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They're both so different, which should I pick?

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Question - (5 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me.

Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue) but never actually fight, and i'm comfortable around her.

But there is another guy who flirts with her (i never really liked him and he's kind of a nerd, but really good at sports like me) and he knows her better than me and longer than me (since kindergarten)While i've known this girl since 6th grade).

Girl 2 is a little prettier than girl 1, funny and does so sexual things to me, like touch and pinch my butt(its sooo awesome and there is a difference between the two trust me).

i am a little more attracted to girl 2 and like the personality of girl 1 a little more.

Dont get me wrong they are both super hot and both have great personalities.

I am comfortable around both, but each has one trait that is a little better than the other.(which is surprising since i am not usually very comfortable around pretty girls and these are the prettiest 2 i know - it's kind of weird)

People tell me that i should go out with girl 2. And girl 1 i have more competition with. They both are friends with me but i want to know them better. Which one should i go for and how do i get to that person better?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):

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Thanks 4 the help I REALLY appreciate it!!!!!!

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A female reader, partyprincess2011 Canada +, writes (5 January 2011):

partyprincess2011 agony aunthi, urmm from the way u described them i think you know that with girl 1 it would be a serious relationship, but personality is more important than looks. But with girl 2 it would be fun, but probably wont last and i think u might b attracted to her cos shes hot but think about compatibility and relationships that last, because if u pick one of them and it only lasts a week so u decide to ask the other one out she will be put off that ur last relationship didnt last so think about that when u makde ur decision, because thats whose got to decide - you! Not us! So make the right decision and go with ur heart! Good luck hun x

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A female reader, missyfit United States +, writes (5 January 2011):

missyfit agony auntI can't really choose for you because in the end it's your decision. From my conclusion, I think you like girl 1 better than girl 2. My reason is that you are only attracted to girl 2 for her sexuality. (of course you're a guy, you would like that very much.) But what I'm trying to say is you even said you are comfortable with girl 1 and she has a great personality.

I say persobality is better than looks... but it's totally your choice.

Good luck hun.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):

Go with your gut, thats always your best choice, it really is!

If your looking for a playful relationship, go with 2, if you want a serious relationship, pick 1

It sounds like girl 2 definately likes you though, if she's pinching your butt and stuff... She wouldnt do that if she didnt like you

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