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I really like my brother's friend!

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Question - (5 January 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aura94 writes:

I really like my brothers friend who is 21 where as i'm 16 and i have liked him for a long time and i think he might like me as well but not to sure, i want to ask him out but i don't know how my brother and rest of the family would feel if we went out, as my brother hardly talks to him as he hasn't got much time to see him.should i ask him out and any idea how my family and brother mainly would feel?

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A female reader, laura94 United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2011):

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laura94 agony auntthanks everyone I told my parents and my brother they didnt have an issue with it except my dad who doesnt really matter as he stopped talking to me. we did go out in the end.

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A female reader, malibooty1 United States +, writes (9 January 2011):

Well see how he feels thenn if he would want a relationship then yu let him know yur gonna tell them but dnt tell them tht yu and him talked about it jus act like yu wanted to talk to them first.

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A female reader, laura94 United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2011):

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laura94 agony auntthe issue is my parents have told me to be happyknow matter what, but they have known his guy for over 7years aswell, and not sure if they would approve or not

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A female reader, malibooty1 United States +, writes (7 January 2011):

To be honest that has happened to me plenty times it really all depends on how yur parents feel or yur brother everyone is difderent but for me it is the same age exact

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntwell if you think that way is best then it is entirely up to yourself. i would just imagine that it would be better talking to them first at least then they know that you value there opinion because you went to them first before you asked him out. But its completely up to yourself whatever you feel is best for yourself.

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A female reader, laura94 United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2011):

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laura94 agony auntthanks, but not sure which would be easier asking him out first then see what he says then tell them?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntI think that if you are worried about how your family or brother would react then maybe it would be best to talk to them about it first. Sit them down and tell them that you really like X and that you would like to ask him out and see how they feel. Its probably better you talk to them first therefore you will feel better about asking X out knowing how your family feel about it. Goodluck.

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