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writes:Hey guys,there is this girl i met, we spend a lot of time together. It was really romantic, we kept kissing and we sat next eachother holding hands. She came from bad relationships i knew this but i kinda rushed it.. so she took a bit distance. When i asked her why she told me ''i don't want no obligations now'' It's good the way it is'' So I said will you go eventually for me then? She said yeah, i will. But it was weird for me, if you like me and stuff why not now?:P So i kept talking and talking.. really havent left her alone until we had a big argument after that she told me to leave her alone, but i kinda tried to sweattalk my way out of it, guess what.. didnt work :P made it even worse tbh. At first it was normal that we talked so much, she is the one that changed but she hasnt even noticed it, she thinks I just talk too much. After the big fight we didnt really talk anymore, i kept sending her messages about my stupid behaviour but she didnt respond. She still has me on her msn,facebook and whatsapp.. A week later she started talking again, not much but a bit..and she called me by my nickname again that was a suprise about 2 days ago i send her a last message and i said smth like this:I don't want to give up on you that easily, if I were to give up on you right now our time together woudn't have any meaning..Same goes for you, you really liked to be with me, you kept looking forward about coming over and were so excited about it..you liked me, you thought i was the sweetest..We don't live in the same city so I don't get the see u that much, but i really want to see you again, just like we used to the rest doesnt even matter..(so i basicly said, nvm about the relationship, lets just have it like we used to)Let me know what your feelings tells you, i'll hear it from you x!I haven't left her alone for 1-2 days, cuz it's hard we had so many fun memories together, she really really liked me,but i didnt leave her alone at the right moment and really kept pushing her away:( but right now im leaving her alone, but im not sure for how long..and I really want to know what she's up to its killing me. Do you guys think she will respond? Or should I respond after a while, and if so, how long approximately?Thank you for your timeSavaris
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): Well, i am currently ignoring her:P but something bad happened here, a big factory exploded that has all kinds of chemical gasses which are heading towards her and my location. When I heard this i instinctively texted her to watch out and stay home:s
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reader, petina1  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Leave her alone for as long as it takes, it's really up to her. Just make sure she knows y ou are there, by keeping the lines of communication open via, the net. She must make the first move for anything to work as she has already pushed you away. You have to also accept that it could be over anyway, but at least try this.
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