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writes: At a dude ranch last summer I met a attractive woman. We had fun during the time at the dude ranch. At the ranch we did a lot of things together. Before leaving the ranch we even had sex. We had a good time in bed. Since going we have stayed in touch. She has invited me to come see her next month. I look forward to seeing her again and the fun time we will have together. I would like to see her in the nude again, kiss her whole body, and have sex with her again. How can/should I make this known? Ladies, any advice?I would like to bring her a gift. I would like to bring something cute, sexy, and intimate. I don’t want it to be crude and tacky though. I was thinking in terms of lingerie. I think it would be cute, sexy, and intimate and something that I would enjoy with her. I don’t know whether to bring her some or suggest going shopping for some together. Ladies, any thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): If she's inviting you back she probably wants sex too, so you don't have to do much to make it known.
If you are interested in getting to know her better or making the relationship more regular, a more personal gift, for instance something she said she liked or was interested in would be great. If she has feelings for you beyond just sex, bringing her lingerie (no matter how tasteful you think it is) will make you appear creepy.
If you just want to bone her, bring the drinks. Wine is classy and cheaper than lingerie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): Erm hello?! Like you even know her size ..!
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 I agree with Odds. You might also want to get her some really nice flowers.
One thought: she may well (probably is) looking forward to having you in her bed again, but how do you know she might not want something more?? If she does drop a hint that she'd like to develop a relationship further, how will you feel about that and what would you do?
Its possible, of course, she just wants a fling, but maybe you'd do well to keep the possibility of "more" in mind just in case......
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reader, Odds +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Bring a bottle of wine, not lingerie, you don't know her well enough for that. It will turn her off. I know you've been staying in touch, but you've only slept together once or a few times, and that's what counts here. Plus, you can drink the wine five minutes after she gets it.
Think back to the things you did and said before you slept with her. Do and say those exact things. She responded to them then, she'll respond to them now.
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