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writes:Um, soo I'm 13 and a total romantic. I love love! But being 13 and single? Doesn't feel that great.. -So I'm terrible at flirting with guys, like I start freaking out and "go all out" like raising my voice and stuff and wayy too embarrassed to even make eye contact with them ever again. Advice on flirting (mostly for this guy I currently like who's sort of a dork but super good at sports)?-I'm totally shy when it comes to guys. We pass by each other a lot, but I look straight forward (but naturally smile) and from the corner of my eye I THINK I see him looking at me, but I'm too shy and embarrassed to make eye contact with him (part of the reason is cause I probably look bad, since we usually pass by each other when we're playing a sport, cause we're in the same class). How do I smile flirtatiously even if I'm all sweaty?-He plays soccer on a team who plays against some of my friends (girl friends). And I plan on going and watching some of their games against each other and he might notice me. Should I?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 hi
yes definitely go and watch!!!! :) make sure you look your BEST and look at him plenty, don't look away straight away if he looks at you, but when you do, do even that flirtatiously. i find that guys like it if you 'whisper something about them' to a friend, while looking straight at them, make sure you are smiling and looking friendly towards him while you do this though so that he will not think you could be saying nasty stuff about him. make sure you say hi to him, but don't go all out loud like usual, ok? sometimes its better to be a bit quiet at first. if he strikes up conversation with you, do not look down at your feet!, be able to look him in the eye, but not constantly like staring, look at his mouth too, this lets a guy know that we would love to kiss him!
good luck xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Just be yourself dont force yourself to be someone that you arent. Its natural at your age to be shy when it somes to guys you just need to grow your confidence and for some people this might take years we are all different.
Just take it in baby steps start of by looking at him briefly and notice if he smiles back. It doesnt matter if you are playing sport and might be a bit sweaty thats normal and that shouldnt put him off you.
Yes go and watch the games it will give you more oppertunity to look at him and try and talk to him dont put pressure on yourself to flirt with him just talk to him like you would talk to a friend.
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