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writes:Hey Guys Thank You for taking the time to read my question. I live in a neighborhood where all the houses are really close, but we all tend to keep to ourselves. I live across from this family and they are nothing but wonderful people!One year i started talking to their son, and now we are becoming really good friends, out of nowhere i started to develop a little crush on him, it went away here and there, but i decided to talk to him one night.We are talking and i proceeded to tell him that i was afraid to go outside and smoke a cigarette because my mother had put the alarm on. I told him i would just wait until i was alone to smoke.He told me he was never alone, so by my crush on him i decided to flirt and say "well my house is always open you know, if you want to come over"he makes a joke out of it and says "one day you are gonna come home and i will be kickin it on your couch" i said "well really i am always alone, and bored"and he goes "haha Dont Tempt Me"I have no idea why he said dont tempt me, as of now we have not spoken yet, this happened two days ago, i am lost and confused, did i do something wrong and does he like me?
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reader, cat lady +, writes (8 January 2011):
 in re:why didn't he just come over?
His parents may have wisely taught him that outside of housewarmings and emergencies, dropping in on people is bad manners. If you live with your parents, it's their house and he has to wait for an invitation from them. What he cannot do is visit the daughter of the house without the knowledge and permission of the parents. It just isn't done among people with decent breeding, even these days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioninstead of saying dont tempt me? why didnt he just come over?
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reader, cat lady +, writes (6 January 2011):
Your neighbor boy might have meant nothing at all, too! I might say 'don't tempt me' if somebody suggests getting a pizza. Maybe he just wants to get out of the house and away from his relatives for a while. You're next door and that's a nice convenient solution. Behave as a moral, decently-bred girl and he'll have no reason to think YOU meant anything else by what you said to him. But just for good measure, make sure you have family around and invite him for lunch or coffee so you can be properly introduced.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): yeah he tried. alot of guys would say somthing like that. he was in the mood to have sex with you. i guess thats his way of trying to make u feel like you dont always have to be alone.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (6 January 2011):
 He took your comment about being alone and bored all the time as a possible invitation for sex. Most guys would.
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