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writes:Ok so I'm in love with my girl best friend. Its very complicated so I will start from the beginning. Well I have known this girl from like 3rd grade. So were really good friends till highschool. Since then she had crush on me for like a year but I wasn't interested and i was also kinda dating this one girl. So she kinda got over me and we became best friends. When we were in senior year she got a boyfriend, this soccer player who is like 5 years older than her. Well when the 2nd semester of my senior year started ,we went to a party together(we were kinda flirting together and also intimately touching each other since she told me about her feelings towards me) and we were bit drunk so we went little further and i touched her breast and she my penis through jeans. This was all happening while she had a boyfriend. Since morning after I m in love with her. I cant think about anything else but her for more like a year. Well obliviously fought it a bit ,but then I started seducing her( what was wrong from me since she had boyfriend)so like 2 months ago we slept together( well we went to dinner with our friends and then went to my place and had a little party,we got a bit drunk,so everyone left but her and we had some more wine and then we just kinda started kissing and we ended up in bed together).SO here finally is my problem-- I woke up in the morning as happiest person alive ,because im in bed with bestfriend who looks like victoria secret model and I love her to death. So I waited till she woke up and she's like 'omg i made huge mistake' ( i was expecting that she will break up with that guy) and then she talks about how she loves us both and that she doesn't know who to pick. I couldn't believe whats she saying. I though that if she cheat on someone she will probably break up with that person. I know it's all my fault she cheated on him ,because she was drunk and i was seducing her for like a year.So i made a house call to her dorm and there she says to me that she will still be with him but we can be fwb. I could believe my F***ing ears. I mean it was like talking to a whole different person. I yelled that i m her best friend and that i love her way more than her boyfriend that i cant imagine not being with her so she started crying. I hugged her and told her she needs to pick one of us and left. So she broke it off with her boyfriend and afterthat it was probably best two months of my life.So 2 days ago her ex went to here room for this ring he got from his dad or something. I actually saw the ring 4 days ago so i know it's true. He got there was like 9 o'clock and there was a party that night. She was little drunk and they got talking at least that's what i heard from my friends and then they went up to her room. I came around 11 o'clock and i saw them together in bed together kissing. I think my world stopped for like 5 seconds so i tried to pull the guy out of bed what he recognized like I was trying to beat him up and he hit me in the face. So I said what are you doing and he hit me for second time. Then i got really pissed ( I m doing Thai box since i was 10 ) so the police arrested me and took him to the hospital. I got bailed out by my brother. I called her to come to my place so she did and she was constantly apologizing and i said i need some time to think. I haven't seen her or called her for like a day. I talked to all my friends but they don't have similar experience, so i went online. My questions are should i forgive her? Will she do it again? how can i trust when i know how we started and now she cheats again. I m really confused. I want to forgive her since i love her some much but I will be probably jealous till I'll be with her. It's driving me crazy.I m probably a jerk because she left that guy for me so I should forgive her
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean she loved her exboyfriend at the same time as me. And chose me to be with. I know that it can happen again but I just can't imagine life without her. I m so emotionally attached to her. Before this incident I could imagine rest of my life with her. People can change so I going to give her another and last chance. Although it's going to be really hard for me to get over it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Nope..she seems very easy, it will happen again and again.
By saying she left that guy for u.. u mean he was better for her?
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reader, SnowStorm51 +, writes (5 January 2011):
I have a philosophy of once a cheater, always a cheater.... she cheated on her boyfriend with you, then you saw her with the other guy again.... do the math. What do you think will happen again
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