... (19 words)

What makes a great blow job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I give my boyfriend better head? I've asked him what he likes, and what I should do, and he's given me a lot of input and advice the other day, but I'm still not 100% confident. Since then, I haven't gone back and put it to good use yet. Before I go for it, I wa... (147 words)

Does he want me to be a part of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age - First we start as friends but now it more than that we talk all thru the day he call me and i call him he's married and i am married. He is older than me, but i care for him, and he let me know that he cares for me. But he said to me he want me to stay his dearest friend in his ... (89 words)

He only seems interested in computer games and compost pile!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5 years and married 2. We have two children. We are having a problem in our marriage. We have been fighting for 3 years. We have some major cracks in our marriage. From money, to his parents, to the house we live in, even sex. Honestly I feel ... (134 words)

What's he up to? Is this friendly, rebound-y or is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I love my friend. He and I have had a rough go of it; we started out having a bit of a fling, but we never really communicated and it fizzled out, then he started being a douche and frequently ignoring me so I ignored him back. Then he came around and wanted to spend ... (357 words)

I can't compete with his ex fiance!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone :) Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months. Before i met him, he lived in america at uni for 5 years. he was with his ex for 4 years and they were engaged.he met me and split up with his ex for me, but i felt terrible about it!but hes said that it was pointles... (264 words)

I need to forget him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for 9 months but we broke up last month and i cant forget about him! I've tried everything i could think of like going out with other guys but it only made me feel worse.. I seriously can't forget about this guy. Were also not in contact with eachother. I ... (97 words)

How do I tell him I'd be happy to visit without inviting myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Not long ago I met an amazing man. He lives lives in another country. I met him the evening before he was flying back home. The chemistry between us was amazing. We talked for the whole night (until morning) in a bar/restaurant which is always open. And we slept together. I am ... (532 words)

Her attempt at making me jealous us rather annoying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is just plain and simple question, I have an ex and well me and her have remained friends since our break up over a year a go, it was not really mutual it was hard on her and hard on me. At first we still loved each other but slowly grew apart. We talk on a semi regular ... (311 words)

How do I keep my hands from being hot and sweaty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so basicly our school is doing social dance for p.e and my hands get all hot nd sweaty- how do i stop this :/ Thnx :) xxxx... (32 words)

My dad got mad because I wrote a guy's initials and a heart on my hand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my dad just pissed me off...i didnt know where else to go to get my mind off it and get some advice. i have a friend named Jared who i REALLY like. he likes me but the thing is he has 3 other girlfriends and im afraid to get hurt. and also i've never met him n person but ... (136 words)

Is he messed up or playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay here it goes my ex and i have broken up but we are tied together for always cos whe have a child now he said the reason why we broke up was cos he needed space and he didn't feel the same as he use to we have been together for 6 years he also said he wasn't ready for... (202 words)

She's leaving for Thailand in 1 month for 3 months, should I wait??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi ... so ive met this girl on the internet about 3 months ago, we have met up about 5 times as she lives 2hours drive away. weve had sex which was amazing and like each others company very much. but theres one problem.... shes going away to live in Thailand with ... (242 words)

I'lll never be able to accept he's with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, this is the first time I've ever done this so bear with me. I was with my ex for over 2 and a half years. When it was good, it was amazing and when it was bad, it was absolutely awful. I have a lot of insecurities and trust issues (was very badly bullied as a chi... (522 words)

My friend's torn between her marriage and lover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My 30 year friend just cheated on her husband. She has been with her hubby since they were 16. Married 4 years ago. They just had twin boys this June. She is a good person who made a really bad choice. A boy from her grade school, whom she hasn't heard from since 5th grade ... (368 words)

It takes him a day to respond to my texts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this guy on line, we hanged out and it was great he told me lots of things about his life. He even told me about his ex fiance, he told me your lucky im telling you this because i normaly never do. So after that night we made out and just holded hands. he didnt txt me ... (118 words)

In love with a much older guy, and afraid that I'll never find love like that with anyone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello people :) I'm kind of in a pickle at the mo :L well, I like someone younger than me, and he seems interested in me to and he has just asked me out to a dance. You're probably asking why that is a bad thing... Well, I am in love with someone who is 19 years older than m... (145 words)

Are there any herbs, or tablets I can buy that help with premature ejaculation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've suffered from premature ejaculation for years now and I finally plucked up the courage to go to the doctors about it. They prescribed me 30 Paroxetine (20mg) tables which is a form of antidepressant. I had one each day and literally after the 2nd day of me taking them I... (147 words)

Really need your help. How will I know if she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She seems to be a close friend of a mate of mine and we have spoken to each other briefly e.g. as she normally is there during breaks. She came up to me and said I look lonely and has joked around with me in class. She also said she finds me funny and overheard her a... (140 words)

I can't get over that he had a rebound girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So, my boyfriend of a year and I broke up (it was one of those that ended with "FINE!" "OKAY FINE!") this past August, and we recently (about a month ago) reconciled somewhat and are trying again and things have been going pretty well. However, not even two wee... (354 words)

Had enough of my fiance's mum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had enough with my mother in law to be,I've been with my fiancé for 5years and were both 22years old,I'm absolutely fed up of how his mum treats me,she had obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) and she is a alcoholic and she never eats, I've just had enough,I see my fiance ... (267 words)

He doesn't want normal sex with me, but he can have cyber sex with other women!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My story is kind of long so please bear with me. There is just so much I don't know where to start. I am going to try to make it as simple as possible. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. From the start he was never intrested in having sex, although he's had 4 ... (1082 words)

He tries to cover up his erection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, every time me and my boyfriend hug he gets a erection but when he does he moves away from me.like we're on the sofa cuddling and he just moves away from me i don't want him to keep moving away from me evey time why'd he do tha? what should i say to him? thanks ... (56 words)

Do some guys act this way even though they love their girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am receiving mixed signals from my current bf. And I really don't know, does he love me or not? First thing that I don't like, he rarely calls or msgs me on my mobile phone. Except only if he is coming to see me (he lives 2 hours away), thats when he calls like crazy. Howe... (294 words)

I'm not happy about my girlfriend's pregnancy, I don't want to let my dreams and goals go down the drain!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We found out a couple weeks ago that she is pregnant, and she's ecstatic, I am more reserved. When we found out our reactions were very different, she was happy, I was upset. To cut a long story short she has decided to keep it, but I don't think ... (195 words)

How can a 13 year old girl flirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am absolutly head over heels in live with a tenth grade boy. But I'm only in eigth grade. He is perfect. He's funny, a gentleman, freespirited, and just all around amazing. Well I don't know how to lightly flirt. All I ever do is talk to him like a friend. But he is so much ... (73 words)

How many of your trust your 'gut instinct' when it comes to relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How many of your trust your 'gut instinct' when it comes to relationships? Me and my bf have been having alot of problems lately and I ended the relationship (which hurt me so much) a few months ago. Ever since then my bf has been constantly phoning, texting and writing me l... (212 words)

Should I put a 6 month plan in place to be with her? Or leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, some advice please, thankyou. Iam 27 (maybe a little old for writing on here) and started dating a girl 4 months ago. We new each other briefly from college years ago and met up randomly in a different town. We dated and quickly liked each other. Unfortunately af... (571 words)

Why did I cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 years old have a baby and a wonderful husband. We've know each other for only 3 years but i have always felt he is the love of my life.. except for now im not sure anymore. 3 months ago i cheated on him and made out with another guy and since then we've seen each other a ... (286 words)

I can go without sex, but not hugs, kisses, and love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone! I am a 19 years old guy, obviously not from Antartica. I am writing here becouse i feel like i have to share with someone else something that never comes up in my blog, or anywhere else i share with people stuff that's in my mind. In my life i've only had on... (431 words)

She keeps telling her exs she loves them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - We've only been together for 3 months and the feelings were very intense in the beginning, you can call it infatuation if you want but the girl is not my match in many ways but I try to love her for who she is but the biggest problem is that she doesn't talk much and doesn't ... (299 words)

No, means no!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy when I was walking home from university the other night, we talked and I ended up getting his number. Last night he came over to my place to "hang out" and he all but told me he loved me! We did kiss, and he seemed to want more as I had to keep telling him to b... (135 words)

We took a break for him to be sure I am the one, and he slept with so many women! Now we are back together he doesn't trust me, what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We took a break for ten months just so that he was sure i am the one wants to spend the rest of his life with but now i have changed as i am pissed and hurt because he slept with so many women now we are together and he says he doesnt trust me.... what do i do?? fyi if i marry ... (72 words)

I'm still not over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently had a lot of trouble getting over a break up. It happened a few months ago and I'm still not over her. I feel the reasons were unjust and upon asking again why, the same reasons...I could talk to nearly anyone about it before but now I don't talk to anyone. I try ... (134 words)

Will this cause my lips to stretch and enlarge them permanently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy has taken to giving me oral quite often. In the process he finishes off by sucking on my inner lips, one of which is naturally a bit longer than the other. The oral is good and usually causes me to orgasm, but the sucking can become uncomfortable. Could this lea... (80 words)

I'm really worried about my sister.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

- I'm really worried about my sister, shes a few years younger than me and this time last year her boyfriend of a year (who she has known all of her life) cheated on her with her best friend and she was completely devastated. Me and my family thought she was never going to get ... (276 words)

I thought we were just dating and going to see what was happening, but now he wants a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing a guy for 3 weeks, we have had sex and he has stayed ove my house a lot. now he says he needs a break to figure things out and that he isnt in love with me and that we werent in a relationship. but he has said and texted "luv u" a lot and got aggravated when ... (149 words)

I cannot understand why my boyfriend spends time with these kind of people and its making me question his personality

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a lot of different friends some I like some I don't but that is kind of normal - after all they are his friends - but a couple of them in particular have been very rude about me and yet my boyfriend continues to be friends with them, and never had it out with ... (219 words)

What can I do to rekindle my sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 just got married to the same person i've been with for the past 17 years. i've lost my interest in sex what can i do to rekindle my sex life.... (33 words)

What did we do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance' tried the squirting thing we just couldn't get I was embarrased because I accidentally pissed on myself, what did we do wrong?... (26 words)

I hate sex because of the problems it caused in my parents marriage, how can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I hate sex because my parents had problems in their marriage due to sex. It has left me to feel negative about sex and the whole relationship concept which revolves around sex. I feel afraid of entering into any relationship for the fear of things getting out of control due to ... (55 words)

What is a relationship meant to be like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What is a relationship meant to be like? I am in my first one (I am 24) and have been with him for three years. He is 40. I only have films as reference, but I always assumed that a relationship will have lots of intimacy, fun, laughter and occasional falling out. My relati... (339 words)

What should I do? Letting her go is not an option.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - knew her for 2 weeks for now and i love her and she loves me to we had a date and we should have the other date monday where she invited me but i don't feel the same way she is the girl that i wanted for a long time but now at first i loved her but im losing that interest s... (319 words)

Is this his way of trying to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this his way of trying to make me jealous? My ex partner and i split up several monthes ago, we had been seeing each other for 7yrs and had had 2 children whom are still young. Our relationship had been an odd one as he didnt live with me and our children for most of the t... (271 words)

He went behind my back last year with an ex, and now another ex wants to meet up with him! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After the first year of being together my boyfriend went behind my back, met up with for coffee, and saved half naked photos of her on his computer. He didn't tell me, but it all came out in the end. We rowed and decided to give it one last go. It's been just under a year since ... (118 words)

If 6 years of not talking hasn't worked, what will stop these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to be a long one. I met this guy online years ago and we clicked, We were great friends, but then we started falling for each other. Because he lives in another country I pushed him away and we stopped talking. We haven't been in contact for about 6 years, b... (182 words)

He is separated from his wife, but they are yet to proceed with a divorce. Does this count as cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with a guy who has been separated from his wife for a year. He has a 2 year old daughter with his wife, and that is why he claims it is "complicated" and they have not yet decided whether to move forward with the divorce. Does that count as cheating? ... (53 words)

I know I will never fulfill my dream of getting married because of our opposing views, how do I change my way of thinking so I can be more positive from now on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We get along really well, and we have loads of fun. Lately, I've been thinking how much I'd like to get married. This time last year, after we'd been dating 9 months, my boyfriend told me (out of nowhere) he had doubts about... (633 words)

I've finally stopped denying that I am gay, but I have zero experience with men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys/gals, So I have a bit of a problem; I've basically lived my entire life in sexual self-denial. I've been with girls, had girlfriends, I've been told I'm good looking, etc ... but I'm gay. I can't deny it any longer and the thought of being with another guy (bot... (270 words)

I'm in love with my English teacher 18 years my senior, and I can't get over it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so this is quite common on this site i hink.. I've seen similar questions around.. but anyways, I'm a 16 yr old high school student, and I'm just about to finish my final year next year. there's this teacher who comes in occasionally as a sub and I've developed a MASS... (291 words)

Could he possibly be bi and hasn't discovered it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been in love with my bestfriend for about 5 months. I am 18 years old and my bestfriend is 17 but is very mature for his age. He has no idea how i feel about him. He claims he is gay and is only attracted to men but sometimes he makes me wonder. We have been ... (394 words)

Girlfriend is texting her ex......I'm getting worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend used to go out with a guy years ago, (for the sake of this lets call him Sam) but then he cheated on her with her best friend. She was obviously very upset and didn't talk to him for a while. But because they where in the same circle of people she eventually began ... (284 words)

I cant get my head around why we couldnt make it work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up, (he broke up with me) because he said he didnt love me and he was too busy. which is fair enough, I appreciated his honesty on the matter. We decided to stay friends. I saw him last week and we were speaking about things and he pointed out that he did ... (142 words)

How do I improve my self-confidence and get out from this vicious circle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship history is fighting against with commitment phobia- actually don't know so much "the real relationship" Shamefully. All the begining is "he crashed on me" at the first sight --including the miserable marriage in 20's-- Now I am ashamed and feel I am not c... (749 words)

I feel like this relationship is a waste of time when all he does is play Warcraft!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. ive been with my boyfriend a while now. and just recently he has been playin Warcraft a lot.. it doesnt bother me that he plays it.. but i only see him on weekends and just recently, he been just been playing this game for like 6 hours at a time. i ask him to watch a movie ... (241 words)

I feel like he doesn't want to be friends...he just wants to harass me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused! I broke up with my ex about a month and half ago. For a month we didn't talk but I really still wanted to have a good relationship with him as friends eventually. I knew it wouldn't happen right away but I wanted to make it clear to him that it was what ... (680 words)

He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will someone please explain how he ... (59 words)

Why is my Girlfriend Dry during and before sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Just wondering if any of the readers here have had their partners having issues with lubrication?. Ive been with my partner years now, we have both been STD tested, are monogamous and trying for a baby, so dont use protection. This weekend though we had real issu... (303 words)

Is it weird to be horny during your period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess women when there on their monthly period say Sex is off limits because being on their rag messes up their mood..but i am different 'i still want to have Sex when i am on my period, so is this Normal..and i hate guys that thinks it is gross to have Sex with a female that ... (94 words)

My husband told my family that we are together only for our child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i recently had a big fight. He made an statements to my in laws that he dont care to me and he only cares to my son. He also said to them that we are not gonna work out. We are currently living to his parents house. After all the statements he told them i ... (107 words)

Tampons are hurting me, why is this?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently started using Tampons and there the good kind (tampax pearl)but they hurt, i know Tampons are suppose to be comfortable and your not even supposed to feel them in you but there hurting me when i walk and sit..Why could this be??... (45 words)

My guy gets charley horses during sex?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my fiance get those charly horse leg cramps during Sex, it kills the whole mood and how could he stop getting those cramps..specially during Sex??... (27 words)

Why wasn't I enough for him?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am alone and he is with the girl he cheated on me with. Why did he do this? What did I do wrong? I made dinner for him every night or went and got it? Would try and do nice things for him once a day, dressed up in sultry lingerie every night? Went down on him every single ... (69 words)

Homeless brother wants to move in but I don't want him moving in on my wife!

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Wtf do I do? My younger brother lost his job, is broke and has been living with a friend who kicked him out. He called me tonight crying homeless and wanting me to take him in. The thing is he's a dog from way back whenit comes to sexing every chick I either liked or hooked up ... (94 words)

My cheating husband--is he a pedophile? a sex addict?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age - I just found out a few months ago my husband of 19 years has been seeing a girl who is a crack addict/prostitute for 14 years (off and on - whatever that means) In addition to her there have been others, I don't know how many, he refuses to talk about it! I am 17 years younger ... (590 words)

Are mens egos that fragile

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6 December 2010 (F)

age - I broke up with a man a little over two years ago. We dated for six months,but didn't consummate the relationship due to some health issues he had. We ended up friend despite him playing games like trying to make me jealous only six weeks after our breakup and him sending ... (366 words)

Its going to be long distance for us and I don't want to deal with all the miserable feelings!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and my ex-boyfriend is 20. Let me give you our background. We had been dating for a 1 1/2 years when he decided to go into the Marines. I was and still am happy for him! He left for bootcamp and we stayed together. Bootcamp consisted of 3 months with just let... (479 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to spend any time with me when his family is in town

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years now. We are both 21. We have our fights here and there but overall it's great. A week ago his sister came to visit, she lives in another country. He usually sees her every year or so. He has been spending most of the ... (237 words)

How much do you love me? How do you answer that?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i have this boyfriend that lives in a different state so we dont get to see eachother much..but i really love him and a couple of times hes asked me how much i love him..i just get lost for words! How can i explain it?... (47 words)

Tips on making out?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a average teenage girl and this guy I like wants to makeout with me, but I have never madeout with anyone befoore! Do any of you have tips so I don't.. "suck" at making out ? Thanks :) ... (42 words)

Should I be bothered by my girl sleeping with my friend before I met her? I feel like its my fault.

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so this is the situation: I was drinking with a bunch of guys at the bar, and a girl who mutually knew my friend came along. Her and I ended up chatting and having quite the conversation regardless how loaded I was but my friend ended up sleeping with her, which was n... (478 words)

Sex has become painful!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I need help! I'm stumped. I've been married 2 years to a great guy... lately we've been having some problems. Well, not really problems - life is just HARD! (I realize this is one of those revelations that few people receive :P ) Anyway, my big problem, which i... (186 words)

Interracial 3some

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 8 years. We have hit the point where I think some spice in the sex department would be nice. My wife is pretty conservative when it comes to sex, but I also know she can really get into it sometimes. I also know, it is a standing joke with us, that she ... (110 words)

He hit me! Did I deserve it?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and a half. I have a 7 month old child with him. I just moved into my own condo. He does not live with me due to his alcoholism. I was at his house visiting him and watching the football game with him. I didn't know ... (187 words)

Will our babies be affected since we are cousins?

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Tami and I are gonna move to Virginia Beach this summer and move away from our family. Since we were young we both been physically, mentally,and sexually abused. We both have alot in common not alot of people understand why we are so close together. So, we decided to move and ... (82 words)

He says this woman is like a sister to him. Is that just a line?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is good friends with a woman he once had a sexual relationship with. They'e known each other for 13 years. When we first started dating three years ago, they stopped speaking for a long time (2 years). He continued to contact her during that time and they ... (242 words)

How long to please him?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How long do i need to give my boyfriend a blow job to please him?... (15 words)

Where have all the good, single men gone?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm a single mom of 2 and I'm 21. I also go to school at nights. I want to kno how I can meet a good guy and wher do u meet theese good guys? I always find assholes and cheaters I can't seem to pic them well. And I don't have much free time being a full time mom and part ... (131 words)

Boyfriend got another girl pregnant...what should I do?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...well I met my boyfriend 3 years ago and we started dating pretty soon after that. I've dated a few guys before him but he was the first guy I ever fell in love with. Things were awesome for about a year before I had to move several states away. We had always planned on ... (518 words)

How do I make her realize what she did was very foolish

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend went visit a friend at college. She's 17 and went to a college party and drank alcohol. I wasn't mad about that, but she hasn't drank large amounts of alcohol all at once ever. She told me she had 9 shots, 3 mixed drinks, and 2 beers all in about 5 hours. I also ... (205 words)

A 22 year old and a 16 year old??

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and there's this 22 year old guy I started talking to over the internet... At first I was experimenting with talking to older guys because I was curious to see really how much different it'd be if looks and appearances weren't in the process of getting to know someone. I... (248 words)

Why was I dealt all the bad cards when it comes to love?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why was I dealt all the bad cards when it comes to love?I've never had any luck keeping a man.I'm not happy with anything about me so all my life I go to married men for love because they don't have to put effort into me other than having sex with me. I have ruined a lot a ... (169 words)

How do I tell my overseas boyfriend that I was raped and got herpes from it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a year. He is deployed in Iraq and a month ago I was attacked and raped. I'm so depressed since this happened and I also got herpes from this. I am completely devastated. I haven't really been talking to my boyfriend ... (171 words)

Should I drop him? Or stick it out and put up with it?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this really popular, extroverted guy who is impossibly shy around me. I'd understand if we hardly knew eachother, but we've been "friends" for well over 3 months, and we went on a study abroad trip in the same group. The more he gets to know me, the shyer he becomes ... (172 words)

Why is he making out with me when he has a girlfriend?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - what does all of this mean? so there is this dude at my school who will hug me every time he sees me- no lie. and hes the one who started it. anyways, the other day we were standing outside for carriders, it was cold, and he sees me comes over and hugs me. about 15 seconds ... (204 words)

Why can't I orgasm when we have sex?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my bf have sex i just cant seem to orgasm. he alwas gets off before i can even come close to it. is there something wrong with me?... (31 words)

My boyfriend is non-verbaly presuring me to have sex

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do. i feel that I dont want to have sex with my boyfriend, and he told me, 'only when your ready" but i feel like hes expecting me to. I dont know what to do. Ryzar ... (62 words)

Can my boyfriend's laziness be cured?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just going to jump into this because I hate long intros. My boyfriend of 2 years constantly forgets to pick up after himself. He leaves clothes all over the floor, trash everywhere, always forgets to do the few chores I've put him in charge of, and is generally scatter ... (214 words)

My girlfriend was nursing her 3 year-old!

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a new gal for the last several months. She is wonderful in every way. She has a cute 3 1/2 year old son. I was at her house a week ago and she took her son upstairs to put him to bed. It took a long time, so I thought she may have fallen asleep on his bed ... (134 words)

My best friendship is dying!

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this isn’t a bf gf question it’s for my best friend who might as well be my sister. We have been the best of friends for about 5 months I think...I don’t know time fly’s when I’m with her. Hers the problem I feel like our friendship is slowly dying. When I’m with her it’s ... (445 words)

Am I really a lesbian?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im a 15 year old girl from london, and OMG i adore my teacher!!! yea i spose it happens to everyone and all that, but this is different. SHE IS A WOMEN. but honestly, she is soooo cute. shes about 5 foot with blonde hair and beautiful big blue eyes, and she is the prettyest ... (96 words)

He's TOO protective of his Facebook!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have gone out over a year now and have been thru ups and downs. I love him dearly and I believe he does. He loves facebook and is very active to a point I can not accept. He is very cautious and protective about his facebook, whenever he uses my laptop he never ... (215 words)

I'm not ready for sex and now he's avoiding me!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - write im 14 and my bf (14) told me to go to his house after school so i did and we went and sat in his bedroom and played black ops for ages and wen we started kissin we got in his bed and we wanted to have sex but i wasnt ready and ran out but he hasnt talked to me in a few ... (90 words)

Is this a FWB or something more?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age - I know that these types of arrangements typically don't last that long and usually end when one of the two people start to have feelings for the other or one of the people gets a BF/GF. I don't even know what to call the situation that I am currently in. I can't call it... (172 words)

My clock his ticking and he doesn't seem to care!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for a few years. Things were great in the beginning. Over time he has stopped being affectionate, however he does want to be with me all the time. I have tried to talk to him many times over the past couple of years and he won't talk about ... (320 words)

How do I revive my marriage

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6 December 2010 (M)

age - I have been married since 1967 to my wife,we have 3 children all married and 7 grand children.I was a drinker and a flirt almost all our life,I quit drinking without any help 12 years ago,I only wish I had done it 39 years ago.My wife and I had good sexual relations,and we ... (192 words)

I am being ignored by my boyfriend! Am I too clingy?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a month on wednesday. We met about a month and a half before we actually got together, and our personalities just clicked right away. It's a long distance relationship at the moment with plans to move closer to each other eventually (preferably ... (499 words)

How can I attract a guy at a college party and be more sociable?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old girl in college. I enjoy hanging out with friends, trying new things, participating in clubs, but my question is about the party scene. I enjoy going to parties- dancing, drinking, hanging out, etc. However, I always hear stories about how this friend met ... (180 words)

She dyes her hair more than any woman I know!

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6 December 2010 (M)

age - My girlfriend seems to be obsessed with finding the right color for her hair. First she wants it darker then lighter then highlighted etc. Not only does she talk about it way more often than anyone Ive ever known but has colored it may times and will buy hair color a... (114 words)

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorced with 3 children but for almost 3 years I have been with "Joseph". We took the first year fairly slow despite very strong feelings on both ends. It did not take long for us to fall completely in love and he has since become a part of our family. My kids are very ... (398 words)

My wife wants a threesome with my co worker

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a bisexual man who has been married to a wonderful woman for 14 years. I am also having a sexual relationship with a man I work with. My wife knows about this relationship, but now she wants to join us for a threesome. I think this is wrong, but she says it will turn her ... (62 words)

Men, what are your favourite sex positions and why?

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Men, what are your favorite sex positions and why?... (9 words)

I hate his psycho ex girlfriend!! Help!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for some months now. I am 21 and he is 24. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship with 2 different women. I met my boyfriend way back almost 6 years ago true significant friends and we've been friends ever then but since june 2010 we start ... (943 words)

A year and a half later and I have yet to meet my online love!

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6 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with a girl 11 years younger than me, (same age as my ex-wife) I met her on the internet about a year and a half ago. We met on youtube, and started communicating via email, then chat, then phone conversations. She lives two states away from me, about 8 hours and ... (391 words)

WIth our history and families being friends, we might be together forever?

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6 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - ok 1st of all im sorry this is kinda long but thanks for the answers that yall give me! me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months! we have MAJOR history with each other for example we have known each other since we were 4 years old! we've hung out at parties ... (321 words)

I feel like this is what a real marriage is about, being friends and having a sexual attraction for your mate.

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old, married, mother of two. I am very bored with my 20 year marriage. I have come to realize I married my husband for the wrong reasons (stability, maturity, and fear of loneliness stemming from my childhood). So, basically my marriage has been a lie that I am ... (333 words)

I don't understand where my confidence has gone!

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6 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! Ok so heres my problem. Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now,love him too bits and we still have an great sex life. The only problem is that about a year ago my sex drive took quite a major dip! I got my drive back now, but ever since then i feel lik... (166 words)