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*'m saleem. Help me
writes:I love a girl last one year. She is very beautifull. I yet didnt spoke to her. I used to follow her daily on the school campus. Once she smiled to me and i also replied with a smile. I always looked into her eyes and i felt she is looking me also. My friends shouts my name when she comes near. I knew that she has another relation but i am not sure. So i stopped following her 1 month back. I now want her love. What to do?
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reader, foolishsage  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Oy - just ask her if she's seeing someone special. The direct approach is good more often than not. Just be ready to play the fool and clown around after asking something so directly. If she says that she is seeing someone, mime your way through pulling an arrow from your chest and then say, "but I bet he doesn't have the same flair for drama as me." (Keep in mind that many girls will say that they are seeing someone even if they aren't - get her attention and get into a 3 minute conversation with her and get her phone number.
Oh - and if she says "no, she's not seeing anyone special", then do something goofy and maybe look at her a little off kilter and tell her that it could be because her eyes are a little too close together but you might be willing to look past it. Be a confident clown with a straight face - say things that are different from the last 10 guys that tried to hit on her and have fun.
And yeah - quit stalking her, that's just creepy.
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reader, 3000AD  +, writes (5 January 2011):
Saleem, You can't be following someone without them knowing. That's called Stalking, and if you are not careful she could find out and get scared away!!
I recommend that you don't follow her behind her back, and you should maybe ask one of her friends who might know if she has a boyfriend. Asking her directly won't do much good, unless you want her to know that you are interested in her!
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